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I think parents who could support easily should and parents who cant shouldn’t why should people put their parents in the position of supporting if they cant.

Taking loans or mortgages just puts their parents further in debt how could people do that to parents??

I dont understand why parents who are financially secure(but cant support a couple)would put themselves into major debt? I mean it’s one thing if the parents can do it then great but another thing if parents cant and by putting yourself into debt doesnt ease the situation! It just makes things worse in the long run!

– interast rates soaring,bad credit score….leading to more and more debt!

When your dating you want to get to meet the person not someone putting on an act I went out with a guy who went out of his way to impress me he rented a fancy car, spent tons of money at a fancy restaurant and kept talking about how much he earns and I wasn’t impressed at all! I actually thought why does he feel the need to show off?

a lady i know wants to set me up but she doesnt know the rules of shidduchim so she wants me to look into the guy at the same time as he’s looking into me. I always thought ppl go to the guy first and when he says “yes” thats when the girl looks into him. Should i look into him even though he hasnt said anything??