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December 26, 2011 2:40 am at 2:40 am in reply to: Increase in OTD Children… are made to feel like second-class citizens, #839715zahavasdadParticipant
Actually a better example would be yeshivas who dont let kids in who dont keep Chalav Yisroel
zahavasdadParticipantI dont totally understand the dispute
But it has to do with a School in Beit Shemesh.
December 23, 2011 1:12 pm at 1:12 pm in reply to: Does anyone know about a medrash that talks of Adam HaRishon and the solstice? #837508zahavasdadParticipantI dont know all the details, but I do know this Adam though he was punished as the days got shorter, On December 21 He saw the days started to get longer again and realized he was forgiven.
He then celebrated December 21 as a holiday, It became an avodah zorah holiday celebrated for a week
Fast forward a few thousand years. followers of a new persecuted religion wanted to celebrate the birth of their savior which was forbidden in Rome.
As Romans were celebrating the december 21st holiday which actually lasted about a week, The followers of the savior decided to celebrate the birth at the same time. The normal Romans would think they were just celebrating solistice and not think anything of it.
So actually December 25 is actually related to Adom Harishon
December 22, 2011 7:37 pm at 7:37 pm in reply to: A recap of tragedies of 2011…..The list goes on and on… #837871zahavasdadParticipantthank your brother for letting me celebrate his birthday and Bris with days off from work
zahavasdadParticipant<em As far as tweens going to shul, there are plenty of 10, 11 and 12 year old kids who go to shul on Shabbos with their fathers and spend there time out in the hall playing games. These kids need to learn to sit with their fathers and daven, not just go to shul.
So What I see plenty of Men 20’s,30’s,40’s,50’s who go to shul on Shabbos and talk to everyone about everything except davening and they talk to them IN SHUL
At least the kids go outside
zahavasdadParticipantDont EVER force people kids to go to Shul, they will hate it and usually find out ways to avoid it when they are old enough to do so.
Why do you think there is a candy man in shul and not a Malkos man in shul
December 22, 2011 4:57 pm at 4:57 pm in reply to: A recap of tragedies of 2011…..The list goes on and on… #837868zahavasdadParticipantjan 1 actually symbolizes nothing and the year 2011 also symbolizes nothing
According to the NT he was born in the spring around passover time during the reign of Herod. Herod died in the year 4 BCE
So he was not born on December 25, Did not have a Bris on Jan 1 and was not born in the year 1
zahavasdadParticipantAlso from the Wikipedia you quoted
By an interesting coincidence, this folk-melody was also the first utilized by (Martin) Luther for his German chorales. He set it to his “Nun freut euch lieben Christen gmein <em/>
<b> Which is forbidden according to many Poskim. See Mishna Berura and Biur Halacha on 154:11 </b>
Obviously its allowed since almost all of us use that tune
zahavasdadParticipantIts called Siamese twins the old way and Conjoined twins the new way
zahavasdadParticipantGoogle and Wikipedia are your friend
Martin Luther also used the tune for many of his Hymns
zahavasdadParticipantThe Lubavichers sing the Napoleon March (La Marsailles) as a “chassdic Niggun”
I heard one sing it once and I asked him why he was singing the French National Anthem and he said it was a “Lubavicher Tune”
zahavasdadParticipantThere is nothing wrong from the source of the tune, A germanic Hymn tune was made into something Kadosh, its really no different than taking a church and making it into a shul
zahavasdadParticipantMoaz Tsur is a Old Germanic Church Music (The Most commonly used tune)
zahavasdadParticipantThe X in Xmas is not really an X, its really the Greek letter Kai which means our savior in Greek
Those who say xmas instead of christmas are mistaken because they are the same thing.
If you dont want to say that, then say December 25th
zahavasdadParticipantJust because something was done in the past, doesnt mean it should be done now
In the past a 13 year old boy could marry a 12 year old girl.
And I met about 15 years ago a woman from somewhere in the former soviet union who told us she was married at 15 1/2 (She was married in her country at 15 1/2, She came here after it was legal)
zahavasdadParticipant<em > talking like goyim
Last I checked we are all speaking ENGLISH here (And I belive some poskim do forbid speaking of English in E”Y)
zahavasdadParticipantActually I sort of sympathize with Health, however I also know people who were rejected and kicked out of more Charedi Schools.
And i suspect the more charedi school reject even more students than the MO.
zahavasdadParticipantThe Beacon is not a publication of YU, It was run by a bunch of student orginally it had gotten student funds, but it does not.
An Anti-religious person might attend YU because he is anti-religious NOT Anti-Jewish and might want to learn about jewish traditions and spend college time with his fellow tribesman.
Besides YU has an excellent reputation so you can attend and still get into the top law and medical schools
zahavasdadParticipantActually my Great Grandmother and Great Grandfather were cousins, but that was a different time
Today most would not do it
zahavasdadParticipantIf one is doing the Mitzvah of Persuma Nissa, it is NOT Bittul Torah
zahavasdadParticipantThese “jokes” should be banned.
A Joke is supposed to be FUNNY
zahavasdadParticipantFYI YBC not all the Holiday songs on the Radio are christmas songs, The Adam Sandler hannukah Song is played almost as much as Santa Claus is coming to town
I dont know if they play Matisyahu Miracle on the radio alot..
zahavasdadParticipantI just found the video on youtube and there was nothing wrong with it.
What about the Persume Nissa. Imagine a secular jew watching this , and the only holiday songs he knows are related to christmas and now he sees a bunch of jewish boys singing about Chanukah.
Now he feels good about lighting the Menorah and maybe doesnt put up his Chanukah Bush this year.
If one person did not put up a Chanukah Bush beause of this appearence it was One thousand times persume nissa than a Menorah on 13th Ave
zahavasdadParticipantIn past generations and among many Chassidim today marrying your cousin was considered optimum and the best choice.
In the last 50 years or so, Marrying your cousin is almost considered incest, people are almost disgusted by the whole idea of cousins marrying (1st cousins marrying in New York IS Legal).
Most people are so repelled by the idea.
zahavasdadParticipantWould Mir accept a Frei Student who espouses no desire to be frum, but wants a jewish education
zahavasdadParticipantFYI Phishing means using an e-mail from say Citibank telling you to “update” your personal information , you are sent to a website where the thieves steal your personal information like Social Security Numbers
December 15, 2011 6:46 pm at 6:46 pm in reply to: Aside from Michael Savage does anyone else see that there is something wrong wit #837386zahavasdadParticipantFor you Michael Savage fans, Do you also agree with his Sharia Statement?
zahavasdadParticipantCalories DO count on Shabbos
zahavasdadParticipantit is extremely hard to make a parnossa in the jewish Music sector
Yes Avaraham Fried does, but I think thats because he does weddings and Bar Mitzvahs because thats where the easiest money is
I know someone fairly big in this sector and he told me most of his concerts he does are “Benefits” meaning the promotor expects him to do it for free or much cheaper. Look at Fried, Lipa & MBD most if not all you see are Benefits and not For-Profit concerts.
Look what happend to Lipa Schmeltzer and the Big event. You have these issues as well
How many CD’s do you think these guys sell.
At some point Matisyahu realized there was just not enough business in the solely jewish. His Youth Album sold more than 600,000 copies. If you add up all the Fried, MBD, Lipa, etc COMBINED it does not equal anywhere near that. He had to leave his J-Dub label because they could not handle the volume
He is playing a weeks worth of concerts next week in Brooklyn at larger venues than Fried could get. and I dont think Fried can play often on a Tuesday Night and get paying customers.
zahavasdadParticipantThe Doorman is a differnt than most, because they help you in ways most people dont, like taking in your packages from UPS etc
A proper tip of a doorman will ensure he will go out for you in the coming year, Its expected as part of the job you will tip.
Many of these other positions, they LIKE tips, but arent nessasarily expected
December 14, 2011 7:50 pm at 7:50 pm in reply to: Serving Alcohol To Bochurim And Sem Girls And Kids #835362zahavasdadParticipantI do not serve Alcohol to anyone under 21 (Or at least if I think they are under 21) UNLESS either their parent (or grandparent) is looking right at me and says you can pour for them
And if they ask I tell them that they must have their parent tell me its OK
zahavasdadParticipantHe has put up a new picture of himself without the beard AND he IS wearing a kippah
zahavasdadParticipantHe is going to be on radio station WNYC at 2PM est today and discuss what his statement means
zahavasdadParticipantHe gave up Chabad a while ago, he was a Karliner recently
zahavasdadParticipantMusic is a personal taste, I personally like his music and dont really like Chazzanut (Frankly many dont, many times when a Chazzan will go in front of the Amud, I hear Groans – I am sure you have too)
He did NOT denounce his religiousity, He said he wasnt Chassidic anymore.
What makes me sad about this is maybe he couldnt be a singer and religious, Have we gone so chumarism that people are forced to make the wrong choices . People here have condemed him for his choice of career and music, but thats what he was given a gift of, If he is condemed in our community, He might leave (Dr Laura Left , Dave Draiman also left)
zahavasdadParticipantAnchovies are nasty, If you like Sardines you might like them otherwise they are nasty
zahavasdadParticipantYou dont know all the details.
If he left or was pushed out
zahavasdadParticipantIs this tip for a specific package or for xmas?
xmas tips are higher
zahavasdadParticipantOT Kinda sad on Matisyahu
zahavasdadParticipantThe building is pretty fancy. Are you friends with other residents?
Maybe ask them what they give
I have asked my neighbors if they “tip” the garbage man
zahavasdadParticipantThe new one is a cover of a Matisyahu song
zahavasdadParticipantGoq Kapusta is correct, you have basically told me where you live (The exact building)
zahavasdadParticipantNope not really only really speak English although I can convey a simple conversation in Hebrew and Spanish
zahavasdadParticipantSo what is the difference between Prust and Prizut
(I dont speak yiddish)
zahavasdadParticipantSo why is a Bat Mitzvah acceptable and a Simcha Bat not?
zahavasdadParticipantThe reality is the frum lifestyle is expensive between large families, Yeshiva Tuition, high cost of kosher food and the higher real estate costs in religious neighborhoods.
Jobs you will get with a college degree pay higher and the average college graduate makes about 25% higher than a non-graduate. While one could pursue manual labor in many cases the pay is lower.
zahavasdadParticipantCan someone tell me what Prust means?
zahavasdadParticipantBecause about 25% of Americans have a college degree, if you dont have one you are at a disadvantage.
It might be the Enterprise is the largest employer of college graduates, but if you are not a college graduate, they are not hiring you.
I do believe that a YU/Stern education is not really worth the $31K a year ($120K or more total) but an education from CUNY (Queens, Brooklyn, Hunter) is about $30K you will almost definatly get that back
zahavasdadParticipantMany companies will not hire unless you have a college degree, even if its a degree in philosophy.
its not about reveleance,its about getting a job or at least getting your foot in the door
zahavasdadParticipantThe reality is most people are not spending tens of thousands of dollars and 4-5 years (or more) of their life to learn about Comparitive religions, Philosophy , evolution , Freud , gender studies or other disciples that might be objective.
Almost everyone (And not just frum jews) are going to college to get a better job. You might have heard about the guy who caught a home run by Derek Jeter, he had $100,000 in College debt. One does not amass that kind of debt unless you think it will pay off.
Yeah I took an Anthropology course that the professor once brought in someone with questionable ideas and I took a yiddish literature course taught be a recontructionist rabbi (Almost everyone in the class was frum) It met some college requirement.
But those were the exception and for most people those classes are the exception as well
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