???? “what you need to know about marriage” by rabbi nachum diamant he has a chapter in the back on shidduchim explaining that there are 3 stages in dating and each stage can take a few dates. it all depends on the couple. generally stage1- is informational. stage 2- is hashkafa and having deeper conversations. stage 3- is talking about marriage practically. Good Luck!

I just called them and they said the lounge is a public area. Could it be they only tell us that its for guests only??