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  • in reply to: Shidduchim for Jews of color #1150943
    Joseph
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    Why do some feel it is less okay to have a dating/marriage partner preference regarding skin color than hair color?

    in reply to: Shidduchim for Jews of color #1150939
    Joseph
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    Would you consider dating a Jew who was 6’11” or 4’9″ or a redhead or Buckharian or Moroccan or an out-of-towner or a city slicker or weighs 295 lb. regardless of their middos and frumkeit?

    Would it matter to you how they were Jewish, i.e. a Satmar chosid, Modern Orthodox, Lubavitch, Brisk?

    Would it make no difference to you whether you marry someone FFB versus a BT?

    in reply to: Forgiving the thoughtless or well intentioned #1150805
    Joseph
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    Bite your tongue and smile. 🙂

    in reply to: Are internet comments controlling your thoughts? #1150129
    Joseph
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    You better not eat them while you’re still grasping them…

    in reply to: Are internet comments controlling your thoughts? #1150127
    Joseph
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    Excuse for following a kosher link in a filtered connection to a post without comments? Guilty as charged!

    But you seem overly familiar with unmoderated comments by nisht frumma. How are you so familiar where to find them and know exactly where and what they are? You even, somehow, knew that “there are lots of comments under it”. Did you count how many unfiltered comments there were?

    in reply to: Are internet comments controlling your thoughts? #1150125
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    Linguistically your point that they are unmoderated and written by nisht frumma is your indication that they are inappropriate. I was a bit surprised at your familiarity with inappropriate content from viewing it on the wild internet. A decent kosher filter should block it.

    in reply to: Are internet comments controlling your thoughts? #1150123
    Joseph
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    “and then there are lots of comments under it that were neither written by frumma yidden nor moderated.”

    I sure didn’t came across them (probably due to filtering), and I was surprised they could get to you unfiltered.

    in reply to: Are internet comments controlling your thoughts? #1150120
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    You make too many assumptions. It was linked from a kosher source. I have no idea where you read it; it may have been reposted elsewhere. I was simply surprised you don’t have a filter that didn’t prevent your seeing the inappropriate comments you came across. My filter wouldn’t let it get to my screen.

    in reply to: Sanbatyon River #1150226
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    Jewish rabbinic sources are more reliable in what they write in the seforim hakedoshim than modern era historians who attempt to reconstruct history from the scraps of written sources that survived. (And who every couple of decades “discover” new historic sources that overturns their predecessors historic versions of ancient history.)

    in reply to: Are internet comments controlling your thoughts? #1150118
    Joseph
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    Disqus is a comment system used on news media sites and any other site that integrates it, it isn’t a blog. My source had no comments for the above, just the article as I posted it. If you read something inappropriate I’m surprised your filter didn’t filter it.

    in reply to: Are internet comments controlling your thoughts? #1150116
    Joseph
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    This article isn’t from the blogosphere.

    in reply to: Are internet comments controlling your thoughts? #1150114
    Joseph
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    YWN (as does Hamodia and Yated) regularly republishes outside content.

    in reply to: Can't Eat By In-Laws Who Eat Gebrochts on Pesach #1150019
    Joseph
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    Perhaps this explains why, when in shidduchim, many people look for a shidduch with a family that overall shares their minhagim.

    in reply to: The Longest Seder Contest�How Late Will Your Seder End? #1199625
    Joseph
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    Do we have a winner for ??????

    in reply to: Can't Eat By In-Laws Who Eat Gebrochts on Pesach #1149984
    Joseph
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    Sarcastic jokes and remarks toward a PERSON who made a heretical remark is not the same as defending Torah.

    “???? ???? ?????? ???? ??? ??? ?’ ???? ?’ – ????: “???? ?????? ?????? ??? ??? ????????? ????? ?????? ??????? ??? ?????? ???? ??? ??????”.

    (I hadn’t followed the back and forth sufficiently to know who is being referred to, so my comment is limited to only the quote in its own context.)

    in reply to: When Minhag Trumps Halacha #1180398
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    Flatbusher, there are frequently machlokes’ what the halacha is, with some shittas saying one way and other shittas saying the other way. Sometimes it is a difference between Sephardim and Ashkenazim (i.e. Shulchan Aruch and Rema) and other times there are differences even within Sephardim or Ashkenazim. And different communities may hold differently from each other. It’s been like this since the era of the Tanaaim.

    in reply to: When Minhag Trumps Halacha #1180394
    Joseph
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    When the Rema differs from the S”A, it usually means the Rema holds the halacha differently than the Mechaber.

    in reply to: Rav Moshe Feinstein-Chalav Stam Story #1149400
    Joseph
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    mw13, google: Download Rabbi Moshe Sherer to Rabbi Moshe D. Tendler (18 November 1991)-1

    Choose the first pdf. And read the contents of that letter on Agudah stationary from Rabbi Sherer. Rabbi Sherer references the other letter and events.

    in reply to: guest for yom tov brings chametzdik cake, puts it on the table #1150044
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    mik: You’re going to leave the chometz cake on the table for the rest of Yom Tov?

    in reply to: Rav Moshe Feinstein-Chalav Stam Story #1149394
    Joseph
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    That SIL isn’t reliable regarding Rav Moshe. He’s on the record as citing Rav Moshe for things that turned out to be patently not correct. There’s even a letter from Rav Moshe Sherer calling out numerous instances, both during Rav Moshe’s lifetime and afterwards, when he distorted the view of Rav Moshe. Rabbi Sherer confronted him in Rav Moshe’s presence about one such instance when he had deceived NYS legislators about Rav Moshe’s view, after which Rav Moshe had a letter written on MTJ’s letterhead informing the legislator that his view was the opposite of what his SIL claimed.

    in reply to: Can't Eat By In-Laws Who Eat Gebrochts on Pesach #1149861
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    If someone conforms to the shitta that it is not permitted to eat gebrochts, and DY outlined the reason for it right above, then it makes no sense to eat from keilim used with gebrochts. It is contradictory and the gebrochts keilim are assur for the same reason eating gebrochts are assur.

    in reply to: Need Suggestions – Our Son Needs Yeshiva #1149072
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    Is there a Yeshiva in the world that will refuse entry to a child because the parents can’t pay tuition, if refusing entry will result in the child attending public school?

    in reply to: Need Suggestions – Our Son Needs Yeshiva #1149069
    Joseph
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    Neville, must one be a millionaire to live in Williamsburg, Marine Park, Flatbush, Monsey or Lakewood?

    in reply to: Can anyone attend a Hasiidc Tish? #1149120
    Joseph
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    Lubavitch has farbrengen.

    in reply to: Can't Eat By In-Laws Who Eat Gebrochts on Pesach #1149832
    Joseph
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    Does anyone have experience with a real solution (other than just eat off their keilim anyways)?

    in reply to: Is anti-Zionism the sin of the spies? #1149812
    Joseph
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    Avi: How do dayanim take more than minimum wage?

    in reply to: Need Suggestions – Our Son Needs Yeshiva #1149062
    Joseph
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    I think the frum communities live in the suburbs; not in Baltimore proper.

    in reply to: More questions about Hasidic Tishen #1148889
    Joseph
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    And don’t forget to chap shrayim.

    The fish is delish and gebentched!

    in reply to: More questions about Hasidic Tishen #1148888
    Joseph
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    Usually in their main beis medrash.

    Friday nights after the Shabbos meal going into the wee hours of the morning.

    in reply to: Need Suggestions – Our Son Needs Yeshiva #1149058
    Joseph
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    Neville, kindly let us know, please, specifically which US frum communities “have to worry about your kids being stabbed”.

    in reply to: Can anyone attend a Hasiidc Tish? #1149115
    Joseph
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    Satmar is very tourist friendly to Jews of all stripes.

    Oftentimes, you might even end up with an invitation for a Shabbos meal. Even if you’re hatless.

    in reply to: To Mish or Not to Mish #1148764
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    Sam: The TC/P you speak of are MO? The link nisht provided was of Rav Pam saying the no mishing minhag must be respected and is legitimate. And Rav Pam offered a reason for the Minhag.

    in reply to: The Longest Seder Contest�How Late Will Your Seder End? #1199618
    Joseph
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    <bump>

    in reply to: Going to Boro park for biur chametz, what time should I be there #1148982
    Joseph
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    Every few blocks until the end of the zman.

    in reply to: do people who are allergic to peanuts, hate peanuts? #1148422
    Joseph
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    No. Since they can’t eat it, they don’t have any reason to hate it since they can’t taste it.

    in reply to: To Mish or Not to Mish #1148760
    Joseph
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    theprof1: Does that minhag mean he could eat on chol hamoed Pesach at his daati neighbor’s house or only at another member of the gerrer kehila (who generally keeps the same set of chumros as he does based on the kehila and rebbe’s minhagim)?

    in reply to: Is anti-Zionism the sin of the spies? #1149770
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    And rob compares Yehoshua and Dovid Hamelech to Bibi Netanyahu and his zionist regime and then makes deductions from that comparison to justify shedding Jewish blood.

    in reply to: Is anti-Zionism the sin of the spies? #1149768
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    Avi: Chacham Ovadia is on the record as supporting the pullout. He is not on any record as later regretting his original position. In either event, at most regretting it would demonstrate he believes giving land didn’t bring peace in that instance. It would not reverse his fundamental position that if peace can be achieved by giving up sovereignty of the land then it is halachicly mandatory to give up sovereignty to preserve Jewish lives.

    And the halachic position that it is halachicly mandatory to give up sovereignty to preserve Jewish lives is the position of the Gedolei Yisroel across streams, Sephardic and Ashkenazic. Rav Shach explicit stated land for peace is “permitted and necessary to compromise on even half of the Land of Israel”.

    And the Brisker Rov recently stated that if the zionist government continues in its efforts to make it untenable for Bnei Yeshiva to devote themselves to Limud Torah, it may be necessary and required for the Bnei Torah to move out of Eretz Yisroel in order to continue their Torah studies.

    in reply to: To Mish or Not to Mish #1148746
    Joseph
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    Mishing on Pesach

    The Korbon Pesach was eaten with one’s family.

    ????????? ??? ???? ????? ?????????? ?????? ???????? ???????? ?????? ????????? ????? ????? ???? ?????? ????? ???? ????????

    in reply to: talmud yerushalmi #1148395
    Joseph
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    In summation, it appears there are minhagim of waiting one hour, three hours, effectively five hours and six hours.

    in reply to: How will we know… #1149092
    Joseph
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    Eliyahu HaNavi will come three days before Moshiach to let us all know.

    in reply to: Today is the New York Primary- Who should I vote for? #1148330
    Joseph
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    Those were the goyim. The Yidden voted for Cruz. See my above comment.

    in reply to: Today is the New York Primary- Who should I vote for? #1148328
    Joseph
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    Ted Cruz’s biggest margin of victory in the entire NYC, almost 60%, was in Boro Park. Cruz also won in other heavily Orthodox election districts in New York.

    in reply to: talmud yerushalmi #1148386
    Joseph
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    I mean what does the 5.5 into the 6th mean? They start eating milichigs 5.5 hours after the last bite of fleishigs? Who has this minhag?

    in reply to: talmud yerushalmi #1148381
    Joseph
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    How does the the 5.5/into the 6th work and is it legit and the minhag by any non-Sephardim?

    in reply to: issur arkaos #1147886
    Joseph
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    Mostly because they’re not Yirei Shamayim.

    in reply to: talmud yerushalmi #1148379
    Joseph
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    Most Sephardim hold 6 hours?

    in reply to: talmud yerushalmi #1148375
    Joseph
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    I think DY posted previously on another thread that there is an active legitimate minhag, even today, of waiting only one hour. Dutch minhag, if I recall?

    in reply to: Today is the New York Primary- Who should I vote for? #1148322
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    in reply to: Today is the New York Primary- Who should I vote for? #1148319
    Joseph
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    Primaries have a write-in option. In 1928, Herbert Hoover won the Republican Massachusetts presidential primary on write-ins. In 1940, Franklin Roosevelt won the Democratic New Jersey presidential primary with write-ins. In 1960, Richard Nixon won the Republican Massachusetts presidential primary with write-ins. Ralph Nader ran a write-in campaign in 1992 during the New Hampshire primary for the presidential nomination of both the Democratic and Republican parties.

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