This has always troubled me. This is the holiest day of a woman’s life, all her Avoinois are being Mechaper, and she is wearing a dress in public, which fits in a way she would never ever be seen in public. How is this right? Is this the way to begin a Bayis Neeman? And people wonder why they don’t have Shalom Bayis. The Rabbanim should gather together and refuse to attend such weddings. Who knows whether this has caused us such a long and terrible Galus.