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why do u have to do anything abt it?

you ging to go to a non jewish court?!? what are you? maybe kindly use you words! dont rush to a non jewish court!

i havent read what everyone else wrote this is the halacha not sure who says it:

from the knees and up you cannot even see the form that means your tight/leggigs or whatever you want to wear…abpve the knee has to be covered by a skirt and then from the knee and down its not assur to show the form therefore we are allowed to wear tights/ leggiings etc.

and the four inches below your knee IS NOT halacha its just something ppl take on bec if your skirt is four inches then your knees will definatley not show!

i hope everything is clear now!

but i thought there was a rabbi if im not mistaken the rav of the mir in yershalyim did once ask abt a game? so then why is it assur?

i havent posted in awjile and u seem to be in allot of pain and stress and i know there is this number that u can call its free and they help u find a therapist which is good yet your insurance will cover i didnt read what the other ppl said but if u want i can get it for u. just let me know

getting back to the ops q

i have an answer yet this is my opinion!

facebook is a way which people can connect to ther people without having there # or know their name…i have gone on facebook and was able to find information abt ppl without having to know who they are on a personal level i just looked for their friend clicked on their name and if they didnt block themselves i would be able to see their pictures and some ppl even put their cell #.

this is a way whicjh ppl can connect with others whom they meet once in their life or sometimes never

adults mite use this wisely yet with teenagers or younger ppl they began talking to people who they dont know…and are able to convince them to do diff things or they begin talking to the opposite gender which doesnt just stop there. they beging talking then they want to meet and it never stops i can go ojn and on… but im sure most of you know what can happen.

so know its in your hand to decide whether or not u would like to go on and put your entire life on there.

p.s. it also destroys shidduchim.. women and men begin to also talk to opposite gender behind their spouses backs.

people who were not able to talk to u till now bec had no way of getting your #, can now!

you cant ask other people what they would want bec for each individual its diff…bec everyone is different you have to look at yourself what do u have that u want ur wife to have as well which attributes do u forsure want. cuz noone has all! chap what im saying?

hohalevy just by watching girls outside can say something abt them!! although ppl say dont judge…or even talking to girls once ur on a date ask the shadchan specific qs and dont forget nooo girl is perfect!!!

hohalevy:

you have to look at yourself and decide what you think is importatnt! what are your values?? there are many questions you have to ask yourself you cant just jump into cold water just like that. if you do it shows u have no plan for life u just take things as they come! look at urself rite now and see..do the things you do know do u want to continue or change heres an ex a boy watches movies he has to ask himself.. or even if he doesnt does he want to have a tv? does he want to watch once he gets married? once in a while? every nite? or not at all? the Q is what type of family do u want to raise?? and how u want to do it? stuff like that. then you can start looking for a girl who shares the same views and priorities as u who u can build a home with

thanks!!!!

neone have ne advice for girls goin to meohr???

for every family its different. it depends on each families standards and then that will depend on how they will make ends meet.

who gave me mine???

the reason why i dont like it is bec its bad for ur health even if there was food near me that i didnt like and bothered me a great deal i would either move or ask the personif not eating to move it somewhere else but with smoking he wasnt even smoking and he reeeked really badly was i supposed to ask him to move out of the room??

they attract diff crowds mochon raaya is more regular flatbush girls solid girls and out of towners bnos sara is yeshivsh from lakewood mainly and i believe more academic

neone can give me more info abt this sem and if there is an open house in bklyn???

Does none now nothing abt Meohr and seminar I need info I have to decide where I’m applying!

the best thing to make is croutons my mom uses the a chopper that cuts the challah into small cubes then she puts in a pan spices and lets it cook for a bit not sure4 how long and it comes out really good!!