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  • in reply to: Are civil rights a bad thing? #1337226
    Joseph
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    LB: You seriously think Hashem bringing plagues on a country is comparable to people rioting and burning a city down?!

    in reply to: Are civil rights a bad thing? #1337208
    Joseph
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    Sorry, the question the above was an answer to was: “Is there anything wrong with the Afican American community striving for equality? Didn’t we Jews also try to do the same?”

    in reply to: Are civil rights a bad thing? #1337174
    Joseph
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    No, there’s nothing wrong with that at all. The African Americans have the right to strive for equality. There’s no question that everyone has the right to better himself and his place in society. Our claim is only that you must make this attempt for equality by legal means – not by power and not by force. We Jews – whatever we gained was not gained by forcing. It was not gained by burning down cities.

    And we also did not request any privileges. The most we wanted was equality. But that we should be offered privileges above the rest of the population never entered our minds. Affirmative action?! Affirmative action – that’s one of the euphemistic names of a policy that is used to camouflage a movement that is intended to give privileges to them more than to others. Affirmative action means to give jobs and other privileges only to them – even when it means discriminating against more qualified people. And open admission to schools means to allow anyone to enter, even though that person is not qualified. And the qualified fellow loses out. Such things are absolutely unfair. And that is what is wrong in the present struggle for control of public office. The politicians who support these unfair and wrong policies, in order to placate the vandals who are burning down cities, are a danger to all of us.

    in reply to: Calling cops on frum neighbor #1337146
    Joseph
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    “However, screaming and yelling does not rise to the level of calling the authorities.”

    Don’t tell that to Syag.

    in reply to: The Rav Kanievsky Har Habayis “miracle” #1337053
    Joseph
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    Right, JO. So you love them in a way they hate us, as you stated in your comment. How much sleep did FDR lose over Hitler slaughtering the Jews?

    in reply to: Calling cops on frum neighbor #1335710
    Joseph
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    “The Rov (Lila? Avi?) said not to report it BECAUSE he would take care of it. Nobody recommended letting it be.”

    Nobody said otherwise.

    Let the Rov take care of it.

    in reply to: Down and Up #1335644
    Joseph
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    I’ll respond once my computer comes back up.

    in reply to: Calling cops on frum neighbor #1335617
    Joseph
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    Avram, other than the fact that we are all Yidden here subject to Halacha, why else did the Rov tell him *not* to report this to any authorities?

    in reply to: OTD KIDS ALSO HAVE FREE WILL. #1335606
    Joseph
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    RY, people who commit suicide also lose their free will after that act.

    in reply to: Calling cops on frum neighbor #1335581
    Joseph
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    This is an online forum where people discuss things, Syag, so what could be so bad if we prescribe specific medication to a poster who describes his medial ailments. We’re just discussing medical concepts and offering our own thoughts and answers. Chill out.

    in reply to: Calling cops on frum neighbor #1335571
    Joseph
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    Big surprise here—this is an online forum. People bring up scenarios and other people discuss them. We rarely have “all” the information

    Ah, so we pasken pekuach nefesh shailos here by telling someone to engage in mesira and call the cops based on what you say “We rarely have “all” the information” because “this is an online forum”.

    Got it. Do you also prescribe medication over this public online forum using this same criteria? Even if the doctor already told him not to take medication?

    in reply to: Calling cops on frum neighbor #1335559
    Joseph
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    mylogic, so call one Rov and if he says no call another rabbi. If the next one says no too, disregard and be moser anyways? Yeah, I get that.

    in reply to: Calling cops on frum neighbor #1335551
    Joseph
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    So we don’t know whether the OP heard two teenagers shrieking at one another or an 85 year old couple yelling at his spouse or a mother shrieking at her child or a father raising his voice at his son.

    Yet we have posters here telling him to call the cops even they don’t know 10% of the story. Whereas the Rov shlita who he consulted with and described who the persons are, and the Rov knows what their relationship to each other is and what kind of raised voices were involved said not to call the cops or anyone else.

    And those here who don’t know a fraction of the story are telling him to disregard the Rov who has far more information than you, me and the other posters here?

    in reply to: OTD KIDS ALSO HAVE FREE WILL. #1335538
    Joseph
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    Haimy, buckle your seatbelt. What you said is absolutely true and correct. But in this topsy turvy world we live in today you will now find yourself under fire for daring to have spoken such unspeakable truths that hurt when many are looking to find someone — other than themselves — to blame.

    Now wait and watch as the verbal missles are about to be lodged at you and/or your OP.

    in reply to: Calling cops on frum neighbor #1335537
    Joseph
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    You don’t call 911 if a neighboring couple has Shalom Bayis problems where they get into a shouting match every 3 weeks, as the OP described. As others mentioned, some couples are like that (which obviously isn’t ideal but it isn’t rare).

    His Rov is correct.

    in reply to: The Rav Kanievsky Har Habayis “miracle” #1335439
    Joseph
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    HaLeiVi, yes, in this case it was a miracle as well. I agree(d).

    in reply to: Calling cops on frum neighbor #1335438
    Joseph
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    You liberals are missing the fact that the OP *already asked his Rov* and his Rov said **don’t be a Moser**.

    His shaila about “lot of raised voices” that the OP — after hearing those sounds — is still uncertain “if nothing is going on” was already given a psak.

    Is anyone advocating not only violating Hilchos Mesira based on a 10 sentence online posting above but also completely ignoring and disregarding the Psak Halacha that has already been rendered **on this very specific situation** by the Rov who heard all the details first-hand from the conversation he had with the OP?

    Next case.

    in reply to: Tight-fitting clothing and tznius – the elephant in the room #1335350
    Joseph
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    “Curiosity” said it all. Gut gezugt.

    in reply to: Have to log in to see new posts #1335348
    Joseph
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    The title says everything.

    in reply to: Calling cops on frum neighbor #1335230
    Joseph
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    Your Rov already paskened you cannot engage in Mesira. You’re telling us you want to be a Moser anyways and disregard his Psak, possibly putting an innocent Yiddishe mishpacha through the gehenom known as CPS and the goyishe courts? In halachic terms that’s called retzicha, hence the halachos of mesira and your Rov’s Psak.

    Make sure you ask a Posek before anything.

    in reply to: Attitude towards Chareidim in the IDF #1335192
    Joseph
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    A very large majority (80%+) of those in the so-called Nachal Chareidi (Netzach Yehuda) are non-Chareidim/Daati Leumi. The IDF isn’t attracting many Chareidim to enlist or be drafted.

    in reply to: The Rav Kanievsky Har Habayis “miracle” #1335194
    Joseph
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    Nochrim.

    in reply to: Q&A With Rav Avigdor Miller #1335168
    Joseph
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    SHP: These Q&As are transcribed outside the yeshiva from the decades old tapes that were bought many years ago. (These Q&As are also freely found printed out in some shuls.)

    in reply to: k-9 filter #1335043
    Joseph
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    You mean the public Optimum WiFi on the streets? Custom DNS works over an Optimum personal/business internet connection.

    in reply to: The Rav Kanievsky Har Habayis “miracle” #1335020
    Joseph
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    Agreed with HaLeiVi. The guy saved from the WTC experienced a miracle. Hands down.

    in reply to: k-9 filter #1335021
    Joseph
    Participant

    HaLeiVi: How did you use OpenDNS until you stopped?

    I’ve used custom DNS with them.

    in reply to: Are You An Apikores? #1334954
    Joseph
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    “but then how many comments do you think there would be here? Controversy is what keeps people interested.”

    You’re telling me?

    in reply to: k-9 filter #1334816
    Joseph
    Participant

    Which free filters for Android are available?

    in reply to: chasidish / litvish yeshivas #1334736
    Joseph
    Participant

    The Yekkes also had peyos. If you look at the pictures from Germany from the period of when photography was new, you’ll find completely Yekkishe Rabbonim with long twirly peyos like the Chasidim. And the Litvish wore shtreimals once upon a time in Lita itself along with a long jacket. The short jackets came about under Russian government pressure to look less Jewish and more Russian. Before that Litvaks and Chasidim didn’t dress differently.

    The Chasidim simply never gave up the traditional Jewish dress. So if the Litvaks are now going back to what had been their traditional levush, all the more power to them. Beards were also universally found among Yidden of all persuasions, rabbinical and laymen. Going back to before we were forced to modernize is a positive for everybody.

    in reply to: Chasidishe Schechita #1334723
    Joseph
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    I have no dog in this argument, but Monsey was not Chasidish. I don’t think the Flatbush incident was either. (The Monsey was far worse, though.)

    in reply to: chasidish / litvish yeshivas #1334683
    Joseph
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    There’s a huge middle ground of Klal Yisroel that’s of mixed heritage/approach between Litvish and Chasidish. They probably represent a majority of the frum world.

    in reply to: Jewish big brother program #1334646
    Joseph
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    Misaskim, lot112, is big brother? Aren’t they more like Chesed Shel Emes?

    in reply to: Chosson music #1334647
    Joseph
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    Od yishama be’arei yehudah. Uvechutzos Yerushalaim: Kol sason vekol simchah, Kol chasan vekol kalah.

    in reply to: Un-babyproofing your house #1334644
    Joseph
    Participant

    What age of the youngest do you start removing the baby-safety features of the house?

    in reply to: How could a girl ever have a bad date? #1334572
    Joseph
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    Avram, I don’t disagree with your most recent comment. But (correctly) using that criteria you should also be frustrated and disappointed that your date wasn’t the right person for you even if he/she was a very nice refined Yid.

    in reply to: Un-babyproofing your house #1334543
    Joseph
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    By time your youngest “baby” no longer is a baby who needs the house baby-proofed, your first grandchild arrives — so you’ll still need the house baby-proofed anyways.

    in reply to: chasidish / litvish yeshivas #1334545
    Joseph
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    Daas, I’d say upper 30s, lower 40s.

    in reply to: How could a girl ever have a bad date? #1334551
    Joseph
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    Umm, Nechomah, why would you have wanted him to not say no if he truly was a boor who was a bore smelling like a boar?

    in reply to: Is it my cookies? Rather, lack of cookies? #1334364
    Joseph
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    If you set your browser to automatically delete all your cookies at the end of every browser session, it will cause you to not remain logged into any websites when restarting your browser.

    in reply to: What kind of people do you like? #1334365
    Joseph
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    “not needy”

    You don’t like poor people?

    in reply to: chasidish / litvish yeshivas #1333795
    Joseph
    Participant

    Yeshiva Ohr Rabbeinu Elchonon D’Novardok U’Berditchiv

    in reply to: How could a girl ever have a bad date? #1333767
    Joseph
    Participant

    Avram, my first (and second) paragraph was only intended to build the case that the girl has it, comparatively, easy on the date compared to the guy.

    Regarding Meno, since he didn’t address it to anyone else, I presumed he was addressing his first comment to the OP.

    Were you addressing Dov, Meno?

    Regarding mentsch1, I agree it would’ve been mentchlich to give her advanced notice about that. But I got the sense that mentsch1 was kvetching more that he didn’t drive or wasn’t licensed than that he didn’t let her know so before coming to the house. (i.e. He ends by “She drove her dates numerous times.” Why complain about that if it was only a matter of not being notified?)

    Am I mistaken, mentsch1?

    in reply to: How could a girl ever have a bad date? #1333769
    Joseph
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    Yekke: Sima was saying that both your and my points were (independently) correct. And that both of our points leads to her conclusion.

    Not that your point was a proof or agreement to my point.

    in reply to: Sweet 16 #1333741
    Joseph
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    If they lifted a pinky against any of my ancestors, or against any of Acheinu Bnei Yisroel throughout history, yes they most certainly have harmed me personally.

    in reply to: Which cheap stuff are good and which are not good? Please tell me. #1333733
    Joseph
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    RY, cheaper than Zenni Optical’s $6.95 frames and lenses?

    in reply to: Kensington, Brooklyn, NYC versus Kensington, London #1333731
    Joseph
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    It seems that the Torah emanating from Kensington, Brooklyn, NYC is having a major effect in spreading to Kensington’s elsewhere!

    in reply to: Sweet 16 #1333722
    Joseph
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    It has negative connotations for very good reasons. And they most certainly have done us very much harm over the last several thousand years right through the current times.

    in reply to: How could a girl ever have a bad date? #1333715
    Joseph
    Participant

    Lilmod: Of course this isn’t ideal. But I’m dealing with the metzius of our weak, sinful, generation. Ideally, of course, we should change how Sima, above, in her comment rightfully suggested. But until we reach that madreiga (may it be very soon) we need to deal with the facts on the ground that the non-Chasidish and super-Yeshivish oilem deals with this.

    in reply to: How could a girl ever have a bad date? #1333712
    Joseph
    Participant

    mentsch1: Those stories you describe (I think) are fairly uncommon, but even when that does happen that he can’t drive for some reason (no car, etc.), what’s so geferlech if instead of him driving she drives or if she supplies the car or they take an Uber or car service? Is that really the end of the world?

    in reply to: How could a girl ever have a bad date? #1333697
    Joseph
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    “They don’t complain. They just inquire why dating is so hard.”

    Meno: How is dating so hard for her if the guy is ferrying her around, almost spoon-feeding her? Is getting dressed really *that* hard?

    Unless you mean *getting* a date is hard for her. That’s another discussion (of which you can find many on this forum.)

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