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  • in reply to: Any Reason Not To Save A Potential Suicide? #758357

    True. But the same could be said for anyone who is in the category of “ain ma’alin.”

    you skipped a crucial part of my statement, i said they had not yet done the action, which is NOT the case of an ain ma’alin

    in reply to: Any Reason Not To Save A Potential Suicide? #758356

    You’re absolutely right. However, I would classify those people as not totally mentally competent, and subject to the exemption in my footnote.

    so all those that fake suicide attempts you would classify as not totally mentally competent.

    so which ones would you classify as totally mentally competent, the ones who actually intend to die?

    in reply to: Any Reason Not To Save A Potential Suicide? #758351

    and even if you are sure that he intends to complete the act

    then

    either way

    if it is in the moment before he has completed the act then he has not yet done anything and can still do Tsuvah and change his mind.

    if he has already completed the act then your question is moot.

    in reply to: Any Reason Not To Save A Potential Suicide? #758350

    what do you mean by “attempted suicide”

    most “suicide attempts” are actually an effort to obtain help or let known to the world ones despondency and are not actually attempts to commit suicide.

    if so that person is not necessarily an ain ma’alin

    in reply to: Need help with kavana #951715

    EzratHashem

    are you a Talmid of Rabbi Avigdor Miller,tz’l ?

    in reply to: BLUE / WHITE SHIRTS #754826

    okay

    this is starting to deteriorate in the direction i expected it to

    (including deleted posts)

    in reply to: Beautiful Food is Pointless #772281

    The problem often arises when the food looks heavenly but tastes unappetizing.

    as SJ also said

    i suppose thats true

    kind of makes the experience disappointing

    in reply to: Coddling the Mods #755583

    i dont know about mods

    but i never coddle Y.W. Editor.

    no need to

    he is perfect, his judgments are perfect, and his relationship with the moderators is perfect.

    when someone is perfect, even better than perfect like the highly esteemed, magnificent Editor, what point is there to coddle him?

    in reply to: Beautiful Food is Pointless #772273

    youre welcome

    take your time to digest the idea.

    in reply to: Beautiful Food is Pointless #772271

    Hashem makes our food beautiful !

    a luscious apple colored brightly red with complex streaks of pink wrapped in a waterproof wrapper, a beautiful aroma, and a complex mixture of tastes, sweetness, tartness, acidity, all balanced together for a gourmet experience, a texture not too hard and not too soft, the juices packed into little packets so as to not all spill out at the first bite.

    why does He do it. so what if an apple was grey?

    Hashem beautifies our food for all our senses, sight, smell, and taste, to bring us the most enjoyment possible.

    and to demonstrate to us his kindness and his wonders.

    in reply to: New cRc App for ipod #754569
    in reply to: Celiac – need advice #755103

    unless there is some reason you cannot, it seems to me to be the best course to ask your questions to this person, and ask if there is anything else you should know.

    there are varying degrees and various manifestations of celiac disease. whatever answers you get here might not apply to your guest.

    in reply to: New cRc App for ipod #754567

    yes

    i also use an app, i think it was a dollar, called “sunrise, sunset”

    one click shows both. you can set it for different locations.

    in reply to: New cRc App for ipod #754565

    well sometimes i refer to moderating as work, you know like the common people do.

    in reply to: New cRc App for ipod #754562

    if i need to check something while im in the Bais Medresh i walk out into the hall first

    i dont use it to daven from unless a Siddur is not available

    in reply to: New cRc App for ipod #754561

    yes i do. its an ipod touch, not phone.

    but i dont have access to wifi either at home or work.

    i use it primarily for the siddur, luach, heksher lists, and zmanim.

    i also have all of the Kitzur S’A on it but havent used that.

    in reply to: Shabbos board games/activities for 9-10 year old boys #754370

    Be Careful!

    Playing Scrabble on Shabbos

    Rabbi Yirmiyohu Kaganoff

    Written by the rabbi

    Dedicated to the memory of

    R’ Meir b”r Yechezkel Shraga Brachfeld zt”l

    Writing is counted among the melachos prohibited on Shabbos because each board of the Mishkan was marked in order to return it to its correct place whenever the Mishkan was reassembled. Erasing is a melacha because the numbers written on the boards were sometimes erased when a board was improperly marked (Rashi, Shabbos 73a).

    Only permanent writing is prohibited min haTorah while temporary writing is prohibited only miderabbanan. “Writing” is permitted when no letters are formed at all. Thus, one may form letters in the air and one may communicate in sign language on Shabbos. Writing in an unusual way, such as with one’s weaker hand, is prohibited midirabbanan, although erasing with one’s weaker hand is prohibited min haTorah since it is not difficult to do so. One may walk on snow or mud with shoes that leave an imprint. Writing on frosty windows and using disappearing ink or invisible ink on Shabbos is prohibited miderabbanan. The poskim discuss whether eating icing in the form of letters is considered erasing; the Mishnah Berurah rules that although one may bite through the letters, when cutting the cake one should preferably slice between the letters and not through them. I will shortly explain the distinction between slicing between the letters and through them.

    We now continue our discussion of modern shaylos concerning writing and erasing on Shabbos.

    MAY I PLAY SCRABBLE ON SHABBOS? IS THIS CONSIDERED WRITING AND ERASING?

    Discussing the halachic issues as to whether or not one can play the game of Scrabble on Shabbos provides an opportunity to address some other aspects of the laws of writing. As we will see, there is not only a question as to whether or not this constitutes writing, but an additional concern whether it could potentially cause one to write.

    Two potential writing issues are involved with Scrabble. Firstly, is placing existent letters to form words considered writing? Perhaps writing requires actually forming the letters and not merely placing letters next to one another? Similar shaylos exist with educational toys or puzzles that form words, or combination locks that open by sliding numbers or letters into a certain sequence. In all of these cases, the question is whether forming a word or a code by moving letters together constitutes writing. Similarly, if this is considered writing, separating the letters constitutes erasing.

    Scrabble also involves a second shaylah: May one play games on Shabbos where the score is usually kept by writing? Is this prohibited because of concern that one might forget and write on Shabbos?

    BREAKING LETTERS

    One of the early poskim, the Levush, ruled that it is a Torah violation to open and close a book on Shabbos that has words stamped on the edge of its pages (Levush 340:4). In his opinion, opening the book and thereby breaking the letters in this way violates a Torah prohibition of erasing; closing the book and reconstituting the letters violates writing.

    Similarly, assembling or disassembling letters of puzzles and games will be prohibited according to Levush since one is “writing” by moving the puzzle pieces together and “erasing” by separating them. Other poskim add that the Levush would also prohibit opening and closing a book where the page edges are decorated since this is considered erasing and redrawing the decoration (Machatzis HaShekel 340:6). According to this analysis, it is prohibited to assemble or disassemble a jigsaw puzzle or a child’s picture puzzle on Shabbos since doing so creates pictures which is “writing” according to this opinion.

    THE DISPUTE

    Other poskim disagree with the Levush for two reasons:

    (1) They disagree whether moving letters or parts of letters together is considered writing. Writing is forming letters of communication. These authorities contend that bringing existent letters or parts of letters together is not considered writing and is permitted on Shabbos.

    The Levush, who contends that creating letters or words is considered writing, even if one creates them from existent writing, disputes this exact point.

    (2) Opening or closing the pages of a book is not a melacha since the book is meant to be opened and closed, just as opening or closing a door is not considered destruction and construction (Shu”t Rama #119; Taz 340:2). Opening and closing a door is considered using the door and not the building or destruction of a house. Similarly, someone opening and closing the pages of a book is using it; this is not considered erasing and writing the words on the edges.

    Presumably, the Levush contends that there is a major difference between opening and closing a door, which is using it in a normal way, and opening a book with writing on its edges. The writing and erasing that takes place on the edge of the book cannot be considered the normal, integral usage of a book (because it happens incidentally to opening the book) and therefore it an act of writing and erasing on Shabbos.

    Although some poskim agree with the Levush (Magen Avraham 340:6; Chazon Ish 61:1), the majority rule leniently. Mishnah Berurah concludes that although the halacha is not like the Levush, one should preferably be stringent if one has a different book available (340:17). The same ruling might be applied to puzzles on Shabbos. An adult should preferably not play with a puzzle on Shabbos if he has an alternative diversion. According to all opinions, one is not obligated to prevent a child from playing with a puzzle on Shabbos, although one should preferably not help him assemble the puzzle (see Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chayim 443). Many poskim permit assembling a picture puzzle that has no letters.

    Rav Pesach Frank and others contend that even the Levush agrees that bringing together two complete letters does not constitute writing, because his whole argument concerns joining and separating letter fragments. The letters on the side of a book are obliterated each time the book is opened and recreated every time it is shut. However, separating two letters from one another is not erasing, nor is returning letters adjacent to each other considered writing (Shu”t Har Tzvi, Tel Harim, Meleches Koseiv #4).

    SOME DIFFICULT QUESTIONS

    Rav Frank’s explanation answers several problems that would otherwise pertain to the Levush’s opinion. Rashi explains that erasing was a melacha in the Mishkan because the person marking the board sometimes erred and wrote the wrong number on a particular board. Since that number then needed to be erased and corrected, erasing is categorized as a melacha (Rashi, Shabbos 73a). However, if separating letters is considered erasing, then erasing was performed every time the Mishkan was disassembled and the adjacent numbers that indicated the order of the planks were separated from one another. Since this simpler case is not mentioned by Rashi, one may infer that merely separating two numbers does not constitute erasing and that placing two numbers of letters together does not constitute writing (Shu”t Rama #119).

    Another question resolved by Rav Frank’s approach requires an introduction. Someone who violates Shabbos negligently must bring a korban chatos if he wrote two or more letters. Although writing less than two letters is also forbidden min HaTorah (Rashi, Shabbos 74a; however cf. Rashbam, Bava Basra 55b), it is not considered significant enough to require a korban. Yet, there is one situation where one is obligated to offer a korban for writing only one letter on Shabbos: when someone writes the last letter of a book, thus completing it, because in this instance the single letter is very significant (Gemara Shabbos 104b).

    This Gemara is difficult to explain according to the Levush’s position. Since the Gemara is teaching a novel concept, it should have taught the most novel insight possible, which (according to the Levush) is that someone moving one letter closer to another who thereby completes a book desecrates Shabbos. By omitting this case and mentioning the case of someone writing the last letter of a book, the Gemara implies that moving the last letter closer is not considered writing on Shabbos, presumably because moving letters together is not considered writing (Taz 340:2).

    THE SOLUTION TO THE QUESTION

    As we mentioned, Rav Pesach Frank answers these questions by theorizing that even the Levush agrees that bringing together two complete letters does not constitute writing. The Levush is discussing only creating or destroying letters by bringing together or separating parts of letters such as what happens when one opens or shuts a book. However, separating two letters from one another does not constitute erasing, nor does returning them so that they are adjacent, constitute writing (Shu”t Har Tzvi, Tel Harim, Meleches Koseiv #4).

    According to this approach, even the Levush would agree that spelling words while playing Scrabble does not violate Shabbos since the letters are complete to begin with. He would, however, prohibit assembling a puzzle where letters are created, but he would be unconcerned about assembling a puzzle in which each letter is on a different piece of puzzle.

    Incidentally, this may be the reason why the Mishnah Berurah distinguishes between slicing cake between the letters and through the letters. He may hold that slicing between the letters is not an act of erasing and therefore is permitted since the letters are not obliterated in the process. However, slicing through the letters is an act of erasing since it obliterates a letter.

    With this introduction, we can now explain how this influences playing Scrabble on Shabbos.

    IS THERE ANY DIFFERENCE BETWEEN TRAVEL AND STANDARD EDITIONS OF SCRABBLE?

    In travel edition of Scrabble the letters lock in place. Does this have any affect on the halacha?

    Some poskim rule that it is prohibited to attach lettering firmly to a paroches on Shabbos (Magen Avraham 340:10 as explained by Igros Moshe). According to this approach, firmly attaching a written item is also considered a form of writing. Although not all poskim agree, it seems that one should follow this approach (Minchas Chinuch; Nishmas Adam). This precludes using a game where letters or numbers snap firmly into place, and prohibits playing Travel Scrabble on Shabbos.

    PLAYING GAMES

    Chazal created many gezeiros (Rabbinic prohibitions) out of concern that someone may write or erase on Shabbos. For example, they prohibited selling or renting items on Shabbos lest someone record the transaction (Rambam, Hilchos Shabbos 23:12). Similarly, it is prohibited to weigh or measure on Shabbos (Rambam, Hilchos Shabbos 23:13), to marry (Gemara Beitzah 36b), to perform a pidyon haben (Shu”t Rivash #156; Shulchan Aruch Orach Chayim 339:4), or to make financial calculations in one’s head (Rambam, Hilchos Shabbos 23:18). All of these are prohibited out of concern that one may forget and jot down some of the information on Shabbos.

    Incidentally, even though acquiring things is normally forbidden, someone who finds an ownerless object on Shabbos may keep it, provided, of course, that he does violate carrying or muktzeh (Pri Megadim, 371:7 in Eishel Avraham; R’ Akiva Eiger, glosses to Magen Avraham 339:6; Sdei Chemed Vol. 2 pg. 220). Since there is no buyer and no seller, Chazal were not concerned that he would write anything.

    Chazal also prohibited reading financial documents on Shabbos because one might correct them. Furthermore, they forbade reading the caption below a statue in order to enforce the previously mentioned prohibition.

    Similarly, Chazal forbade reading a guest list or a menu of what one intends to serve on Shabbos because one might realize that he does not have enough food and erase an item (Gemara Shabbos 149a; Rambam 23:19).

    Among these prohibitions was a takanah prohibiting playing games where writing is part of its regular activity (Chayei Adam 38:11). Therefore, one may not play Scrabble or any other game where people usually keep score. Poskim permit playing chess on Shabbos even though some people write down their moves. This is permitted because most people do not write down their moves.

    The melachos of writing are a prime example of how a person must be fluent in all the halachos of Shabbos in order to understand its far reaching ramifications. Who would have imagined that even after proving that Scrabble is not included in the actual melacha of writing, it is nevertheless forbidden because of a decree that one might write in order to keep score? Learning the halachos of koseiv and the other melachos of Shabbos help us to appreciate Shabbos more, and get the maximum joy out of this special day.

    (emphasis mine)

    in reply to: The Eensy Weensy Spider #755029

    spider veins and varicose veins are 2 different things.

    varicose veins can cause discomfort and even some significant medical issues

    spider veins are usually just a cosmetic problem.

    in reply to: Attention all CR LEFTYS!!!! #1028467

    yes, i am

    im not ambidextrous

    in reply to: Attention all CR LEFTYS!!!! #1028465

    they usually lock up for a while after each robbery

    also they occas close for inventory

    in reply to: Best Shmurah Matzah #937575

    okay

    i didnt want to start a thread on this

    but the cRc in their Pesach magazine said that Metamucil original coarse is recommended for Pesach even though it has no hechsher.

    only ORIGINAL COARSE

    i found it at Osco and it is available online from many sources.

    for those who prefer regular Matzoh to whole wheat, this can be a big help.

    for those who dont know, metamucil is a high fiber powder which is mixed into liquid

    in reply to: What are you grateful for today? #757437

    yes you reversed the title and the post

    lets fix it

    in reply to: Why the inequality?? #753949

    i dont think you understand

    moderators dont get paid

    we wouldnt stoop to such a lowly practice (were kind of like royalty in this and other respects)

    we are all independently wealthy.

    you actually have a job?!

    umm let me think about this, oh it seems all are applications were ruined in the umm flood, yeah thats it, in the flood.

    well, im sure well manage to get more in, not sure when though, sometimes it takes a very long time.

    in reply to: Why the inequality?? #753947

    okay well run a background security check and get back to you

    in reply to: Why the inequality?? #753945

    sure

    ill be glad to send out an application

    first though you need to answer some preliminary questions

    1. any moderators in your family?

    2. is your IQ 140 or greater?

    3. which Moderator university did you do your post-grad work in?

    4. can you use and maintain an espresso machine and take complex coffee orders from senior moderators?

    in reply to: Living With Poppa Is Hard TO Bear #756278

    no

    in reply to: Why the inequality?? #753943

    can you become a mod?!?!?!?!

    i already am a mod

    in reply to: Why the inequality?? #753941

    yes i will be glad to explain it:

    there are moderators here who are women.

    in reply to: Life Insurance in Torah Hashkafah #754046

    i think there are two quite different usages of the word “rely” here

    charliehal is using it meaning to rely as regards actions.

    i am using it as regards thought and emotion.

    in reply to: Life Insurance in Torah Hashkafah #754043

    thank you gavra

    its a very difficult

    and crucial

    matter

    in reply to: Life Insurance in Torah Hashkafah #754041

    charliehall

    before calling my statements ridiculous it would behoove you to actually read and contemplate the entire post. its not too long

    here it is:

    it is obligatory to rely on Divine intervention.

    nevertheless one is obligated in hishtadlus.

    how much and what kind depending on who one is

    if you dont understand the interplay between Emunah and Hishtadlus, i dont think i can easily clarify it for you in this medium. but real quick, you must perform hishtadlus in action while relying in your heart ONLY on Hashem.

    i certainly did not say that one should not do any actions, or act in a manner of Tevah, this is of course required. this is how the world was created. this is what Hashem has asked of most of since the time of Odom Harishons chait

    in reply to: Life Insurance in Torah Hashkafah #754039

    cherrybim: read that statement in my post in context please, as gavra did

    gavra: let me just put it this way: it is not proper to rely on natural and human salvation. one must KNOW that EVERYTHING is in the hands and COMPLETE control of Hashem. one must rely on Hashem and no one else. read Chovos Ha Levavos. while maintaining this as a proper and desirable Emunah, one must conduct his life and Parnasah with hishtadlus appropriate to his Emunah, keeping in mind that this is merely a disguise, so to speak.

    the above is very basic Jewish principles. it brings up many questions and requires consultation with appropriate Rabbaim to carry out properly, but it is a foundation of Yiddishkeit. I dont intend to debate it

    in reply to: Why the inequality?? #753936

    there are women mods

    in reply to: Life Insurance in Torah Hashkafah #754032

    It is asur to rely on Divine intervention

    it is obligatory to rely on Divine intervention.

    nevertheless one is obligated in hishtadlus.

    how much and what kind depending on who one is.

    in reply to: Almond Milk on Pesach??? #754073

    well i never heard anything about it but i cant think of any reason why it should be assur, as long as it has a P heksher.

    is there any particular concern you have about it?

    in reply to: Attention all CR LEFTYS!!!! #1028451

    yes i have this uncanny ability to sift out the chaff and articulate the issues in a way the the simplest among us can readily grasp

    in reply to: Attention all CR LEFTYS!!!! #1028448

    i can explain it

    simply what he means is that the tertiary implications of duplicating the primary chromosomal innate and subinnate modular and secondary patterns is at best an approximation of further degradational patterns, which if repeated in later generations could lead to partial abrogation of the original tertiary information.

    in reply to: B'chor Doing Avodah in Beis HaMikdash & Yerusha #1050350

    im not even sure that is called peter rechem

    in reply to: i feel guity #754842

    blocked, as opposed to inactive, will not even enable you to log out and log in under another screen name

    in reply to: i feel guity #754841

    he cant access the cr at all from his computer.

    in addition, we send out agents to monitor his attempts to access the cr from other computers, and deal with the culprit accordingly.

    in reply to: Bochrim Spray-Paint Over �Not Tzniyus� Advertisement #759997

    cherrybim

    you have a good point(s)

    in reply to: tooth pain #1007147

    even if you are an rabid NRA member i would not recommend following the advice of a gun specialist in matters of health

    in reply to: i feel guity #754835

    your comments had nothing to do with his being blocked.

    blocked: you cannot access the coffee room at all

    inactive: you can read posts but are unable to post.

    in both cases prior posts are not affected.

    in reply to: Attention all CR RIGHTIES! #975032

    there IS a genetic and neurological difference. and it is important enough that many Halachos relate to the subject.

    in reply to: daven with a minyan #753717

    it refers to the Kodesh and Tahor meeting between Hashem and the Jewish People.

    They did not make jokes and talk about business and entertainment in the Ohel Moed.

    the Shul is a Mikdosh m’at. yes it is healthy to interact…in the vestibule.

    in reply to: Why Would A Jaw Hurt? #753421

    let me clarify my previous post

    by jaw pain i assumed for some reason you meant the lower jaw, the chin and behind

    if you meant the upper jaw, near the ear and below, then yes tmj is a likely cause

    in reply to: Why Would A Jaw Hurt? #753417

    tmj quite unlikely

    tmj typically causes ear pain, tooth pain, headaches.

    not jaw pain

    in reply to: singles dont give up! #752518

    like this:

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    in reply to: Blowing Candles Out #752753

    from Ohr Somayach website:

    As for not blowing out candles in general, the following reason has been said in the name of Rabbi Yaakov Yisrael Kanievsky (the ‘Steipler’), zatzal:

    There’s an angel whose name is the same as the sound produced when you blow out with force. According to Kabbalistic tradition, it’s improper to make use of the names of holy angels. Many people, therefore, extinguish candles by hand in order not to pronounce the name of this angel.

    Another explanation: The Torah depicts man’s soul as being a ‘breath’ from Hashem. The soul is also compared to a flame. Using your breath to blow out a candle is an ironic gesture, using one ‘soul’ to extinguish another.

    I know a rabbi who puts out candles by saying the word ‘Purim,’ forcefully emphasizing the letter ‘P’.

    in reply to: Blowing Candles Out #752751

    i also have the Minhag not to blow out a flame.

    on the other side i have seen great Rabboim blow out flames.

    it is certainly not Halachah, and there are certainly chashavuh people who do not have this Minhag

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