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  • in reply to: If you could talk to your inner child… #759723
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    Walton what does Excelsior mean?

    in reply to: STREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEETCHED to the limit #759547
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    It’s true there are often 2 CONFLICTING sides to a story.

    But in abuse cases,the other side is often lying through their teeth,or EXCUSING OUTRAGEOUS ABUSE. It’s not even the same “story”!!

    in reply to: STREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEETCHED to the limit #759543
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    PARENTAL ALIENATION SYNDROME (P.A.S.) is as real on the nose on your face….and don’t tell me you don’t have a nose:)

    Divorce Poison is a book that addresses it quite well, and gives the rejected parent tools to remain connected despite the p.a.s. obstacles.

    B”h…things have improved by leaps and bounds (with the kids he took) and all the brochos from tzadikkim I’ve gotten were that

    ALL my children would be together with me one day.

    in reply to: STREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEETCHED to the limit #759541
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    “love both parents”…if the father caused the opposite,how is he in the clear?

    Boruch Hashem,HASHEM RUNS THE WORLD, and I currently have a kesher with every single one of my children. No credit to their father,or any of his puppet assistants.

    But let’s not go into Pesach arguing.

    Truce?

    in reply to: STREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEETCHED to the limit #759538
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    What story don’t you believe??

    Are you friends with my ex? Do you abuse your own wife? Where is your resistance coming from?

    in reply to: STREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEETCHED to the limit #759537
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    And I knew it was passive-aggressive THEN.

    in reply to: STREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEETCHED to the limit #759536
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    TBT….forgive me,but YOU ARE WRONG.

    The WORST PART of what I went through,AND THE MAIN REASON I WAS TRAPPED IN IT FOR SO LONG was because of not being taken seriously.

    There is a time and place for playing devil’s advocate;THIS IS NOT IT.

    in reply to: Can You Aidel-Rap? #1003765
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    adorable,yes,b”h.

    in reply to: Can You Aidel-Rap? #1003764
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    am yisroel chai…thanks for keeping my thread alive! I liked your Aidel-Rap!!

    in reply to: who are you #760111
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    yeah adorable…stay!

    in reply to: STREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEETCHED to the limit #759532
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    Aries ….you are so eloquent.

    I wish you could lead a press conference for a lot of my relatives!

    But if they don’t even “chap” the glaringly obvious stuff, this will be even more abstract to them.

    Ahhhhh…..it’s only Olam Hazeh,right?:)

    in reply to: Homeowners interest deduction and Obama. A rant. #759298
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    Speaking of “Homeowner”: So, has my typing improved?

    Regarding the above topic…know zilch.

    in reply to: what yeshiva did you/do you go to or do you send your kids to #759297
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    Are you looking for a good boys’ school or simply curious?

    in reply to: anyone going to isreal soon or to Teaneck b4 sunday? #759311
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    There’s a ride-share website called help a yid or something like that.

    in reply to: who are you #760101
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    Popa and Aries….isn’t it “middle-aged”?

    in reply to: 1 MILLION FRUM JEWS IN THE STATE OF NEW YORK #760583
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    Oh yes,they were ALL on the same bus as I was this morning.

    in reply to: Bavarfen – Some Kids Go Home Heartbroken #759306
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    Give out carrot sticks, and no one will push at all:)

    in reply to: Sedorim and Chumashim in Shule #759287
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    Don’t know,but you mean Siddurim, right?

    in reply to: Advice? #759302
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    Wow…May Hashem show you a little(or huge!) sign that He is with you and that what seems negative is part of His being “matzmiach” your yeshuah.

    in reply to: STREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEETCHED to the limit #759528
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    Health, do I really come across as “hard”?

    Oy. I try to stay civil.

    in reply to: Where is My Headache? #1075495
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    I took it,you want it back? Kidding.No headache,b”h.

    in reply to: Can You Fill In this Blank?? #759609
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    GOOD NEWS!!

    If they can fill in THESE blanks too,we’re on the right track!

    1.I love you more than anything in the whole….!

    2.I feel sooo proud when you…….!

    3.Each child is special to me in………way,a mother’s heart has room for……

    4.Thank you,you did a ……job!! I knew I could count on…….

    in reply to: Surprise Brochos Party for Eclipse #1108604
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    But it’s past my bedtime!

    in reply to: STREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEETCHED to the limit #759526
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    Aries,I am curious to hear your feedback on the post I addressed to you on page 1 of this thread,thanks!

    in reply to: Surprise Brochos Party for Eclipse #1108601
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    Thank you everyone!!

    in reply to: STREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEETCHED to the limit #759525
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    Aries,I posted before your post was posted.

    I guess the mistake I made was showing them some of my notes BEFORE THEY ASKED.

    I learned my lesson, because I ended up feeling pathetic for lowering myself,and have since learned to bite my tongue,and keep my notes for my forthcoming book….one day in the future.

    My writing (in the form of poetry,songs,and plays) has been my personal outlet since I was a young girl.

    I also have drawings.

    in reply to: STREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEETCHED to the limit #759523
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    I have a qualified mentor…can we lay the matter to rest? Thank you.

    in reply to: SIMCHA! #759231
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    ZK…I promise I was NOT referring to you.

    in reply to: STREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEETCHED to the limit #759518
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    Sacrilege…it’s clear? Stay away from the nevu’ah field, my dear.I’m not upset,just becoming aware of a problem here.

    mikehall…I’m not streeeetched now,I was THEN,which the tapes portray.I thought I made that clear;guess I did not.

    Official Afikoman Present Request to Mods:

    I beg of you ,please please please DELETE EVERY PERSONAL THREAD I STARTED ABOUT THE GOINGS-ON OF MY MARRIAGE/DIVORCE/TEEN ETC.

    It accomplished whatever it accomplished,but it’s doing more harm than good at this point.

    in reply to: Womans Films #760272
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    Anyone see “See You Yesterday”?

    in reply to: SIMCHA! #759229
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    Thank You,Goq!!

    in reply to: who are you #760068
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    old lady 40+

    in reply to: STREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEETCHED to the limit #759515
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    Clark Kent….when your child gets poisoned against you in a serious way…it takes a malach not to say anything. I’m not a malach.

    in reply to: Do you have a dream??? #1019052
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    To watch every single child of mine grow up to become happy,emotionally healthy,and productive members of klal yisroel.Also to be kind and compassionate spouses.

    in reply to: How do you keep your spirits up? #759254
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    Focus on WHAT IS GOING RIGHT.

    in reply to: STREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEETCHED to the limit #759508
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    TBT…My post was not against you personally,chas v’sholom.

    If you follow any controversial thread here,inevitably someone insinuates that another “needs therapy”.

    in reply to: STREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEETCHED to the limit #759507
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    truth be told..when people tell your kids their father is a tzadik when he is a TRUE ABUSER and even threw their mother into jail on 100% false charges to enhance his legal position…..SOMETIMES IT NEEDS TO BE CORRECTED WITH NEGATIVE INFORMATION.

    AND,I repeat (to all the CR poster who do this),people telling people online to “see a therapist” is rude,in my opinion.

    1.YOU decided they need one?

    2.Maybe they see one; is it the business of strangers?

    3.Maybe they saw one in the past;must they tell YOU?

    4.Not everyone who has strong,or passionate,or even FLAWED thinking on a given topic needs therapy simply because you find their opinions unsettling.

    in reply to: Surprise Brochos Party for Eclipse #1108596
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    MindOverChatter…Thanks for clarifying!

    Of course I haven’t REALLY “publicized” my entire life…I just got worried that more of our personal life is out there than even I shared!

    in reply to: Silly Time #759413
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    Snopes can’t verify Tehillim names though…?

    in reply to: occupational therapy reccomedations #759778
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    Ask Otzar or similar places WHERE THEIR BEST,MOST COMPETENT OTs got their degrees.

    in reply to: a brainstorm !! #758983
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    New thread:The Forbidden Thread (do not touch)

    in reply to: #759065
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    Sorry,when it comes to “wings”,I don’t know what’s “flying”.

    in reply to: STREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEETCHED to the limit #759503
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    ATTENTION ARIES:

    I just googled “gaslighting” which led me to a term “Ambient Abuse” which I’d never heard of…same as /similar to gaslighting. Are you familiar with that term?

    Honestly,the guy was describing almost word for word a lot of the kind of stuff I experienced,NOT THE LEAST OF WHICH was being misjudged by everyone since the ambient abuser’s abuse is not often APPARENT to others.

    Wow,that was validating!!

    Thank you Hashem for taking me away from that…forever!!

    in reply to: Surprise Brochos Party for Eclipse #1108594
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    MindOver Chatter — things I cannot publicize?

    I don’t understand.

    Do you know more about my life than I do?

    Didn’t I publicize it all already?

    in reply to: when going through hardship #758982
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    Chovos Halevovos in English

    in reply to: Kollels in Yerushalayim #817127
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    Call Keren Ner Tomid in Yerushalayim.The office has an American number.Don’t know it,sorry.

    in reply to: #759149
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    Yum…but this thread has to be locked up now…it’s chometz.

    in reply to: SIMCHA! #759224
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    I would like to clarify here that a VERY HAPPY AND UPBEAT person should be able to lighten-by-sharing without others assuming the person is all “down in the dumps”.

    And if a person starts a thread about whatever’s “eating” them, which MANY POSTERS DO, no one should make them feel stupid for asking the CR’s opinions.

    I HIGHLY DOUBT ANYONE MAKES ANY SERIOUS DECISIONS BASED PURELY ON ADVICE FROM THE CR,don’t worry!

    Lastly,it’s impolite to ask a total stranger whether they consult with a therapist,now,then, or in the future.

    in reply to: Most Moving Jewish Song In Your View #1097001
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    vizakeinee

    in reply to: Surprise Brochos Party for Eclipse #1108593
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    ZK…”and a layv tov is better than all”….(Avos)

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