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  • in reply to: what is a normal age to get married? #1169074
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    shopping 613 – the frum boys their smoke while here they would go crazy to find a frum boy smoking. So the boys here are more mature than the boys there. whats the reason the seminaries will not accept girls from israel? the boy thats from israel is not married yet and he is just like any other mo guy just MUCH more religious. and he is not getting married at such a young and agrees with me when it comes to the “right” time to get married and he is in college and then wants to get married for the reasons i stated and i dont know how much money his parents have as long as that i know they might actually have money to support him. Are you an american israeli (your parents are from america and grew up here?) because otherwise you would understand that here we believe in going to college and then getting married for my reasons stated.

    in reply to: I'll put ur name by the satmar rebbes tzion #1162912
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    cant otherwise would.

    in reply to: reading the news #1211621
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    whenever i get a chance.

    in reply to: what is a normal age to get married? #1169071
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    shopping 613 – my mother is an israeli and you keep posting like how should would have posted when she were younger. She grew up thinking that you dont go to college as a frum girl, you marry kollel, you watch your kids, thought americans were “less mature” than israelis – thats an argument i still have with her to this very day!! so our mindsets are REALLY different. even i know a guy from their who went to a very religous yeshiva and so on and he said its still to this very day!! so the way americans and israelis think about this thing is SOOOO different!!

    in reply to: Feminism #1162820
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    joseph – theres no such thing as “women” jobs and “men” jobs.

    in reply to: what is your definition of? #1164037
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    jewish feminist – their denying G-d.

    in reply to: what is a normal age to get married? #1169066
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    jewish feminst – this is true your going to college and getting a good job such as a pharmacist, doctor, lawyer, dentist, etc…. those are all tough jobs.

    in reply to: Why religious girls do not learn Torah? #1165997
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    ptcha – actually thats not true at least i continue to argue just like a guy.

    in reply to: Feminism #1162818
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    jewish feminist – i agree. women should be able to get the same jobs as men do if they qualify for it.

    in reply to: Women Driving #1162002
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    i love driving:)

    in reply to: what is a normal age to get married? #1169063
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    shopping 613 – im a pre pharmacy student starting pharmacy school in one year h’h. ive had enough just finishing up all the really hard science and math pre req. if you think that you can work, go to pharmacy school, and take care of your kids all at the same time then i doubt that youll be doing well in pahrmacy school. but good luck to you!

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    why not?

    in reply to: Where you going on vacation?? #1164609
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    NOWHERE!!

    in reply to: what is your definition of? #1164034
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    lilmod ulelamaid – what do you mean the OTD person was taught wrong?

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    lilmod ulelamaid – the OTD person was probably once in their lifetime in a jewish school if not throughout their lives. how can you say that a not frum person who had nothing to do with judaism and was grown not to keep anything is worse than someone who was grown to keep stuff and stopped?

    in reply to: what is a normal age to get married? #1169058
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    light brite – i am not married but H’H soon to the right guy. i think the reason why im still not married is because the guys i want are the guys who want to wait a bit longer to get married. so that pushes me off as well. but if i do get the guy i will appreciate the wait since he would be the right guy for me. and no i will not be transgessing touchingg since i personally dont like touching people. so for me that will never be an issue.

    RoiR – perfect way to get divorced marrying at 14 – 18. i dont know a single girl who stayed married who got married at that age.

    shopping 613 – can you see yourself married and pregnat and having so much responsibilities? like paying bills, doing laundry, cooking, but every day not allowed to stop?

    in reply to: Homeschooling #1161653
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    reb yidd – at that point homeschooling was good for me since mainstream wasnt but it had nothing to do with friends. it had something to do with the school system.

    in reply to: Why religious girls do not learn Torah? #1165994
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    jewish feminist – when men learn gemara they argue about it. so your point?

    in reply to: what is your definition of? #1164028
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    lilmod ulelamaid – i dont know what could be worse than OTD when it comes to being religious they literally stopped keeping the whole Torah. even reform and conservative are better. at least their tinok shenishba and still try keeping something like a holiday. I already stated that a good definition of someone who is mo is ivanka trump. so now you want to start calling her not religous (or not jewish) because her rabbi told her to keep less?

    in reply to: what is a normal age to get married? #1169052
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    light brite- thats where the problem sets in. your not religious? so you should know that most marriages wont last well if the person isnt ready to get married and settle down and doesnt really like the person. I have consistently thought that maybe i would wait to have kids after i got married but the stage im at now i think im ready. but there are many other religious girls who push off having kids.

    in reply to: Homeschooling #1161651
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    reb yidd 23 – right before i was homeschooled i had a lot of friends. when i became home schooled i had much less time to spend with them and slowly lost contact with most of them. that was not fun.

    in reply to: Homeschooling #1161649
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    reb yidd – same reason why you cant learn from online colleges.

    Francorachel3 – as someone who was homeschooled for a year i agree 100%.

    in reply to: The role of the woman in yiddishkeit #1162880
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    the role is to serve G-d.

    in reply to: Bahamas Vacation advice #1162836
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    paradise island is so pretty!

    in reply to: what is your definition of? #1164026
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    jewish feminist – people should never feel uncomfortable by the Torah unless their apikorsim.

    in reply to: what is a normal age to get married? #1169050
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    Shopping613 – give people a break. let them enjoy live. when you get married you cant travel as much. you ant go out with friends as much. you have a lot more responsibility. you need to watch your kids, you need to do laundry, cook, etc…. how old are you shopping? you said that your out of high school?

    in reply to: Homeschooling #1161646
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    abba s- because the books i got was from an online school and they tested me. but you cant really learn from online schools. and i am very disciplined otherwise i wouldnt be in college right now.

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    Joseph – non jews may never have kids. i know many who say that they dont want. so much so that their are shots for not having kids that scared me the first time i heard of it when one of my not jewish friends got a shot not to have kids. so scary:( so your fact is wrong.

    in reply to: Homeschooling #1161644
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    jewish feminist – the only “teacher” i had was my brother. but it wasnt really teaching it was more helping me if i needed help which he helped a lot. I got a bunch of textbooks and filled them out and did a bunch of math and got help from him.

    in reply to: Feminism #1162812
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    jewish feminist- thats what i said and he was blocked so he wont be able to reply.

    in reply to: An Israeli tries to understand life in America #1163826
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    love life in America:)

    in reply to: Why religious girls do not learn Torah? #1165983
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    maybe you should start dating mo girls.

    in reply to: Homeschooling #1161639
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    i love coffee – Your not around your friends, you have to teach yourself everything.

    in reply to: im a girl alone in medical office #1165300
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    DROP THE JOB!!

    in reply to: what is a normal age to get married? #1169042
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    lilmod ulelamaid – i realized that later. i don know how old you are but if your an adult (20 and up) would you like to be told that your posting like a teenager?

    in reply to: Feminism #1162803
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    According to wiki femnism is “the advocacy of women’s rights on the grounds of political, social, and economic EQUALITY to men” meaning that feminists (like me) want to be equal to men, be as respected and honored and given the same kinds of jobs as men.

    in reply to: When do Yeshivas Start next year? #1161450
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    it starts on august 29.

    in reply to: Feminism #1162799
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    dov rosenbaum – we need ladies in stem! we cant only have men. we need a world where we can have a normal female president – not clinton. We need women to have an equal and fair oppurtunity as men do.

    in reply to: im a girl alone in medical office #1165293
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    sadgirlygirl- maybe go to college instead and go get yourself a nice education?

    in reply to: what is your definition of? #1164024
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    daas yochid – you need to keep the whole torah according to your rabbi. my rabbi is mo.

    in reply to: Why religious girls do not learn Torah? #1165969
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    shopping 613 – im a feminist and want my husband to treat me as an equal. i dont want him to disrespect me and tell me i cant do something because im a girl. but anyways the guys that i date are the type to be like “i believe in feminism! women in stem!” and treat me as if im an equal and never tell me i cant do something because im a girl.

    in reply to: what is a normal age to get married? #1169039
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    lilmod ulelamaid – 25 is a good age to get married. you have your degree and are settled in life and ready to have kids for the next 20 years.

    in reply to: what is your definition of? #1164022
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    jewish feminist – ivanka trump is mo. i am mo but much more strict on stuff like tznius.

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    jewish feminist 02 – and his also anti feminism.

    in reply to: Homeschooling #1161637
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    As someone who was homeschooled for a year of high school i would not recommend it.

    in reply to: what is a normal age to get married? #1169036
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    shopping 613 – your still in high school when your already in your mid 20? (because im in my low 20 and so if your older than me and your still in high school i guess that means your in your mid 20 in high school.) Im sorry if you got insulted by my post but in one of your earlier comments you were stating how im texting like a teenager when im an adult. Dont you think that is kind of insulting?

    less chumras – that was my point.

    in reply to: what is a normal age to get married? #1169028
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    Reb yid – no one should be forced into a marriage thats the first step to a divorce.

    shopping 613 – you need some maturing to do before you start talking about these subjects you clearly no nothing about. by your logic id been married years ago. Also not everything is about college its about other things as well.

    sady girl – ive had shidduchim redt to me since i was 15. 17 is ridicously young to get married where i live your parents would have to sign thats it okay for you to get married. technically you need to have a parent to look after you till 18 according to the law where i live. so im not even going to start talking about 17 because thats crazy. its like the not jewish teen moms thats crazy. they may not even have graduated high school yet. they probably didnt start college yet or even go to seminary. i dont think that ill allow my daughter to get married till at least 18. shes a child im not signing any court document saying that she can get married thats crazy. that should be up to her not me.

    pringles – i 100% agree with you

    edited. You may want to display a bit of maturity in the way you address others. Sometimes we edit, and sometimes we just delete-29

    in reply to: what is a normal age to get married? #1169020
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    pringles if their opinion changes theyll most likely start thinking more like what their thinking at that age though out their life than what they were thinking when they were a teenager. Shopping said earlier that as a teenager she thinks that it goes according to how religious you are the amount you mature by.

    lilmod ulelamaid – i wasnt referring to a chadisih community but even in a chasdisih community as someone who is mo i would still drive.

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    health – its calling him a transgender.

    in reply to: Homeschooling #1161633
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    aishet chover – they mineswell continue with regular schooling.

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