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  • in reply to: Do you charge friends? #828319
    popa_bar_abba
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    Is it ok to charge friends who come over to ask you questions in learning? After all, if I would be an accountant I would charge them.

    in reply to: The new Korban Pesach thread #756094
    popa_bar_abba
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    We don’t know which animal is the biblical ???. There are many breeds from the sheep family, including Dall Sheep which run wild in Alaska and are hunted for food.

    http://tinyurl.com/6e3jurv

    in reply to: Ignorance of the Law #1098430
    popa_bar_abba
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    Is pleading ignorance of the law a valid defense?

    Sometimes. If the law was a duty to act, and was not reasonably made available, then you can plead ignorance.

    in reply to: Do you charge friends? #828316
    popa_bar_abba
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    Make flyers advertising your services. Then ask them to help you find clients.

    in reply to: Adar over. Sad ;-( #862224
    popa_bar_abba
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    and if its only the drinking thats making you happy in adar-get help!/em>

    Or get drinks. Drinks are cheaper.

    in reply to: Relying on a heter of someone else #755881
    popa_bar_abba
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    Update.

    My brother pointed me to the P”MG 96:13 on the taz.

    He says that charif does not make a pagum taste yummy.

    in reply to: It's a secret! #756132
    popa_bar_abba
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    Telling someone a secret and asking them not to tell anyone is asking that person to do what you can’t.

    I like.

    (Maybe there is a difference when it is something meaningful to you, but less so to that person.)

    in reply to: Pesach Segula For Shidduchim #759441
    popa_bar_abba
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    But doesn’t this just remind Hashem how hard it is?

    in reply to: saltwater dish "shedding" #756072
    popa_bar_abba
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    I would make sure to empty out the saltwater and wash it well.

    in reply to: Calling Hatzolah – LOS ANGELES #755917
    popa_bar_abba
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    First, second.

    Call both. its a race.

    in reply to: I am Shaking! #757103
    popa_bar_abba
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    Wow. That is pretty close.

    in reply to: Insulted on YWN. #755776
    popa_bar_abba
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    yontel: Thanks for a good laugh.

    You confused me for a moment, because you had your screenname changed. You lost your “reb”.

    in reply to: Boro Park Eruv #761088
    popa_bar_abba
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    Now I understand.

    This is a “our gedolim” and “your gedolim” issue.

    You really don’t respect “our gedolim”, and think we don’t respect “your gedolim”.

    Also, since you read the teshuva, you ought to know that the numbers he uses are 4-5 times of shishim ribo. that equals 2.4m-3m. The population of Brooklyn has always exceeded that.

    in reply to: chillul Hashem #755798
    popa_bar_abba
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    bina:

    I don’t think I understand that.

    We should tell kids to behave better than normal because the torah teaches us to.

    I feel like we’re telling kids to behave better than normal because we want people to think the torah teaches us to.

    in reply to: Boro Park Eruv #761070
    popa_bar_abba
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    So, tell us how this happened according to you. Rav Moshe issued his first psak based on being tricked. Then, everybody who wanted the eruv responded, bringing 11 halachic arguments which he responded to in the second teshuva.

    Did anyone suggest he was wrong on the facts? Maybe they didn’t feel like looking into it? Maybe he just stubbornly didn’t care?

    Is that what you think?

    Besides, why don’t you link us the place where he says there are 3 million people living in Brooklyn. Why do you keep asserting it instead of citing it?

    By reading it only to argue with him, you do not give kavod.

    By asserting that he issued a landmark psak without due regard for the facts, you are mevazeh him.

    in reply to: Boro Park Eruv #761065
    popa_bar_abba
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    I am unfamiliar with the facts. However, I have enough confidence in Rav Moshe that he did not “shoot from the hip”, without looking into the facts.

    People who claim things in the name of Rav Moshe and did not study his teshuvos are showing disrespect.

    That sounds cute, but makes no sense.

    in reply to: Boro Park Eruv #761061
    popa_bar_abba
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    I don’t know what question you are waiting for an answer on.

    Respect? You don’t even know his teshuvos.

    I’m not sure what my scholarship has to do with your lack of respect.

    in reply to: Boro Park Eruv #761050
    popa_bar_abba
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    Of course we believe you. That is why it took 15 years after his death for anyone to figure it out.

    Maybe you are missing a couple of steps. (and a lot of respect?)

    in reply to: Bochrim Spray-Paint Over �Not Tzniyus� Advertisement #760044
    popa_bar_abba
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    Everyone: Look, it was a joke. Ok? It was the white house’s number. You don’t have to keep talking about this.

    in reply to: how often do you eat cholent? #755956
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    how often do you eat cholent?

    Every time.

    Why? What do you do with it?

    in reply to: chillul Hashem #755787
    popa_bar_abba
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    When we went on class trips, we were told to behave so as to make a kiddush hashem.

    Translation- We are really ill behaved, and the torah does not make us nice people. But we like to fool people into thinking the torah makes us good, so lets behave and they’ll think that.

    At least that’s how I understood it. (And so would you if you heard some nun saying it in a Catholic school.)

    in reply to: Boro Park Eruv #761037
    popa_bar_abba
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    This is fascinating. Now you think Rav Moshe was tricked by “askanim” and didn’t find out the basic facts before making a psak which he knew would severely inconvenience the largest frum population in the world.

    And that nobody bothered to correct him, or he just blindly ignored them.

    Yes, if that is who you think Rav Moshe was, then you should not listen to him.

    However, that is not my Rav Moshe. And you should not think that.

    But, out of curiosity, tell us about these “askanim”. Just what was motivating them to want there to be no eruv in Brooklyn?

    Did they own real estate in queens?

    You are going really far out here in your need to carry your tallis to shul. Why don’t you just bring it on friday and you can go back to respecting gedolim.

    in reply to: Boro Park Eruv #761001
    popa_bar_abba
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    popa_bar_abba –

    “What a great tone of debate.”

    If you don’t live in Brooklyn, and don’t know who are the most important poskim in our neighborhood, stay out of the debate.

    And an even better response.

    in reply to: Boro Park Eruv #760996
    popa_bar_abba
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    Oh now I understand. Because you believe that this machlokas is different it must be different.

    What a great tone of debate.

    in reply to: No boys. #755185
    popa_bar_abba
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    seahorse and happiest:

    I think that is a great idea. And you can daven for each other without knowing each others names; G-d can figure out who you are.

    in reply to: Insulted on YWN. #755764
    popa_bar_abba
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    Also, in response to the suggestion that I must be insulted or I would not be thinking about it; my response is I was thinking about why I wasn’t insulted- I found that interesting.

    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    TBT: (Often it’s not faith they’re strugling with as much as pain and hurt)

    Popa agrees with TBT.

    in reply to: Fish and meat- Keilim #755143
    popa_bar_abba
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    DY:

    Thank you, I just got a chance to look at it. It is as you say.

    in reply to: Boro Park Eruv #760988
    popa_bar_abba
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    I don’t live in Brooklyn darling. The fact you need to call me dishonest says something about how you argue.

    The fact is he is the greatest posek alive in America today. No posek in America is even in his league.

    Okaaaaay. Now I really take you seriously.

    in reply to: Boro Park Eruv #760987
    popa_bar_abba
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    I asked a chasidishe Rav who had ????? by R Moshe Zt”l a

    ???? re a/c or time clock 2 areas where R Moshe Zt”l was Machmir. Here is the gist of his answer “according to my logic it should not be a problem but R Moshe Zt”l would asser”

    As exactly his response should be.

    As exactly people’s response about the eruv is not.

    in reply to: Boro Park Eruv #760979
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    In case you were wondering: Why is Popa being so negative and cynical on this thread?

    I don’t see this issue as a regular ??????, with validity to both positions.

    I don’t think this is a “ask your rav” issue.

    I really think that nobody should be using this eruv.

    If this was a machlokes among equals, or even among almost equals, it would be one thing.

    If Rav Moshe’s psak was unsure, and just being machmir, that would be one thing.

    That is not this situation.

    in reply to: Boro Park Eruv #760978
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    If no one knows where the backup eiruv is, how do people (as described in the OP) rely on the backup eiruv, in areas that the main eiruv doesn’t cover — that the backup eiruv allegedly does cover?

    I don’t expect anything more. I can’t imagine they are particularly concerned about carrying.

    in reply to: Boro Park Eruv #760966
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    For the second time, does anyone know where the Boro Park Backup

    Eruv is?

    I am not going to help you be mechallell shabbos.

    in reply to: Boro Park Eruv #760959
    popa_bar_abba
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    david99:

    I was waiting for you to come by.

    I have never even heard of either of those rabbonim, but I am sure they are very wise and know lots of torah.

    They are not “the foremost rabbonim today” in America.

    in reply to: BLUE / WHITE SHIRTS #754804
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Anyone who wears a white shirt is trying to look like the yishmaelim.

    in reply to: THE PURIM (urim) STORY (ory) Fan Club #1219250
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    A friend of mine had a date last night.

    When the father opened the door, my friend said; “My name is Sir Tofes, I come, to take, the girl.”

    The father just closed the door.

    I guess not everybody knows the tape.

    in reply to: Bochrim Spray-Paint Over �Not Tzniyus� Advertisement #760033
    popa_bar_abba
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    I hope you at least asked him to free pollard while you were on the phone.

    in reply to: Females and Hitchers #755392
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    This is kinda what married means to me…

    Old

    Yunchie

    Taken

    Everything she says sounds like his mother

    Not that I think I give off that impression, but its closer to that end once theres a shaitle on her head..

    Firstly, the last sentence is key here, “not that I think I give off that impression”.

    Secondly, it just doesn’t work like that.

    in reply to: BLUE / WHITE SHIRTS #754792
    popa_bar_abba
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    Jolly Rancher:

    The easiest answer is that the type of guys that these girls are looking for happen to be the guys who do in fact generally wear white shirts.

    in reply to: Lying on YWN #1105309
    popa_bar_abba
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    DY: My hashkafos are serious also.

    I think most people would have given in in that case.

    I am actually unsure if it is the right thing to do. It probably depends why you are giving in. If it is because you aren’t able to stand up for yourself, then I would actually advise not giving in.

    As far as the old lady, I am convinced she is a horrible bully.

    (But no, I would not throw her down the stairs. I can exaggerate sometimes.)

    in reply to: #754651
    popa_bar_abba
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    I have heard that some to avoid the possible issue of Kares (for not bringing the Korbon Pesach) keep themselves some distance from Jerusalem on Erev Pesach.

    That is not crazy.

    I have heard that some, to make sure they are chayav kareis, make sure to go on the har habayis on erev pesach.

    in reply to: BLUE / WHITE SHIRTS #754788
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    What about in the other Yeshivos in Europe? Mostly white?

    No. Colored also.

    in reply to: Females and Hitchers #755384
    popa_bar_abba
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    ursula:

    huh? Maybe she just didn’t want to wait while he picked up his wife.

    s2021: Maybe a 40 year old single woman can also give rides to 16 year old guys. I don’t know. In any event, I don’t see why it is better if she is married.

    in reply to: Boro Park Eruv #760950
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    So then you are already making judgments within orthodoxy.

    Why are you surprised that I am also?

    in reply to: BLUE / WHITE SHIRTS #754786
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    They wore colored button-up shirts in Shabodka?

    Yes, look at the pictures.

    in reply to: Lying on YWN #1105303
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    wait, is the above statement a lie or the truth?

    Sorry, the tautology does not work here, since I didn’t say I always lie.

    Therefore, if I am lying here, it actually is self fulfilling. So either way it is true.

    in reply to: Boro Park Eruv #760947
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Orthodox has no meaning.

    Are you counting YCT?

    in reply to: BLUE / WHITE SHIRTS #754763
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Sac:

    Sure, but don’t you completely agree with my assessment that yeshivos are a much better way to classify?

    in reply to: BIG Math Problems #756472
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    i need at least 2 valid reasons why we need to learn math

    I don’t understand.

    You don’t know why you are trying to learn it?

    I certainly don’t.

    For me, it was because I thought it would be good to graduate high school in case I ever wanted to go to college, and there was also a self esteem boost because I’m pretty good at it.

    For you, it might be so that you aren’t embarrassed at not finishing high school, or so that your parents will be proud at graduation, or any of a million possible reasons.

    (What I’m trying to say, is that you should stop putting the onus on other people to convince you, and just think about what benefit you might want which you can accomplish. Sorry for being harsh.)

    in reply to: Lying on YWN #1105300
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    So you mean there are still chain saws?

    I meant more along the lines of that I know nothing about ambidextrous people.

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