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  • in reply to: Guys, Satmar is ONLY 107 years old! #1798376
    Joseph
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    Satmar’s mesora dates from the Yismach Moshe and much earlier.

    in reply to: Guys, Satmar is ONLY 107 years old! #1798375
    Joseph
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    Reb Eliezer: Your targum is a myth. The town is named after a family by the name Szatmar.

    in reply to: Moisha’s Supermarket – A Request #1798374
    Joseph
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    What time can I see you in the meat section?

    in reply to: Whats Baltimore like nowadays.Still OOT or suitable for intown fam #1798357
    Joseph
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    “One does NOT need close proximity to 12 yeshivos, 6 mikvahs, and dozens of kosher markets to be a shomer torah u’mitzvos.”

    Being in close proximity to 12 yeshivos, 6 mikvahs, and dozens of butei medrashim will likely make you a much better shomer torah u’mitzvos than if you live near barely one synagogue and maybe a day school.

    in reply to: Whats Baltimore like nowadays.Still OOT or suitable for intown fam #1798349
    Joseph
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    Boro Park and Williamsburg are from the safest neighborhoods in NYC. And NYC is said to be the safest big city in the US.

    The vast majority of the anti-Semitic crimes are yelling or property crimes that involve no assault.

    in reply to: Can you request an online purchase for delivery on shabbos?? #1798216
    Joseph
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    “The same idea could be true in the winter even if ordering on Friday.”

    DY, and a summer order on Friday where Amazon Prime guarantees next day delivery (or any time of the year when Shabbos ends after UPS/FedEx’s guaranteed delivery time)?

    in reply to: Can you request an online purchase for delivery on shabbos?? #1798108
    Joseph
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    Reb Eliezer, You’re not paying extra for the guaranteed Shabbos delivery if you have Amazon Prime, as the express shipping is included for free.

    in reply to: Boys Learning in Eretz Yisroel #1798063
    Joseph
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    There’s a significant disparity between the American boys versus girls in how each approaches the vacation/fun aspect of being in Israel for a year or two, and how much time is devoted to such extracurricular activities outside the scope of limud.

    in reply to: Can you request an online purchase for delivery on shabbos?? #1798056
    Joseph
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    But if you order from Amazon on Friday with Amazon guaranteeing overnight delivery (or guaranteeing two-day delivery for a Thursday order), you know in advance that they are guaranteeing delivery on Shabbos.

    in reply to: Boys Learning in Eretz Yisroel #1797943
    Joseph
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    The level of Torah is higher in Yeshivos in Eretz Yisroel. That’s usually why boys go there for Yeshiva.

    As far as girls, the reason is it is more fun to go overseas than to go locally. There’s no really compelling reason for girls to not go domestically rather than overseas.

    in reply to: Can you request an online purchase for delivery on shabbos?? #1797843
    Joseph
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    Gadol: So start reexamining and changing. That’s a serious point. In Eretz Yisroel many don’t even use municipal electricity on Shabbos.

    in reply to: Jews in High Places #1797842
    Joseph
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    A goy with a Jewish father is much worse than a goy with two gentile parents. As the first goy was born through sin by his father grievously conceiving him through an illegal (terrible aveira) of the worse kind. We do not and should not treat the first type of goy any better in regards to conversion than the second type of goy.

    in reply to: Geneivat Daat #1797749
    Joseph
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    That’s usually the case with food products returned at chain stores; they’ll dump the food even if it was unopened. Opened non-food items will generally be monetized (i.e. selling it in bulk) for whatever reduced value the return has.

    in reply to: College, Secular Studies & Judaism #1797710
    Joseph
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    jdb: You’re confusing me with someone else. I’m not familiar with a fourth floor or later Kiddush with a bag of rolls or which Rebbe I was mishamesh when he was in town. Can you give the name of the Rav whose initial you mentioned?

    in reply to: How much $$$ does a typical Frum family spend on groceries per week? #1797726
    Joseph
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    There’s a ton of information online describing how to manage healthily on a $3 per day, per person food budget. Some use a somewhat smaller or slightly larger budget. As these are written for the secular world it obviously doesn’t account for kosher pricing or Shabbos but it may still be useful as a guide.

    The main staples used are eggs, dry rice, dry beans, on-sale fresh produce, whole chickens, ground turkey, pasta and tomato sauce, and bulk spices.

    It assumes you have a slow cooker, rice cooker, and reusable containers (for leftovers.)

    It is recommended that you buy on sale, use coupons, shop different stores with lower prices and use leftovers.

    in reply to: Can you request an online purchase for delivery on shabbos?? #1797588
    Joseph
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    If you send a package overnight on Friday, or if you place an order on Friday with overnight delivery (or two-day delivery on Thursday), you know you are specifically requesting delivery on Shabbos.

    UPS and FedEx used to have an option to specifically request Saturday delivery.

    in reply to: Can you request an online purchase for delivery on shabbos?? #1797553
    Joseph
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    How do you explain that people don’t send mail on Erev Shabbos?

    in reply to: Help choosing seminary #1797525
    Joseph
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    Why is there a preference to travel to Israel over domestically?

    in reply to: Can you request an online purchase for delivery on shabbos?? #1797519
    Joseph
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    There’s a Halacha that you cannot mail a letter on Erev Shabbos since it will be on Shabbos. This principle applies here to. If it is obvious the package will be on Shabbos, you cannot initiate that action before Shabbos.

    in reply to: College, Secular Studies & Judaism #1797492
    Joseph
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    Modi’in Illit Speaks Out Against Learning Secular Subjects

    HaRav Meir Kessler Of Modi’in Illit Speaks Out Against Learning “Secular Subjects”

    in reply to: How much $$$ does a typical Frum family spend on groceries per week? #1797427
    Joseph
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    Many groceries, supermarkets and bakery shops give away their leftovers that they will no longer sell to neighborhood distribution points where anyone can take what they need at no cost.

    in reply to: Jews in High Places #1797331
    Joseph
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    huju: A person with a Jewish father and a gentile mother is a gentile. Just as much a gentile as Bill Clinton is. A person who converted through the Conservative or Reform movement is a gentile. Just as much a gentile as John F. Kennedy is.

    All four of the above examples are halachicly gentiles.

    in reply to: Airline seating alerts #1797031
    Joseph
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    cherrybim: What do you mean by if it is my view? Please explain your understanding of the meaning of “צריך אדם להתרחק מהנשים מאד מאד”.

    in reply to: siyum ha shas #1797029
    Joseph
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    The Siyum HaShas website is selling tickets.

    in reply to: How much $$$ does a typical Frum family spend on groceries per week? #1797027
    Joseph
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    CTL, do you still serve rib steak as many times a week as when my family was at the compound?

    in reply to: Trump goes OOT #1796748
    Joseph
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    Doesn’t FL have a lot of pritzus?

    in reply to: Looking for the Lost Hour #1796747
    Joseph
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    I’ll bet ZeesKite might be on your team.

    in reply to: Geneivat Daat #1796745
    Joseph
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    Who would a BY girl need to write a composition for?

    in reply to: How much $$$ does a typical Frum family spend on groceries per week? #1796698
    Joseph
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    If your family is a heavy meat eater or a frequent Pomegranate/Gourmet Glatt/Breadberry shopper, it may explain some of the heavy spending described here.

    in reply to: How much $$$ does a typical Frum family spend on groceries per week? #1796692
    Joseph
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    excl: The girls will be refused lunch in school if the parents hadn’t paid?

    in reply to: Airline seating alerts #1796674
    Joseph
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    David: The fact that women dress far more immodestly nowadays means even moreso to follow the Halacha in the Shulchan Aruch to stay far away from women. Your boich svara limitation of a clear-cut Shulchan Aruch doesn’t hold water when that limitation is against what the Mechaber actually says in his psak.

    in reply to: How much $$$ does a typical Frum family spend on groceries per week? #1796660
    Joseph
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    AJ: You spend $400 per week for a family of six children plus two adults?

    in reply to: Airline seating alerts #1796628
    Joseph
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    Calling you out wasn’t easy but rest assured that I haven’t sent my goodbyes to you.

    in reply to: Airline seating alerts #1796559
    Joseph
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    SL: You’ve demonstrated an incapability to follow a conversation as well as an inability to understand what is being said. As such it will be pointless to point out the various gross inaccuracies in your recap, understanding of what was said as well as logic.

    Have a gevaldik Shabbos and a Gutte Vinter!

    in reply to: Airline seating alerts #1796551
    Joseph
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    SL: You’re bringing in a bunch of extraneous points irrelevant (and not part of the question or described scenario) to the primary issue of your unreasonable insistence that someone purchase a second empty seat when you don’t insist the same if the seat change request rather than to sit next to the same gender is instead to sit away from a cranky child, sit next to a family member seated elsewhere or to sit closer to the exit to quicker catch a connecting flight.

    A seat change request to sit next to a family member, someone of the same gender or away from a cranky child is a normal everyday occurrence in every airport that is equally unobjectionable regardless of any of the aforementioned underlying reasons the customer is making the request.

    Yes, I agree you should smile to your neighbors. But that hasn’t to do with the question here.

    in reply to: Airline seating alerts #1796546
    Joseph
    Participant

    “Source quote please”

    Shulchan Aruch, Even HaEzer 21:1


    צריך אדם להתרחק מהנשים מאד מאד

    A person must stay very far from women.

    “Why would I give a hoot what a gentile does on an airplane?”

    Forget a gentile. Do you insist a Jew should buy second seat rather than making a seat change request to sit next to a family member, away from a baby or closer to the exit to quickly catch his connecting flight leaving shortly after arrival of the current flight?

    in reply to: Airline seating alerts #1796503
    Joseph
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    SL: Why are you militantly against a Torah Jew trying to best adhere to Shulchan Aruch EH 21:1 with a seat change request but are okay with a goy making a seat change request to sit next to a family member, away from a baby or closer to the exit to quickly make his next flight?

    You’ve never demanded that the aforementioned gentile purchase a second seat. Is that demand only reserved for a poor Jew borrowing money for one seat to go to do a mitzvah such as Kibud Av V’Eim or burying a relative?

    in reply to: Keeping the Siyum Hashas Sacred. #1796491
    Joseph
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    Fundraising for Torah events is a positive attribute.

    in reply to: Airline seating alerts #1796464
    Joseph
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    Michael: Kibud Av V’Eim is mdoraisa and visiting one’s parents is halachicly required. There are various times and situations where flying is absolutely necessary and even halachicly mandated.

    And requesting the same courtesy seat change as other flyers, both gentiles and Jews, do is completely realistic.

    in reply to: How much $$$ does a typical Frum family spend on groceries per week? #1796401
    Joseph
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    You can get a general idea by looking up the maximum amount of food stamps available (i.e. to those with zero income) based on family size and whichever state.

    in reply to: Airline seating alerts #1796425
    Joseph
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    cherrybim: How do you realistically suppose the best way is to insure one does not get squeezed next to a woman on a 12 hour flight in order to remain in best compliance with S”A EH 21:1?

    I think the most practical methodology would be to use the same courtesy request someone needing to ask for a seat change to sit next to a family member placed elsewhere on the airplane or someone unable to sit next to the baby or needing to be closer to the exit to quickly catch a connecting flight.

    Last minute seat change requests are a common and accepted possibility.

    Joseph
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    Just to start this trend, which is a great idea, I wanted to report that my next door neighbor just had a baby boy! Mazal Tov!! Also a friend of a friend recently won a large jackpot in the lottery. Hatzlacha!

    in reply to: How much $$$ does a typical Frum family spend on groceries per week? #1796427
    Joseph
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    In NY as far as all the many Yeshivos I know, they all provide lunch to all students. There’s no system or checking whether they’re enrolled in lunch. The same lunch is made available to all students regardless.

    in reply to: Is playing a musical instrument a negative??? #1796402
    Joseph
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    It’s certainly better than reading goyishe books or magazines.

    in reply to: How much $$$ does a typical Frum family spend on groceries per week? #1796400
    Joseph
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    Syag: Yeshiva school lunches is optional?

    in reply to: Airline seating alerts #1796399
    Joseph
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    cherrybim: Your opening point only addressed the point; it missed the Shulchan Aruch quoted.

    Regarding your second point, it isn’t a “weakness”; it is a Shulchan Aruch even if you injudiciously think you’re “strong”.

    Additionally, requesting a seat change for this reason is no different from a practical standpoint from requesting a seat change in other to sit together with your children or relatives or whomever you’re traveling with that was originally seated elsewhere or because you don’t want a middle seat or don’t want to sit next to a baby or need to be closer to the front etc. If you’re okay with any of those last minute seat changes you have to be okay with a similar seat change request for moral or religious observance reasons.

    in reply to: Jews in High Places #1796229
    Joseph
    Participant

    The English term for a non-halachic Jew is a gentile.

    in reply to: Jews in High Places #1796043
    Joseph
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    You probably should differentiate between Orthodox and non-Orthodox.

    in reply to: Airline seating alerts #1795901
    Joseph
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    CA: See my post immediately following the one you quoted, verbatim quoting S”A EH 21:1.

    in reply to: Out of Town – Chassidish community options? #1795787
    Joseph
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    The following towns outside the NY Metro area have a Chasidic community:

    Bloomingburg, NY
    Sullivan County, NY
    Baltimore, MD
    Jersey City, NJ
    Union City, NJ
    Los Angeles, CA
    Montreal, QC

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