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I dont think its possible to truly make someone feel like you are listening to them and like you really really care about them and what they have to say when you really could not give a flip about them. Somehow the true feelings usually come through in one way or another
I hope this thread is a joke? if you also need a perfect mother-in-law, good luck getting married
is it because they gave you a hard time or you have other reasons why they tick you off?
the point is how you do ______ not what you do…. a simple night out with some ice cream can be cheap (if you cannot afford more than that) and have a better outcome/effect than a 10,000 watch
Everyone will agree that there was an outpour of chesed and achdus that came out of this. Lets try and keep the achdus. Lets make sure to continue feeling like we are ALL in this world to do the same thing…. to serve Hashem and not get side tracked by the color shirt, hat, ties….
I would never even go out with someone who smokes forget marry him. NO WAY!
bomb- wow you really feel very strongly about this…. Chill out! I think that the store knows what troubles they may run into when setting up such a policy but its obviously worth it for them. I will tell you that most people will buy faster in Lands End or Costco (or the like) rather than a store that gives you a hard time with returning or only has 30 days or something.
I dont think the point of the whole story was that Hashem wanted us to tell our children not to talk to strangers. It just seems like thats missing the point. I think Hashem wants us to do teshuva. That does not mean that parents should not use this as a spring-board to teach children a lesson but is that the reason why this came about and is that all Hashem wants you to learn?
I would not eat at such a person’s house. I dont think you should tell it to him in a way that will make him think that you are telling him what to do. just say that you dont wanna tell him that hes doing anything wrong but that you are not comfortable with it.
I read the above letter too and was really shaken up. I just cannot think about anything else. I know that unfortunately we’ll all move on (look what happened after Mumbai killing….) but right now all I can think about is how Leiby made a kiddush Hashem (I heard them saying that this happens all the time in the non Jewish world but they are making it such a huge thing this time because of the outpour from the community which he grew up in) and how he brought a not normal amount of achdus. May it be a zechus for his very special and very pure and holy neshama.
I heard it causes miscarriages.
first of all, make sure to tell her how happy you are to be married to her….(and to be married all together)
other than that, I can’t tell you as I have no experience
He said that he thinks what he did was wrong…hes not even sure!!!!!!!!!!!!
I heard that someone came to Costco with a watermelon shell and said that they ate it a couple of days ago and it was not good…. they gave him back the money!
I have the same question. What specific message is Hashem trying to send to us all?
I think Cosco has the most amazing return policy.
I got a little confused reading two things at once….. sorry but I love those too.
the point is not to see the rainbow but to take the message from it.
Beautiful letter but sounds like you are saying what you think Hashem should be doing….
YUP! Thank you so much. you gave amazing coverage…..you did a wonderful job! May you be busy updating GOOD news only!
I love that car. its a mini van though no?
I think the pain is still too raw for anyone to think anything nice about him. I think his details show that he deserves murder- he had no issue giving out all the details like that?
can anyone guess!?!?!?
Anyone here goes to Rabbi schlesinger in Monsey and would like to tell us what he said about the Mishapacha? I dont wanna say anything that I did not hear personally from him.
Mods- isnt this thread a little “scary”- could go down a slippery slope of Lashon Hara. JMHO
They didnt ask them to speak to the press or anything, they just wrote their names. whats the big deal?
You can be disappointed (that does not mean angry, I mean just disappointed) but nothing more than that and I dont think you should make a big deal about it. You might not know why the speaker had to change the topic last minute.
no its not the same thing. you might have the wrong picture of what her daughter or son is looking for but she knows that if she goes into it with you then shes going to have to argue with you about if thats a “normal” thing to want or not. There is someone that redt me a shidduch but it was totally not for me. Instead of arguing with her I just said that I dont want but thank you. She figured out why I didnt want and started telling me how I’m wrong and its not that way in life….
hired shidduchim? can you explain how that would work?
I heard that the guy did know the boy but the cops now are saying something else.
honolulu- did it have anything to do with him?
why are the boys running after the topp girls like the girls are running after the boys?
they did exchange words and he told him that he would take him home (heard this on the news not in is speech) and he should wait while he pays the dentist bill and then he’ll drive him.
im crazy……
Middle- I was talking to yungerman but I happen to love the Hondas….not that I know anything about cars…for all I know I dont even really know what a Honda is! How about you tell me which Honda and I’ll google it and tell you if its a car that I like…
bob- you are way too practical! LOL dont think this site is for you…
we understand that but we dont live that far from each other so well be getting onto the same buses. note that this bus is going from NY so…. those who live outside of NY would have to come to NY either way to get on the bus!
you can come to me! I wish we could have a hotline to call at night and talk it would be so much fun….mods would you let that?
maybe I’m just bored. if i was a mod i would be working and getting the threads moving
bpt-
just ask middle if you’re not sure! Sorry for the confusion, I am single but was just copying from a post above.
what do you drive? a station wagon?
I think pacman (i’m not saying he’s right but…) just wants to show that the fact that you are so “touchy” about him asking about your wife’s tznius shows that there is something that is making you unsure.
LOL Im laughing from this thread….. Why would you ask someone if they are out of their mind?
ppl told me i might have it hard bec of my family situation. but i looked passed it and said there is bound to be someone who wont care and will marry me regardless. i davened and lo and behold i met my amazing husband who actually loves my family
Im amazing that you were able to hold on all those years and not be affected….. see Middle there is hope!!!!!!
Droid- I guess you also listened to it! he was very clear and showed sympathy….. so sad.