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yytzParticipant
You’re welcome! I think the exact source is I:17, but if you google the phrase you’ll go to a translation of Likutei Eitzot, which cites it.
yytzParticipantThe idea that Hashem loves every Jew is certainly expressed in some seforim. For example, see here in Likutei Moharan:
“God takes pride even in the most insignificant Jew, even in the sinners of Israel, so long as they go by the name Jew. There is a special pride which God takes in each individual Jew. One should therefore never despair of God’s help regardless of any wrong one may have done. God’s love for him will never cease, and he can still return to God.”
And here is something from Matanas Chelko, a commentary on Chovos Halevavos, making clear each person should believe Hashem loves him:
“Certainly, without strong trust in his father, that his father worries for him and loves him, he would never have jumped thereby placing himself in danger of falling to the floor. His trust in his father is so great that he jumps to his hands. Likewise, for a man’s trust in G-d, he must jump into the hands of G-d and trust in Him that He cares for him and loves him just like a father’s love for his child.”
January 12, 2017 3:25 am at 3:25 am in reply to: The #1 tragedy facing the Frum world in America is: #1209509yytzParticipantLU: Indeed!
On that note, I recently came across something interesting: the Rambam rules (in discussing what happens when one potential spouse wants to marry on condition of moving somewhere) that the couple should move to Eretz Yisrael, even if they are currently living in a place where most people are Yidden and the place they are moving in E”Y is majority goyim.
January 11, 2017 7:50 pm at 7:50 pm in reply to: The #1 tragedy facing the Frum world in America is: #1209489yytzParticipantNice idea. There are certainly many nice small-to-medium sized frum communities within a few hour drive of NY (Cleveland, Pittsburgh, Buffalo, Rochester, etc.). Housing is very inexpensive, people are friendly, life is less hectic, everyone davens at the same few shuls and people basically all get along.
But why not move to a small town in Israel instead? Then at least there are kosher restaurants…not to mention the opportunities for mitzvos that we can’t perform here.
yytzParticipantRambam also uses the term tikkun olam to improve or perfect society — here’s Chabad’s translation of Mishneh Torah Rotzeach uShmirat Nefesh – Chapter Two: “When a Jewish king desires to slay any of these murderers and the like – who are not liable for execution by the court – by virtue of his regal authority, in order to perfect society, he has the license.” This is consistent with a general use of the term to mean improve or perfect society.
The problem is not using the term tikkun olam to refer to improving society. The problem is what kind of improvements they have in mind (and the Reform idea that general efforts to reform society are the most important aspect of Judaism).
Sure, helping oppressed orphans and widows and crime victims, stopping human trafficking, giving employment training to unemployed people, etc. are are good things to do under the Torah and they improve society, so we could use the term tikkun olam for them as an informal matter. But of course we should oppose people using that term for promoting causes that are against the Torah, as some non-Orthodox do.
yytzParticipantAccording to the wiki page on Rav Tzadok he says something about the historical development of halacha (though it would have nothing to do with making halacha more liberal.) Maybe they’re just extrapolating from that to think that they can therefore “advance” halacha as they see fit?
I don’t know of any chassidus that permits rewriting halacha (aside from the issue of davening times, but I think that was a matter of custom or practice rather than psak). I also think most OO writers do not use chassidus to justify their ideas — maybe it is just one or two authors?
yytzParticipant“1) Do people actually affiliate themselves with OO?”
Yes, but the number of people is very low. If you look at the alumni page of YCT you’ll see they have placed people at a few shuls (usually small out of town shuls), though most of them end up with other jobs like at Hillels. Presumably at least some of the people at their shuls would consider themselves OO.
“2) Is it an obvious thing (like perhaps as someone would be able to tell who is Chassidish, Yeshivish, or MO based on appearance, shuls, or hashkafah)?”
Appearance: No. Shuls: only indication would be YCT rabbi (however, not all YCT rabbis are necessarily OO — see below). Hashkafa: see below.
“3) What’s the difference between MO and OO?”
MO means accepting traditional haskhafa and halacha 100% while being more open to university education, popular culture, involvement in modern society, perhaps even exploring the varying views in controversial areas such as Chazal and science, etc.
OO means affiliating with an Orthodox shul, having a mechitza, identifying as Orthodox, and yet being more flexible about certain things (such as Biblical criticism, women’s participation in shul, attitude toward non-Orthodox, etc.) Some individual OO rabbis have advocated or done very Reform-ish things, like saying you don’t have to say shelo asani isha.
Some OO are more or less the same as left-wing MO while some are like Conservative or Reform in their hashkafa (one, for example, claimed Moshiach will not necessarily be an actual person, chas v’shalom).
I actually know one YCT-ordained rabbi who is hashkafically and halachically totally MO, not OO, and who is accepted as an Orthodox rabbi by all the other Orthodox rabbis in town. Even within YCT there is a lot of variety.
January 7, 2017 11:59 pm at 11:59 pm in reply to: Mnemonic device to remember Joseph, Jacob, and Isaac #1207706yytzParticipantNot really a mnemonic, but here’s one way to think about it. The avos are in the order in the first line of the first bracha of the Shemonei Esrei – -Elokei Avraham, Elokei Yitzhak, Elokei Yaakov. Yaakov fights with an angel and then is renamed Israel, or he who fights with God. Yaakov/Israel is synonymous with the Jewish people because his children were each the head of one of the 12 tribes (except for his son Yosef, whose two children each were head of their own tribe.) Does that help at all! Hatzlacha!
yytzParticipantMany hold all unflavored beer is kosher without a hechsher. However, CRC says that beer from microbreweries needs a hechsher. This is confusing because I don’t know how small a company needs to be to be considered a microbrewery.
Star K says only flavored or home- or pub-brewed beer needs a hechsher. So according to them, even unflavored microbrews should be OK without hechshers.
I try to avoid unflavored microbrews if I see on the shelf that that same company also produces flavored beer with problematic or clearly treif ingredients (like grape juice or oysters — yes, such strange things exist) but that wouldn’t seem to be necessary per the Star K.
yytzParticipantWhy would the moderators allow a response like “Stupid question. Get a life?” What possible justification could there be for allowing that? It’s simply an insult.
That said, I doubt the patterns themselves have a meaning.
Black knitted kippas are interesting because they are found among all segments, from non-Orthodox to Charedi (even if velvet is the most common among the latter).
People should wear whatever they prefer. Very small ones should be avoided because there is an opinion that it should be identifiable as a headcovering from all angles.
yytzParticipantHashem can do anything. So of course He could answer prayers even if they are not really directed to Him. Billions of people are rural and isolated and have never heard of Hashem. It’s up to Him whether to have mercy on them and respond to their misplaced prayers.
yytzParticipantMay you be successful! As others have said, go at your own pace, so you don’t get burnt out. It takes time to become a ba’al teshuvah, especially when you’re living with your parents.
Studying the Kitzur can be a little overwhelming and misleading, since it doesn’t always match current practice and you might get the impression that it’s extremely difficult and complicated to be observant on a daily basis, while in reality it’s not hard once you’re used to, as you’ll see once you spend time around frum Jews. That’s not to say you shouldn’t study it. Just be careful not to get overwhelmed.
There are plenty of good things to read on websites like Chabad.org, Aish.com, and Simpletoremember.com.
As for books, there are a ton of good ones out there. I enjoy books by Rav Hirsch such as 19 Letters or Horeb, though you might find them a bit difficult to read in currently-available translations. Easily readable translations of chassidic sefarim such as the works of Rebbe Nachman of Breslov (one of my favorites, though I’m not exactly chassidic) are available to read online for free at sites like Azamra. In any case, hatzalacha with your transition!
yytzParticipantLouis Farrakhan did not actually endorse Trump. Actually, he wrote on his Facebook wall recently that a Trump presidency would make the country to go hell or some such nonsense.
Trump’s seeming encouragement of violence among his supporters is the main thing that troubles me (since there are certainly parallels with Mussolini’s blackshirts and Putin’s thugs). Building a wall with Mexico is actually a pretty reasonable security measure and administrative policy (Hillary was even for it at some point).
January 10, 2016 9:21 pm at 9:21 pm in reply to: Will there be Sephardi Chareidim in the next generation?? #1132983yytzParticipantWhy don’t you try to find a purely Sephardic charedi yeshivah/kollel? If you go to mainly Ashkenazi places you’ll find the Sephardim who are going in an Ashkenazi direction.
December 28, 2015 6:26 pm at 6:26 pm in reply to: MODERN ORTHODOXY: The Fundamental problems #1119113yytzParticipantPeople are assuming that MO and charedi are two completely separate, internally-homogenous things. But that’s not true at all. It’s more like a continuum, or many continuums on several issues. There are many people in the middle (like “frum but not yeshivish”) wouldn’t describe themselves as MO or charedi.
Even in Israel there are many moderate charedim, who work and have some secular education and interaction with the outside world. Likewise, there are many MO in the US and DL in Israel who are very frum and are influenced mainly by charedi rabbis, hashkafically and halachically.
People like to lump everyone into two categories, those with and without the black hats. But it’s not that simple.
December 25, 2015 5:14 pm at 5:14 pm in reply to: MODERN ORTHODOXY: The Fundamental problems #1119068yytzParticipantCharedi birthrate is probably higher than either DL or MO (though some MO and DL certainly have a lot of children), but this isn’t a mark of legitimacy.
Even if you argue that financial considerations are not a factor in whether to have another child, it’s hard to argue that mental health and psychological capacity should not be a consideration.
Some charedim may be having more children than they can psychologically handle (ie, having more children even though you’re already having nervous breakdowns or feel like you’re about to), just because it’s expected as a sociological matter in one’s community that each family has a large number of children.
Also note that before the 20th century, it’s very hard to find examples of gedolim having numerous children (even counting those who didn’t survive).
December 25, 2015 3:30 pm at 3:30 pm in reply to: MODERN ORTHODOXY: The Fundamental problems #1119064yytzParticipant“As far as those who won’t daven there anymore, it’s not that they’ve moved up, they’ve moved out of yiddishkeit entirely, that why they no longer daven.”
Not necessarily. Let’s say someone belongs to a shul with an OO rabbi with a non-kosher hashkafa. But the shul have an identity as Orthodox, there’s a mechitza, they daven with an Artscroll siddur, etc. Then the person moves for whatever reason to a new area, which like most areas, doesn’t have an OO shul (OO shuls are few and far between).
What do they do? Most of the time they will join whatever mainstream MO shul is available. At least on the surface, it will be closest to what they’re used to. And it will help them become more frum.
December 25, 2015 2:58 pm at 2:58 pm in reply to: MODERN ORTHODOXY: The Fundamental problems #1119062yytzParticipantModern Orthodoxy in practice today means holding by a variety of halachic opinions, both strict, lenient and middle of the road, while being charedi means nearly always following the strictest opinion, and getting stricter and stricter with time. Scour the Torah and it’s hard to find a source for always picking the strictest opinion and getting stricter with time.
But in practice it’s not true that all MO lean toward leniency and all charedim lean toward strictness. Privately a lot of charedim are not that strict, on matters that are not visible to others.
Emotion and devotion in tefilah is a very individual thing. I’ve seen MO who daven their heart out at length while many charedim daven as quickly as possible. Many MO nowadays, particularly but not only in Israel, are very influenced by chassidic or other mystical teachings that emphasize spirituality and a fervent approach to davening (and Torah study and mitzvos).
Popular culture is also a very individual thing. I know MO who don’t have a TV and don’t watch movies. It’s not unheard of among charedim to watch TV and movies and follow sports.
Open Orthodoxy is a pretty marginal phenomenon within Orthodoxy. It just gets a lot of press. Look at the placements on YCT’s website and you’ll see that their graduates are mainly going to Hillels and small dying OOT shuls and such. And in practice many of the grads don’t rock the boat and are mainstream MO in talk and deed.
yytzParticipantDY: See Rema on Shulchan Aruch (E.H. 2:5). This and other sources seem to say that if it is not already public knowledge and can be kept a secret then the person can marry (and stay married to) a kosher Jew.
Joseph: that’s not really done in practice.
yytzParticipantGood question. I’m sure the poskim have addressed whether mamzerim should marry. They’re technically allowed to marry gerim or other mamzerim, but I’ve definitely heard of of people telling mamzerim they will never get married.
Of course suicide is out of the question.
Keep in mind that some sources counsel mamzerim or doubtful mamzerim to conceal their identity and marry a kosher Jew anyway (perhaps relying on the halacha that an unknown mamzer is kosher).
Also keep in mind that batei din nowadays will never in practice declare someone a mamzer, even if there is overwhelming evidence that they are. Some apikores in Israel tried her best to get her child declared a mamzer, solely to create a chilul Hashem, but the batei din refused.
yytzParticipantTrump is potentially dangerous, but I think he tends to talk more crazily than he acts (or will act) in practice. When you look at the details of his proposed policies they tend not to be that radical. Some are conservative and some are more middle of the road.
We have millions of illegal immigrants every year, many of them dangerous convicted felons, and yet we do almost nothing to stop it. Everyone knows that this is a problem and that we have a build a wall to make our immigration system based on law and good administrative procedure. But everyone else is afraid to do it. So for that reason he could be a good president. If immigration is reduced as a result, this would lower the unemployment rate and thus help the poor.
I don’t think he would actually ban all Muslim immigration. But reducing the numbers coming in so they can be carefully vetted would presumably happen, and there’s nothing inherently wrong or radical about reducing immigration or changing immigration policies based on valid economic or security concerns.
Anyway, the important thing is if such policies are carried out, they need to be done with moderate and reasonable explanations, not with divisive rhetoric. Hopefully Trump will change his tone if he’s elected.
November 14, 2015 11:28 pm at 11:28 pm in reply to: DO WE REALLY HAVE A GOOD EXCUSE TO LIVE IN CHUTZ LA'ARETZ? #1112915yytzParticipantI see what you’re saying, and I believe you that there are such cases as you describe. I’m sorry to hear about all this, and I hope all the people involved are OK. You may be right that aliyah with teens is not a good idea, or must be done very carefully.
But I’m not necessarily convinced that on average such horrible outcomes are more likely among frum teens that make aliyah versus though who stay. Unfortunately some here also attempt suicide, join cults, use drugs, run away, etc… In your experience there may be more horror stories in Israel but that doesn’t mean it’s a general trend or more likely on average.
November 13, 2015 6:52 pm at 6:52 pm in reply to: DO WE REALLY HAVE A GOOD EXCUSE TO LIVE IN CHUTZ LA'ARETZ? #1112910yytzParticipantThe murder rate is much higher in the US than in Israel (even counting terror attacks), and addressing a much more common cause of death, the traffic fatality rate per capita is 3.5 times higher in the US! Life expectancy is also higher in Israel. So it would seem that the mitzvah of “guarding yourselves very well” can be performed in Israel, even better than in the US.
November 13, 2015 4:44 pm at 4:44 pm in reply to: DO WE REALLY HAVE A GOOD EXCUSE TO LIVE IN CHUTZ LA'ARETZ? #1112906yytzParticipantThere is no way in the world that frum Jews going OTD and marrying Arabs in Israel is more common than American frum Jews going OTD and marrying atheists/Xians.
The chance that a Jewish Israeli marries an Arab is probably less than one in a thousand. Every time it happens there are protests!
The chance that an American frum Jew goes OTD and marries a non-Jew is far, far higher, certainly more than 1/100 and possibly as much as 1/10 or higher, depending on the community.
American culture is so anti-Torah right now, that all it takes is kids surfing on the internet and getting involved in social media and seeing what non-frum young people think these days–which is pure hedonism and knee-jerk opposition to anything religious–that they easily get swept up in the current. I personally know of kids that basically went OTD after being convinced that toeiva “marriage” is right and anyone against it is a hater.
Israeli hard-core leftists at Ha’aretz and such are bad, but Israel is different because everyone knows society is becoming more religious and more “right-wing,” and there’s no stopping it for demographic reasons.
I see no reason to think frum Jews going off the derech is more common in Israel (and I’ve seen no evidence indicating that). Certainly there is the transition to worry about, but at least in Israel it’s easier to be an observant Jew — kosher restaurants everywhere, more or less free public religious schools, it’s normal everywhere to wear a kippah in public and dress tznius, etc. And davening and learning is more meaningful to kids who actually speak and understand the language.
November 12, 2015 2:32 am at 2:32 am in reply to: DO WE REALLY HAVE A GOOD EXCUSE TO LIVE IN CHUTZ LA'ARETZ? #1112872yytzParticipantI understand the idea that if you’re learning (or for that matter other mitzvot observance) is better here then you shouldn’t make aliyah. But it doesn’t necessarily make sense to think about that in the short term. It may take a while to find a new chavrusa or beis midrash or Rov, but there’s no reason to think that in general one’s learning would be better here.
One might be drafted, but defending the land of Israel is also a mitzvah, and since one cannot come into harm through fulfilling a mitzvah, this shouldn’t concern us either.
In addition, once you are fluent in modern Hebrew, one’s fluency in Biblical/rabbinic Hebrew will also increase. Just think how much more advanced your children’s learning could be if they grow up speaking modern Hebrew fluently. I see it in my own kids’ classes here — the Israeli kids in their school are way ahead because they don’t need to bother with learning how to translate Chumash.
November 11, 2015 11:51 pm at 11:51 pm in reply to: DO WE REALLY HAVE A GOOD EXCUSE TO LIVE IN CHUTZ LA'ARETZ? #1112869yytzParticipantIt is extremely rare for an Israeli Jew to marry an Arab. It is extremely common, indeed the norm, for secular American Jews to marry non-Jews. There are plenty of people who go off the OTD, rachmana litzan, even with good Jewish educations, and I’ve never heard any evidence that they’re less likely to marry non-Jews than other secular Jews.
November 11, 2015 1:43 am at 1:43 am in reply to: DO WE REALLY HAVE A GOOD EXCUSE TO LIVE IN CHUTZ LA'ARETZ? #1112848yytzParticipantThe Lubavitcher rebbe counseled many rabbis and other community leaders not to make aliyah, because otherwise they would no longer be able to have positive influences on the Jews they left behind in chutz la’aretz.
Aside from that, most of us don’t really have any excuse aside from convenience. If most of us were to uproot ourselves and give ourselves a few years to try to live in Israel, learning the language and finding an income and so on, most of us would find we can make it. It would just mean a few years of uncertainty and adjustment difficulties. In some places most are Anglos and you can get by with English much of the time.
There are extremes in Israel but there are also those in between. There are certainly American-style moderate charedim. There are even neighborhoods full of them. The dati leumi are increasingly frum (and less rationalist than MO, due to R’ Kook’s mysticism). Most “chilonim” are more religious (and far more likely to be halachically Jewish) the Reform or Conservative Jews here (the vast majority of chilonim fast on Yom Kippur.) There’s a tiny minority of radical leftist self-haters but most of the non-Orthodox are relatively traditional and respectful toward religion.
Terrorism is a problem, but the murder rate is still much higher in America. And I’d trust the IDF to keep me safe more than the American military any day (here more likely to make us less safe by engaging in unnecessary wars).
The main thing is assimilation. If your kids c”v’s go OTD in Israel they will most likely still marry other Jews and have Jewish grandchildren. It is only a matter of time before Israeli is majority Orthodox, which will eventually inspire those grandchildren to make teshuvah. In America OTD kids marry non-Jews, have non-Jewish grandchildren, and are lost to the Jewish people forever.
How many more millions of us need to assimilate before we get the message and move to the Jewish state?
November 9, 2015 3:41 am at 3:41 am in reply to: DATI LEUMI AND CHAREDI- why is there such friction? #1112006yytzParticipantIt has to do with the different histories of the charedi communities in the two countries. In America no one thought orthodox, much less charedim, stood a chance, due to materialism and everyone feeling like they had to work on Shabbos to survive. Only slowly did they gain a foothold and become dominant.
It was different in Israel because they old Yishuv of charedim came to Israel fully expecting to life a no-compromise impoverished life of Torah study alone. They may have even been escaping decrees in Europe forcing ill-intentioned secular studies on Jews. And then the same thing happened in Israel, people trying to force secular studies on them. So there was a big resistance. Here in North America secular studies was just pragmatic and was not seen as a big deal.
In addition, since the overall number of Jews is smaller in the US it’s harder to split into hard-and-fast camps. It’s common here (especially out of town) to daven in a shul with a mix of MO and Yeshivish, or some other MO/charedi mixture. It’s like a continuum in which a lot of people don’t even know if they’re MO or charedi or something in between (and they might label themselves differently than others do). It’s less likely that in Israel, where it’s easier to live in a neighborhood of like-minded people.
That said, there are more and more moderate charedim in Israel. But for geographic and historical and cultural (not to mention demographic) reasons the “extreme” charedi groups are also very prominent and growing.
November 9, 2015 2:16 am at 2:16 am in reply to: DATI LEUMI AND CHAREDI- why is there such friction? #1112001yytzParticipantCharedim are more extreme in Israel than in America. The vast majority of charedim in America get some secular studies in school and go on to work full time at some point, while the vast majority of charedim in Israel get no secular education.
yytzParticipantShaarei Halacha by R’ Greenwald is very good, and often mentions the Sephardic practice when it differs from the Ashkenazi.
The Ben Ish Chai wrote his own Sephardic book of practical halachah but I’m not sure if it’s been translated.
Meam Loez is very lengthy and focused to a large degree on midrashim, but it is also full of practical halacha from a Sephardic perspective, and has been translated into English by R’ Aryeh Kaplan and others.
yytzParticipant“Socialist” is an arbitrary word and can mean just about anything. There have been democrats in the past (like President Truman) who would have never used the word socialism but who supported the same kinds of policies as Sanders.
There is no fundamental difference between America and Europe when it comes to the welfare state, labor market regulations and health system — it’s just a matter of degree, of where we fit on the spectrum or continuum. America has a welfare state, it’s just small and neglects the poor (though things like the EITC and food stamps really do help to decrease poverty by quite a bit).
It’s just a matter of confused terminology. People on the center-left in America are called liberals or progressives, in UK and Ireland are called Labor, in Germanic countries are called Social Democrats, and in Latin countries are called Socialists. Each country is a bit different and going in a slightly different direction….Scandinavian countries have the biggest governments but are shrinking them a bit, and we and the UK and Ireland have the smallest but are growing them a bit. But we’re all on the same continuum. It’s not as if there’s some magical line so that if you go from having 45% of the economy be the government to 46% you’re all of the sudden socialist rather than capitalist.
Bernie calling himself a socialist really just means he wants to go somewhat farther on the spectrum toward a welfare state and more economic equality. So all Sanders would do differently is things like progressive taxation (like under Eisenhower!), Canada-style health care (which Truman advocated and which old people already have in America, that is Medicare!), making it easier to join a union, creating government jobs for to ease poverty and create full employment, and perhaps getting rid of trade deals that bleed American jobs to China and Mexico.
November 5, 2015 2:55 am at 2:55 am in reply to: Processed meats can cause cancer, experts say #1110877yytzParticipantThe Gemara already suggests to only eat meat once a week (Chulin 84a). Some rabbis still advocate that (like R’ Lazer Brody). If people did that, then even if it was processed it would be unlikely to cause cancer.
The problem is today people eat tons of meat and cheese on a daily basis. Jews never ate like that historically, and it only became affordable after factory farming and subsidies made it possible in the late 20th century.
This is an area in which we shouldn’t emulate the goyim who happen to be living around us. Let us eat peas and lentils and bread and cucumbers so on, the daily staples we’ve been eating since the time of Tanakh.
yytzParticipantComlink-X, G D Em C is the same as C G Am F (I V vi IV).
Em C G D is the same as Am F C G, which is also a very popular chord progression, especially in the last decade or so. Some Jewish songs definitely use it — see by googling “A F C G” or “Em C G D” and “Jewish guitar chords.” For example, Finally Here by Ari Goldwag uses this progression. Smile by 8th day uses it in part of the song.
C Am F G (the 50s or “doo-wop” chord progression), was very popular in the 50s and is still sometimes found today.
yytzParticipantYou’re probably referring to the very common progression C G Am F. Maminim by New York Boys Choir and Somachti by Shalsheles Junior seem to use this chord progression.
In any case, these four chords are found in many Jewish songs (often in a different order than above). Many of these songs are traditional songs from Eastern Europe, so the use of these four chords doesn’t necessarily indicate recent non-Jewish influence.
yytzParticipantMany Jewish songs are just three chords or so! Many are just A minor, D minor and E (for example, the common melody to v’ani tefilati, if I’m not mistaken). Mikimi by Yosef Karduner is just four chords (google mikimi karduner chords and you’ll find it). Oz v’hadar is just three chords.
yytzParticipantObviously they weren’t the only fervent fighters. But at least in Lithuania in the Chofetz Chaim’s time, the Chofetz Chaim thought they were more energetic and effective in the battles against them (as described in his biography).
yytzParticipant1. It depends on which chassidus. Breslov follows the S’A and is very strict about davening on time and such (that’s reportedly why the Chofetz Chaim recommended it to his son who was getting interested in chassidus). Chabad is somewhat less strict on such things but follows the S’A HaRav. Other chassidim are sometimes less strict about such things as davening on time and tachanun.
2. They emphasize spirituality and character refinement as well as Torah study. Some sephardim and Litvish do too, but it’s not as common. See the book Jewish Spiritual Practices for diverse examples of chassidic practices.
3. Personal, spiritual connection to a particular tzaddik and his teachings are deemed very important for one’s avodas Hashem.
4. Joy, love of Hashem and one’s fellow Jew, and belief in all-encompassing divine providence are emphasized. Prayer in one’s own words and various meditative practices are employed.
5. Chassidic teachings and spirituality are essentially contained in books and the personal teachings of Rebbes, and can be practiced by any Orthodox Jew, regardless of appearance or affiliation. So some sephardim, Yeshivish and MO Jews draw on chassidic teachings to a large degree and yet retain their traditional appearance and affiliation.
6. Chassidim were more fervent fighters against haskalah (as mentioned by the Chofetz Chaim) and were the main ones brave enough to risk their lives by spreading Yiddishkeit in the Soviet Union (especially Chabad and also Breslov).
August 3, 2015 2:04 am at 2:04 am in reply to: Is the Outrage Over The Killing of Cecil the Lion Justified? #1154193yytzParticipantInterestingly, Palestinians stoned to death a striped hyena recently, and filmed it and put it on Youtube, and the striped hyena is even more endangered than lions. No outcry, of course, in this upside-down world.
As someone quipped, if you’re and liberal having trouble understanding what the big deal about the Planned Parenthood scandal is, imagine they were selling baby lion parts instead…
yytzParticipantWell, that way get to do two mitzvahs (Torah study plus tzedakah)….
yytzParticipantPesachim 109 and elsewhere: Men and women rejoice over different things–Men have simcha with meat and wine, while women rejoice over clothing (colored clothing for women in Bavel).
Similarly, Rambam rules that one should give women jewelry and clothes for Yom Tov, since this is what gives them simcha.
There seems to be something in human nature which makes women, more than men, like beautiful clothing and other nice-looking objects (flowers, decorations in the house).
yytzParticipantI’m not a PETA fan, but euthanizing animals in shelters is standard practice in the vast majority of animal shelters. There’s a movement, known as no-kill shelters, in which they only “put down” those who are aggressive and dangerous or already dying. But they’ve only succeeded in taking over a small slice of the animal shelter world so far.
Some authorities permit causing extra pain to animals in order to make more money (which is what the various animal welfare abuses in modern factory farms are for.) Other authorities disagree.
It is better to be strict and only buy meat and dairy and eggs from producers who don’t engage in the cruel practices common in the modern industrialized factor farms (like beak-cutting, confining animals in small spaces, etc.)
Our ancestors only ate dairy and eggs and meat from small producers — there were no massive factory farms in the shtetl! Everything was cage-free and grass fed! Factory farms inflict a lot of suffering on animals that we know from experience is not necessary, and these particular techniques are not part of our mesorah. So why get involved in it? To save a bit of money or afford more meat and dairy and eggs? It’s not worth it.
It’s true that some of our ancestors force fed geese, but at that time pate was believed to be an important health food that could provide necessary nutrients. And modern poskim have all banned the practice. Similarly cruel practices such as those involved in veal raising have been banned by Rav Moshe.
We should also work toward legislation, along with non-extremist animal welfare groups, to reduce the worst practices to reduce unnecessary animal suffering.
yytzParticipantPlease don’t agonize about the past or the fact that you’re not completely observant yet.
As for the past, it is written the Code of Jewish Law, the Shulchan Aruch, that one must always be in the habit of saying, “Everything the Merciful One does is for the good.” In brief, “Gamzu l’tovah,” “This too, for the good.”
Being brought up the way you were was for the best! And it is for the best that you can’t become completely observant overnight (no one can, and if they did, it would overwhelm them and ultimately be counter-productive).
As you say, you are smart and serious. So you will achieve your goal! Just keep working at it and within a short amount of time, you will become completely observant. Explore some different Orthodox Jewish communities and you will find one that suits you soon enough.
yytzParticipantIt’s wonderful that you’ve decided to make teshuvah!
I’m sorry you’re feeling frustrated. But don’t feel like you have to become completely observant overnight. That makes people overwhelmed and burned out. Learn and take things on at your own pace.
Ask the Chabad rebbetzin if you could start meeting with her weekly to learn the halachos of everyday life. She will probably say yes! Ask if she can help kasher your kitchen (her husband may do that for you). Once you’re able to, move within walking distance of the Chabad house (or another Orthodox shul) and attend on Shabbos morning and Yom Tov.
Some advice: Start reading some basic guides to observance. For example, Shaarei Halacha by R’ Greenwald. There are also special books with the laws for women. Tznius is relatively simple: when you’re ready, start wearing only clothes that go past the elbows and knees; avoid very tight clothes or super bright colors; and stop wearing pants. Buy an Artscroll siddur (I like interlinear but there are many options) and start saying the morning blessings, and eventually work up to saying the major other prayers required for women (minchah, and shema and amidah of Shacharit). You’ll find that websites like Aish.com and Chabad.org and others have a lot of good guides to other aspects of basic observance. Pray to Hashem for at least a few minutes each day in your own words, thanking and praising him for everything you can think of, and asking Him to help you with whatever you need (including becoming observant of course), and end by thanking and praising Him some more.
Yes, there are seminaries for Baalos Teshuvah, certainly in Israel, and possibly also in the US. I don’t know any off the top of my head though.
Hatzlachah! Feel free to keep asking questions here!
yytzParticipantReb Yid is right. Yasher koach.
I would just add that the animal liberation people are not literally insane. They are just confused. In practice, their lifestyles (abstaining from all animal products in food and clothing) do somewhat more than others in reducing animal suffering.
Because of the attractiveness of the vegan/liberationist ideology to so many, my opinion is that a frum Jew should not be a pure or strict vegetarian, even though that is permissible, but at least make ocassional exceptions, so that one is merely near-vegetarian or near-vegan (even 99% if they wish).
The reason is because veganism/liberationism, aside from convincing people that such things as tallis and teffilin and korbanos are necessarily wrong (c”v’s!), has become a religion in itself for many people, making them feel like that is enough and they don’t need any other beliefs. So to avoid getting sucked into this worldview, it’s a good idea for frum people on a plant-based diet to eat a symbolic amount of animal foods from time to time.
yytzParticipantThe Torah values equality in the application of the law. Thus we are enjoined from treating a poor man or rich man differently in terms of halachic decision-making, or taking bribes.
Pirkei Avos also speaks of loving all creatures and bringing them closer to Torah. And Hashem is pleased with someone with which others are pleased. This implies we should be kind to all people regardless of who they are.
Absolute economic equality is not a Torah value. However, the highest level of charity is to ensure that the poor become self-sufficient. So ideally, if we were observing the mitzvah of tzedakah correctly as a community, everyone would be equal in the sense that we are all self-sufficient and do not need to rely on charity.
All Israel have a share in the world to come. And Rebbe Nachman teaches that everyone has the innate ability to become a tzaddik of the highest order, if they would only apply themselves with their greatest effort.
yytzParticipantVery common mistake, often found in business signs. The funny thing is now people use asterisks for the same purpose in informal writing, which doesn’t bother me.
July 2, 2015 6:29 pm at 6:29 pm in reply to: Non religious argument against same sex marriage #1089863yytzParticipantOn average, active same-gender attractive males tend to have many, many more partners than do any straight males. Some have hundreds or thousands, and precautions are not taken in many cases. This causes huge public health problems, including the spread of disease (including most HIV cases in the US) and the use of illegal drugs that help maintain this lifestyle.
Society thus has an interest in discouraging toeiva, including by not recognizing their unions as marriage. Teoiva marriage won’t really encourage exclusivity because there’s already a tradition that toeiva marriages aren’t exclusive. Its main effect will be to legitimize toeiva and encourage everyone with any such desires to take part.
Mike Huckabee’s supreme court brief mentions the public health argument, certainly a secular one, though he doesn’t talk about the details.
This secular argument is probably one of the main reasons why until the year 2000, virtually no society on earth ever recognized toeiva marriage. Men and women are complementary in this respect. When you have same-gender relationships, many of the men go nuts and wallow in sensuality with extreme excess, harming themselves, others and society. Just as in Sodom!
yytzParticipantComparisons to our attitudes toward Shabbos descecrators and Mormon polytheists are inapposite. People who don’t observe Shabbos don’t do it because they don’t believe in the Torah, or the Oral Torah. It’s an issue of revelation. Similary, Mormons don’t think there’s a rational argument for polytheism; they just believe it because they think it’s part of their revelation from God.
Homosexuality is different, and poses a dire ideological threat to traditional Jewish belief and observance. This is because they have a logical (though incorrect) argument. They think that homosexuality is benign and causes no personal or social problems (again incorrect, but they’re unwilling to look at the data objectively), and that if consenting adults want to do something and it doesn’t hurt anybody then society should not only tolerate it but treat it the same as more traditional relationships.
Even if it is wrong even on secular terms, this argument has powerful appeal to many people, including many Orthodox youth. The problems is that once they believe that, it is very hard to believe in the Torah and Yiddishkeit with complete faith.
If people opposing gay marriage are hateful, fearful bigots, then why isn’t the Torah hateful and fearful and bigoted (c”v’s!)? Without a doubt, many young Orthodox Jews who have been exposed to liberal gay marriage arguments are going off the derech because they think the Torah is wrong not to support these lifestyles. (I’ve already met once such person, a teen who apparently went off the derech due to this issue, even though it didn’t affect her personally).
Now that the Supreme Court has took their side, saying it’s a basic human right and anyone else is a hater, this view will spread throughout society, making it harder for young Jews to avoid being exposed to and convinced by it.
We need to insulate our children from modern politics and culture, including from unsupervised internet access, as much as we can. Even an hour or two on liberal websites could seed their minds with doubts and heretical beliefs. We should all consider making aliyah as well.
yytzParticipantTry Likutei Eitzot (can read in English for free online: google “English translation of Likutey Etzot”), which although chassidic has been praised as great mussar by Litvish gedolim, such as R’ Dessler and R’ Elya Lopian.
yytzParticipantThe Lubavitcher Rebbe was quoted in one of his biographies as saying that he was not opposed in general to people making aliyah, and in some cases had encouraged Jews to do so.
However, generally he discouraged rabbis and other leaders from making aliyah if their services were needed in the local community in galus. The reasoning was that one should put the spiritual needs of others before one’s own.
As far as his political positions were concerned, he was 100% against any territorial concessions, because they would threaten Israel’s security. So he agrees with the far-right Zionists but not for “Zionist” reasons. The only party in Israel that conforms with that view is Bayit HaYehudi. However, at some point he told poeple to vote for the most charedi party. So I imagine some current Chabadiks vote for Bayit HaYehudi while others would vote UTJ or Shas.
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