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JosephParticipant
LB: You seriously think Hashem bringing plagues on a country is comparable to people rioting and burning a city down?!
JosephParticipantSorry, the question the above was an answer to was: “Is there anything wrong with the Afican American community striving for equality? Didn’t we Jews also try to do the same?”
JosephParticipantNo, there’s nothing wrong with that at all. The African Americans have the right to strive for equality. There’s no question that everyone has the right to better himself and his place in society. Our claim is only that you must make this attempt for equality by legal means – not by power and not by force. We Jews – whatever we gained was not gained by forcing. It was not gained by burning down cities.
And we also did not request any privileges. The most we wanted was equality. But that we should be offered privileges above the rest of the population never entered our minds. Affirmative action?! Affirmative action – that’s one of the euphemistic names of a policy that is used to camouflage a movement that is intended to give privileges to them more than to others. Affirmative action means to give jobs and other privileges only to them – even when it means discriminating against more qualified people. And open admission to schools means to allow anyone to enter, even though that person is not qualified. And the qualified fellow loses out. Such things are absolutely unfair. And that is what is wrong in the present struggle for control of public office. The politicians who support these unfair and wrong policies, in order to placate the vandals who are burning down cities, are a danger to all of us.
JosephParticipant“However, screaming and yelling does not rise to the level of calling the authorities.”
Don’t tell that to Syag.
JosephParticipantRight, JO. So you love them in a way they hate us, as you stated in your comment. How much sleep did FDR lose over Hitler slaughtering the Jews?
JosephParticipant“The Rov (Lila? Avi?) said not to report it BECAUSE he would take care of it. Nobody recommended letting it be.”
Nobody said otherwise.
Let the Rov take care of it.
JosephParticipantI’ll respond once my computer comes back up.
JosephParticipantAvram, other than the fact that we are all Yidden here subject to Halacha, why else did the Rov tell him *not* to report this to any authorities?
JosephParticipantRY, people who commit suicide also lose their free will after that act.
JosephParticipantThis is an online forum where people discuss things, Syag, so what could be so bad if we prescribe specific medication to a poster who describes his medial ailments. We’re just discussing medical concepts and offering our own thoughts and answers. Chill out.
JosephParticipantBig surprise here—this is an online forum. People bring up scenarios and other people discuss them. We rarely have “all” the information
Ah, so we pasken pekuach nefesh shailos here by telling someone to engage in mesira and call the cops based on what you say “We rarely have “all” the information” because “this is an online forum”.
Got it. Do you also prescribe medication over this public online forum using this same criteria? Even if the doctor already told him not to take medication?
JosephParticipantmylogic, so call one Rov and if he says no call another rabbi. If the next one says no too, disregard and be moser anyways? Yeah, I get that.
JosephParticipantSo we don’t know whether the OP heard two teenagers shrieking at one another or an 85 year old couple yelling at his spouse or a mother shrieking at her child or a father raising his voice at his son.
Yet we have posters here telling him to call the cops even they don’t know 10% of the story. Whereas the Rov shlita who he consulted with and described who the persons are, and the Rov knows what their relationship to each other is and what kind of raised voices were involved said not to call the cops or anyone else.
And those here who don’t know a fraction of the story are telling him to disregard the Rov who has far more information than you, me and the other posters here?
JosephParticipantHaimy, buckle your seatbelt. What you said is absolutely true and correct. But in this topsy turvy world we live in today you will now find yourself under fire for daring to have spoken such unspeakable truths that hurt when many are looking to find someone — other than themselves — to blame.
Now wait and watch as the verbal missles are about to be lodged at you and/or your OP.
JosephParticipantYou don’t call 911 if a neighboring couple has Shalom Bayis problems where they get into a shouting match every 3 weeks, as the OP described. As others mentioned, some couples are like that (which obviously isn’t ideal but it isn’t rare).
His Rov is correct.
JosephParticipantHaLeiVi, yes, in this case it was a miracle as well. I agree(d).
JosephParticipantYou liberals are missing the fact that the OP *already asked his Rov* and his Rov said **don’t be a Moser**.
His shaila about “lot of raised voices” that the OP — after hearing those sounds — is still uncertain “if nothing is going on” was already given a psak.
Is anyone advocating not only violating Hilchos Mesira based on a 10 sentence online posting above but also completely ignoring and disregarding the Psak Halacha that has already been rendered **on this very specific situation** by the Rov who heard all the details first-hand from the conversation he had with the OP?
Next case.
August 9, 2017 7:51 pm at 7:51 pm in reply to: Tight-fitting clothing and tznius – the elephant in the room #1335350JosephParticipant“Curiosity” said it all. Gut gezugt.
JosephParticipantThe title says everything.
JosephParticipantYour Rov already paskened you cannot engage in Mesira. You’re telling us you want to be a Moser anyways and disregard his Psak, possibly putting an innocent Yiddishe mishpacha through the gehenom known as CPS and the goyishe courts? In halachic terms that’s called retzicha, hence the halachos of mesira and your Rov’s Psak.
Make sure you ask a Posek before anything.
JosephParticipantA very large majority (80%+) of those in the so-called Nachal Chareidi (Netzach Yehuda) are non-Chareidim/Daati Leumi. The IDF isn’t attracting many Chareidim to enlist or be drafted.
JosephParticipantNochrim.
JosephParticipantSHP: These Q&As are transcribed outside the yeshiva from the decades old tapes that were bought many years ago. (These Q&As are also freely found printed out in some shuls.)
JosephParticipantYou mean the public Optimum WiFi on the streets? Custom DNS works over an Optimum personal/business internet connection.
JosephParticipantAgreed with HaLeiVi. The guy saved from the WTC experienced a miracle. Hands down.
JosephParticipantHaLeiVi: How did you use OpenDNS until you stopped?
I’ve used custom DNS with them.
JosephParticipant“but then how many comments do you think there would be here? Controversy is what keeps people interested.”
You’re telling me?
JosephParticipantWhich free filters for Android are available?
JosephParticipantThe Yekkes also had peyos. If you look at the pictures from Germany from the period of when photography was new, you’ll find completely Yekkishe Rabbonim with long twirly peyos like the Chasidim. And the Litvish wore shtreimals once upon a time in Lita itself along with a long jacket. The short jackets came about under Russian government pressure to look less Jewish and more Russian. Before that Litvaks and Chasidim didn’t dress differently.
The Chasidim simply never gave up the traditional Jewish dress. So if the Litvaks are now going back to what had been their traditional levush, all the more power to them. Beards were also universally found among Yidden of all persuasions, rabbinical and laymen. Going back to before we were forced to modernize is a positive for everybody.
JosephParticipantI have no dog in this argument, but Monsey was not Chasidish. I don’t think the Flatbush incident was either. (The Monsey was far worse, though.)
JosephParticipantThere’s a huge middle ground of Klal Yisroel that’s of mixed heritage/approach between Litvish and Chasidish. They probably represent a majority of the frum world.
JosephParticipantMisaskim, lot112, is big brother? Aren’t they more like Chesed Shel Emes?
JosephParticipantOd yishama be’arei yehudah. Uvechutzos Yerushalaim: Kol sason vekol simchah, Kol chasan vekol kalah.
JosephParticipantWhat age of the youngest do you start removing the baby-safety features of the house?
JosephParticipantAvram, I don’t disagree with your most recent comment. But (correctly) using that criteria you should also be frustrated and disappointed that your date wasn’t the right person for you even if he/she was a very nice refined Yid.
JosephParticipantBy time your youngest “baby” no longer is a baby who needs the house baby-proofed, your first grandchild arrives — so you’ll still need the house baby-proofed anyways.
JosephParticipantDaas, I’d say upper 30s, lower 40s.
JosephParticipantUmm, Nechomah, why would you have wanted him to not say no if he truly was a boor who was a bore smelling like a boar?
August 7, 2017 11:22 pm at 11:22 pm in reply to: Is it my cookies? Rather, lack of cookies? #1334364JosephParticipantIf you set your browser to automatically delete all your cookies at the end of every browser session, it will cause you to not remain logged into any websites when restarting your browser.
JosephParticipant“not needy”
You don’t like poor people?
JosephParticipantYeshiva Ohr Rabbeinu Elchonon D’Novardok U’Berditchiv
JosephParticipantAvram, my first (and second) paragraph was only intended to build the case that the girl has it, comparatively, easy on the date compared to the guy.
Regarding Meno, since he didn’t address it to anyone else, I presumed he was addressing his first comment to the OP.
Were you addressing Dov, Meno?
Regarding mentsch1, I agree it would’ve been mentchlich to give her advanced notice about that. But I got the sense that mentsch1 was kvetching more that he didn’t drive or wasn’t licensed than that he didn’t let her know so before coming to the house. (i.e. He ends by “She drove her dates numerous times.” Why complain about that if it was only a matter of not being notified?)
Am I mistaken, mentsch1?
JosephParticipantYekke: Sima was saying that both your and my points were (independently) correct. And that both of our points leads to her conclusion.
Not that your point was a proof or agreement to my point.
JosephParticipantIf they lifted a pinky against any of my ancestors, or against any of Acheinu Bnei Yisroel throughout history, yes they most certainly have harmed me personally.
August 7, 2017 3:23 pm at 3:23 pm in reply to: Which cheap stuff are good and which are not good? Please tell me. #1333733JosephParticipantRY, cheaper than Zenni Optical’s $6.95 frames and lenses?
August 7, 2017 3:22 pm at 3:22 pm in reply to: Kensington, Brooklyn, NYC versus Kensington, London #1333731JosephParticipantIt seems that the Torah emanating from Kensington, Brooklyn, NYC is having a major effect in spreading to Kensington’s elsewhere!
JosephParticipantIt has negative connotations for very good reasons. And they most certainly have done us very much harm over the last several thousand years right through the current times.
JosephParticipantLilmod: Of course this isn’t ideal. But I’m dealing with the metzius of our weak, sinful, generation. Ideally, of course, we should change how Sima, above, in her comment rightfully suggested. But until we reach that madreiga (may it be very soon) we need to deal with the facts on the ground that the non-Chasidish and super-Yeshivish oilem deals with this.
JosephParticipantmentsch1: Those stories you describe (I think) are fairly uncommon, but even when that does happen that he can’t drive for some reason (no car, etc.), what’s so geferlech if instead of him driving she drives or if she supplies the car or they take an Uber or car service? Is that really the end of the world?
JosephParticipant“They don’t complain. They just inquire why dating is so hard.”
Meno: How is dating so hard for her if the guy is ferrying her around, almost spoon-feeding her? Is getting dressed really *that* hard?
Unless you mean *getting* a date is hard for her. That’s another discussion (of which you can find many on this forum.)
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