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Chasing The Presidency Is Donald Trump’s Ultimate Ego Trip


trumpDonald Trump once owned up to the force driving him in life: ego.

“Almost every deal I have ever done has been at least partly for my ego,” the billionaire declared in a 1995 New York Times opinion piece titled, “What My Ego Wants, My Ego Gets.”

What 70-year-old Donald John Trump wants now is the presidency. To understand why, consider the billionaire’s ego not just as mere mortals might see it (an outsized allotment of conceit) but also as Trump himself understands it (an extraordinary drive for excitement, glamour and style that produces extraordinary success.)

“People need ego,” Trump has said. “Whole nations need ego.”

The race for the White House, then, is guided by the same instincts he’s relied on in a lifetime of audacious self-promotion, ambition and risk-taking.

It was those instincts that allowed a fabulously wealthy businessman to pull off a mind meld with the economic anxieties of ordinary Americans, elbowing aside the Republican A-team and breaking every rule of modern politics on the way to the Republican presidential nomination.

“I play to people’s fantasies,” Trump has acknowledged. And plenty of voters fantasize about bringing some of that Trump braggadocio to the American psyche.

Trump’s candidacy has given rise to a nation of armchair analysts with their own theories about the man: He’s a bully. He’s a champion. He’s insecure. He’s a rebel. He’s a narcissist. He’s an optimist. He’s calculating. He’s unscripted. He’s a pathological liar. He sees a larger truth.

Trump himself shies away from self-analysis. But he’s acknowledged that for much of his life, it’s been all about the chase. Whatever it is, he’s in it to win it.

“The same assets that excite me in the chase often, once they are acquired, leave me bored,” he said in 1990 as his boom years were sliding toward bust. “For me, you see, the important thing is the getting, not the having.”

That mindset has generated plenty of speculation about whether Trump really wants to set aside his my-way lifestyle to shoulder the heavy demands of governing.

Trump bats away such talk. But his campaign chairman, Paul Manafort, addressing why Trump wants a strong and seasoned running mate, says the candidate sees himself as chairman of the board, not CEO, and “needs an experienced person to do the part of the job he doesn’t want to do.”

Trump’s unbounded confidence — and obsession with winning — has been a lifelong constant.

One of five children in a well-to-do Queens real estate family, Donald was the brash one.

“We gotta calm him down,” his father would say, as Trump recalls it. “Son, take the lumps out.”

It’s advice Trump never really embraced.

Trump followed his father into real estate, but chafed within the confines of Fred Trump’s realm in New York’s outer boroughs. Trump crossed into Manhattan and made it big before he hit 40.

“He was at the top of his own pyramid,” says Stanley Renshon, a political psychologist at the City University of New York who is writing a book about Trump. “Nobody was going to say, ‘Donald, tone it down.'”

Through years of boom, bust and more than a decade of reality-TV celebrity on “The Apprentice,” the deals kept coming and the price tags (and, often, the debt) kept growing — as did the hype. Always the hype.

“Harry Potter” actor Daniel Radcliffe recalls his 2005 encounter in the “Today” show studios, when he confessed to the businessman that he was nervous about making a live television appearance. Trump’s advice: “Just tell them you met Mr. Trump,” Radcliffe told “Late Night with Seth Meyers” recently.

“To this day,” added Radcliffe, “I can’t even relate to that level of confidence.”

Trump is not all chutzpah.

A Mississippi man remembers a surprise phone call from Trump after his father wrote asking for a loan to build a hotel back in 1988. Trump didn’t offer a loan to the Indian-American small businessman, but did give him a pep talk and some advice.

“Trump inspired my father to the fullest when he told him that Dad’s immigrant story was wonderful,” Suresh Chawla wrote in a 2015 letter to The Clarksdale (Mississippi) Press Register.

And pro golfer Natalie Gulbis tells of Trump coaching her on how to negotiate equal pay with male competitors.

Far more often, though, Americans have seen the tweet-storming settler of scores and hurler of insults.

For all the protesters who roil his rallies, Trump himself is the heckler of our time, who happens to do his heckling from the podium. No one is immune. Not senator and war hero John McCain, not the disabled, not Mexicans, not Muslims, not even those people who make up a majority of the country (and the electorate): women.

Aubrey Immelman, a political psychologist at Saint John’s University in Minnesota who has developed a personality index to assess presidential candidates, puts Trump’s level of narcissism in the “exploitative” range, surpassing any presidential nominee’s score in the past two decades.

“His personality is his best friend, but it’s also his worst enemy,” says Immelman.

The man who has married three times, lives large and offers the opulence of his real estate developments as a metaphor for what he can do for America, in fact has relatively simple tastes, if you are to believe his family and him.

He’s never had a drink, smoked or done drugs, he says. He’s a self-proclaimed “germ freak” who’d really rather not shake your hand.

Trump has singled out meatloaf as a favorite meal when he’s at his Mar-a-Lago resort in Palm Beach, Florida.

“Whenever we have it, half the people order it,” Trump said in a 1997 New Yorker profile. “But then afterward, if you ask them what they ate, they always deny it.”

(AP)



8 Responses

  1. Its ego for both the Donald and Hillary. The difference is that if elected, this clown could destroy our economy and get us involved in another war. He could care less about the constitutional guarantees (other than the second amendment of course). Perhaps its part of the Ebeshter’s plan to bring down another mabul but not sure if we should take the chance.

  2. to comment #1 (gadol hador?? talk about ego!):
    while you might describe Trump as being a “clown who could destroy our economy and get us involved in another war”, why aren’t you equally as critical of Hillary’s ego, “this liar who could destroy our economy and get us involved in another war”. be consistent!

  3. Enough with the negativity aimed at Donald, please.

    This has gotten out of hand.

    You guys sound like a bunch of Liberal fools at this point. Certainly not “Yeshiva World.”

  4. All presidential candidates have a tremendous ego. The tone of the AP story reflects that the AP is controlled by left wing newspapers.

    Occasionally one gets someone who is modest and not egotistical as president, but they are more likely to be a meek Vice-President who becomes president by accident (Harry Truman comes to mind).

  5. Excuse me – Gadolhadorah – do you want a criminal and habitual liar at the helm? She’ll complete Obama’s job. The country will sink and get lost g-d forbid.
    I don’t think she did even one good thing for this country but rather the opposite, while Trump is a straight forward honest person who knows how to build and create. He is not a faker. He is a proud American who cares for the country

  6. YWN – Why the liberal slant? Why all the negative propaganda against Bush? Do you really mean to sell E”Y and its 6 million Jewish citizens down the drain for political (and other) reasons? Please show a little balance.

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