Shopping613 🌠

C’mon, He’s probably a mod trying to freak you out…

They know EVERYTHING!

🙂 Smile cuz Hashem loves you (:

I don’t know, my friend mentioned to me her mother teaches trhere last week, so I said

“Really, I know girls going”

She was confused as to why I didn’t know your names…

Reminds me of a certasin thread…

http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/cr-politics

I know someone who teaches there, So I told her I know some girls going next year, So she asked me who they are..

I said I don’t know their names….

Just say they have the wrong number.

It’s that easy!

There are telemarketers that are humans, my father used to be one, and a good one at that.

Didn’t you realize after that whole big thing with me and you and OURtorah and a few others they stopped letting in stuff like that….

It’s annoying, but it’s their decision and I also think we had gotten a little personal for the world wide web…..

I know mods, but if you are in middle of reading, let’s say that post, and I went a wrote a whole thing on how I can relate and it got too personal for you guys (I thank you for keeping me in check, I used to regret posting certain things) it takes one button to delete that paragraph and move on. no it doesn’t

In that case it was only a personal paragraph that was the problem and I understand you don’t have time when it’s something bigger and not just one part….

Any news?

I check posts, I don;t post that often anyway anymore….

in the olden days I’d check the CR every 6 hours and write a little more…

OURtorah:

She needs to find a mentor, a teacher, or someone.

Maybe sit down with her and ask her if she understands why she is getting frummmer and the reason behind every new thing she is taking on. Ask her if she understands why she is doing it, ex. If she stopped watching movies, does she know why you shouldn’t watch them? And why she stopped? And the source of the assur?

When she davens, does she feel anything????

Explain to her that you would like to help her, but since your only her age [I’m guessing, right?] you do understand what you are doing and everything, but have your own questions and aren’t to that level where you can help her with hers.

Explain to her that the best help you can give her is to tell her to find a mentor or teacher and give her ideas on how to find one…..[ex. offer her to go to her favorite teacher from high school or sem or however old you people are]

Though tell her [this is only if you can do it] that you can help by being there for her, listening to her vent, and telling what you know.

Now if this girl cannot have a mentor for some reason or another. Than if you have the time and energy, maybe you could learn a little how to help her from your own mentor. Ask her how to mentor someone if she is unable to go to someone else.

Or you can offer your friend, at the worst possible case that any questions and doubts, you can ask someone in your name and tell her the answers

Good luck

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Exactly!

When I heard I was moving to Israel it hurt, it hurt so much.

But without that hurt I would be a completely different person!!!! HaShem is pushing you to the path Y-O-U need, not your cousin/friend/sister/ needs, what YOU NEED!!!!!!

Best tip in the W-O-R-L-D:

Don’t daven to get in to a certain seminary/high school. I KNOW it is SOOOOO tempting to. BUT, who knows best?

HASHEM, RIGHT?

At some point I just started davening like this:

“Hashem, I REALLLY WANT __________ B-U-T, if not getting that is what’s best for me, or to make the future me I need something else, that is what I truly want. So please, give me what I need, you know what’s best, not me”

I know it’s hard…but you will realize davening like that feels so good, and afterwords alot of times you can see what HaShem chose was best!!!!!

*SMILE CUZ HASHEM LOVES YOU*

Why do we need themes? It’s cute but many people cannot afford to do it or don’t have time but NEED to because everyone else is…

I got to see them for real it was pretty cool actually…..

What do you mean? Perhaps she is embarrassed to asked married people she knows, or is trying to get an array of different answers seeing as we are all very different here.

I think people’s emotional needs need to be met to serve HaShem, but in some cases that is not possible and one must turn to HaShem for his/her needs for help.

This is a very deep answer and I suggest you ask a teacher in your school.

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Griffindorable Girl: How are you? I never see you anymore!! How’s life????

Never,besides the time I once saw another fellow regular posting on his smartphone. He was tall, but I didn’t tell him I saw him and I knew he was…he was a boy….

But I’m not a regular anymore..

Former regular and now sporadic poster…

ever

forever

long

wait

school

boring

jail

bail

bawl

tantrum

my sister

OOPS!!!!!!!!!!

yo, TAOM, Any reply?

Me too!!!!! I always go incognito, before I had a tablet…but now, I have to make sure no one is in the house to go on the CR….

That explains why you guyz miss me so much…

Help her!!!!!!!!!!

Are you in her grade?????????

Than you can help!! Even if you aren’t everybody needs someone sometimes…..even me

Iv’e been there, and I have tonz of things to write, but I have limited time.

So:

1. She should join a group in her class, an after school activity not related to school, invite, give her self confidence and tell her to go up to people and show them all she has to offer. If they still snub her, I wouldn’t want to be those girls friends anyway…Good Luck!!!!

If she doesn’t want to see you since she’s embarrassed, write her a note, make sure no one else sees it. Give her chizuk in the note and write down your phone number if she ever wants to call.

Notes usually work,

and Writersoul: Those bubbly girls you mentioned in YOUR post, I’m one of them, and trust me. I do it because Ive been there and now I have my few close friends, but I see others do not, and personally I want more friends. Those “bubbly” girls that say hi, might be breaking inside and THEY could be looking for another friend.

DON’T JUDGE!!!!

I see other bubbly girls who don’t say hi, those are the ones who really don’t care.

When I say hi, I’m trying to cheer up myself also and gain a friend, I don’t think she is the nebach at all. I understand them…

You should smile to everyone! Like me, even if I really hate the queen of the class, I will smile and say good morning in a bubbly way and sound interested in her life like I do with anyone else (even though we both know we both hate each other)