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cucumberMember
its like doctors in england- before they get their doctorate they’re just a mister like everyone else. Then they get their degree and become a docotor. Then they go on to become a specalist and hey they’re a mister again. So too here in the CR you start out a member then you can get a subtitle but ultimately the best thing is to become a member again!
cucumberMemberAs I have already pointed out (um, thanks for reading my post? ;), there are many pictures of Prince William in jeans.
thats why i specifically said the Queen,not the prince.
cucumberMemberThe Goq i like pawlenty i dont know anything about him but i like saying his name pawlenty
That is good for him actually. Its part of his appeal as an Indian American.
cucumberMemberYou have a yetzer hara. Just like everyone else.
cucumberMemberpopa_bar_abba
I did not say it is a halacha to dress like royalty. I said we are children of Hashem and we should want to dress the part. If you want to loook like a lowlife that is fine, no one is stopping you.
cucumberMemberThen i guess you do not agree with Mitch Daniels, another possible Republican candidate. He says that in times like this when our economy is so bad, we have to put aside social issues for now and get ahead on one thing- fixing the economy. Social issues are nothing but a distraction at this point. While i am sure many republicans do not agree with him, he definitely has a point. Our debt is so high, it threatens the economic future of this country. While social issues are definitely important; in a crisis you have to do one thing- deal with the crisis. That should be the most important thing right now.
cucumberMemberWhen you look at the pictures of the queen of England, who is one of the last really royal people in the world, you will never see her in jeans. She wears skirts and sleeves. The only difference between her dress code and tznius is that she wears low necklines. But she would never wear pants in public and certainly not jeans- commoners clothing. We’re all Jewish- children of Hashem- which makes us royalty too. We should dress the part. Whether jeans and jean skirts are tznius or not is not the issue. It’s the look. Jeans make you look lower class- they are what the average American high school and college student wears all the time, as well as what manual laborers wear. If we are royalty we should wear the clothing of royalty, and not wish to lower ourselves to the level of commoners.
cucumberMemberwhere has the wolf been?
cucumberMemberwhy is everyone so desperate for a subtitle? Member is so awesome! And if you get a subtitle you dont like youre stuck!
cucumberMemberPac-ManIs he pro-life and pro-(traditional) marriage? Those are my prerequisites to consider a candidate.
Are so your only prerequisites? What about pro-Israel, pro-economy, pro-school choice and all that?
cucumberMemberBi-Polar as explained in the book is not necessarily how it is in real life. While it can be that way, it can also be alot worse. In both the manic and depressive stages of bipolar a victim can suffer from psychosis, a loss of contact with reality. They can also become suicidal. So for anyone who thinks the book was scary it could have been a lot scarier.
cucumberMemberThere’s the story about the woman who wanted a hotdog. So she goes up to the hotdog vendor and asks him for a kelev cham
cucumberMemberha ha ha is probably the best poster in the CR. Ha ha ha we miss you.
cucumberMemberhitler did not just kill jews. he killed millions of gypsies, mentally ill, and others he cosidered unfit for the “master race”. He also killed millions of innocent Europeans. Israel is not the only one in danger from Iran- they want to kill all “infidels” which includes Europeans, Americans and most of the rest of the world. The reason Hamas leaders were treated so well by the world is because they managed to portray themsleves as freedom fighters. The world loves championing whoever they consider the underdog- regardless of how much blood is on their hands. Im not saying the world loves the Jews- they sure dont but that is no reason to rewrite history.
May 6, 2011 9:34 pm at 9:34 pm in reply to: Is Osama Bin Laden Dead or Alive in America's Custody #764928cucumberMemberwhy should they release pictures of him dead? The security system knows what theyre doing which is more than anyone here can say and there is no reason to release pictures. It does not mean that he is not dead, which im sure he is. It would have been perfectly good for obamas image to capture him alive- maybe even better because it would keep the publicity alive for longer.
cucumberMembermoderator 80 in the old days princesses married amphibians.
you mean mermaids
cucumberMemberwell she certainly is a princess although it strange. In the old days princes married other royalty. This is just proof that the monarchy is worthless. Half their blood is not even royal.
cucumberMemberronrsr you are a commoner so why shouldnt your wife be one too but prince william is royalty, therefore it only makes sense that he would marry into royalty. Or if not royalty there has to be some reason why he chose her out of the whole England
cucumberMemberso then what zchus did she have to marry the prince? Was she really just a regular commoner or something more than that?
cucumberMemberdoes anyone know who kate middleton is? Is she some kind of royalty or what?
cucumberMembershe was wearing long sleeves. They just happened to be see-through
cucumberMemberis 20 still a teen? not that im 20 but you can be young at heart
cucumberMemberis The Wolf a teenager?
cucumberMemberwolfish musings. it doesnt bother me at all. i am simply trying to figure out what the fascination is. I find them interesting too simply as celebrities, what i want to know is why they are such celebrities. True they are part of the “historical institution known as the British Monarchy” but so what? Why does that make them entitled to such wealth, fame and celebrity status?
cucumberMembera psycopath is someone with a mental problem, which hopefully no one here has
cucumberMemberbut why does everyone feel the need to watch their wedding? to analyze everything they say? They are after all just 2 people who happen to have been born into a certain family. Why the utter fascination with them?
cucumberMemberthe royal family has no power anymore. theyre not making history. all they do is use tax money to party
cucumberMemberits so much fun to be a mod its worht the critisicm
cucumberMemberpeople should be picked on merits not on pull
cucumberMemberwho cares what ur subtitle is? i dont have one and whats the difference?
cucumberMemberwhy is everyone so into the royal family? theyre just a bunch of people just like anyone else. Why does everyone care so much about them?
cucumberMemberis there anyone not bored?
cucumberMemberof course not. why should he be president? unless he runs against obama.
cucumberMemberkids have fun
cucumberMembersounds gr8 but if you dont want to waste so much time, fried onions on a bed of cheese is gr8 too
cucumberMemberyitayningwut
thats true. And finding a shidduch is as hard as krias yam suf. So it makes sense that it would be hard to get a psychologist that is right for you
cucumberMemberwho was first?
cucumberMemberha ha ha ha is this post turnin gout the way you wanted it to?
cucumberMemberIf someone is older than you are do they have a right to tell you what to do?
cucumberMemberYes people who are abused often become abusive. However, people also become abusive by themselves (or else how did the chain begin?) so I don’t think we can say an abuser has necessarily been abused.
mw13 even if an abuser has not been abused there is something causing him to hurt another person. No one just hurts others for the fun of it. There is something in them that is making them unhappy and is leaching their confidence. Maybe they were neglected as a child or treated like they were dumb or useless. Or maybe something else happened to destroy their self-esteem. But whatever is was they are desperately unhappy and the only way they feel good is by exercising their power over someone weaker than they are.That is why abuse is a cycle. Unless it is stopped it always gets worse. Just like an alcoholic needs alcohol and a drug addict craves more and more drugs, an abuser needs to feel power and he needs it more and more, as each dose is less filling. Because the power masks their insecurity and inner feeling of worthlessness. If you feel good you don’t abuse. Abusers are mainly people who desperatley neeed help and cant get it. They cant possibly be happy because if they were they would have no need to make themselves feel good in this way.
cucumberMemberyitayningwut thanx for the advice. But i dont think psychologists are as bad as you make them out. It is the type of job where you spend your time helping people. while im sure not every psychologist is exactly an angel its not that scary to go to them. But daas Torah is always the best way to go.
cucumberMemberand popa_bar_abba if you dont like being told what to do get off this post
cucumberMemberha ha ha that is a gr8 idea. Petty fights are dumb. But its nice to have stimulating arguments. So how about everyone uses their brains when posting and only posts smart things nothing petty or silly.
cucumberMemberyes eclipse it is so nice to have someone who actually knows psychology. Most people seem to just make it up on their own
cucumberMemberI think its nice when one person knows you. Then you know who your arguing against
cucumberMemberJust as every person can make themselves into a good, even great person, every person can make themselves into bad person, or even a monster. We all have the ability to become a Godly saint, and we all have it within ourselves to become a monster. It’s just a question of who we choose to become.
MW13 yes we all have free choice. But no one can control the circumstances of their life. Someone who was brought up with abuse or who had his/her confidence destroyed by someone else could not control that. Sure he can choose what to do next and how to respond but his choice is not on the same level as someone brought up well and he is still not a happy person. Passing on the chain of abuse is wrong. But all that can’t change the fact the abuser is still an unhappy person who is suffering too.You cant simply say he badmiddositis.
cucumberMemberha ha ha if anyone found you out what would be your reaction? You souns like a really funny person so im sure it will be different. lol
cucumberMembereclipse the abusers are suffering?? yes they are. would a happy, emotionally healthy person be abusive? of course not. why should they? Its only unhappy, insecure people with no self-confidence who become abusive to make themselves feel good and powerful. No normal person feels good when they hurt other people. Hitler and Saddam Hussein were both crazy and so are most other dictators. Look at Gadhafi. He’s insane. They say psycopaths are some of the most lonely people on earth and they are also abusive people. Maybe that doesnt excuse what they do but they ARE still suffering also.
cucumberMemberyogibooboo it doesnt matter if its true thats what lashon hara is you know. And are you saying you are the only person in your community who doesnt do that?
cucumberMembersmart people can be abusive too ha ha ha ha. They just do it in different ways. In fact they can even use their knowledge of psychology to hurt people more. So I would say if someone is intelligent, not necessarily should you advise them to go to a psychologist.
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