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Bake chicken with salt and crushed garlic-yum
Yes i have heard of this… there are the newer “hadlokas naros techinos” that have it in them!
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Cind-i can’t agree with you more
don’t judge a person till your in their shoes….
Get cosigners and try get a feel of the ppl when they come to look at the apt
Trying to think of the wackiest things to post 🙂
Why am i hearing that marriage is only hardships and bla bla bla….
come on be optimistic marriage is not just rough spots and gloomy
Marriage is wonderful!!
please no more stusim and pessimism!
Good shabbos to you all!! enjoy the sunshine 🙂
just wondering how young is young??
up till 20?? 21??
No one is perfect if she has a name and that’s all that’s bothering you then “Ashriecha”
i know i’m not such an active member….
but MAZEL TOV to me on my engagement!!
i would order one too. 🙂
there is noone perfect in the world and there will ALWAYS be something you will settle for but make sure it is something you can live with NOONE is perfect! and noone will meet your mental image…
icot how do you make those smily faces????
btw GAW I would like to hear a name of one of THE GEDOLIM somehow that question went right over your head
yeh i’m alittle indecisive if i should ask for a subtitle or not… leaving the decisions up to you mods.
but a subtitle will be greatly appreciated!!!
gavra: yes unmarried boys or boys that can manage ON THEIR KOLLEL STIPENT should stay in learning but relying on your parents health so you can take a free ride no that is not fair and is NOT CORRECT!!
gavra
when you say *the gedolim* can you please specify exactly which Gedol???
thanks.
What the point of this is for people to understand that no not every parent could/should support. yes as long as someone can make enough by working half day that is the most awesome thing to do. and just cause someone is “working” doesn’t mean he is a shigitz. he is being a responsible father. people are being shoved into molds that they are not! and no you don’t have to worry about your great great great grandkids but you do have to worry about your parent/grandparent. this system is just feeding into the “se kimpt tzo mich” generation. no your parents/in laws don’t owe you anything. they did more then enough for you till they married you off. if you are mature enough to get married and build a family it is up to you and your hubby to make fiancial decisions on your own.
and thinking how you will need to marry off your kids is not thinking so much in advance. it will come around before you know it and at that point your parents may not be working any longer and you will have to fend for yourself and i wish you lots of hatzlocha at that point in your life!!
Finally someone with Sechiel!! Thank you!! Torah is the most amazing thing in the world!! but people have to understand that this system of support was not an accepted thing 40 years ago. the great tzaddikim worked to e.g. the Chofetz chaim. this system is a very nice system in the idylic world but we are not living there. R’ Aaron Kotler was not setting up this system for the masses this is for a select few ppl who are willing to be MESIR NEFESH for torah and be happy with less. but instead it is everyone wants torah and all their fancy things.
THIS WILL NOT WORK LONG TERM!! especially not when parents are being forced to support against their capabilities!!
These children are killing their parents with all their unreasonable demands and parents are scared to say they can’t afford to support their kids cause otherwise they will not be able to marry off thier girls!
hey Sac you never know 😉
whoo hoo sounds scary to hang around here!! 😉
OMG!
if someone offered me $1 i would thank them and ask for another and another 😉
there is an inyian not to WEAR to clothing in sferah but shopping should be no prob.
the shortes definition is HIE
the Goq-i’m appaled! we are not hashem and it is not up to us to decide how many children we should have. hashem decides that just thank your parents everyday that they decided to have you if that is your views and boy am i glad not to be born to parents with such an additude! children are a brocha and hashem provides for them not you- a bisle bitochen!!
when my parents to shidduch info they dafka don’t want a girl that looks like she will fly away with the wind cause she can’t hold herself besides a lot of those girls have health issues and have a hard time with having children because they are to weak and undernurished
the shabbos table is the least of the probs!!
what do you say as a kallah to the ppl that are dancing with you??