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JosephParticipant
Satmar’s mesora dates from the Yismach Moshe and much earlier.
JosephParticipantReb Eliezer: Your targum is a myth. The town is named after a family by the name Szatmar.
JosephParticipantWhat time can I see you in the meat section?
November 7, 2019 1:58 pm at 1:58 pm in reply to: Whats Baltimore like nowadays.Still OOT or suitable for intown fam #1798357JosephParticipant“One does NOT need close proximity to 12 yeshivos, 6 mikvahs, and dozens of kosher markets to be a shomer torah u’mitzvos.”
Being in close proximity to 12 yeshivos, 6 mikvahs, and dozens of butei medrashim will likely make you a much better shomer torah u’mitzvos than if you live near barely one synagogue and maybe a day school.
November 7, 2019 1:01 pm at 1:01 pm in reply to: Whats Baltimore like nowadays.Still OOT or suitable for intown fam #1798349JosephParticipantBoro Park and Williamsburg are from the safest neighborhoods in NYC. And NYC is said to be the safest big city in the US.
The vast majority of the anti-Semitic crimes are yelling or property crimes that involve no assault.
November 7, 2019 9:46 am at 9:46 am in reply to: Can you request an online purchase for delivery on shabbos?? #1798216JosephParticipant“The same idea could be true in the winter even if ordering on Friday.”
DY, and a summer order on Friday where Amazon Prime guarantees next day delivery (or any time of the year when Shabbos ends after UPS/FedEx’s guaranteed delivery time)?
November 7, 2019 12:25 am at 12:25 am in reply to: Can you request an online purchase for delivery on shabbos?? #1798108JosephParticipantReb Eliezer, You’re not paying extra for the guaranteed Shabbos delivery if you have Amazon Prime, as the express shipping is included for free.
JosephParticipantThere’s a significant disparity between the American boys versus girls in how each approaches the vacation/fun aspect of being in Israel for a year or two, and how much time is devoted to such extracurricular activities outside the scope of limud.
November 6, 2019 8:24 pm at 8:24 pm in reply to: Can you request an online purchase for delivery on shabbos?? #1798056JosephParticipantBut if you order from Amazon on Friday with Amazon guaranteeing overnight delivery (or guaranteeing two-day delivery for a Thursday order), you know in advance that they are guaranteeing delivery on Shabbos.
JosephParticipantThe level of Torah is higher in Yeshivos in Eretz Yisroel. That’s usually why boys go there for Yeshiva.
As far as girls, the reason is it is more fun to go overseas than to go locally. There’s no really compelling reason for girls to not go domestically rather than overseas.
November 6, 2019 11:50 am at 11:50 am in reply to: Can you request an online purchase for delivery on shabbos?? #1797843JosephParticipantGadol: So start reexamining and changing. That’s a serious point. In Eretz Yisroel many don’t even use municipal electricity on Shabbos.
JosephParticipantA goy with a Jewish father is much worse than a goy with two gentile parents. As the first goy was born through sin by his father grievously conceiving him through an illegal (terrible aveira) of the worse kind. We do not and should not treat the first type of goy any better in regards to conversion than the second type of goy.
JosephParticipantThat’s usually the case with food products returned at chain stores; they’ll dump the food even if it was unopened. Opened non-food items will generally be monetized (i.e. selling it in bulk) for whatever reduced value the return has.
JosephParticipantjdb: You’re confusing me with someone else. I’m not familiar with a fourth floor or later Kiddush with a bag of rolls or which Rebbe I was mishamesh when he was in town. Can you give the name of the Rav whose initial you mentioned?
November 5, 2019 7:53 pm at 7:53 pm in reply to: How much $$$ does a typical Frum family spend on groceries per week? #1797726JosephParticipantThere’s a ton of information online describing how to manage healthily on a $3 per day, per person food budget. Some use a somewhat smaller or slightly larger budget. As these are written for the secular world it obviously doesn’t account for kosher pricing or Shabbos but it may still be useful as a guide.
The main staples used are eggs, dry rice, dry beans, on-sale fresh produce, whole chickens, ground turkey, pasta and tomato sauce, and bulk spices.
It assumes you have a slow cooker, rice cooker, and reusable containers (for leftovers.)
It is recommended that you buy on sale, use coupons, shop different stores with lower prices and use leftovers.
November 5, 2019 12:09 pm at 12:09 pm in reply to: Can you request an online purchase for delivery on shabbos?? #1797588JosephParticipantIf you send a package overnight on Friday, or if you place an order on Friday with overnight delivery (or two-day delivery on Thursday), you know you are specifically requesting delivery on Shabbos.
UPS and FedEx used to have an option to specifically request Saturday delivery.
November 5, 2019 11:15 am at 11:15 am in reply to: Can you request an online purchase for delivery on shabbos?? #1797553JosephParticipantHow do you explain that people don’t send mail on Erev Shabbos?
JosephParticipantWhy is there a preference to travel to Israel over domestically?
November 5, 2019 9:17 am at 9:17 am in reply to: Can you request an online purchase for delivery on shabbos?? #1797519JosephParticipantThere’s a Halacha that you cannot mail a letter on Erev Shabbos since it will be on Shabbos. This principle applies here to. If it is obvious the package will be on Shabbos, you cannot initiate that action before Shabbos.
JosephParticipantModi’in Illit Speaks Out Against Learning Secular Subjects
HaRav Meir Kessler Of Modi’in Illit Speaks Out Against Learning “Secular Subjects”
November 5, 2019 12:53 am at 12:53 am in reply to: How much $$$ does a typical Frum family spend on groceries per week? #1797427JosephParticipantMany groceries, supermarkets and bakery shops give away their leftovers that they will no longer sell to neighborhood distribution points where anyone can take what they need at no cost.
JosephParticipanthuju: A person with a Jewish father and a gentile mother is a gentile. Just as much a gentile as Bill Clinton is. A person who converted through the Conservative or Reform movement is a gentile. Just as much a gentile as John F. Kennedy is.
All four of the above examples are halachicly gentiles.
JosephParticipantcherrybim: What do you mean by if it is my view? Please explain your understanding of the meaning of “צריך אדם להתרחק מהנשים מאד מאד”.
JosephParticipantThe Siyum HaShas website is selling tickets.
November 4, 2019 8:50 am at 8:50 am in reply to: How much $$$ does a typical Frum family spend on groceries per week? #1797027JosephParticipantCTL, do you still serve rib steak as many times a week as when my family was at the compound?
JosephParticipantDoesn’t FL have a lot of pritzus?
JosephParticipantI’ll bet ZeesKite might be on your team.
JosephParticipantWho would a BY girl need to write a composition for?
November 3, 2019 4:08 am at 4:08 am in reply to: How much $$$ does a typical Frum family spend on groceries per week? #1796698JosephParticipantIf your family is a heavy meat eater or a frequent Pomegranate/Gourmet Glatt/Breadberry shopper, it may explain some of the heavy spending described here.
November 3, 2019 12:57 am at 12:57 am in reply to: How much $$$ does a typical Frum family spend on groceries per week? #1796692JosephParticipantexcl: The girls will be refused lunch in school if the parents hadn’t paid?
JosephParticipantDavid: The fact that women dress far more immodestly nowadays means even moreso to follow the Halacha in the Shulchan Aruch to stay far away from women. Your boich svara limitation of a clear-cut Shulchan Aruch doesn’t hold water when that limitation is against what the Mechaber actually says in his psak.
November 2, 2019 9:37 pm at 9:37 pm in reply to: How much $$$ does a typical Frum family spend on groceries per week? #1796660JosephParticipantAJ: You spend $400 per week for a family of six children plus two adults?
JosephParticipantCalling you out wasn’t easy but rest assured that I haven’t sent my goodbyes to you.
JosephParticipantSL: You’ve demonstrated an incapability to follow a conversation as well as an inability to understand what is being said. As such it will be pointless to point out the various gross inaccuracies in your recap, understanding of what was said as well as logic.
Have a gevaldik Shabbos and a Gutte Vinter!
JosephParticipantSL: You’re bringing in a bunch of extraneous points irrelevant (and not part of the question or described scenario) to the primary issue of your unreasonable insistence that someone purchase a second empty seat when you don’t insist the same if the seat change request rather than to sit next to the same gender is instead to sit away from a cranky child, sit next to a family member seated elsewhere or to sit closer to the exit to quicker catch a connecting flight.
A seat change request to sit next to a family member, someone of the same gender or away from a cranky child is a normal everyday occurrence in every airport that is equally unobjectionable regardless of any of the aforementioned underlying reasons the customer is making the request.
Yes, I agree you should smile to your neighbors. But that hasn’t to do with the question here.
JosephParticipant“Source quote please”
Shulchan Aruch, Even HaEzer 21:1
צריך אדם להתרחק מהנשים מאד מאדA person must stay very far from women.
“Why would I give a hoot what a gentile does on an airplane?”
Forget a gentile. Do you insist a Jew should buy second seat rather than making a seat change request to sit next to a family member, away from a baby or closer to the exit to quickly catch his connecting flight leaving shortly after arrival of the current flight?
JosephParticipantSL: Why are you militantly against a Torah Jew trying to best adhere to Shulchan Aruch EH 21:1 with a seat change request but are okay with a goy making a seat change request to sit next to a family member, away from a baby or closer to the exit to quickly make his next flight?
You’ve never demanded that the aforementioned gentile purchase a second seat. Is that demand only reserved for a poor Jew borrowing money for one seat to go to do a mitzvah such as Kibud Av V’Eim or burying a relative?
JosephParticipantFundraising for Torah events is a positive attribute.
JosephParticipantMichael: Kibud Av V’Eim is mdoraisa and visiting one’s parents is halachicly required. There are various times and situations where flying is absolutely necessary and even halachicly mandated.
And requesting the same courtesy seat change as other flyers, both gentiles and Jews, do is completely realistic.
November 1, 2019 8:42 am at 8:42 am in reply to: How much $$$ does a typical Frum family spend on groceries per week? #1796401JosephParticipantYou can get a general idea by looking up the maximum amount of food stamps available (i.e. to those with zero income) based on family size and whichever state.
JosephParticipantcherrybim: How do you realistically suppose the best way is to insure one does not get squeezed next to a woman on a 12 hour flight in order to remain in best compliance with S”A EH 21:1?
I think the most practical methodology would be to use the same courtesy request someone needing to ask for a seat change to sit next to a family member placed elsewhere on the airplane or someone unable to sit next to the baby or needing to be closer to the exit to quickly catch a connecting flight.
Last minute seat change requests are a common and accepted possibility.
November 1, 2019 12:01 am at 12:01 am in reply to: Spreading sad news is foolish according to Chazal, YWN should be more positive. #1796426JosephParticipantJust to start this trend, which is a great idea, I wanted to report that my next door neighbor just had a baby boy! Mazal Tov!! Also a friend of a friend recently won a large jackpot in the lottery. Hatzlacha!
November 1, 2019 12:00 am at 12:00 am in reply to: How much $$$ does a typical Frum family spend on groceries per week? #1796427JosephParticipantIn NY as far as all the many Yeshivos I know, they all provide lunch to all students. There’s no system or checking whether they’re enrolled in lunch. The same lunch is made available to all students regardless.
October 31, 2019 8:49 pm at 8:49 pm in reply to: Is playing a musical instrument a negative??? #1796402JosephParticipantIt’s certainly better than reading goyishe books or magazines.
October 31, 2019 8:43 pm at 8:43 pm in reply to: How much $$$ does a typical Frum family spend on groceries per week? #1796400JosephParticipantSyag: Yeshiva school lunches is optional?
JosephParticipantcherrybim: Your opening point only addressed the point; it missed the Shulchan Aruch quoted.
Regarding your second point, it isn’t a “weakness”; it is a Shulchan Aruch even if you injudiciously think you’re “strong”.
Additionally, requesting a seat change for this reason is no different from a practical standpoint from requesting a seat change in other to sit together with your children or relatives or whomever you’re traveling with that was originally seated elsewhere or because you don’t want a middle seat or don’t want to sit next to a baby or need to be closer to the front etc. If you’re okay with any of those last minute seat changes you have to be okay with a similar seat change request for moral or religious observance reasons.
JosephParticipantThe English term for a non-halachic Jew is a gentile.
JosephParticipantYou probably should differentiate between Orthodox and non-Orthodox.
JosephParticipantCA: See my post immediately following the one you quoted, verbatim quoting S”A EH 21:1.
October 30, 2019 12:51 pm at 12:51 pm in reply to: Out of Town – Chassidish community options? #1795787JosephParticipantThe following towns outside the NY Metro area have a Chasidic community:
Bloomingburg, NY
Sullivan County, NY
Baltimore, MD
Jersey City, NJ
Union City, NJ
Los Angeles, CA
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