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To clarify my first statement the people I am doing kiruv with are only accessible to me online
I do kiruv online and have to stay in contact with quite a few people. I use the bb instead of a computer (not that I would have minded having a normal phone and a computer separate but the bb is what came with the contract and it works)
I am not sure about exotic vacations but one has to create a balance between putting his entire focus on wanting moshiach and making hishtadlus to run a material physical life
Thank you aries (again).
WIY: I wasn’t exactly looking for advice rather than opinions but you are correct and thank you for pointing that out (and I should have thought of going to the bookstore)
I am sorry but I just thought of a clearer way of asking what I want. How does/would a person know they are ready for marriage? (And it isn’t just a fantasy?)
Another question. How does the whole process even start?
Okay what constitutes maturity? (This whole thing of when is a person ready for marriage, is a point of contention so I am trying to see what “outsiders” have to say)
Myfriend try telling that to any parent (forget mine)
A person can be “of age” and totally not be ready for marriage (like some of my friends)
Yes but what is necessary for a person to be suitable for marriage?
And if it was just age then I would be married already
It is not just age that is a “requirement” for marriage there are other factors. What constitutes maturity? And what else is necessary?
What is required of a person before he/she would be considered ready to be in shidduchim?
Thanx aries (you sound like you are either a shadchan/is or a person with knowledge/experience or both)
One question though, how do I open such a discussion?
Thanx
It is not exactly shidduchim I am worried about it is the other factors which affect it
No it just scares me such situations exist (I know I have read the thread and articles on related topic(s) but still…) And I am not batuach that my parents and I do see eye to eye
Kasha thanx but you aren’t helping the matter 😛
I am going to risk the mods for this one but on a totally unrelated topic did the 3rd general lose his job too?
I was hoping to come back to the cr for some respite but not only do I find out that 1) mazal tov my brother got engaged so now I am next and 2) I have to bump into this thread which makes me dread even more going/being in shidduchim…. (By the way are all the moderators still here or were there switches while I was gone?)
Hey guys I am back stronger than ever especially now that I have a blackberry so the computer issue is now cleared up! See you all around (again)
kapusta: i was standing almost a whole day today does that count?
jewish girl: not sure what you mean by that.
wow i am am glad someone remembers the one and only thread i started!
alright looks like there are enough… wait this should go on general schmooze see ya there
they’re doing away with regents now? why couldn’t they have done it four years ago this way i wouldn’t have had to take them? i agree they are a waste.
kapusta: yes i remember quite fondly general schmooze 2 i had some really good times on there …..moment of silence……
dr. pepper: baruch hashem i can say this but which one? i am not sure how long i have been off but if it is the one i think it is she is quite precocious just like her other siblings were (since then baruch hashem i have had another niece and another nephew bli eiyen hara and my brother got married (though i think i posted about that during the summer) (by the way is this mr. dr. pepper? lol)
oh and one other thing i was around during general schmooze one and two. when did three start? volvie, how long have you been in the room?
ok so we were together with jax kapusta mepal a600kilobear etc
and i recognize yours too. how long have you been a part of the crazy… er i mean coffee room?
let’s see how many people remember me…. (and if enough do i might give an update of what is happening in life)
boy do i appreciate all this chizuk especially after all that i have lost and now with my rebbe’s condition not really known then i hear about my good friend yehuda……..
where in the torah do we see a mekor for choson cigarettes? it says eliezer brought to rivkah a PACK OF CAMELS
stats show that there are less bald eagles now than 20 years ago which goes to show that anti hair loss medication works
hmmm i am thinking of going to the espionage thread i got that joke texted to me from turxjokes
my sister just had a baby girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!
yay!! new members!! welcome curlygirly!!!!
is there any specific reason why you are only eating one? because i would think to suggest (oh great there goes the gemarra getting to me) that avoid the whole shaila altogether and eat a few of them
wow am i young i thought i was on here for at least a year i have four months more till i hit that
my brother (standing at oh say 5′ 2″) married a girl close to six feet tall (one way or the other)( and she was the shortest in her family)
aack!! don’t tell me all of the old threads are starting to die out!! nooo!
yehoshua zuber (mainly known in y.u. and in certain places in israel and very well throughout boston)
happy birthday mybat
i forgot to post yesterday: happy birthday to my niece who was born on my birthday and is exactly seven years younger than me!
awright awright for pookie: GO YANKS!!!!!!!
well being that i really go for the mets i will just say GO NEW YORK!!!!!!!!!!
happy birthday to me….happy birthday to me…..happy biiirthday to meee……happy birthday to me.
brachos to all that can handle them and moshiach now!
c’mon you guys with all this talk about lunch the thread fell off the page (probably because everyone went to eat)
here! and feeling great (no more sore throat, fever, lethargy,…) hope it lasts
no. i am just happy that my 2 year wait is over (you see if i am 1_ than i don’t have to be under my parents thereby making it that i wouldn’t be a driver on their car thereby not pushing their insurance up)
yay! i am feeling better! and i am legally 1_ so i can get my EMT and drivers license!!!!
naw (possible strep (yet another story) i was supposed to go in yesterday but the receptionist gave me a hard time so i had to go straight to the doctor (who davens by the yeshiva) which pushed off my appointment to this morning (the day of the chasuna)
yeah i am still here today (thursday) i can’t do much being that the good dr. told me not to go to my chavrusa’s wedding (long story)