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July 18, 2011 2:41 pm at 2:41 pm in reply to: A third of Litvish families I know, have one or more single daughters 25 and up #909381IUseBrainsParticipant
Rabbosai, what are we doing to alleviate?
Make at least one phone call a day!
With children in shidduchim,I know how this feels!
IUseBrainsParticipantmdd:
What is this based on?
IUseBrainsParticipantNow u heard of one!
IUseBrainsParticipantAnotherName:
A Shadchan does most of that work before every Shidduch is red!
IUseBrainsParticipantThe parents can then do follow-up checking!
IUseBrainsParticipantIt doesnt mean, that the parents dont check,it just makes it much easier and can get the couple to the first date much quicker wheras many of the questions evaporate!
IUseBrainsParticipantThe point is that a shadchan should be instructed by both sides what to ask and look for and releave all the headaches.
All ideas would then be re-directed to him/her.Additionally, he/her would do all the searching.Paid appropriately, this would be a great idea for klal yisroel!
IUseBrainsParticipantThere is no such thing as no challenges,u just gotta keep in doin mitvos, be happy and worl aroun the nisyonos!!!
It’s not pritzus,but it is a challenge, not an excuse not to do Hachnossas Oirchim!
IUseBrainsParticipantDr. Pepper, they will go into Shabbos, not happy. not a good idea!
IUseBrainsParticipantAnother Name,thats what references are for.
IUseBrainsParticipantDr.Pepper,thats what references are for.
July 17, 2011 3:45 pm at 3:45 pm in reply to: A third of Litvish families I know, have one or more single daughters 25 and up #909373IUseBrainsParticipantEvryone must help with shidduchim!!!!!!!
IUseBrainsParticipantReal Brisker
I am a Moleich Matzmo!
IUseBrainsParticipantPicky Mothers, Be Picky For Your Son , nOt For Yourself!
IUseBrainsParticipantLet Me explain, If u are a real freind u should be heavily involoved in Shidduchim, if not, then let the Shadcahnim run the show!!!!
IUseBrainsParticipantA Top Boy is one with Yiras Shomayim and is a Talmid Chochom!
July 14, 2011 9:07 pm at 9:07 pm in reply to: A third of Litvish families I know, have one or more single daughters 25 and up #909350IUseBrainsParticipantIM available to help!!
IUseBrainsParticipant“There are 2 sides 2 every story!!”
Not all shadchanim are nasty!
Is this what they deserve for trying to find u a shidduch!
U have to be makir Toiv!
IUseBrainsParticipantNU,Whats the Olam thinking!
Shtika KeHoidooh!
IUseBrainsParticipantI mean Dr.Pepper!
IUseBrainsParticipantSo,I’m happy to hear that you’re married!
IUseBrainsParticipantI just met a bachur at a chasuna and he told me that he has a real problem with his mother.
I Told him that Hashem will help him because no one else is!
IUseBrainsParticipantMod , I Humbly Disagree!
I am very involved in shidduchim on a daily basis and this is a real problem!
We can not brush this under the carpet.
IUseBrainsParticipantThis happens all the time!!!
IUseBrainsParticipantI Feel Like Crying!!!
IUseBrainsParticipant“If as a shadchan you dont like dealing with the mother, why do you talk to her, speak directly to her son. If you cant deal with her, dont. You are not michuyav to force a shidduch on her.”
I Tried that. The problem is that the son is blaming this on KIBUD EIM!
IUseBrainsParticipantMom Of A Few:
“Very Cute! I wish we could go back to the way things used to be even just 20-25 years ago. Much less checking before, and NO shiudduch crisis!”
100%!!
IUseBrainsParticipantTo Dr.Pepper: “Who are you to decide what is unjustified?”
Answer:common sense!
To Adorable:
“maybe there is a reason that she doesnt want your suggestion but doesn’t feel comfortable telling you.”
If she doesnt feel comfortable discussing it,then how is she supposed to find the girl.It’s like going in to a store and telling the owner “I’m not going to tell u what I need, u figure it out!”
IUseBrainsParticipantI got now till 12
IUseBrainsParticipantIf anyone would realize what a tefilla with kavana,emuna and tears accomplishes,they would not asking these silly questions!!!!
IUseBrainsParticipantBesides the great averia of talking during davening,one has to realize that he is Chotei UmachtI.
In Addition, he is being mevatel the mitvo of answerng Omein which the Sifri says in Haazinu, is DeOraysa!!!
See the Netziv in Haamek Shaalo.
The SiDur Hachida, brings down that when a person taks during Magen Ovos on Friday night,
his punishment is that after his Petira the malochim lift him up very high, and then let go.
The Zohar CHodosh on Rus, says that that if a person misses an Omein, he is burnt in the 3rd level of Gehinnom.
The Levush was once put into cherem by his Rebbi, for missing an Omein to a childs brocho!!
Rabbosai, be zohir!!!!!
IUseBrainsParticipantAnyone who talks, should be thrown out , no chances!!!
IUseBrainsParticipantoptimus prime
could u let us know what ur hrs are for meshulochim!
IUseBrainsParticipantWOLF.
SHALOM BAYIS FOREVER!!!
IUseBrainsParticipantThe Mishna Berura brings down that Shuls are Changed to Avoda Zora if there is talking!
June 13, 2011 7:44 pm at 7:44 pm in reply to: why is it fair for a younger daughter to have to wait for the older daughter? #776310IUseBrainsParticipantRochel actually gave away her simonim to leah even thow this meant givung away her husband!
In that zechus, klal yisroel will be redeemed!
IUseBrainsParticipantHashem is with them,they have siyata dishmaya
IUseBrainsParticipantgavra,ur post smells of loshon hara
June 12, 2011 7:30 pm at 7:30 pm in reply to: why is it fair for a younger daughter to have to wait for the older daughter? #776292IUseBrainsParticipantMy advice would be to allow the younger one to go out , and tell the older one to remember the sacrifice of Rochel Imeinu for Leah.
Hashem will surely send her a zivug hogun bekorov!
btw i am a shadchan, u can get my info from the mod.
June 12, 2011 7:18 pm at 7:18 pm in reply to: why is it fair for a younger daughter to have to wait for the older daughter? #776290IUseBrainsParticipantbtw i am a shadchan, u can get my info from the mod.
June 12, 2011 7:17 pm at 7:17 pm in reply to: why is it fair for a younger daughter to have to wait for the older daughter? #776289IUseBrainsParticipantMy advice would be to allow the younger one to go out , and tell the older one to remember the sacrifice of Rochel Imeinu for Leah.
Hashem will surely send her a zivug hogun bekorov!
IUseBrainsParticipantsome of the guys tell me i make more noise saying shh then them talking i agree with them , but if i wont do it who will
IUseBrainsParticipantGet Married if not already!
IUseBrainsParticipant5 brochos are made only once a year, what are they?
IUseBrainsParticipantThe Best is a person who doesn’t talk during davening!
IUseBrainsParticipantHashem should bless everyone with plenty of time
IUseBrainsParticipantIt is definitely a maaleh, however, if a person has his own yichus, that’s a even a bigger maaleh.
because, it means that it was more difficult to reach certain madregos and the person reached them anyhow without zechos ovos.
However, zechus ovos always helps.
May 17, 2011 4:38 pm at 4:38 pm in reply to: Signs in BP regarding Tznius (Skirts that fall 4" below the knee). #767719IUseBrainsParticipantis stating the truth offensive?
IUseBrainsParticipantDont talk in them!!!
IUseBrainsParticipantThe Best way to protect a shul is by not talking in them.
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