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April 12, 2019 12:45 am at 12:45 am in reply to: Sending Jewish Children to Secular College #1713750JosephParticipant
Yseribus: Chaim Berlin stopped allowing bochorim to go to college, as universities degenerated.
It was Rav Aharon who convinced Rav Hutner not to open a Jewish college.
April 11, 2019 8:38 pm at 8:38 pm in reply to: Are you really Frummer than others or are you Crum? #1713703JosephParticipantMr. Rebbetzin: This is the first time in living memory that I agree with you.
Rabbi Joseph
P.S. I just had to, y’know? 😉
April 11, 2019 8:38 pm at 8:38 pm in reply to: Why do we seclude ourselves from the world around us? #1713704JosephParticipantOutsider: You simply still don’t get it. Witness your reference to “orientation”, as if that’s some normal difference. (And that’s but one example.)
JosephParticipantLook, Rav Moshe, Rav Aharon and numerous additional Gedolei Yisroel were vocally and strongly opposed.
And all we can get are so-called supposedly anonymous rabbis in support, standing against Rav Moshe and Rav Aharon?!
JosephParticipant“As a side point, those who will go OTD in college were likely already halfway there and looking for a way out.”
That’s no reason to give them the final push to go OTD, by permitting or not hugely discouraging secular college.
April 11, 2019 9:40 am at 9:40 am in reply to: Are you really Frummer than others or are you Crum? #1713362JosephParticipantOver 90% of Chasidim vaccinate. The foolish people giving those interviews represent only a tiny minority of Chasidim.
April 11, 2019 9:39 am at 9:39 am in reply to: Why do we seclude ourselves from the world around us? #1713363JosephParticipantThe question you should be asking is why anyone would be crazy enough to socialize with the crazies in our crazy world.
Your failing to recognize the change your association with the crazies has changed you for the worse is a bad answer. The change in you was slow but sure and you unfortunately didn’t even realize you’ve changed.
The mere fact you can normalize reference to toeivaniks is itself a symptom of the above. And your lack of cognizance of the results of socializing with the opposite gender is further demonstration of your inability to see yourself and the changes it has wrought upon you.
JosephParticipantHas anyone discussed r”l the number of victims who freid out in college or if didn’t all the way behind frei lost a good deal of theie Yiddishkeit?
Probably not because when it happens these victims either don’t even realize it or simply deny it.
April 10, 2019 4:48 pm at 4:48 pm in reply to: NEW TREND: Sending Your Kids To Mesivta In Lakewood That Do Not Have English #1713020JosephParticipantKinderlach, If I “only” related to you the well know discussions on this issue by Rav Chaim Segal and Rav Shach or Rav Aharon and Rav Svei, I could understand you’d be upset that your deeply felt boich feelings insisting on teaching goyishe subjects to yiddishe kinder would be disturbed. But moreso I provided you additional actual maare mekomos from the Rama, Rav Shimon Schwab, Rav Boruch Ber and Rav Elchonon. For that you have no retort. But farshtaitzich that it still tut zich vai. And when I also mentioned what Rav Aharon Leib said six years ago (which was reported at the time on this site and can still be found with a search of the main page here), you felt utterly incompetent to argue against these great leaders of Klal Yisroel from past and present.
I suppose that why y’all ignored Yseribus’ instructions to you.
And AJ, you have the right to hope they decline accepting entitlement benefits. But they have the right to disregard your hope. Unless you want to fight the NAACP and get your local state legislature to repeal or limit them.
JosephParticipantAre you making your own blech?
April 10, 2019 12:08 am at 12:08 am in reply to: Your children weren’t meant to be a korbon Pesach. #1712524JosephParticipantIs this an advertisement for Pesach hotels?
April 9, 2019 1:36 pm at 1:36 pm in reply to: NEW TREND: Sending Your Kids To Mesivta In Lakewood That Do Not Have English #1712007JosephParticipantThe Rama 246:4 rules explicitly that it is absolutely prohibited according to Halachah to engage in a curriculum of secular studies. To read secular studies now and then, is permitted, he says. The source of the Rama is the Yerushalmi Sanhedrin.
It has been suggested the difference between a curriculum and just a glance, is that this prohibition is not due to Bitul Torah but rather a Bizayon HaTorah, by establishing studies in areas other than Torah, it shows that you believe they have some value that would justify learning them when you could have been learning Torah.
Rav Shimon Schwab ZT’L sought the Torah opinions of two great authorities, Rav Boruch Ber Liebowitz ZT’L and Rav Elchonon Wasserman ZT’L, regarding college education. Their responses were as follows:
Conclusion of Birkas Shmuel (Kiddushin #27 p.42): Universities and gymnasiums (i.e. secondary schools) are prohibited because of Apikursus [that they teach]… To learn secular studies on a regular basis is prohibited, as per the Rama 246:4 …
Kovetz Shiurim II:47: If you must learn books that contain apikursus, it is prohibited … needless to say even to make money or to prevent a loss thereof… If you learn secular studies in order to know a skill to make a living, it is permitted, and it is a Mitzvah. However, this is only in general. But if a person sees that his son wants to learn Torah and he is prepared to be a Gadol B’Torah, in such a case R. Nehuray said: “I will forgo all skills in the world and teach my son only Torah.”…
Rav Moshe Feinstein ZT’L also denounced college in a Teshuva, and in a famous speech delivered to his students, published under the title “The Counsel of the Wicked” (Vaad LeHaromas Keren HaTorah, New York, 1978). There is a tape available in many Seforim stores called “The prohibition to learn in Colleges” (Yiddish), which contains addresses by Rav Moshe Feinstein ZT’L and Rav Aharon Kotler ZT’L condemning college.
Regarding High School, the only reasons it is allowed is either because education is mandated by State Law (in New York it is until age 17), or simply because if they did not have High School education in the Yeshivas, parents would simply send their kids to worse places to get it.
HaRav Aharon Leib Shteinman said ( six years ago) to shun secular education. He concluded his remarks, commenting: “What is education today? Education is Torah! And more Torah! Whoever seeks happiness should teach his son Torah.”
April 9, 2019 1:34 pm at 1:34 pm in reply to: NEW TREND: Sending Your Kids To Mesivta In Lakewood That Do Not Have English #1712006JosephParticipantRav Chaim Segal ZT’L, the Menahel of the High School at Yeshiva Chaim Berlin was once told by Rav Shach ZT’L that if possible, he should not be teaching English studies. In Eretz Yisroel, almost all Chareidi Yeshivos do not have English at that age. Rav Aharon Kotler ZT’L made some kind of commitment not to allow English studies on the HS level in Lakewood. The exact details, and if this was actually a Takanah or merely a preference, is not clear and depends who you ask. In any case, Rabbi Elya Svei, Rosh Yeshiva of Philadelphia and a student of Rav Aharon’s, was asked why he allows English in Philly if Rav Aharon was against it. What difference can there be between the town of Lakewood NJ and Philadelphia PA? Reb Elya answered that he has no choice, and that currently, the Baalei Batim would not send their kids to the Yeshiva except under these circumstances.
Is any of this the ideal? No. It is not. Is it justified? The schools say it is, as they have no choice. But the point is not what the Jews do, its what Judaism wants. Everyone agrees that it would be a higher level, a preferable situation if we would indeed not learn English even at the HS level, at least not beyond what is necessary to survive. Nobody claims it is an ideal.
April 9, 2019 11:46 am at 11:46 am in reply to: How do you stop waiters from stealing your food at a Simcha? #1712021JosephParticipantHave rachmanus on the waiters. They’re hungry too.
At least let them have you shrayim!
JosephParticipantYes.
JosephParticipantJust to reiterate, the Litvish Bnei Torah and Bnei Yeshiva do the same; and will always wear a hat and jacket. It’s when it comes to the Litvish hamon am that this isn’t always the case, whereas the Chasidish hamon am generally always do.
April 8, 2019 1:45 pm at 1:45 pm in reply to: NEW TREND: Sending Your Kids To Mesivta In Lakewood That Do Not Have English #1711109JosephParticipantThis is nothing new whatsoever. This has been happening for at least 30+ years in Lakewood.
More bochorim are now in such mesivtas? Population growth.
April 8, 2019 11:33 am at 11:33 am in reply to: Does anyone know where to obtain yeshivish clothing on the West Coast? #1711032JosephParticipantLos Angeles has both Chasidic and Yeshivish communities.
April 8, 2019 10:17 am at 10:17 am in reply to: Tax Time Nightmare….Trump’s Tax Reforms Cost me big time #1710967JosephParticipantCTL, do I owe you an apology?
April 8, 2019 8:37 am at 8:37 am in reply to: Tax Time Nightmare….Trump’s Tax Reforms Cost me big time #1710823JosephParticipant“That last 20K I gave to Tzedaka last year no longer exists, it has gone for taxes.”
Does the money you spent on vacation last year still exist?
JosephParticipantWhite nationalism is the same as black identification, just for another racial group.
April 7, 2019 5:23 pm at 5:23 pm in reply to: Tax Time Nightmare….Trump’s Tax Reforms Cost me big time #1710613JosephParticipant“Are you punishing Hashem?”
He poshut cannot afford it anymore. It may be kdai to raise tzedaka for him, now.
JosephParticipantLuna:
1. Please elucidate us how King is allegedly anti-Semitic.
2. King has been disowned by Republicans, unlike Omar by the Democrats
JosephParticipantPlease don’t call him a her, Mammele.
JosephParticipantThere were no professional ball games in the shtetl.
JosephParticipant“Better for whom?”
For the person putting on the fake smile rather than a sour face.
JosephParticipant“-Historical Democrat concerned about antisemitism/anti-Israel messages from some Democrat in leadership positions”
A very valid concern. This will get even worse than it already is.
“-Still concerned even though Democrat was somewhat reprimanded by Democrats after comments were made.”
Very valid concern. Will get worse.
“-Never ever imagined voting Republican”
The vast majority of frum Americans vote Republican. Join the program.
“-Aren’t some Republican leaders are antisemitic/anti-Israel too?”
No. Republicans kick out and denounce antisemites who run as Republicans (i.e. Duke.) Democrats coddle and embrace their antisemites. Witness not only the recent examples we all just saw but historical examples with Jesse Jackson, Al Sharpton and many others.
“-Want to approach this election weighing each side – rather than simply aligning with a party”
Good idea. But sometimes one party is so bad that the opposition is the only real choice.
“-Still need to find out who the Democratic candidate it too”
Virtually all the Democrat candidates in the presidential primary are horrible. Additionally, even if a not-so-horrible candidate wins, he must cater to the Democrat masses demanding terrible policies.
JosephParticipantWhy, you little scoundrel, you! If you end up in gehenom, so be it.
April 7, 2019 12:44 pm at 12:44 pm in reply to: Tax Time Nightmare….Trump’s Tax Reforms Cost me big time #1710472JosephParticipantThe CBO, IRS and other official sources ran the figures and put on the record that the tax code changes made with the Trump Tax Reform act resulted in a large majority of the middle class across the United States seeing a reduction in their federal annual taxes. This is looking at the net results of all the changes from the tax changes, not just the property taxes issue alone. IOW, even those who may have seen higher taxes as a result of the property no longer being fully deductible, most of them had an even larger decrease on the rest of their taxes to more than make up for the property increase.
And of the minority that didn’t see a decrease, they mostly had about the same overall tax liability as before the changes.
There were very very few middle class who saw an overall increase in their tax liability after the change. Those that had such an increase were mostly the wealthier people living in states with high property taxes. And even most of the wealthier folks also had an overall decrease in Federal tax liability.
JosephParticipantLit: A fake smile is better than no smile.
That’s even assuming your silly assumption were correct.
April 7, 2019 11:09 am at 11:09 am in reply to: Tax Time Nightmare….Trump’s Tax Reforms Cost me big time #1710433JosephParticipantYou’re wealthy. You support higher taxes on the wealthy. You should be happy to be paying higher taxes.
The vast majority of the American middle class saw a reduction after the Trump tax cuts compared to before. That is overall, even if property taxation in isolation rose for some.
P.S. A lawyer AND an accountant? You really ARE everything!
JosephParticipantwas the Skulener Rebbe ztvk”l’s levaya the largest in U.S. history?
The Jewish Press, Jerusalem Post, Sun and Daily Mail all quoted NYPD estimates of over 100,000 at the Skulener Rebbe’s levaya. The other large levayas in the US I’m aware of were the Satmar Rebbe in 1979, which the JTA says had over 100,000 in Kiryas Yoel, Rav Avigdor Miller in 2001, which press reports said had over 30,000 in Brooklyn and Rav Moshe Feinstein in 1986, which the New York Times quotes police estimates as having over 20,000 in Manhattan.
April 7, 2019 12:35 am at 12:35 am in reply to: Should Unhealthy Foods Be Banned or Restricted? #1710175JosephParticipantBy the FDA.
JosephParticipantWhy buy the Light version when you can buy the real version for the same price and add water, getting more grape juice for the same money?
JosephParticipantI know Litvaks who got engaged after 2 or 3 dates.
April 6, 2019 9:47 pm at 9:47 pm in reply to: Should Unhealthy Foods Be Banned or Restricted? #1710117JosephParticipantOn generally accepted criteria.
JosephParticipantIn the days of yore, as most of us know from many stories, the father of a small yingele would make a shidduch with the father of a small meidele when both were still in their single digits years. Several years later, not long after bar/bas mitzvah, the chasuna would take place.
JosephParticipantChicken isn’t fleishigs, m’doraisa, it is pareve.
JosephParticipantResignation not accepted
After all, you cannot be bested
We expect you every year
Disappoint us, don’t you dear
We will speak to the Mrs.
To make sure you brief absence can be handled
Once you do reappear
Our spirits will be lifted highJosephParticipantLMT: Define this nebulous concept of “soulmate”; and describe how spouses might not qualify as being considered each other’s “soulmate” despite their marriage; and how arranged marriages allegedly fits into this point.
April 5, 2019 1:40 pm at 1:40 pm in reply to: Lessons From The Amish Measles epidemic of 2014 #1709902JosephParticipant2scents: The data you cited does seem to mean that everyone should be vaccinated. That being said, it is difficult to reconcile all that with the data cited by mentsch1, which does leave room to accept those in the minority who choose not to vaccinate.
P.S. This comment is submitted later than my other comment, though the mods might approve them in reverse order.
April 5, 2019 1:38 pm at 1:38 pm in reply to: Lessons From The Amish Measles epidemic of 2014 #1709895JosephParticipantThank You, mentsch1. I’m trying to make the same point you are.
RY23, agreed. And I would suggest anyone vaccinate. But even conceding your point doesn’t make it so terrible if someone else chooses not to vaccinate, even if that results in some people getting measles. We all used to get chicken pox as kids before they came around with the vaccine.
At least that’s what it seems to me. I’m ready to stand corrected.
April 5, 2019 10:06 am at 10:06 am in reply to: Lessons From The Amish Measles epidemic of 2014 #1709828JosephParticipantGetting admitted for the common cold, is rare.
And all indications from the CDC are that getting admitted for measles is also rare.
But for the current outbreak, there are no official numbers and I dont think that anyone will provide you with a list of last names of patients that have been transported or admitted.
I’m not asking for statistics from the current outbreak. I’m asking for statistics from previous outbreaks or incidents.
I can easily provide you general observations and studies that are available.
Not general observations (those can be debated endlessly) but rather studies, as you are offering, from previous cases demonstrating — specifically — the likelihood of measles resulting or not resulting in severe complications.
TIA
April 5, 2019 9:59 am at 9:59 am in reply to: Whats Baltimore like nowadays.Still OOT or suitable for intown fam #1709814JosephParticipantAll the crime statistics you are all citing are about Baltimore City. The frum community lives for the most part in Baltimore County right outside the border of the city. Sure there’s crime, mostly break-ins and the occasional car-jacking, but crime in the frum Baltimore County neighborhoods is far less significant than it is in Brooklyn.
This is certifiably false. Again, the FBI crime statistics demonstrate that Baltimore County has far higher and more violent crimes than Kings County (which is synonymous with Brooklyn.) As far as frum neighborhoods specifically, Frum Brooklyn (i.e. Borough Park, Midwood, Williamsburg) have some of the lowest crime rates in the United States, bar none. The local police precincts often have too much time on their hands unless they’re needed outside the precincts.
And secondly you’re downplaying the crime in the frum Baltimore neighborhoods (that some of your fellow former Baltimoreans told us about above) by dismissing them as merely “mostly break-ins and the occasional car-jacking”. Home break ins and carjackings are insignificant?!
JosephParticipantTalking about the Rebbe ZT”L’s kanois, there’s a regular sport on this site (usually on the main page but sometimes here too) that whenever a talmid chochom, rosh yeshiva or rov in Eretz Yisroel smashes a smartphone to demonstrate Yiddishe opposition to those devices (for the obvious reasons) we witness a whole slew of random posters make chozek of the talmid chochom, with the typical daas baalei batim commentary.
While some or many people know the Rebbe ZT’L, who we just witnessed had over 100,000 Yidden attend his levaya with grown men crying over the petira of a 95 year old demonstrating his universally acknowledged tzidkus recognized across the spectrum and his counsel sought throughout Klal Yisroel, was a big kanoi against smartphones, what fewer people remember is that for many decades before the advent of smartphones he was just as big a kanoi against televisions. And, yes, just as our repeated protagonists here who gives these internet commenteretti so many fits and balls when they smash smartphones, the Rebbe ZT’L would annually smash a television and burn it with the chometz.
Just in time for Pesach, rabbosai. You, too, can throw it in the fire. Do it l’zecher nishmas the Rebbe ZT”L.
JosephParticipant“Do you also wonder why we park in a driveway and drive on a parkway?”
Speaking only for myself, I can say that I drive in my driveway and, when traffic is at a standstill, often park on a parkway.
April 4, 2019 11:50 pm at 11:50 pm in reply to: Lessons From The Amish Measles epidemic of 2014 #1709699JosephParticipantWhat’s your data point/source that a significant or notable percent of measles carriers have severe complications?
April 4, 2019 10:38 pm at 10:38 pm in reply to: Lessons From The Amish Measles epidemic of 2014 #1709669JosephParticipantMy point was that it appears that the vast majority of measles cases results in no severe complications.
April 4, 2019 9:35 pm at 9:35 pm in reply to: Whats Baltimore like nowadays.Still OOT or suitable for intown fam #1709472JosephParticipantFellows, if you keep reminding Yseribus about government crime statistics in crime ridden Baltimore, he said above that he is liable to burst out using nivul peh. Nevertheless, the point about many many many frum former OOTers who chose to move to NY and NJ is true not just about Baltimore (though it may be much more prevalent from there) but really from most OOT communities, whose former members can be found in large numbers in NYC, Lakewood and Monsey.
JosephParticipantGrown men were sobbing on the streets during the levaya.
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