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July 27, 2017 11:41 pm at 11:41 pm in reply to: Does anyone have the album “Solid Gold Volume 1” #1327431Yserbius123Participant
Thanks, I thought so.
July 17, 2017 11:06 am at 11:06 am in reply to: Marrying off the last one, does this mean we are officially old? 👴👵 #1318689Yserbius123ParticipantPut on Country Yossi’s “Mitzva Tantz” and get ready for years of taking care of grandchildren!
Who cares if you’re “old”? When did you officially become “an adult”? When you got married? Bought your first home? Had your first child? Married your first child? Age is just a number. (Unless it comes to medical issues, then getting old starts when the doctors start telling you “at your age you can expect…”)
Yserbius123ParticipantNot often. I’m not a big drinker and I try to keep my Tylonel/Advil/Aspirin consumption to a minimum.
Yserbius123ParticipantAlthough we try to be Dan L’Kaf Zechus on everyone, I don’t donate to a cause unless there are at least some reputable Rabbonim signed on. Who is her families Rov? Maybe he can start a fundraising campaign.
Yserbius123ParticipantJoseph: No, you conveniently “forgot” all the pertinent portions of the article. Specifically, on the third page, about halfway down and right above the picture of a smiling little boy, Frankfurter asks this guy about the allegations that kids would be taken from their parents and the guy responds with “Not anymore”. He further inquires about teenage marriages and the response is “A gadol is someone over 13”. You also conveniently have no way of explaining the bizarre behavior and dress of this group. Nor can you name any of these defenders you claim exist.
Yserbius123ParticipantJoseph: We’ve been through this before. Lev Tahor’s <i>only</i> defender is Frankfurter from Ami magazine. And in that article, he confirms nearly every major allegation made against the cult but tries to play it off like there’s nothing wrong with taking kids away from their parents or marrying off 14 year olds. I don’t know why you are so insistent on defending them. Do you think it’s normal for a guy with a minimal Yeshiva education to declare himself an Admor, become a huge kiruv macher, but insist that everyone live in extreme seclusion from the rest of the frum world and hold of an invented chumradicke standard of tznius and halacha?
Yserbius123Participantyehudayona: A guy I know went to Harvard Law School with just a BTL and good LSAT score. A few get accepted every year. I know plenty of other people that got into law school with just BTL and LSAT.
Yserbius123ParticipantWhat about if you wear contacts on a shidduch date, but never wear them otherwise?
Yserbius123ParticipantJoseph: Did you read the שטרות and קול קורא? I think it’s pretty obvious that this is a cult operating outside the bounds of Torah.
Yserbius123ParticipantI used to like Variations when it was one of two tapes in my bunk at Camp Rayim (the other was MBD’s “Yerushalayim We Will Never Leave You”). I tried to go back to it when I was older and couldn’t stomache the music. Partially because it’s just not as good as Abie Rottenberg, partially because it’s all goyishe songs with a few lyrics changed around to sound a little more Yiddish.
Yserbius123ParticipantHis sons will probably run the show from here, but I have a feeling they will no longer be able to sustain themselves and be unable to recruit new members.
Yserbius123ParticipantA BTL is only worthless for careers. It’s very useful for academics. You can forgo “filler” classes that many colleges require you to take, and it’s also much easier to get accepted in certain programs if you already have a degree.
Yserbius123ParticipantWhere is his/her father incarcerated?
Yserbius123ParticipantAnd the story is true. He would tell bachurim in Ohr HaChaim and Shaarei Chaim that when he hears that the Yankees won, he would still get a little feeling of thrill.
Yserbius123ParticipantWell yes, of course they are. Diamond tipped drills are the standard in certain industries and they are regularly used for boring holes of all shapes and sizes.
Yserbius123ParticipantCan we go full bore PC and change Hebrew too? From now on instead of saying “בן אדם” or even “בן אנוש” in any conjugation, you have to specify “בת חוה” if it refers to women or “בן אדם/בת חוה” if it could be either. So when you want to say in Hebrew “Look at all those people there!” you would say instead of “תסתכל על כל בני אדם שמה” rather “תסתכל על כל בני אדם בנות חוה שמה”. That would simplify matter greatly I feel.
Yserbius123ParticipantI’ve known many people who have been in and out of the Yeshiva. The only common denominator is the unfailing admiration for the Rosh HaYeshiva, Rav Moskowitz SHLITA. I’ve met him many times myself, and I must say he’s a phenomenal talmid chacham and human being in general.
Yserbius123ParticipantStupid question, but where are you ordering from? 2002? I haven’t seen packing peanuts in years. Most companies either use cardboard supports or inflated plastic bags.
January 10, 2017 3:09 am at 3:09 am in reply to: CONTROVERSY IN RAMAPO – LoHud Article Has Community Buzzing #1208262Yserbius123ParticipantA friend of mine put it like this:
People have to decide if they want to run the city or be the persecuted minority, you can’t have both.
Yserbius123ParticipantWill he be “neutral” in between the Israelis and Palestinians?
Yes. A huge part of his campaign has been about isolationism. He will state his vocal support of Israel, but work very hard to stop the aid and to not get involved in any peace treaties or what have you.
Yserbius123ParticipantGoogle can not. The best that they can do is point me in the right direction. Besides, Google’s first result is more often than not, Wikipedia. In this particular instance it happened to be the best resource (surprisingly more informative than Wolfram which is usually the front runner on all things math).
Point is, there are a huge host of topics which Wikipedia is by far the best resource for. And it can be enormously entertaining, either by reading up on interesting facts or by getting involved in edit wars like when I fought with those Meshichists that control all Lubavitch related articles.
There are far worse ways to spend your time and money.
Yserbius123ParticipantCan Encyclopedia Brittanica elaborate on the different algorithms for Bayesian networks and have links to various implementations?
December 9, 2016 3:36 pm at 3:36 pm in reply to: problems with not jewish college and this is why you should go to touro #1214983Yserbius123Participant- Believe it or not, unless you’re planning on becoming a Rebbe/Morah for your entire life, you’re going to deal with goyim on a regular basis in the course of your work. I’m not sure why having goyim in your classes would be a such a terrible thing in that light. Unless you’re incredibly susceptible to peer pressure and head out to bars with them, your interactions will probably be limited to discussing classwork.
- You can always claim for religious reasons you cannot work on Saturday. Most schools are very liberal and will bend over backwards to accommodate other religions. Believe it or not, the world isn’t full of anti-Semites out to getcha.
- Does it run in to Shabbos? If yes, see above. If no, what’s the issue exactly? When my uncle was in medical school, he would finish his final then walk home for an hour because it was too close to Shabbos to take a taxi. And this is in the 60s, when people were afraid to wear a yarmulka in class and there was no “frum option” for the most part. Stop being such a sissy.
- Nu? You deal with it. Before we were married, my wife would get ready at 6am on Fridays, go to her job, then come home with less than an hour until candle-lighting.
The world isn’t some pretty plastic frum bubble that we can all live in (at least not until Moshiach comes). There’s a goyishe velt and the majority of us cannot help but interact with it. If going to Touro instead of a different college is an option, kol hakavod. But for most people it’s not. And even people in Touro end up working in non-frum places too. I’ve even heard Rebbeim telling people not to go to Touro, as in a goyish school you know to keep your distance from social events, but in a frum school you may end up with the wrong crowd.
Baruch Hashem we live in a time where it’s more possible than ever to be frum. Baruch Hashem we don’t have to hide our Yiddishkeit in the streets. Baruch Hashem rather than getting fired every Sunday, an employer can be in deep trouble for not accommodating a frum employee. Baruch Hashem we can even go to college and find well paying jobs, instead of either being rejected for our long skirts or peyos. Baruch Hashem attending a college doesn’t mean that we have to reject halacha.
Repeat after me: “Instead of complaining about the choices I made in my life, I will thank Hashem that I am able to make those choices.”
October 20, 2016 1:21 am at 1:21 am in reply to: Translate the following sentence to another language: #1187238Yserbius123ParticipantAinay udway ereeway uchmay ikelay otay eepday riefay ehthay adioray andnay andhay itnay utay ehthay ostmanpay.
Yserbius123ParticipantOverrated, too rich and heavy. That describes a lot of people and the Siegleman hazelnut cake that they like too.
I one time was at a kiddush out of the Tri State Area where one went almost completely uneaten. People unused to it just don’t really like it that much. Which cements my opinion that it’s more of a status symbol than an actual enjoyable dish.
September 26, 2016 4:08 pm at 4:08 pm in reply to: Cute or funny simanim for Rosh hashana :) #1184780Yserbius123ParticipantRav Moshe Heineman SHLITA of the Star K has a minhag to eat half a raisin and a piece of celery to “have a raise in salary”.
Yserbius123ParticipantWait wait, are we talking Chutz La’Aretz or Eretz Yisroel? Because in the US there’s a huge variety of people who refer to themselves as “Hareidi” and a similarly sized variety of Yeshivos. Some put nearly as much emphasis on secular education as limud Torah, and some barely (often not even) meet the minimal requirements stated by law.
So let me try to answer your question for both the Chutz La’aretz and Israel.
In Israel, there is a massive amount of distrust for the government and non-Torah studies in general. This stems from a history of the memshala trying to push Chareidim to go one way or another along with the huge anti-religious bent in a lot of Israeli universities. It lead to a culture of opposition to being machshiv anything that isn’t Torah. You can criticize it all you want, but that’s just how it is.
In the US, like I said for the most part there’s little open opposition to secular studies. Though there is a growing trend for High Schools to be more like Israeli Yeshivot Ketanot. Let’s focus on them. Those people who run those Yeshivos and the parent body have a modern Yeshivish mindset: That their little yingele will learn in Kollel his whole life and get a job as a Rebbi if he needs to make a chasuna. In that sense, yes. Secular studies are frowned upon. They are seen as a means to an end. The means in this case are the absolute minimal skills required to interact with the world outside the ? ????? ??? ????.
Chassidishe schools have a similar mindset, but not so much to train kids for Kollel as it is an idea that everything they need will come from the Chassidishe community so why would they ever need to learn trigonometry.
Personally, I am a ?? ????? ??? that comes from a long line of ?????? ????? which, for the last 5 generations as far as I could tell, have all gone to institutes of higher learning and taken secular education extremely seriously. My extended family consists of plenty of college grads few, if any, have strayed from the Derech and most of which are massive ?????? ?????. So I can tell you what the mindset is for people who frown upon secular studies, but I cannot explain it logically nor can I ever see myself agreeing with it.
Yserbius123ParticipantSayIDidIt: Nazis also used the reverse swastika (which the tumedika internet tells me is called a sauwistika). But it’s more prominently displayed at a 45 degree angle, like on the Third Reich flag. In Eastern cultures it’s almost always lying flat.
Yserbius123ParticipantJoseph: Yet you again refuse to address the majority of my comment and instead choose to focus on your disbelief of any journalist who doesn’t write for Ami. And it was 26 years, not 20. I admit my mistake about CPS, that was in Canada too. Everything else I said was accurate. You accuse me of not naming my sources, yet you adamantly refuse to name any either! Who are these Rabbonim that allegedly support them? Who is their Da’as Torah? I’ve heard numerous Rabbonim speak out against them, yet you seem to live in some sort of fantasy world where the gedolim support this abhorrent facsimile of Yiddishkeit.
Yserbius123ParticipantJoseph: First off, you still didn’t address all the issues I pointed out very clearly. Namely, those issues where you don’t need a magazine article to verify are true.
The kidnapping charge was 25 years ago and there were Rabbonim then that stood behind him. More recently, around 10 years ago, New York authorities like Child Protective Services leveraged accusations and investigations against the cult which responded by moving to Canada. And in that case, no one stood behind him.
The accusations stem from far more than just “two non-frum people”, there have been multiple articles based on interviews with cult members and people who went into their compounds to investigate, including one by Ami the very magazine you source to defend them! Let’s focus on one: The Mishpacha. Was that by a, ahem, “bitter youngster” or was that by a frum person who dealt with them and spoke with current members?
Yserbius123ParticipantAvi K: Only according to some versions of religious Zionism which was viewed as nonesense by the vast majority of frum Rabbonim 60 years ago and is still viewed as such by most gedolim.
Yserbius123ParticipantThe were only in Quebec because they had the same issues in Monsey! No Rabbonim or askonim stood up for them and several were very outspoken against them. Unless the “notoriously anti-Semitic Monseyites” were out to get them too? Explain that contradiction: How come Monsey has no problem with the thousands of Chassidim that live within its borders but gave endless tzores to this small group of a few dozen? Why does Montreal not treat Tosh the same way they treated LT?
You are ignoring most of my objections and comments instead repeating the same falsehoods and half-truths over and over again.
I repeat myself. Most of the articles written against LT came from frum authors in frum news sources who actually went and spoke with LT members themselves. Although there were some off the derech frum-hating people that accused them, they were the minority.
I repeat again. One of the reasons I stopped reading Ami magazine was because of how they addressed two of the major allegations against Lev Tahor. The teen marriages and taking kids from their parents. Both were brushed aside. My memory isn’t perfect, but it sure isn’t that faulty. If you have the article in front of you (as you claim) then read those parts again and explain them.
I repeat noch veiter. There is no Da’as Torah in the LT cult. Everything is dictated by their guru who is a Ba’al Teshuva that spent less time in Yeshiva than most people in CR. The members grow up barely knowing how to read a gemara, yet they spend all day reciting the words of this mans books.
I repeat for the last time. They have no support of gedolim. Only a small handful of Rabbonim have spoken in support of them. And said support usually consists of “Don’t be so harsh to them, you don’t know all the details.” But that’s eclipsed by all the Rabbonim who have publicly spoken out against them.
If you could answer those objections, I will see your argument as having merit. As it stands, all you’ve been doing is repeating the same thing: that my sources can’t be trusted as you don’t think that they are frum enough.
Yserbius123ParticipantI know that NK and no one else endorses Palestinian rule. But NK has a decent amount of support from several major Chassiduses in the US and Israel. You should hang around Meah Shearim and ask people what they think of them.
And I mentioned the lack of alternative to bring to light what NK and their supporters are really saying. If you don’t support Israel, and you wish for it to go away, what you are doing is supporting total Palestinian rule.
September 21, 2016 3:13 pm at 3:13 pm in reply to: Tell us about your first date with your spouse #1183900Yserbius123ParticipantHotel lobby. Pretty boring in retrospect. I came to her house 10 minutes late due to being lost. Her mother answered the door and we exchanged pleasantries. We drove to a hotel, sat down, ordered a coke for me and water for her. We talked. I brought her home and said good night.
Yserbius123ParticipantI wouldn’t say “treason” but they are most certainly bordering on, if not actually, a chillul Hashem. There’s nothing wrong with being opposed to Zionism. There’s probably nothing wrong with opposition to Israel as a Jewish state. There is a huge problem to publicly announce that Jews support the “Palestinian cause” as it’s essentially support for anti-Jewish terrorism.
Yserbius123ParticipantI one time had to travel to the Far East for business. There were swastikas and reverse swastikas everywhere. It’s an old symbol for luck. The Nazi swastika is sort of at a 45 degree angle which is how it differs from the Eastern symbol.
Yserbius123ParticipantDisparaging people who you disagree with? Now it’s up to you to decide who is and who isn’t frum? There’s no lies, you’re the only gullible one here.
Cross Currents is run in part by Rabbi Avi Shafran who was one of the head administrators of the Agudah for a very long time, and Rabbi Avrohom Gordimer who held a similar position in the OU. The Mispacha article was written by frum people who had first hand experience with the Lev Tahor cult. The Five Towns Jewish Times article was an interview with the family of a cult member who traveled to Guatemala to see what they’re all about.
Think about it for a minute, just think! How many Rabbonim have stood up to defend the Lev Tahor guru? Where are the askonim working night and day to get the children back to their families? No one defends them, except Ami magazine and you.
Meyer Lansky didn’t have any frum people accusing him either (as far as I know), why aren’t you defending his memory?
Yserbius123ParticipantJoseph: Every frum magazine and website from our own YWN, the Aguda affiliated Cross Currents, to Mishpacha. Better yet, what Rav or gadol supports them, because they clearly have no da’as Torah.
I did not speak with them and my only interactions was occasionally running into frum naqib-clad women in Rockland Kosher 10 years ago. But virtually everyone who’s last name isn’t “Frankfurter” that had any interaction with them confirms the allegations. I don’t have the Ami article in front of me, but you clearly do. Frankfurter asks him about the teenage marriages and children being taken from their homes. Can you post what the LT guru responds to that?
And again, Ami didn’t address a lot of the accusations, like members not being allowed to work outside the commune, or the schools teaching only the stuff that the guru wrote, or the guru not actually having much experience in terms of learning. And, like I said, even Ami had at one point written an article attacking them.
In general we say that the burden of proof is on the accuser, but in this case there are about a dozen or so accusers (some frum some secular) and one very shakey defense. So I’m going to ignore the ??? ???? on this one. You’re more than welcome to keep defending them, but so long as your defense consists of “Come on guys! Be dan l’kaf z’chus!” I’m going to ask you to extend that to all Jews, including Meyer Lansky, Lepke Buchalter, Madoff, Gilad Atzmon, the entirety of the Israeli government, and all those horrific college going working people.
Yserbius123Participantamerican_yerushalmi: It may be that no one outright endorses Palestinian rule, but they aren’t exactly supporting any sort of alternative. And the so-called Neturei Karta (to distinguish it from the historical organization of the same name that was supported by gedolei Yisroel) does openly support the destruction of Israel by the Palestinians. One of their late leaders was even Yasser Arafat’s minister of religion. And these people have a ton of acceptance and support among certain Chassidim and Yerushalmis.
Yserbius123ParticipantJoseph: I honestly cannot believe that you are defending them. There have been multiple investigations, both by secular authorities and frum organizations. Almost all of them substantiate each other, with the sole exception of the Ami article. And even the Ami article never contradicts some of the more major accusations, as I mentioned in my previous comment. Even Frankfurter later begrudgingly acknowledged that the accusations need to be seriously looked in to. Oh, and Ami had also previously published an article bashing Lev Tahor like everyone else did.
It shouldn’t take a genius to realize that there’s something seriously seriously wrong with Lev Tahor. Their guru never received smicha and determines everything about their lives. The kids only learn chumash and books written by the guru. Their manner of dress and adherence to kashrus goes far beyond what would even be considered machmir to the point where it may be k’negged halacha. There is no possibility for a member to have an independent income, all money is handled by the guru. Interviews with former members and families of members confirm most of the accusations. Members are almost exclusively either lieutenants of the guru chosen from his family, or new ba’alei teshuva or people from broken homes who don’t have a complete understanding of Yiddishkeit and need an authority figure as they’ve lost the connection to their family.
How can you possibly defend them?
Yserbius123ParticipantJackson Pollack was a hack. Van Gogh was fascinating as he was one of the first artists not to paint realistically but how he saw the world.
Einstein is held up as a genius because he was near-uncontested in his secular knowledge. He discovered an entire field of physics and science that completely upended everything that preceded it. Werner Heisenberg did the same, but his stuff was more esoteric and less practical so he didn’t get the same attention.
September 20, 2016 4:08 pm at 4:08 pm in reply to: Why Rabbaonim in Israel and America SILENT when Frum Soldiers Screamed At #1184281Yserbius123ParticipantBenK: Please write in a calm and coherent manner. I have difficulty reading your posts.
The super frum neighborhoods of Yerushalayim have a history of hating on the army. While I cannot agree with the actions of these people, I certainly am not surprised. This is the same neighborhood which pamphlets, petchkvilim, and graffiti are regularly being motzei shem ra on gedolei yisroel who have the audacity to say that joining the army is better than going off the derech.
September 20, 2016 3:56 pm at 3:56 pm in reply to: Take the TV out of the Restaurant or we will shut you down #1181050Yserbius123ParticipantUp until a few years ago, there was a goyishe place that was a lot worse than just a sports bar operating on Route 59 right in Monsey.
If a goy wants to open a sports bar in Monsey, fine. No one will care since no frum people will eat there. Sure frum people may come by to watch a game and get a beer, but that’s their own prerogative. It’s not under a hechsher, so no Rav is deeming their actions Kosher.
Yserbius123ParticipantJoseph: Read it again. He was specifically asked about taking children away from parents and teen arranged marriages. Read his responses.
Yserbius123ParticipantEveryone here is ignoring tuition breaks. Which I think is fine, as there are very few families that can afford a full tuition for more than one or two kids in Yeshiva. One kid in school can get by on a 100k salary. This is also obviously talking about the US. In Eretz Yisroel, having multiple children doesn’t add too much to the financial burden as there are much larger tax breaks and tuition for most Chedarim is less than a fifth of the US.
Yserbius123ParticipantI mean, if we are arguing as to whether or not to believe the authorities, we can just take the word of their guru in his interview with Ami. Mind you, Rabbi Frankfurter tried really hard to paint Lev Tahor in a positive light but there were certain things that there’s just no good way of saying it. Like when asked about the allegations that kids are taken away from their parents, the guru openly admitted that it happened and gave a hand-wavey non response basically saying “We admit that there may be better ways to do chinuch”. When inquiring about the arranged marriages of 13 year olds, the response was “Well, they are gedolim according to halacha!”.
And it’s not anti-Semitism either. There are a thousand thousand different Chassidishe groups out there, and you don’t see the frum oilom unilaterally forming against them. Nor do you see authorities swooping into New Square to declare the parents negligent.
September 19, 2016 5:12 pm at 5:12 pm in reply to: Take the TV out of the Restaurant or we will shut you down #1181032Yserbius123ParticipantWhat hechsher is it under anyway? I know that I’ve seen TV’s in restaurants before, but never an entire restaurant centered around one.
Yserbius123ParticipantEmmanuel was a single instance and resulted in a huge backlash against the medina stating rules for Yeshivos and Bais Yaakovs. There have only been a handful of similar incidents over the last few decades, such as the recent attempt at a ruling for the Misrad HaChinuch to define Bais Yaakov curriculum. It’s a song and dance that the government and Chareidim go through every few years. The government makes some decision, the Chareidim protest, and everything returns to normal.
I’d also like to get back to the thing I brought up earlier. These mythical people who somehow manage to spend their lives in ??? ???? without taking money from the government working for institutions that also take no Zionist money. Let me get this straight: They exist, but they probably number less than 100. I mean, when I was in Eretz Yisroel I heard of the idea. So did nearly every Israeli born Chareidi I knew. But when pressed, few of them could think of a single person who actually followed it.
There’s the Soleveitchik family, who support each other due to the fact that they have a lot of big American donors. Most of the money goes to one or two Yeshivas, which goes to the families as salaries. When they need medical attention, they fly to Europe and go to hospitals there so as not to have to rely on ???? ?????. I believe the Tannenbaums in Satmar B’nei Brak have a similar situation, but that’s about it. The vast majority of Chareidim, no matter how anti-medina/pro-Badatz they are, simply cannot live without government support.
And for that matter, Satmar and many other Chareidishe groups are pro-Palestinian rule. They aren’t all Neturei Karta, but they don’t exactly oppose their ????? either. How else do you interpret the words “?????? ??????? ??? ??? ???????”? Or setting clocks to “Islamic time” (12:00 is shekia) so as to not acknowledge “medina time”?
September 18, 2016 6:29 am at 6:29 am in reply to: Take the TV out of the Restaurant or we will shut you down #1180999Yserbius123ParticipantJoseph: So you’re justifying the nezek that happened to Touro? Not to mention the motzei shem ra? And sheker (as the quotes by R’ Moshe were fabrications)?
Look I’m glad that you, despite your obvious misgivings, have chosen a life of kollel. But for the vast majority of people, we cannot all live on tzedaka. And making a parnoso in most cases means some form of post-high school education.
R’ Elya was never against colleges. He was merely opposed to Touro as he felt it was trying to make college into an Yiddishe thing. R’ Shach also had very complex opinions on college that in no way can be summed up with a vague quote from one of his seforim about “YU type institutions” (of which Touro is a completely different zach). He was talking about Ma’arava in Eretz Yisroel and he privately encouraged people to attend even though for political reason he opposed it.
Yserbius123ParticipantJoseph: Patently false. Both Satmar and Brisk have no problem accepting state funding for their shuls and Yeshivos (with the exception of the big ones that are funded by American dollars). And I’ve never heard of a sick person or pregnant woman pulling out a wad of cash at Bikur Cholim or Shaare Tzedek because they refuse to accept the state medical care.
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