there goes my shadchanus blang

from the OP

“with barely any reading skills in a gemara”

The reason i let you know i listen is so u shud know it isnt mussar

I’m not running back and forth between threads and this was discussed so many times so i’m not gonna go thru it again but,

LFS it sounds like you are saying a blanket statement that all goyish music is 100% fine. Thats untrue.

Let’s take the music aspect out of it for now. The amount of songs where the WORDS are straight out dirty talk is quite large. (I know im gonna sound like my dad but it really surprises me whats allowed on the radio. You know how many 5 yr olds are singing really explicit stuff?) I do listen to non jewish music but i know plenny of it is really unclean so i try to avoid those songs.

Problem number two: through the lyrics comes an opening to their societal and cultural lives; wants, desires, and value system etc.

Listening to that on a constant basis may awaken within someone those feelings which would otherwise be dormant or not exist at all.

So although it might not be assur (ive got not clue), there reason for staying away from it.

you realy think noone in bnos chava listens to goyish music?

need more girls that listen to goyish music but wanna do the kollel.

btw it prbably does say something about a girl if she listens to goyish music so i dont think this is something to scream “DONT JUDGE” about

I hear the OPs question, sadly my emunah got rocked for a split second also. However, to give up because of something which you dont even remember fully just doesnt make sense. There are obviously famous answers from gedolim to these types of questions but as of now we here are ignorant of them.

So as everyone else said, without a doubt theres a plan and that could be enough. If this is really bothering you then you should probably ask a real talmid chochom, not some random website- especialy with the fine line between kefirah and truth.

ya sorry about the closing of that thread btw

the brisker rov in this weeks parsha says, although eliezer had so many nissim happening to him asisting him in finding out that rivka was the one for yitzchok, yitzchok didnt only rely on that. Rather, yitzchok waited until he saw that her actions were in the ways of his mother sarah and only then did he go for it.

that help a bit?

you shud definitely ask a rebbi or rov or someone btw not just some kid that happened to see a vertel this week

Found it! (and the teretz!) look at chidushe maran riz haleivi al hatorah last weeks parsha

I wasnt going with that lomdus. But if youre learning like that then i’ll tell you- if it is, thats the saddest thing ive heard my whole life

dr middos

isn’t him naming himself and his son personal information? how’d the mods let this through?

cause the mods wrote it duh

edited – perhaps you didn’t mean it as heartlessly as it sounded in print

Friend of mine (ruben) went over to another friend of ours (simon) who he didnt see in a while and starts harassing him about his long hair. And Simon goes “my brother just died of cancer and im in shloshim”. good times.

here here!

i wasnt ofended just annoyed but ya im mochel

gotcha

WE didnt start the fire

oh man viyoel moishe you really know how to make chassidim look bad.

if i did i wudv

maybe emnah ubitchon by chazon ish?

writersoul it sounds like youre agreeing that yeshiva bochrim shudnt go?

just not 100% sure

random fact: houdini used to go around proving they were frauds

First!

Just checked the website. So much has been changed since the last time i checked up on it.

The haskomah page is a joke, a joke topped with a lame attempt for armor in case the whole world comes out against them. They try to make the gedolim look bad and make themselves look stupid.

Now besides the halacha and hashkafa of shabbos, i just dont like them. Really rubbing me terribly the wrong way.

we thank you all for your mussar now answer the stupid question