The bigger the financial investment in the date, the more the boy’s side is going to be picky and try to not “waste” time and money on a girl who may be shayach but not 110% what he has in mind. And the girl who he doesn’t go out with because of that could have been a great shidduch. Is it worth it to be picked up in an expensive rented car when the cost is making an already difficult process even harder?
You can go on a date with a minivan but you can’t marry it.
zionflag & E120: because many shadchanim have made it an issue that it is not tznius to use a minivan. Don’t ask me why, I don’t know.
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Why does it matter? Is the van clean?
Wow you guys must be bored
The bigger the financial investment in the date, the more the boy’s side is going to be picky and try to not “waste” time and money on a girl who may be shayach but not 110% what he has in mind. And the girl who he doesn’t go out with because of that could have been a great shidduch. Is it worth it to be picked up in an expensive rented car when the cost is making an already difficult process even harder?
You can go on a date with a minivan but you can’t marry it.
zionflag & E120: because many shadchanim have made it an issue that it is not tznius to use a minivan. Don’t ask me why, I don’t know.