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YW Moderator-80Member
dunno
i dont know why but im having trouble paying attention to your posts,
youre not single by any chance?
YW Moderator-80Memberdid you say something dunno?
YW Moderator-80MemberAmen
YW Moderator-80Memberdont be shocked but im pretty naive
for example:
i have no idea what you are referring to
YW Moderator-80Memberposter here for 4 yrs
YW Moderator-80Memberknowing tzippi i think her remarks were grossly misunderstood
YW Moderator-80Memberthe mods like to bother ppl like this
lets change that to “some mods”
YW Moderator-80Memberare you a hacker?
YW Moderator-80Memberthats often a problem zees
but it is clear from later posts that there was a mistake that is now fixed
YW Moderator-80Memberfixed.
welcome
YW Moderator-80Memberhe is not
but should be
YW Moderator-80Memberyouve come a long way here
now youve come to a crossroads
tough decision
talk to Hashem
ask for s’yata d’shmayah in deciding
i would say talk to a Rov or Rebittzen, but it would have to be a very special one.
June 24, 2011 6:14 pm at 6:14 pm in reply to: A third of Litvish families I know, have one or more single daughters 25 and up #908935YW Moderator-80Memberwait…..you mean hes not you?
June 24, 2011 6:12 pm at 6:12 pm in reply to: A third of Litvish families I know, have one or more single daughters 25 and up #908934YW Moderator-80Memberyour reputation went down the drain because someone you know gave you bad information?
it didnt drop one iota by me.
YW Moderator-80Memberactually veteran you probably said it well
i got confused
i didnt realize they were answering the question. i thought they were giving an explanation of what isnt the answer, but you might think it is.
i hope im not confusing you
YW Moderator-80Memberokay im over my head here.
let me just give the answer as i learned it.
according to Kehati (i think from the Gemorrah, in Sanhedrin) you might think the K’G could not do chalitzah because the wife has to spit towards him which is not befitting the Covod of the K’G. the Mishnah says no, he does it.
btw, i wonder if the spitting is ma’akev?
YW Moderator-80Memberim sorry greg i dont understand exactly what you are saying.
YW Moderator-80Memberno meaning i got the asay wrong?
or no meaning there is no lo sasay
YW Moderator-80Memberveteran
wolf and gavra answered your try
he is in the Parsha of yibum because although assur the marriage would be valid
gavra isnt it an aseh (kdosh t’hyu) and also a lo’ saasay? im asking i dont know what the lo sasay is i just always assumed it.
YW Moderator-80Memberi think the poster explained this in his post itself, but if you would like to discuss it further please start another thread. should be interesting.
YW Moderator-80Membersarah
i think rsrh is giving you very good advice
June 24, 2011 5:17 pm at 5:17 pm in reply to: Flatbush- why are the streets so empty after dark? #780446YW Moderator-80Memberit was in college
i dont get drunk on Purim
June 24, 2011 5:11 pm at 5:11 pm in reply to: Flatbush- why are the streets so empty after dark? #780443YW Moderator-80Memberi was drunk once
terrible experience
you are wise in this regard
YW Moderator-80Memberi understand, again im sorry but we cant give warnings here. please stay you are welcome to post here and discuss music all you want, but you have to know it is very difficult to discuss individual artists without running into problems of L’H so any such discussion will be pretty limited and frustrating for you.
if you want to post here it may very well happen that some of your posts may be deleted or edited with no explanation. if that bothers you, well.
im going to keep this thread open, unless you really want me to close it, okay?
YW Moderator-80Memberyou talked about his singing has deteriorated.
whether that is true or not, that is Lashon Hara.
im sorry
YW Moderator-80Memberit is too difficult to give explanations of post deletions. it is a great idea but we cant do it. the reason other forums can (and not all do it, by any means) is because they are not nearly as careful as to what gets posted, and thus there are far fewer deletions
YW Moderator-80Memberit was pure Lashon Hara, and could impact that persons Parnassah, this website is widely read among his listeners.
now i imagine you will say its not Loshon Hara, but that is a decision to be made by the “frum” moderators here.
if you dont like frum Yidden, i would suggest you dont post here. if you continue posting insults about frum Yidden you will not be allowed to post here.
YW Moderator-80Memberi am not making him beg. and i told you i cannot change it. the reason, i have already told you and i prefer not to elaborate. please dont take your frustration out on me.
YW Moderator-80Membersince my nom-de-plume has been mentioned, let me say i dont know if rb is joseph or not, i have no inside information, and i have not thought about the matter at all. i have never changed his subtitles, and do not intend to. whichever moderator has decided his subtitle, is the only one who will change it. i wish you the best rb
YW Moderator-80Memberim so thankful that there are Yiddim who have a good knowledge of Torah that are posting in the CR
June 24, 2011 3:19 pm at 3:19 pm in reply to: A third of Litvish families I know, have one or more single daughters 25 and up #908895YW Moderator-80Memberso hes not joseph?
YW Moderator-80Memberyes
June 24, 2011 3:09 pm at 3:09 pm in reply to: A third of Litvish families I know, have one or more single daughters 25 and up #908893YW Moderator-80Memberhe is joseph
YW Moderator-80Memberas opposed to most threads, were going to try and keep this one on topic.
if anyone wants to continue the interesting question of how far a school should go to accomodate the unusual needs of the students, please start another thread.
YW Moderator-80Memberzahavasdad
Tefillah is D’Oraisa
but that is not nogeia really to the discussion at hand of how to help this worthy Bas Yisroel with a serious problem.
YW Moderator-80Memberwell klach, thats a problem
the only available solution at this time is for posters like you to continue to point out the Halachic principles, frustrating and time consuming as it is.
YW Moderator-80MemberPAA yes, and the only solution is for people like you to be as active as possible here and combat it as well as you can.
YW Moderator-80Memberi think you need to find an earlier minyan if possible
YW Moderator-80Memberplease continue saras conversation here
http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/long-davening?view=all
June 23, 2011 8:02 pm at 8:02 pm in reply to: Has the amount of Lashon Hara really decreased with all the attempts made? #779887YW Moderator-80Memberwell no, thats exactly what i meant to write. it would be very hard to make such a complicated typo. thank you for being dan l kaf zchus though. it is apparently not gramattically correct but that is what i intended to write
thank you
YW Moderator-80MemberHaLevi, i am only talking about myself so that you will not misunderstand her.
i have never said a S’E for an hour, but i have on many occasions said it for about 25-35 minutes. its not so much about “getting goodies” (in my case). its more about feeling the presence of Hashem, feeling gratitude, feeling love, and thinking about each word with a depth, closing out everything else except the nearness to Hashem.
its what Tefillah should be. i cant always do it. it is work. hard work for me. it is Avodah. it is wonderful
YW Moderator-80Memberyouve got a serious problem Sarah. if you cant find a solution you will have to do the best you can. G-d willing Hashem will help. if you dont seem to be able to solve the problem it will give you another opportunity to cry to and beg of Hashem.
Hashem will be with you in any case.
YW Moderator-80Memberim taking a personal and biased interest in this thread.
please try and help her or stay out of it
thank you
YW Moderator-80MemberIt should NOT take an hour to daven Shmoneh Esrei every day
how in the world did i ever interpret that as negative?
YW Moderator-80MemberFD
you misunderstood her
she is not switching schools to solve the problem
she was originally in a school where there was no problem
now that she is in a new school, this problem has arisen
YW Moderator-80Memberi echo the sentiments of yummy cupcake.
YW Moderator-80Membersarah
do not let the negative posts here discourage you.
this is a wonderful thing. you should continue to work on it. i wish you much help from Hashem.
can you think of a way that you would be able to fit it into the new schools schedule, and then talk to the head of the school about it?
YW Moderator-80Memberagain i disagree that: it should not take an hour to daven S’E, even 3 times a day on a regular basis. it depends on the person and their madreiga. i agree it is highly unusual. i agree the school should not be REQUIRED to accomodate this.
YW Moderator-80MemberMY normal 1 hour shemoneh esrei is not an oxymoron.
Shmoneh Esrei should not take you an hour.
i certainly would not say: “it should take you an hour.”
i also certainly would not say: “it should not take you an hour.”
if you never davened a VERY long Shemone Esrei you have no idea what the poster is talking about
YW Moderator-80Memberit sure is easier
people are also much less defensive about it. it is not so much a “personal” issue
recently the Rav of my shul spoke to the men about not going into the hallway of the Shul unless absolutely necessary. its a start.
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