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Walton what does Excelsior mean?
eclipseMemberIt’s true there are often 2 CONFLICTING sides to a story.
But in abuse cases,the other side is often lying through their teeth,or EXCUSING OUTRAGEOUS ABUSE. It’s not even the same “story”!!
eclipseMemberPARENTAL ALIENATION SYNDROME (P.A.S.) is as real on the nose on your face….and don’t tell me you don’t have a nose:)
Divorce Poison is a book that addresses it quite well, and gives the rejected parent tools to remain connected despite the p.a.s. obstacles.
B”h…things have improved by leaps and bounds (with the kids he took) and all the brochos from tzadikkim I’ve gotten were that
ALL my children would be together with me one day.
eclipseMember“love both parents”…if the father caused the opposite,how is he in the clear?
Boruch Hashem,HASHEM RUNS THE WORLD, and I currently have a kesher with every single one of my children. No credit to their father,or any of his puppet assistants.
But let’s not go into Pesach arguing.
Truce?
eclipseMemberWhat story don’t you believe??
Are you friends with my ex? Do you abuse your own wife? Where is your resistance coming from?
eclipseMemberAnd I knew it was passive-aggressive THEN.
eclipseMemberTBT….forgive me,but YOU ARE WRONG.
The WORST PART of what I went through,AND THE MAIN REASON I WAS TRAPPED IN IT FOR SO LONG was because of not being taken seriously.
There is a time and place for playing devil’s advocate;THIS IS NOT IT.
eclipseMemberadorable,yes,b”h.
eclipseMemberam yisroel chai…thanks for keeping my thread alive! I liked your Aidel-Rap!!
eclipseMemberyeah adorable…stay!
eclipseMemberAries ….you are so eloquent.
I wish you could lead a press conference for a lot of my relatives!
But if they don’t even “chap” the glaringly obvious stuff, this will be even more abstract to them.
Ahhhhh…..it’s only Olam Hazeh,right?:)
April 15, 2011 6:01 am at 6:01 am in reply to: Homeowners interest deduction and Obama. A rant. #759298eclipseMemberSpeaking of “Homeowner”: So, has my typing improved?
Regarding the above topic…know zilch.
April 15, 2011 5:59 am at 5:59 am in reply to: what yeshiva did you/do you go to or do you send your kids to #759297eclipseMemberAre you looking for a good boys’ school or simply curious?
April 15, 2011 5:57 am at 5:57 am in reply to: anyone going to isreal soon or to Teaneck b4 sunday? #759311eclipseMemberThere’s a ride-share website called help a yid or something like that.
eclipseMemberPopa and Aries….isn’t it “middle-aged”?
eclipseMemberOh yes,they were ALL on the same bus as I was this morning.
eclipseMemberGive out carrot sticks, and no one will push at all:)
eclipseMemberDon’t know,but you mean Siddurim, right?
eclipseMemberWow…May Hashem show you a little(or huge!) sign that He is with you and that what seems negative is part of His being “matzmiach” your yeshuah.
eclipseMemberHealth, do I really come across as “hard”?
Oy. I try to stay civil.
eclipseMemberI took it,you want it back? Kidding.No headache,b”h.
eclipseMemberGOOD NEWS!!
If they can fill in THESE blanks too,we’re on the right track!
1.I love you more than anything in the whole….!
2.I feel sooo proud when you…….!
3.Each child is special to me in………way,a mother’s heart has room for……
4.Thank you,you did a ……job!! I knew I could count on…….
eclipseMemberBut it’s past my bedtime!
eclipseMemberAries,I am curious to hear your feedback on the post I addressed to you on page 1 of this thread,thanks!
eclipseMemberThank you everyone!!
eclipseMemberAries,I posted before your post was posted.
I guess the mistake I made was showing them some of my notes BEFORE THEY ASKED.
I learned my lesson, because I ended up feeling pathetic for lowering myself,and have since learned to bite my tongue,and keep my notes for my forthcoming book….one day in the future.
My writing (in the form of poetry,songs,and plays) has been my personal outlet since I was a young girl.
I also have drawings.
eclipseMemberI have a qualified mentor…can we lay the matter to rest? Thank you.
eclipseMemberZK…I promise I was NOT referring to you.
eclipseMemberSacrilege…it’s clear? Stay away from the nevu’ah field, my dear.I’m not upset,just becoming aware of a problem here.
mikehall…I’m not streeeetched now,I was THEN,which the tapes portray.I thought I made that clear;guess I did not.
Official Afikoman Present Request to Mods:
I beg of you ,please please please DELETE EVERY PERSONAL THREAD I STARTED ABOUT THE GOINGS-ON OF MY MARRIAGE/DIVORCE/TEEN ETC.
It accomplished whatever it accomplished,but it’s doing more harm than good at this point.
eclipseMemberAnyone see “See You Yesterday”?
eclipseMemberThank You,Goq!!
eclipseMemberold lady 40+
eclipseMemberClark Kent….when your child gets poisoned against you in a serious way…it takes a malach not to say anything. I’m not a malach.
eclipseMemberTo watch every single child of mine grow up to become happy,emotionally healthy,and productive members of klal yisroel.Also to be kind and compassionate spouses.
eclipseMemberFocus on WHAT IS GOING RIGHT.
eclipseMemberTBT…My post was not against you personally,chas v’sholom.
If you follow any controversial thread here,inevitably someone insinuates that another “needs therapy”.
eclipseMembertruth be told..when people tell your kids their father is a tzadik when he is a TRUE ABUSER and even threw their mother into jail on 100% false charges to enhance his legal position…..SOMETIMES IT NEEDS TO BE CORRECTED WITH NEGATIVE INFORMATION.
AND,I repeat (to all the CR poster who do this),people telling people online to “see a therapist” is rude,in my opinion.
1.YOU decided they need one?
2.Maybe they see one; is it the business of strangers?
3.Maybe they saw one in the past;must they tell YOU?
4.Not everyone who has strong,or passionate,or even FLAWED thinking on a given topic needs therapy simply because you find their opinions unsettling.
eclipseMemberMindOverChatter…Thanks for clarifying!
Of course I haven’t REALLY “publicized” my entire life…I just got worried that more of our personal life is out there than even I shared!
eclipseMemberSnopes can’t verify Tehillim names though…?
eclipseMemberAsk Otzar or similar places WHERE THEIR BEST,MOST COMPETENT OTs got their degrees.
eclipseMemberNew thread:The Forbidden Thread (do not touch)
eclipseMemberSorry,when it comes to “wings”,I don’t know what’s “flying”.
eclipseMemberATTENTION ARIES:
I just googled “gaslighting” which led me to a term “Ambient Abuse” which I’d never heard of…same as /similar to gaslighting. Are you familiar with that term?
Honestly,the guy was describing almost word for word a lot of the kind of stuff I experienced,NOT THE LEAST OF WHICH was being misjudged by everyone since the ambient abuser’s abuse is not often APPARENT to others.
Wow,that was validating!!
Thank you Hashem for taking me away from that…forever!!
eclipseMemberMindOver Chatter — things I cannot publicize?
I don’t understand.
Do you know more about my life than I do?
Didn’t I publicize it all already?
eclipseMemberChovos Halevovos in English
eclipseMemberCall Keren Ner Tomid in Yerushalayim.The office has an American number.Don’t know it,sorry.
eclipseMemberYum…but this thread has to be locked up now…it’s chometz.
eclipseMemberI would like to clarify here that a VERY HAPPY AND UPBEAT person should be able to lighten-by-sharing without others assuming the person is all “down in the dumps”.
And if a person starts a thread about whatever’s “eating” them, which MANY POSTERS DO, no one should make them feel stupid for asking the CR’s opinions.
I HIGHLY DOUBT ANYONE MAKES ANY SERIOUS DECISIONS BASED PURELY ON ADVICE FROM THE CR,don’t worry!
Lastly,it’s impolite to ask a total stranger whether they consult with a therapist,now,then, or in the future.
eclipseMembervizakeinee
eclipseMemberZK…”and a layv tov is better than all”….(Avos)
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