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September 14, 2011 7:35 pm at 7:35 pm in reply to: NOT TZNIUS "BUBBIES" (also some fish, honey, and vinegar) #1200227zahavasdadParticipant
And dont get me started on any kind of Herring Pickled, Schmaltz , cream or other
September 14, 2011 7:34 pm at 7:34 pm in reply to: NOT TZNIUS "BUBBIES" (also some fish, honey, and vinegar) #1200225zahavasdadParticipantI am picky when it comes to Fish, I love Sushi, but I cant stand Gefilte Fish, ESPECIALLY out of the Jar
September 14, 2011 7:17 pm at 7:17 pm in reply to: NOT TZNIUS "BUBBIES" (also some fish, honey, and vinegar) #1200220zahavasdadParticipantYou catch more flies with Honey rather than Vinegar
zahavasdadParticipantChalav Akum means it was milked by a Goy
Probably the Chalav Yisroel was milked by a machine too, the machine milks the cow very fast and easier than the traditional method
BTW this is one the reasons of Rav Moshe Heter, since the cow is not milked by a goy its not Chalav Akum
September 13, 2011 11:09 pm at 11:09 pm in reply to: Enforcing your Kasruth Chumras on others – Rant #809685zahavasdadParticipantThis was not an issue over Bais Yosef
zahavasdadParticipantThe truth is nobody milks a cow anymore
Its all done by a cow milking machine
September 13, 2011 9:00 pm at 9:00 pm in reply to: Enforcing your Kasruth Chumras on others – Rant #809680zahavasdadParticipantThe person knows the Hechscher and knows its realiable . Its just not up to “THEIR STANDARDS”
The place is well known as is the Hechsher
September 13, 2011 6:43 pm at 6:43 pm in reply to: Enforcing your Kasruth Chumras on others – Rant #809674zahavasdadParticipantBite the bullet refers to during the Civil war and soliders were injured, the main surgery done was amputation.
They did not have anthesthia so the victims were giving a bullet to bite on while their limb was amputated
September 13, 2011 5:33 pm at 5:33 pm in reply to: Enforcing your Kasruth Chumras on others – Rant #809662zahavasdadParticipantNot sure what you are trying to say Mod-80
But for me to enjoy my simcha is for others to enjoy it , Ive seen people not eat be bored and waiting until they can leave as soon as possible.
I will enjoy watching them eat, I will enjoy watching the cake being eaten, I will enjoy the kids scamble for the candy.
Maybe some dont understand this, but to me Simcha means HAPPY (it is a HAPPY event and people should be happy and enjoy themselves)
Eating is a enjoyable event
September 13, 2011 5:20 pm at 5:20 pm in reply to: Enforcing your Kasruth Chumras on others – Rant #809658zahavasdadParticipantits sort of their Simcha as well (Its my Simcha that I am paying, but its for someone close enough to them that its partly their simcha too that they should attend) so of course they are coming
What they usually do I think is go to the Affair, but dont eat (But the Baal Simcha still has to pay for the meal)
I do not want someone to come to my Affair and not eat, Its not fair to the Baal Simcha who has to pay, its not fair to the kids who have to smell the yummy food, See the candy and Cake and not Eat , Its not fair to the other guests who see someone not eating (This person is close enough that it WOULD be obvious) nobody like to be at a simcha and see someone not enjoying themselves and eating is part of that enjoyment.
zahavasdadParticipantWeprin Lives in Queens and has lived there all his life
He just doesnt live in the 9th CD (He lives just outside it, which is legal in NY) but its only a few blocks
September 13, 2011 3:28 pm at 3:28 pm in reply to: I need advice on how to handle this please #810139zahavasdadParticipantWhen did working become an Aveira
zahavasdadParticipantThe #1 Issue is Israel and people are claiming Weprin is Anti-Israel which is not true
zahavasdadParticipantI was bombarded with Mail and phone calls, I got at least 10 yesterday
And I voted for Weprin
zahavasdadParticipantBuddaism came from Hinduism over the issue of re-incarnation , They both belive you are re-incarnated in the next life based on your actions in this life, the difference was what was the final re-incarnation, The Final re-incarnation is almost impossible to get to in Hinduism than it is in Buddaism
They do NOT worship the Buddah, they sort of treat it as a icon like the catholics do who do not think their statues are actual gods.
However they do think the statue is GOOD LUCK much like the Catholics think their icons are good luck.
Some feel its good to rub the Buddah for good luck and Ive seen Catholics rub the feet of their icon for good luck.
Would you make fun of a Catholic who had an icon?
Treat the Buddah as you would as Catholic icon.
zahavasdadParticipantMy boss does not like hiring frum people either because what if he has to fire them (It really happend, I suggested someone for a job and he deserved to get fired)
If he has to fire someone, he would rather fire a puerto rican than a jew (We are talking about someone who deserved to be fired, which this individual deserverd to be)
zahavasdadParticipantThat was security at Lod not El-Al , If you were flying Luftansa you would have gotten the same treatment.
I dont know why you were given that treatment, but FYI rechargeable batteries (like in a Laptop , iPod or Cell phone) are considered Hazmat (I occasionally export items and have this issue)
Last time I went to Israel , I flew Air France and there was a Muslim family in another line, Israel Security went through their entire luggage checking everything. (They were going in my plane so I was happy)
zahavasdadParticipantIts a shame that many times its ALOT cheaper to go to Israel on Luftansa AND you get mileage credit on united than El Al ( El Al Miles are only good on El AL , Luftanasa are good on Luftanasa, United , Air Canada , Continental , US Air and more). AND its usually $500 or more less (Ill save that and the miles for a layover in Frankfort)
zahavasdadParticipantIn the airline meal, there was a letter from the Restaurant in Frankfort telling you exactly where to go to buy the food.
Either alot of jews go to Frankfort or alot transfer planes there (Its the largest Airport in Europe)
zahavasdadParticipantBecause its easier to give advice than take it
zahavasdadParticipantMy friend is not the only such person I have met, only the closest I have known.
And they all did say something similar and this should be chizuk for all.
Real or perceived hypocracy. I know it hard to admit they might be right here, but sometimes they are.
zahavasdadParticipantI do not think Science and the Torah really clash, the clash is actually articifical.
While I belive in Torah Umaddah, One could easily say Scientific discoveries are in the torah, but where there are is not found. Is the City of New York in the Torah, I dont know (It obviously did not exist in the time of the Gemorah and the continent of North America was not known). Is the planets of Uranus and Neptune (I am leaving the argument of Pluto out of this) in the torah, Rabbanim were not looking for Uranus and Neptune so they never found them (You need a Telescope to see them.
While some might consider this Kefira, Is the Big Bang Theory so differnt than creation. A Big Bang formed the universe, Science does not actually say what caused the big bang (They Postulate) but one could easily say Hashem caused the Big Bang .
Just because it was discovered by a Scientist instead of a Rov doesnt mean its incompatible with Torah.
zahavasdadParticipantThe word Vandalism comes from the Vandals who sacked Rome “Vandalized” it in 410
zahavasdadParticipantHe was one of the greatest generals in world history. The Huns had one of the largest empires in world history and they traveled by HORSE .
He was given a bad rap because he was asian.
zahavasdadParticipantI dont think you are allowed to say Ymach Schmo to Jerry Springer, You are not allowed to say that about a jew
zahavasdadParticipantHe is getting divorced over this issue and the Kid who is going into elementary school will be living with the mother.
The kid will be seeing his father and I am sure the father will take him places (The kid already knows his father doesnt belive in god)
zahavasdadParticipantThe Kid is 6-7 and I dont really know the kid and doesnt live in my neighborhood (My friend doesnt live in my neighborhood anymore either)
The kid does not live with my friend anymore
zahavasdadParticipantActually I joked about the Cholestoral
But seriously there is a Kid involved here and the kid is attending Yeshiva
zahavasdadParticipantzahavasdadParticipantI doubt I could plan anyones here trip
What interests me might not interest others.
Truth be told my favorite thing in Italy was seeing Michangelo artwork especially David. I am not sure others here would want to see Michaelangelo’s David. It was the most amazing statue I ever saw.
zahavasdadParticipantJMO, Any city that has had the zchus of Daily or weekly Minyanim for over 2000 years consequtively has some kedusha.
Other than Tunis, I cant think of any other city that has had so many consequtive minyanim
(I dont know if there was Minyanim every week during WW II)
I do know that the Emperor Hadrian banned jews from Jerusalem and renamed the city Aeola Capitola so Jerusalem does not fit the bill
I dont think there are any jews in Falluja (Pumpeditha) anymore
zahavasdadParticipantYou can walk under the Arch of Titus, I did
The Arch of Arch of Septimius Severus I was not able to get that close
You cant walk under the Arch of Constantine either , Its fenced around.
The arch of titus is in the Roman Forum , The whole area is a ruin anyway, Its an archelogical dig area. It sort of feels like almost being in an area that was bombed.
There are Fascades to Roman Temples there like the Temple of Saturn, but its only the Fascade its like a homage to a lost civilization.
zahavasdadParticipantThe Me’am Lo’ez was born to a Crete Family
At the Time there was no Italy and it was a bunch of City States and Crete was part of Venice.
Italy did not become a country until 1870.
IMO there is not likely any other country with such a jewish history as Italy. While other places have had stronger jewish presence and stronger jewish personalities, few other places have had such a long and continous presence as Rome and Italy.
While the Romans did destroy the Bais Hamigdosh and Hadrian removed all jewish character from Jerusalem making it a roman city Aeola Capitala, In Rome itself jews were relatively free and many had the same rights as an ordinary Roman citizen.
While jews were kicked out of many countries (inclding Naples and Scicily) they were allowed to live in Rome and Venice
zahavasdadParticipantThe other important skill rabbis need is public speaking.
I have heard rav’s with the Torah but not the ability to protray that torah to an audience.
I realize many Charedim dont really care how the Godol speaks and is just happy to be there, but it is really important to know how to speak in front of people.
I have heard Gedolim speak and they speak softly in monotone and many times in Yiddish (To an audience that likely speaks english) and they also speak in code and it takes someone to explain to you what they really mean.
Alot more can be protrayed if a speaker speaks in differnt tones, speaking clear and consice english (assuming a mostly english speaking crowd) and let everyone understand what they are saying.
zahavasdadParticipantI met a woman in the Ghetto who ran a small Souviener shop.
Unfortunatly she only spoke Italian and did not understand english, Hebrew or Spanish (I can speak some Spanish)
But from I did gather when the Nazis came and deported the jews somehow she was hidden , somehow I think she was hidden.
I do think she saw many brutal acts as a child.
She was not too keen about talking about it and the language barrier was great, but she did have a story to tell.
zahavasdadParticipantIf you visit the Vatican Museum you dont need to go to the Sistine Chapel, Right before you hit it you can turn around and go back. You are not forced to go in the Sistine Chapel.
There was supposedly a large jewish exhibit in the vatican museum, but I did not see it.
I had a Money Belt so there was no way I was going to get Pick Pocketed. You would have to tackle me to get it. I rode the subway there no problem. There were a few scammers in the train station so keep your eye out for your luggage (I took the train from Rome to Venice. Its 400 Miles and it took less than 4 hours)
Frankly just walking through Rome is Fascinating, there are many old things to look at, There is a lot of Archeological digs going on.
Italy is very proud of its jewish heritage unlike other European countries and they encourage you to visit the jewish sites (The Arch of Titus is considered by the Authorities to be a Jewish Site)
zahavasdadParticipantIts not about Middos
You need to know how to talk to people, you catch alot more flies with honey than vinegar.
People talk their rabbis like psychologists and Rabbis need to know how to handle it. Its not only about Halacha.
What does a rabbi do if someone comes to them and says they dont love their spouse anymore. You really need to know how to handle this properly
zahavasdadParticipantHow about stuff like Public Speaking, Its very important to know how to speak in front of people.
A Sharp tounge is well known among many, but if you are a Pulpit rabbi having a sharp tounge is not really a good idea as the damage may be greater than the good. A proper psychological training will train a rabbi not to give the damaging sharp tounge and proper speaking to such a person
zahavasdadParticipantI was in Italy for 8 days
I went to Rome, Florence and Venice.
Venice is truly Spectuacular
There is a Kosher Restaurant in Venice called Gam Gam where they have tables right on the Canal.
To see Florence you have to appreciate Art. I truly loved seeing Michaelangelo pieces, but I am not sure if others would appreciate it.
Everyone can appreciate Venice
zahavasdadParticipantI took a guided tour of the Collesseum and the guide told us
The Colloseum was build with the stolen stuff from the Bais Hamigdosh
Vespesian wanted to united the Roman People as he had just become emporer and used the Colleseum to get people on his side
zahavasdadParticipantI was just there and Italy was totally awesome
Here is what to see
Colosseum
Arch of Titus (Roman Forum) You can see a relief of the Menorah from the Bais Hamigdosh
Jewish Ghetto – Oldest Diasporah Jewish Community and great real Italian Food (Its all restaurants now)
Trevi Fountain
Spanish Steps
Vatican Museum (Its NOT a church)
zahavasdadParticipantThe reason many rabbis have degrees is not as a backup but because today many rabbis are unnoficially expected to fill other roles like a Marriage counselor Psychologist and more
September 7, 2011 4:29 pm at 4:29 pm in reply to: Does Anyone Else Find This Short Story Disturbing? #840718zahavasdadParticipantOn a side note, I was in Venice and the chabad people there are really great.
Because there isnt much of a jewish community in Venice anymore BUT there is a large tourist transiant community there, they have a very active Chabad there
Not only do they make meals on Shabbos for ALOT of people (I was not there on Shabbos) they act as unoffical tour guides for the Historic Venice Ghetto, Not only are they asking people to put on Teffillin, they give tourist tips as well
September 7, 2011 4:08 pm at 4:08 pm in reply to: Does Anyone Else Find This Short Story Disturbing? #840715zahavasdadParticipantI was in London (Golders Green) 12 years ago and I can vouch for the people inviting strangers over
Ive never seen anything like that in any other community
zahavasdadParticipantUnfortunatly I know someone like that
zahavasdadParticipantThe person who works.
If you have a hard Gemorah and you try and try to understand it and you FAIL, you still get Schar.
If somone give you a hard job and you try and try to do it and you FAIL, you get fired.
Hashem is a lot more forgiving than your fellow man
zahavasdadParticipantIt would seem to me you could do alot more arveros with a Phone than you could with a car
zahavasdadParticipantIt seems to be a minhag that they uphold because “my mother din’t drive and her mother didn’t either….
My ancestors didnt use electricity or phones either
zahavasdadParticipanthappiest has posted information about herself that I am fairly certainly most would agree its best for her to go to the hospital if she needs too ASAP.
I think this is an example where a very specific PSAK would be needed.
September 2, 2011 6:25 pm at 6:25 pm in reply to: College Professor Mocking Yiddishkeit/ Torah #805169zahavasdadParticipantIf it bothers you so much, dont take classes where it could happen
take stuff like Mathmatics where philosophic ideas are never discussed and only the math is discussed
(I NEVER had a math professor talk about anything except MATH)
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