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The Chesed of the Ribbono Shel Olam is actually how we deal with death. It begins with the Shiva, shloshim etc. As the years distance us from the petira we feel a little better. Give yourself time and commit your feelings in a diary. I lost my baby brother about 10 years ago and my dad a little over 6 years. There is no rule book as to how you should feel, it is there and allow it to be there. This will ultimately assist your healing process. Acceptance is a huge part here. May the nifteres be a mailitz yoisher. A goed gebenchte year.

First we say B”H for what we have. Where ever you call home, make it good and it will be. Even in Utopia one can potentially find bad. So, if you don’t like here, then learn to or leave, stop whining.

B”H we have organizations who are more than adequately equipped to help deal with these types of situations, turn to them, they experts in this field proven time and time again. If you are sick do you ask your car mechanic what to do?

no shaila return the money

The frum society is not immune to the goings on in the world. Fortunately today we have well trained frum people who can help guide us back on track. We need to recognize the ‘need’ to take of this. No fancy words are needed here.

talking as a parent, we give, gave and will give I”YH unconditionally to our children. Stop making everything so conditional!!!!!!!!!!!

Insurance companies differentiate between men and woman. Men like to show off and pay a price with higher premiums.

In the place of a wake call for K’lal Yisroel so many people are steering what happened into a public event which ultimately leads to all these money making schemes. We just cried on Tisha B’eav, we need to do Teshuva, deburim be’alma. Leiby A”H was a korban, we however do not do the cheshbonos of the Ribbono Sh-l Olam. Stop with all these outcries of self pity, recognize H-shem will take care of us, periodically we need reminders to observe mitzvos properly. Take on something you would not normally do, whether it is learning for an extra 15 minutes a day, no loshon hora, shimras Shabbos more carefully and above all koved habrius, respect each other as we are ultimately created be’tzelem Elokim. This will indeed I”YH be a tikun for Leiby A”H.Leave judgement to the ultimate judge and do your thing. Our focus is to far off track, or perhpas you still need to tell the Ribono sh-l Olam how to be the master architect of this world. This job is taken!!!!!!!!!!!

This is not about frum people but the people themselves. We do not expect frum people to kill others but sometimes they do.

Yaela:

The Torah is perfect, we are not. When our time comes for a din and cheshbon the only question we are asked by the Ribono shel olam is why we did not fulfill our obligations. Each of us are fully and totally responsible for our actions. Covering one’s hair in addition is a constant reminder like the the yarmulke, we are so much and H-shem is the rest, in addition the request from H-shem is for one to be modest, display of a woman’s hair is considered part of her beauty which is meant only for the pleasure of her husband and no one else. Serving H-shem is a privilege and not an obligation, Torah is a way of life not a religion. You are covering your hair for yourself and derech agav your hubbie.

Good luck in your avenue of pursuit of your feelings and

Torah obligations.

Today’s generation is getting married with one foot already out the door. The going gets a little tough and off we go. What happened to old fashioned hard core values, why is there a disconnect. Very simple, Pirkai Avos: Al tihiyu ke’avodim hameshamshim etc. This is called the conditional generation. How about doing just for the sake of, you get something back, fine, gravy :). Give yourself a chance, give your marriage a real chance, you will be happier and the kids ultimately as well. Show some respect for each other, no matter who does what. If you need help to work on/out your marriage, this is as important and saying a brocho, or any other mitzva, get the help before you on that path of self destruct, look how many people you are going to drag through the mud with you.

education takes some time before the desired effects can be felt. In the interim more radical steps can be taken, for example the usage of GPS tracking devices, this would have a two fold effect, one the child is automatically more keenly aware of their surroundings and secondly their whereabouts are very traceable. This is not an expensive technology and can help solve and resolve so many issues.

Just remember to be a Monday morning quarter-back is not the best policy.

You have the tools. Recognize them in your own inner strength. Saying you believe verbally and not coming from the heart will not help. you must sincerely believe on all levels. Sounds simple,,,,like the fellow looking parking,says to G-d if i find a parking spot $50.00 will go to charity, and then suddenly a spot opens up and of course, never mind G-d i just found one.

Chazak ve’ematz!!!!!

One is being ‘poretz geder’ in this case. Latter of the law spirit of the law. If you want a heter so badly it can be found, however, this does not make it morally or ethically appropriate. Actions are accountable. Think before you do , there are consequences. Stop being selfish!!!!

Newton’s third law, for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. What you put in is what you will get! Your child may not know the difference ,however the effects will be felt later on. You make a child, raise the child, they come first not you.

such issues, just don’t forget the Torah does requires you to respect them….

Go to the outlet stores holiday times when Brooks Brothers has their sale, open an account and receive additional discounts, the non-iron version should then cost about $30..