Now I am debating whether I should get a subtitle myself (be it my own creation or ask the mods to think of something)

😀

I have watched (and still do watch) most of the shows mentioned here, and I am surprised that the cosby show has only been mentioned once. It is most definitely up there with I love lucy and the honymooners (and no it doesn’t show our age at all (I haven’t even been on this earth for two decades just yet (I am getting there-quite close actually)

I am not trying to push here and I am not exactly qualified to give advice but as a person who went through (and sometimes it still is hard and may feel like I still am going through) the “bumps” myself I did find that as uncomfortable as it may be you must talk with someone or else as maynish put it you are destroying yourself. Now if you can get someone anonymous (which I didn’t) good and fine but if you can’t, as hard as it may be, go speak to someone you know, a real friend/mentor/etc, the type of person that no matter what happens will always be there (I spoke with my father and my rebbe and I feel that not only do they not respect me, on the contrary they think more of me for coming to talk to them. This is not saying that I have no problems calling them up/talking to them in person but there are times due to the fact that I have already spoken to them, that the next time is easier)

May Hashem help in all that you need

Hey funcused is my word! (I actually got it from my nephew (or maybe my brother I forget which) I guess this means it isn’t my word anymore oh well 😀 (I think I will start signing with this type of smiley :D)

Yeah I noticed it too. This place has changed since the “old” days

I don’t mind doing laundry, dishes, or putting away groceries (or vacuuming, sweeping, etc) but it seems like an odd occupation for a guy (similar to babysitting which for some reason is a “girls job”) (unless it is for someone I know then I don’t feel odd doing it-hey for all you here who don’t like these chores why don’t I come and do them for you? I’ll give you a special CR discount 😀 )

The goq: whaddya mean you didn’t have a choice in the matter?

I don’t see the problem if you use a second name because it is understood that they are just representing what you are feeling at the time and you are being open and clear about what you are doing (just don’t pull a joseph and start talking to yourself (or as my father is fond of saying, there is no issue with talking to yourself just so long you don’t answer yourself)

Jaymatt19: there are seforim that deal with this or you could learn halacha (kitzur shulchan aruch, mishnah berurah, etc) and work out for yourself which situations require the right hand regardless

Real-brisker: some times when halacha mentions using the right hand it only means the dominant hand not necessarily the actual right hand and it can be confusing (there are quite a few “switcharoos” in my family)

Jack Daniels

On the rocks

I am seeing double

I just find this funny

I was told that the proper way to do things is go through the parents and only go through the kids if the parents are being obstacles or if the kids are entirely independent (and even then people go through the parents) them again it depends on your circles

Ever notice that when someone does mention how many kids they say bli ayin hara? (Or knayna hara)

I think it is an american mishegas (ever notice how parents tend not to tell their kids how old they are?)

Ok, eclipse I will oblige, you get to eat all the posters 😀 (only if you like paper though …) Though I am not authorized to say it being that I can’t be a judge (unless I become a mod before the contest starts or during if I haven’t guessed yet then again I don’t really like paper) lol

Nichoach niggunim (typically known as the chabad compilations) though if I am in a lebedig mood I prefer lively dance music (though the music style and the words have to fit (for example I don’t particularly go for zachreini na)

My nephew is a choson (he is five days older than me), one of my old chavrusot had a baby boy, and a close chaver of mine just got engaged

And I thought chayav was a bachur … I guess you can’t judge a person by their screen name …

The word kapusta means cabbage (ask her why she chose that SN or you can find the thread yourself which goes through the screen names)

For all you here looking for more jewish music my friend (who I mentioned before) is (working on) putting out a cd. I hopefully will not be long in following myself

As much as joseph may have done, in a way I feel bad for him(?)

You might know me in real life but I wouldn’t know if it was you. I am vouching based on the days of GS 1 and 2

Hmm I say it definitely works both ways (male or female) I don’t have a wife yet but I will definitely keep this in mind. One thing though (as chayav pointed out) what does this have to do with the title of the thread? (And what happened to my usual lebedig self? I used to fly all around with non-serious comments (ok on occasion there were some serious ones-mods I know this isn’t the place for this just gimme a bit and I should be back into the swing of things please?)

Oh and in keeping in line with the thread I can vouch that kapusta and wolfishmusings are two separate people (sorry gotta get back into the swing of things I have been gone a bit too long)

Wow I have obviously not been in the coffee room for a looong time (though I did poke my head in for a drop a while back but that doesn’t really count) I should get to know the new guys. Hi guys! (Or gals if you so happen to be one and depending if you don’t have a problem anonymously speaking with the opposite gender (reference to GS 1 or 2 I forget which)

Why am I making a mistake? A person was put into this world to live in this world (obviously (using the physical) in service of Hashem) Hashem doesn’t want a person to be a hermit on a mountain top that defeats the purpose of having been put here in the first place