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he said you have to say it with an english tehillim or else its not that meaningful. i will admit that it totally pulled me through! what makes it your fav perek?!?!?
what should i do if today I dont feel like I want to get married anymore…. Im just so busy and now I have to stick dating into my life and its always back and forth about times and days…. i just dont have patience!!!!!!!
I say pei vav (as per rabbi wallerstein’s advice) and it really keeps me going. an amazing perek!
i called you yesterday…. thanks for the response though. i just wanna know why my thread was not put up yesterday (or was it two days ago?) i see that the time i got back on here the othe thread was closed but I dont want everyone to have a misconception about me!!!!!! Im really not happy about them thinking that I hang/hung out with married men!!!!!!!!!!
identity crisis….
they listen at very random times. but we like them anyhow and they do a great job. when you need them they dont hear you
she never said that she knows him… i think she would know me faster than she would know him….
guys its me! kap- you didnt respond to my post so….. ok where was I that we met?
is it me?!?!?!? Please please tell me.
I want to be exactly what I am but would change some personality traits. but as a whole I think Im happy with who and what I am
ur kids are normal kids. they are just…..kids!!!!!! take the time to watch them grow up and you will not catch ur breath but thats not the time for that! now just focus on raising happy healthy kids. there will be lots of time for sleeping and cleaning your house.
chill and make sure to be yourself. dont put on a fake. its not worth it. when you come back to the real world and real life they will all know who you are really and its jsut not worth it.
too many threads about this already. its a stale joke.
what are you guys eating tonight for supper? meat/steak anyone?
I would write to a lot of people but I think mainly Hashem.
GOQ- you had me laughing. but will we know who are the mods?
I respect chassidim for their chesed. let me tell you that when ur stuck in the hospital for a shabbos or yom tov, there is no one like the chassidim!!!!!!!!
there is a reason why they ate matzoh when the Jews went out of Mitzrayim.
Das- it is true. I almost never eat a lot the day before and B”H never have trouble fasting. I also found matzah to help a lot. eat as much as you can the day before. it stays in your stomach and makes you not so hungry
does your chosson know about your past with your bf? do u feel confident with your chosson or do you still wanna go back to ur BF (if you could and it would not be assur)
mods- why are you allowing this thread to continue?
I dont think you should say why this happened- just say that its because this is what the Almighty decided should happen but there are things that we can do to prevent in the future.
popa- would you kiss your wife in public? would you walk around your block holding hands? If you would, then maybe these romantic songs are ok for you.
I feel like Moshiach is coming….no jokes! Its just that the change of weather is not normal anymore and its raining and windy now. I just feel like Hashem is crying with us and realizes that we cannot go on this way anymore.
sorry for hijacking your thread
LOL I always thought I was the only one who had friends that are 15-45!!!!! My family makes so much fun of me its nuts
oh. I didnt know that. sorry
guys! I have nothing to do with this guy but you can still debate it.
Middle- dont know how to can deal with it. There are a lot of things I can deal with, but I find it especially tough when parents dont live up to what they should be like
I am not engaged so I cant understand but I can imagine that once I do get engaged I would have no interest in other guys anymore. I know the taava does not go away but if the BF was just filling a void you now have someone else to fill that and its real, not just two teens playing around. hes yours for the rest of your life.
WIY- it lasted one day dont worry. it happens to be that I just googled the guy and saw lots of sick, nasty things about him online. I can only imagine what type of person he REALLY is! I thank Hashem that I never had anything else to do with such a sick person. And I daven that he find the right help and satisfaction in life.
I was wondering that same exact thing. cant you just wait a little bit?
no its two- me thinks you should….It means I think you should…
me thinks you need english lessons…..
why such a big meal?
are you engaged?
heard of it and lots of my friends have done it but I never had that “zechus” to actually wear it! I dont think it has any mekor and I think its just made up!
I think popa is single and maybe missing that romance in his life
I tot understand you and the only advice I can offer you is to stay busy and wait around for the right for the right guy to come around. I have a friend who had a key chain “waiting for the right guy to come around, until then hanging out with the wrong guys.”
I wanted to end the relationship but knew that if it only came from me I would end up going back to them. So I spoke it out very nicely and clearly. I just said why I think we have to end it and fortunately we both agreed.
Middle- sorry to hear how things ended but isnt it better for you that you guys spoke it out and got to speak about the pros and cons vs her just saying NO! (or there’s no chemistry)…..I remember once when I broke up with a friend it was so much easier because we spoke about it together and realized that its not good for us to continue being friends
ok so why dont you tell us who you are. i dont get the joke. you must be Joe
Middle- one thing that I think you should strongly consider is a rela Rebbi or mentor to talk to. a friend is wonderful but hes still a friend!
thank you editor! you have been great. you know what for…. pleasure to deal with….
mods thank too!
thanks! you too
thank you everyone! Middle- dont think its one person who helped (although it was one person who single-handedly pushed me out of here!LOL) but just the good feelings that I get from all you lovely posters.
was that too honest?!?!?!
Middle- you are able to stay sane because you have a clear mind and a great way of thinking. You have your head on your shoulders and you are constantly thinking about ways to improve yourself and dust yourself off and you dont just sit in the rut and chose to be upset about all the things that went wrong in your life. there is very little that we have control over in our lives, yet we choose to constantly control those things. this just brings heartache and worry. you cannot control your life situation, your family, your friends reactions, comments, or your spouse! you can only control the way you deal with all those things