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yossi z.Member
Does marriage put an end to teenageness? Why?
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yossi z.MemberMe too but until I turn twenty I will hold on to being a teen as much as I possibly can so I am on the teen side π
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yossi z.MemberYes I get it too and I have no idea what causes it. What I do know is that it doesn’t interfere with the post being sent (at least it never did by me)
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yossi z.MemberOne of my favorite quotes about teens: when you are younger you think your parents are so dumb and when you get older you are amazed at how much they learned in so few years …
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yossi z.MemberBeing stuck in between being not able to do anything yet having to be responsible and everything like a full adult. Then again it is kind of preparation for later life like having to do mitzvos and stuff before bar mitzvah
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yossi z.MemberI’ll back you up on that. Due to some simple thinking I figured you are chayav and only chayav and there is no other chayav (wait that sounds familiar lol). Seriously though I believe you.
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yossi z.MemberOne of the winners was piamenta (I believe the concert on sunday was to narrow down to the top three)
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yossi z.MemberWorking (I don’t get off for the secular holidays)
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yossi z.MemberIn regards to?
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yossi z.MemberYeah I could hear that. When people see me they assume I speak yiddish and I don’t. I look and am chassideshe but I don’t seem it at all. In other words I keep all the chumros and stuff but I can be/am a chiller. I don’t mind as it is a good conversation opener … Hey you just gave me a great idea! Thanks!
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yossi z.MemberYes I did and I explain by the comments on my video how/why I (got) messed up
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yossi z.MemberRebbitzen: c’mon, share you had page 17 π
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yossi z.MemberPage 18 welcomes you with smiles π π =D
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yossi z.Member$1000 and a 2 year lease on a car plus a voice lesson from avrohom fried, and some other things along that line which I don’t remember off the top of my head. Today was/is (I don’t know the time frame) a concert but I don’t know the results (nor was I able to make it to the concert)
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yossi z.MemberYes I was on a jewish star but didn’t make it past the first round. If you look at the comments on the video I explain why/how I was messed over. Hey, if I am still in the country next year (which is highly possible) then maybe I will try again.
By the way I googled myself and I am the only yossi zuber that shows up so the chances of me being a yossi zuber that you see elsewhere are quite high
Out of curiosity, why would you think I am not chassideshe?
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yossi z.MemberPascha: did I miss something or are you referring to the fact that I find continuing not to be an issue?
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yossi z.Member3rd cousins? First cousins I could hear, second cousins ok but third cousins? Isn’t that a bit far removed?
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yossi z.MemberDaas: which one? =D
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yossi z.MemberBinahyeseira: what? You mean like a normal, real, conversation? Nah, why would we do that? Seriously though how do you start the conversation because I find that continuing isn’t an issue but starting is (this goes for topics as well)
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yossi z.MemberCandy: I answered that question in a different thread. What I said was that I am a bostoner (which is a chassidus stemming from EY though if you go back far enough we trace back to brody ukraine) so the way I find the term to be used, I would say no but I am a chossid. Why?
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yossi z.MemberYeeah .. I don’t know about that. Nothing against her or anything, I just don’t know if it would be a good match (I am a working boy (which I don’t know if that would be an issue or not and I would feel uncomfortable bringing up even as a theoretical case what she/her parents think of working boys) and there is too much I don’t know-gee I seem to be getting set up by people who set up by personality and not enough info-yeah its happened before) and if she knew that the shidduch was suggested, well it would make things on the awkward side whenever we saw each other (baruch Hashem there have been many happy occasions at which we bump into each other)
Unless you have suggestion(s) as to other ways of going about things? Not that I would bedavka want to look into it as a shidduch, I just would have no issue if you had a (better) idea of how to do things
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yossi z.MemberUm not all boys love discussing yeshivah politics, yeshivah gossip maybe (I personally don’t like either)
I like the idea of discussing what should be talked about on dates. That could turn out to be quite a fun/ny conversation
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yossi z.MemberChayav probably does it because maybe s/he gets irked by people trying to figure out what s/he is. Besides, hasn’t this topic gone on long enough, been spread over enough threads, and defeat the purpose of the coffee room? (At the beginning it may have been fun/ny, amusing, or whatnot but now the whole topic is starting to irk me can we just leave chayav alone to his/her postings?)
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yossi z.MemberNot only chassideshe “royals” but all royals inter-bred (look at english royal history specifically)
Uncles marrying nieces, as strange as it may seem is/was actually encouraged by the mishna and halacha (bas gilo)
Medically speaking, as was pointed out, if nothing shows up to be a problem then why not? True you may be narrowing the gene pool so it wouldn’t be recommended for everyone to be running around rampant marrying their first cousins but I don’t see it as an issue
On the other hand if it is a cousin one knows so yeah it may seem awkward (someone tried setting me up with a second cousin of mine and well let us just say that I am happy she never heard about it (when I was in high school I used to be by their house almost all the time)
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yossi z.MemberWhat just happened? I think I missed something
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yossi z.MemberDaas: you know I am really suspecting you are either related to me or you are someone I know with the way you are uh shall we say driving me up a wall? LOL!!!
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yossi z.MemberManderingchana: hey! That would be a good idea, ‘cept that means you would learn who people are here and that might lead to problems
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yossi z.MemberMosh3: thanx but I had better warn you, now that I have the green light … =D
Remind me how does alchohol affect your sugar? Or is it that they use sugar to ferment things? And does alchohol make your sugar go up or down? (I don’t remember alchohol being any sort of problem for diabetics)
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yossi z.MemberTums: I should want to get married that badly at 19 that I would try and get shidduchim started on an anonymous website?
Cofeefan: it is partly if not fully my fault for taking your joke and putting it out in the open like this for(semi) serious discussion. Maybe I should have left it where it was and not bothered.
All I was trying to do was present a theoretical situation to see what people thought, hence, why I was both defending and contending the idea.
Sorry for anything possibly done here
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yossi z.MemberMod613: I don’t want to get married that badly, I just think it would be really cool if it were doable.
Daas: you weren’t kidding then?
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yossi z.MemberHatzlachah rabbah to all of you, kudos for keeping your chins (respective. I have no idea if any of you have more than one chin or not lol … Is that a joke I shouldn’t make?) up, and adar is the month(s) that the mazal of a yid is gover so everything will be all right. Come on, after all, this year we have two (ok one and a half at this point) months. π
To extendedly discuss any points (besides diabetes) about this post please copy and paste and move the discussion over to the appropriate threads
I am not being a goody two shoes here (shocked if anyone could be choshed such a thing about me. Not saying that I am an evil twin either … Lol) I am just trying to unfuncuzerate the conversations here (which now that I think about it, is probably the whole reason for keeping threads on topic)
Anyways, toodeloo I better get to sleep so I can work with both eyes open tomorrow
To end off on topic, keep strong it will only make you grow into a better person (this I know from nisyonos I went/go through myself)
Now please stick (must not make joke. Not funny. Serious matters are being discussed.) To the topic at hand
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yossi z.MemberPashuteh: it would also be cause of uncomfortability once you know who the person is. Though if they are talking through the mods no one knows anything besides what is being looked for, what they are like etc. No names or anything else until they decide it is something they want to go through with and get more serious. Mod 613 did nix it though …
Haddasah yochidstein: phew! And I thought you were being serious in of all months adar and of all days erev/purim (katan) =D
Mishe, mishe, mishe nichnas adar …
Oh, if you couldn’t tell, I am in a jewbulant mood π
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yossi z.MemberI can’t surf while I work. I happen to be working in a warehouse not in a desk job but still (I do have a blackberry). Though now that I think of it, I usually am so busy I can’t even take out my phone to look at a text etc forget responding
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yossi z.MemberDaas: it was getting difficult to have two conversations in three(?) Different threads at once so I centralized it. I am not against it in the sense if it was feasible without causing any of the above mentioned issues I would still say not to.
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yossi z.MemberSorry, you are right. I should have been more clear there. That is the discussion topic not me.
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yossi z.MemberRebbitzen: it wasn’t my idea, cofeefan started it. There are a few problems with it (though sure it would be quite awesome if it was workable) and all I was doing was moving the conversation out of these threads as it looked like it was taking over the threads making them go completely off topic
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yossi z.MemberI wasn’t suggesting that it actually be done, I was looking to see what posters actually thought and was trying to open up as many sides as possible. Personally, I am against it for more than one reason. If you read even just the last bit of the original post, you will see that I said all I was doing was centralizing the discussion.
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yossi z.MemberBrainstorm! How about one of (or all as I seem to only see two or three) the shaddchanim get made into mods and then they can do all the work and nothing gets compromised and the only posters who would know anything are those comfortable with such an idea?
(Mods: no this is not a request this is an idea)
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February 17, 2011 3:55 am at 3:55 am in reply to: What's the deal with dating with diabetes. #1088305yossi z.MemberFor those of you here who jumped on the shidduchim bandwagon (thanks cofeefan for starting it lol), I started a thread on the topic of getting shidduchim started here within our own CR. Popa brought up a good point and I wanted to see what y’all (no I am not southern lol) have to say.
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yossi z.MemberWelcome to page three.
For those of you here who jumped on the shidduchim bandwagon (thanks cofeefan for starting it lol), I started a thread on the topic of getting shidduchim started here within our own CR. Popa brought up a good point and I wanted to see what y’all (no I am not southern lol) have to say.
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yossi z.MemberFor those of you here who jumped on the shidduchim bandwagon (thanks cofeefan for starting it lol), I started a thread on the topic of getting shidduchim started here within our own CR. Popa brought up a good point and I wanted to see what y’all (no I am not southern lol) have to say.
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yossi z.Memberpopa: Ok so how about one of the shaddchanim here suggest shidduchim between posters and if the mods are willing they act as go between and no real names are given and only if the posters agree that it is a shidduch they want to go through with, will any names, locations, etc be exchanged (again via the mods) this way keeping it controlled. If you might argue that there might be an uncomfortableness between posters if shidduchim are suggested so openly, I propose two solutions. One, the shaddchanim suggest to the mods directly not here in open forum, and two, they shaddchanim can suggest in such a way that it is more of a let’s-see-how-well-we-know-the-posters kinda thing.
I know I just volunteered the mods but I am sure they are also tired of all the shidduchim threads and would agree with getting something done. (Right mods? Right? Am I pushing too far?)
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yossi z.MemberYes (I am a bostoner chossid) but that has nothing to do with it. Our/my way shidduchim are dealt with, are a case to case basis, in other words, no set age is given, it is when the person is mature enough/ready etc. Yes at 19 I (and others) feel I have matured enough to be going out.
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Don’t chassideshe (read poilish/hungarian chassidim) people start at 17/18 though?
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yossi z.MemberRebbitzen: yes, I (relatively) just started though.
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yossi z.MemberGoq: in this thread? Nowhere.
Though I am a boy (whether that makes a difference or not I am not sure but just in case it does …), I feel I can get a lot from this thread. Thanx
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yossi z.MemberOh, and one more thing, she doesn’t have to be younger or same age as me. I would be willing to marry someone up to (absolute maximum) three years older than me. This had been planned to be put in my original post of what I am looking for but due to the phone malfunctioning I guess I didn’t put it in. Oh well here it is now.
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yossi z.MemberCofeefan: I know it was all a joke but I think you should take a look at my post on the “what are you looking for” thread (yes it is on the last/second to last page and yes I posted it before our conversation was even thought of)
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yossi z.MemberThe.nurse: you’re back!!!! Good point.
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February 15, 2011 1:43 am at 1:43 am in reply to: What's the deal with dating with diabetes. #1088293yossi z.MemberWhat you said on the support group thread is one way to do it. As I said, I am not that hard to find and if you have the person make the connection themselves (via you directing to this thread) then viola! We can meet!
Imagine if anything actually happens … Lol
Oh and my name really is yossi (last name zuber)
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