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A mamzer is also punished for the sins of his parents too
zahavasdadParticipantI don’t know why you think descendants should be liable for the misdeeds of their parents/grandparents. I think that’s very wrong.
I guess you can use that argument about Millenial Germans or pretty much any German born after 1945, they bear no responsibility for the crimes of the nazis and shouldnt pay reperations either
January 29, 2019 1:07 pm at 1:07 pm in reply to: shopping at a new super grocery store vs the corner grocery store. #1670605zahavasdadParticipantMore competition not only means better prices, but better service. No store has the right to my business
And frankly when many regular supermarkets sell enough kosher products including meat, chicken and Chalav Yistoel milk, the jewish stores better learn to compete because kosher is expensive enough as it is,
January 29, 2019 11:40 am at 11:40 am in reply to: Greater danger to yeshivas being ignored #1670528zahavasdadParticipantDY
I dont think you understand, Yeshivas are usually ‘Family Businesses” and whomever was in charge 30 years ago, its likely in charge today or at the worst their decendents are . So they same people are in charge, even if the Perp is no longer there.
And I am fairly certain you cannot leagally sue the Perp if the crime happend during work hours. The employer is responsible
zahavasdadParticipantI actually dont think you can sue an employee who committed a crime while on the Job (According to NY Law). I think Halacha might be different, but if someone is OTD I dont think they really care about Halacha, and it probably wont help someone’s religious observence if they are told by some Beis Din, Sorry you cant sue the Yeshiva who allowed someone to Molest you because only the Molester is liable , not the Yeshiva.
I never said Yeshivas are destructive or should be shut down, Only those that enabled molestors shut be shut down. if your yeshiva is clean, then you have nothing to worry about . Those are the yeshivas we want, That is the torah we want
zahavasdadParticipantIt definatly is a greater danger that people are more concerned about Yeshivas who committed offenses should be more worried about being sued than the crime they committed
zahavasdadParticipantThe Chofetz Chaim used to learn with his feet in Ice Water so he wouldnt fall asleep. We need to cut down on the amount of sleep the Bocherim get
zahavasdadParticipantIn general money is used to pay for all sorts of damages to someone. If someone is killed, Will $5 million bring them back ? Of course not, but that doesnt mean the person doesnt deserve the money
And sometimes they might need it, Someone sufferent from PTSD from being a victims has medical bills that need to be paid for, the money from the offending yeshiva can help pay for that
zahavasdadParticipantSometimes suing the pants off someone will prevent someone else from doing the same. Its a deterant
January 28, 2019 2:33 pm at 2:33 pm in reply to: Is it safe to invest in an up and coming Jewish community? #1669520zahavasdadParticipantToms River is not the same as others, its next to Lakewood, so Likely at some point the communities will join and you can still have access to the lakewood services
However this would not be the case in more isolated communities and thats why I feel Scranton never really panned out, Even though housing is cheap there its too isolated from other communities to really make a foothold
zahavasdadParticipantThe community is wrong to protect these places and that is a greater threat.
An Ohr LaGoyim means just that and I take it serious, it means no crimes that even the goyim look down upon.
And Yes I take a very hard line on this issue. I know victims and their lives have been damaged and it was worse for them when the Yeshiva covered it up or worse . This is not the torah way. Sometimes messes need to be cleaned up
zahavasdadParticipantMost Yeshivas are privately owned (A few are non-profit corporations like YU, run by a board of directors) but that is the minority, Even of the management at the time of the crime is not around, their heirs likely are
zahavasdadParticipantThe greater danger is that we allow yeshivas at any cost and no matter what scuples to run one. if we run a yeshivas without scruples, we lose the whole point of the torah lifesyle
zahavasdadParticipantSo you are in favor of the yeshiva “Getting away with it” in order words because some lawyer will profit
And the yeshivas did cover it up and not only that, many of these victims went OTD. All the averios of these victims squarely belong on the yeshivas for covering up the misdeeds. Sorry I dont want such Zchus from that Torah. its a Mitzvah Goreres Averiah
January 28, 2019 11:17 am at 11:17 am in reply to: Greater danger to yeshivas being ignored #1669336zahavasdadParticipantA yeshiva that allowed abusers to get away with their deeds, is no different than a yeshiva with a Rosh Yeshiva who drove to mcDonalds for a cheeseburger on Shabbos.
Sorry but some sins are unforgiveable and the torah is tainted in such places
zahavasdadParticipantIm just trying to figure out how a week of Prizus in the promised land of Florida turned into a discussion of Abortion
zahavasdadParticipantB’H we all the have the Zechus of Josephs torah learning to protect us whle the oilam is comming tremendous averiahs in Florida
zahavasdadParticipantThe “Hechsher” on clothing is one of more insane ideas yet, The frum stores will be forced to pay for this “hechsher” and raise the prices and many will just go to stores like Macy’s or other larger department stores. You really think frum people will stop shopping at stores like Macy’s or Cough Cough Wal-Mart?
zahavasdadParticipantNot everyone is going to get back pay, there are about 800,000 government employees, they will get paid. However there are aboutr 4-5 Million contractors who work for a contractor who gets paid by the government, Those workers are not getting paid and will not likely get back pay either
zahavasdadParticipantI saw a Story of Berel Wein. Berel Like to Jog and one morning he was jogging wearing Jogging clothes and he saw Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach. he was embarassed because of the way he looked and Rav Sholmo Zalman said to him NU your health is important too
zahavasdadParticipantA gym for men only loses half the population as potential customers and honestly alot of frum men do not work out so you would need non-jews to join in order to turn a profit.
Your best bet is a normal GYM with some seperate off peak hours, that might work
zahavasdadParticipantThe BJP in India which is the Hindu party is actually good friends with Israel
January 11, 2019 1:16 pm at 1:16 pm in reply to: Yeshiva Fundrasing using Cigar Rolling and Wine Tasting #1661038zahavasdadParticipant
I heard the next Yeshiva, to make an even bigger splash and get even more donor attention, will be having their annual dinner in Vegas at a top rated venue.Nothing wrong with that , In fact the las Vegas community is one of the fatest growing in the US
There is even a Kollel there (The Las Vegas Kollel)
January 11, 2019 10:53 am at 10:53 am in reply to: Yeshiva Fundrasing using Cigar Rolling and Wine Tasting #1661004zahavasdadParticipantYeshivos shouldn’t be promoting nivul birshus haTorah. It’s a crying shame that our society has deteriorated to the extent that this yeshiva (and at least one other that I know of) feels it can only successfully raise funds by appealing to the nefesh habehamis, but they need to resist the urge and not give their haskama to the rampant pursuit of extreme gashmius which has pervaded increasingly growing parts of frum society.
There are many yeshivos vying to the same dollar, in order to get your, you need to stick out a bit, especially if you want to attract people who do not know your yeshiva
January 8, 2019 3:32 pm at 3:32 pm in reply to: Should Jews Move To Eretz Yisroel In 2020 Or 2024? #1658969zahavasdadParticipantOne should move to Israel in the year 5779 if you can
zahavasdadParticipantWould Rag Chaim Kanievsky go on a cruise? There’s the answer.
Would Rav Chaim Fly outside of Eretz Yisroel?
zahavasdadParticipantI only trust the $K
Its the best Hechsher money can buy
December 27, 2018 4:48 pm at 4:48 pm in reply to: HELP – How Do I Stop Getting The Piece Of Trash Lehovin Newspaper? #1653163zahavasdadParticipantWhile I never heard of this newspaper, just put a sign on your front door saying NO NEWSPAPERS, OR FLYERS
It then makes it against the law for anyone to put a newspaper or flyer on your property, I think its a $100 fine per infraction (This is a NYC law)
December 27, 2018 3:47 pm at 3:47 pm in reply to: HELP – How Do I Stop Getting The Piece Of Trash Lehovin Newspaper? #1653117zahavasdadParticipantWhat is Lehovin ? never heard of it
zahavasdadParticipantIf the democratic house impeaches Trump , he is still President, The case then goes to the GOP led Senate where 2/3 of the Senators must vote to remove him from office. It has never been done, Only Andrew Johnson came close, He missed being removed from office by 1 vote.
Bill Clinton was impeached, but the Senate never had any votes to remove him from office
zahavasdadParticipantClearly the last election was a vote against trump, The GOP did terrible and the only reason it wasnt worse is because the seats were Gerrymandered to favor the GOP and they still lost 40 seats (and could lose another one in NC)
It is not becoming of a President to be a Twitter Troll. Its one thing if I call somone a loser on Twitter, its quite another if the President does so
December 20, 2018 10:23 am at 10:23 am in reply to: OU Missing In Action Over Yeshiva Issue #1648475zahavasdadParticipantFelder is powerless now, because he caucused with the GOP and the GOP lost the NYC Senate (and Many Democrats were angry with him for doing so) they are going to punish him come January
December 17, 2018 2:16 pm at 2:16 pm in reply to: Let’s Register Our Children To Public School #1646062zahavasdadParticipantDred Scott was a federal law, The Blaine Amendment is a state law, the Supreme court has no juristiction over State laws. there is nothing in the constitution that says any schools should get public funds, thats a New York State Constitution item
BTW like 30-40 states have blaine amendments
December 17, 2018 1:22 pm at 1:22 pm in reply to: Let’s Register Our Children To Public School #1646038zahavasdadParticipantThe Blaine amendment is over 125 years old, its been challenged and held up. It was actually passed because of nothing to do with jews. it was passed as anti-catholism and anti-Irish to prevent money from going to catholic schools
Sabotaging the Public school system by registering kids and not sending them, will for sure bring down people against you, even those sympathetic to your cause
zahavasdadParticipantI belive the founder of Lev Tahor wasnt even jewish himself
zahavasdadParticipantAn even bigger miracle is the Oil from the Wok will last for 8 days
December 4, 2018 11:25 am at 11:25 am in reply to: Are students allowed to be thrown out of school? Mesivta/ high school #1636844zahavasdadParticipantLegally they are allowed, the question is should they be allowed
Just my personal take , it should not be allowed unless the offender can do serious PHYSICAL harm to the other bochrim like violence or drugs. Most of the offenses bochrim are thrown out for are really minor and the yeshiva is wrong
December 3, 2018 9:30 pm at 9:30 pm in reply to: The Anti-Vaxxers are Causing a Chillul Hashem #1636579zahavasdadParticipantRav Shmuel Kaminetsly has said vaccinations are a scam in 2014 and in the alst few weeks his rebitzen has re-interated those comments
December 3, 2018 1:08 pm at 1:08 pm in reply to: The Anti-Vaxxers are Causing a Chillul Hashem #1635938zahavasdadParticipantJust please tell me what “RELIGIOUS” right you have to not to vaccinate, What Psak do you have and from who?
December 3, 2018 10:58 am at 10:58 am in reply to: Applesauce on latkes is better than sour cream: Prove me wrong. #1635786zahavasdadParticipantPersonally I like Greek Yougurt on my Latkes
Is there anything better than that?
November 28, 2018 1:16 pm at 1:16 pm in reply to: The Anti-Vaxxers are Causing a Chillul Hashem #1632423zahavasdadParticipantIt amazes me there are Asifas, Kol Koreah, TAG etc on smartphones, but none of this on Vaccines. No you cannot convience everyone to vaccinate, but having such events makes it clear that opposition is not tolerated
November 28, 2018 11:34 am at 11:34 am in reply to: The Anti-Vaxxers are Causing a Chillul Hashem #1632286zahavasdadParticipantFrom the Weekly Standard
Anti-Vaxxers Are Hurting Religious Freedom Now
A hundred years ago, the Spanish flu killed an estimated 20 million to 50 million people. Consider that World War I, which immediately preceded the pandemic, had just taken a toll of another 16 million lives. But aside from some supportive therapy of rest and hydration, there was scant little to do to treat and stem the tide of this rapidly spreading infection.
Today, with a simple jab of a needle, we have the ability to possibly prevent the flu. Historically speaking, that’s a phenomenal achievement. True, the vaccine isn’t 100 percent effective. Sometimes it is not even not even 50 percent effective. But imagine what a parent in 1919 would have given to be able to give their child even an additional 10 percent chance of survival.
The vaccine revolution is one of our greatest scientific and medical achievements. We are now able to prevent death and diseases that plagued humanity for centuries without mercy. And yet today, we are witnessing our society become victims of our success. With so many of these diseases virtually—but not completely—eradicated, a small minority seems to think that vaccines harm more than they help.
Let’s be clear: The anti-vaxxer view is complete nonsense. Hundreds of studies from all over the world have established the safety profile of vaccines. There is absolutely no link to autism, despite how many times this myth is repeated. Vaccines don’t stunt growth or cause food allergies. Every professional medical association on the planet testifies to their safety and advocates for their usage. And now in addition to the health risks created by anti-vaxxers, they’re creating a public policy risk, too.
Many vaccines are most effective when administered early in life and it’s one of the reasons school districts require them as a condition of admission.
Anti-vaxxers want out of these requirements, but they are hard to come by. Exemptions exist for children who, for valid medical reasons, can’t be vaccinated. But “I read bad stuff on the internet” isn’t a valid medical reason. And so some anti-vaxxers are now trying to shield themselves behind “religious exemptions” to vaccinations.
The idea behind religious exemptions is that while we as a society advocate, encourage, and support vaccination, we value individual liberty even more. Practically speaking, it means that if your particular religion opposes vaccination—meaning that getting a vaccine would violate the tenets of your faith—then society will not force them upon you, and still allow your children to enter the public schools. The (entirely sensible) reason for the religious exception is that religious freedom occupies a special place in American law and political philosophy. It is right that it should exist.
The problem is that this “religious exemption” waiver is being used as a catch-all excuse for people whose objections to vaccination are based on medical illiteracy, not religious conviction.
Obtaining a religious exemption can be easier than you might expect. In many places, parents simply declare in front of the board of education (or health) that immunization requirements violate their religious sensibilities. As public institutions, these boards cannot, do not, and should not make any determination as to the religious content of the parents’ declaration. They therefore grant the exemption to nearly anybody who asks for one.
At least that’s how it is in the public schools. It’s different for parochial and religious schools.
When parents submit a “religious exemption” they are stating that their religion prohibits vaccinations and it’s precisely on religious tolerance grounds that the exemption was granted. So for example, you get Jewish parents enrolling their kids in a yeshivah together with their “religious exemption.”
The problem is that Judaism doesn’t actually oppose vaccinations. But unlike public institutions, yeshivas, Catholic schools, and madrassas, are free to—and should—define the terms and boundaries of the religious instruction they provide.
Modern day Jewish law is complicated. Unlike Catholicism, there is no centralized body determining normative practice. Instead, there is a generally accepted hierarchy of rabbinic decisors, but ultimately, each rabbi is left to navigate these challenges in forging a path forward while embracing and being subject to a rich rabbinic tradition. But even within all of that diversity, the vast overwhelming consensus of rabbinic opinion is that Jewish religious law not only permits, but actually demands and requires vaccinations. And while a fringe minority opinion argues that vaccinations aren’t a religious obligation, there is absolutely no rabbinic opinion arguing that they are forbidden.
Meaning, that while we can argue about whether or not you have to, nobody says that you aren’t allowed to.
So when a parent submits a “religious exemption” to a Jewish school, they are effectively stating that they aren’t practicing Judaism, but some other flavor of belief that they concocted on their own.
This isn’t a particularly Jewish problem. It’s happening in Catholic schools, too. (There are virtually no organized religions that prohibit vaccinations.)
There is, of course, a problem: The governmental agencies that provide for religious exemptions are not able to, and frankly, shouldn’t be in the business of determining what constitutes an “authentic” religious belief. Religious and parochial schools though, do and should have an opinion about the religion that they are teaching. A yeshivah or Catholic school has a right to define guidelines and parameters of accepted Jewish beliefs and practices necessary for admission.
It’s therefore not only within the yeshivah’s right to reject such a student, it must do so to maintain the integrity of their Tradition, fealty to Jewish law, and responsibility to the rest of the student body.
It’s true, that this is only a band-aid for a small percentage of our country’s schools. It doesn’t address the broader problem nor broach the larger issue of balancing religious tolerance and public health. But it’s a start.
Anti-vaxxers will argue that unvaccinated children don’t immediate risks—but only theoretical, epidemiological risks. But think about it this way: If a child brought a gun to school that was loaded only with blanks, that gun would pose no risk to others. But you can’t let every child bring a gun to school because, eventually, one of them won’t be loaded with blanks. It will have real bullets. And the only way for most of us to distinguish between blanks and actual bullets is after we’ve been hit.
But there’s another risk here, too. By willfully conflating political opinions with religious beliefs, anti-vaxxers who seek religious exemptions are weakening everyone else’s religious freedom protections. This lunacy puts both our civic health and our physical health at risk. And it ought not to be condoned.
November 22, 2018 11:57 am at 11:57 am in reply to: Is it Mutar to celebrate Thanksgiving?!?!?!?!?!?! #1629087zahavasdadParticipantThe term “Chukas Hagoyim” is definatly an abused term.
zahavasdadParticipantIf you dont want to take El Al to Israel, there is always Luftsansa, with a change in Oswiecim, I hear there is a nice camp there
November 20, 2018 8:40 pm at 8:40 pm in reply to: Being Meticulus when it comes to Flying like one is when it comes to Kashruth #1627854zahavasdadParticipantOne option that really needs to to be improved on YWN is the ability to fix a typo after you made the post, I would have fixed the spelling awhile ago if there was that option
November 20, 2018 4:17 pm at 4:17 pm in reply to: Being Meticulus when it comes to Flying like one is when it comes to Kashruth #1627730zahavasdadParticipantThere were actually 2 flights re-routed because of the weather delays, the One that went to Athens has gotten more press, but there was also one that got re-routed to Rome
November 20, 2018 11:04 am at 11:04 am in reply to: Being Meticulus when it comes to Flying like one is when it comes to Kashruth #1626842zahavasdadParticipantSY
The reason I feel different on this is because its a very public issue, Most Averiahs are really between you and hashem, maybe a few people will see you do the Averiah, However this is a major public thing
El Al is under air traffic rules, I wasnt on the plane so I dont know what happend, but I do know El Al cannot just do what they want, I have seen people ask why werent people let off the plane after it left the terminal (But did not taxi) thats because the TSA does not allow a plane to disembark so easily to secureity.
The governments of Greece and Italy are under no law requiring them to all the plane to land at their airports, maybe they dont have space. Kudos for Greek Chabad for making 120 meals, but that is not so easy , especially in Greece where Kosher food might be scarce (There is a bigger community in Rome so it would be less of an issue there than Athens)
And it just is all public, It makes the news especially since there was Chaos in NYC on Thursday due to the weather, there whole area was crippled, most people understand the airports arent the first concern (Some kids took 8 hours to get home from school) . Use your Sechel especially if you suspect there might be a problem. Change your flight
November 20, 2018 10:07 am at 10:07 am in reply to: Being Meticulus when it comes to Flying like one is when it comes to Kashruth #1626726zahavasdadParticipantWe have many gedarim to prevent potential averiahs like Yichud or filters on smart phones, yet people are willing to risk Chilul Shabbos because they want a cheap airline ticket
November 19, 2018 3:20 pm at 3:20 pm in reply to: Being Meticulus when it comes to Flying like one is when it comes to Kashruth #1626254zahavasdadParticipantMy last 2 international flights I was delayed for 6 hours and the second one I was then delayed another 2 in the destination airport trying to get a rental car. last time I went to israel I was stuck in traffic leaving Ben Gurion and it took 2 hours to get from Ben gurion to Tel Aviv
November 19, 2018 1:57 pm at 1:57 pm in reply to: Being Meticulus when it comes to Flying like one is when it comes to Kashruth #1626194zahavasdadParticipantSY
El Al is a business and has to make money, If people put do much demands on them they will not make money and go out of business, then people flying to Israel will be going on such airlines like Luftansa, Jordanian Air, Turkish Air, Ukranian air and all these other amazing airlines and Im sure if you tell the Flight Attendents on Luftansa about how you are going to land on Shabbos, Do you think they are going to give you a free hotel in Athens or Rome (The other flight was divereted to Rome) , No, if you are lucky they will give you a “nice camp ground” to visit
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