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Another day, another armed thug fleeing from the police with a rap sheet and a stolen loaded gun is lawfully shot by law enforcement after turning towards the officers gun in-hand, and another Black Lives Matter riot occurs.
JosephParticipantWho said she’s wrong? Just because you feel she’s wronged you doesn’t necessarily mean she objectively wronged you.
August 12, 2016 10:30 pm at 10:30 pm in reply to: women and guys in a not jewish college together #1175209JosephParticipantYou should drop out of college and go to a beis yaakov seminary until you find a chosson.
JosephParticipantWolf, when you made your years old comment about some never being mature and responsible enough to drive, what was your thinking about such people ever getting or not getting a license?
JosephParticipantR. Bechhofer, do you lurk in the coffee room here often?
August 12, 2016 8:35 pm at 8:35 pm in reply to: Why people become OTD (with the focus on the "why") #1164923JosephParticipantSo this Nishma that did this so-called survey discussed in the OP, is effectively an agent of Footsteps ym’s. Today Nishma shot out an e-mail as follows:
We are reaching out to you because, as a participant earlier this year in the “Survey of Those Who are Questioning, Leaving, or Have Left an Orthodox Community,” you indicated your willingness to take part in additional research.
We would like to invite you to participate in a quick (5 to 7 minutes) survey. One area the earlier survey explored related to the support people found when they left their community of origin, or were considering it. Footsteps is exploring ways to better serve this population, and that’s where you can provide additional information about your experience.
This survey is being administered by Nishma Research and your individual responses will not be shared with Footsteps.
Mark T.
Nishma Research
Then as you start taking Nishma’s new survey it advises you that:
Footsteps supports individuals who are contemplating leaving, insular ultra-Orthodox Jewish communities in their quest to lead self-determined lives.
JosephParticipantOthers may never be mature and responsible enough.
Wolf: In that case you won’t let your child ever get a license?
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JosephParticipantlilmod, why would anyone mistakenly think you’re more modern than them? You are obviously very frum and eidel.
JosephParticipantWhat’s the weather like in Cincinnati?
JosephParticipantMeno, are you an agricultural engineer?
JosephParticipantEducate yourself. Even a cursory listening to any number of their speakers will reveal a clear vitriolic hatred towards Torah Judaism and frum Jews.
JosephParticipantBlueSoul32, if you demand the name of the rov giving a haskama to this site, first provide the name of any so-called rabbi, fellow or “several prominent frum organizations” you claimed support these reshoyim gemurim from footsteps.
JosephParticipantubiquitin, mo is a bedieved observance. If the person will not otherwise observe traditional orthodoxy, certainly that is better than the alternative. But to encourage someone to downgrade to a bedieved, when he will otherwise continue observing as he is, isn’t acceptable. (I’m not saying they’re doing that.) You seem to have the same sense on this.
Also, MO is a very expensive lifestyle. Just sending children to MO schools costs and arm and a leg. So it is difficult to transition to MO without a financial lifeline.
JosephParticipantzd, my above comment about the individual you’re referring to is accurate and is what he wrote about himself over three years ago (and is still online). He had visitation, he saw his children and he chose to see them less than otherwise through his own volition. That his adult children, when they were engaged, chose not to invite him to their wedding was a result of how he acted and treated them. And when he did show up to the second wedding, he was welcomed by his children.
JosephParticipantI have mixed feelings about makom. They are a relatively new (and small) outfit and its hard to judge them until their modus operandi is more clear.
JosephParticipantThe former frum now anti-Orthodox activist that zd is referring to in fact did have visitation with his children, and did see his children, though he willfully chose to not see them much – a decision he made but blamed the frum community for. He was hospitalized for suicidal tendencies and is very bitter. He turned his children off from wanting to attend visitations with him, though they did continue.
JosephParticipantIf the older sibling refuses to give reshus for a younger one to marry first, when asked, what would you suggest?
JosephParticipantHe writes news articles and interviews people in the news, in addition to his interpretation of news events on how he perceives them to fit with his hashkafa. He’s also a high school rebbi at one of the local yeshivas in the Long Island area.
JosephParticipantThe Chareidi percentage of the population is on track to continue increasing substantially. Both as a percentage of the Jewish population and as a percentage of the overall national population.
August 11, 2016 8:51 pm at 8:51 pm in reply to: Should a frum girl be in Los Vegas by Herself? #1188185JosephParticipantWould you recommend a frum Yid go to Sedom on business?
JosephParticipantThere are different shittas. Some poskim are very strict and hold one must wait for all their older siblings to get married prior to getting married themselves. Another shitta is to only wait for siblings of the same gender.
In extenuating circumstances the above minhagim can be eased. Others are meikel in general.
JosephParticipant$4,250
August 10, 2016 9:40 pm at 9:40 pm in reply to: Book Review – One Above and Seven Below: A Consumer's Guide to Orthodox Judaism #1176620JosephParticipantSyag, I’ll continue following the mussar seforim as taught to me by the gedolei rabbonim that are my rebbeim rather than your remote internet evaluations thereof.
August 10, 2016 8:55 pm at 8:55 pm in reply to: Book Review – One Above and Seven Below: A Consumer's Guide to Orthodox Judaism #1176618JosephParticipantExcept that he said no such thing.
JosephParticipantWow, now even Syag is on the verge of becoming in agreement with me. Not there yet, but did y’all see this post a few minutes ago where she literally was about to purchase a book I recommended — on a deeply sensitive religious topic, no less. True another poster changed her mind prior to purchase, but the mere fact she seriously contemplated purchasing it merely on my say so, itself says a lot.
What do you say about that, golfer? My influence here is truly transformative.
August 10, 2016 8:22 pm at 8:22 pm in reply to: Book Review – One Above and Seven Below: A Consumer's Guide to Orthodox Judaism #1176616JosephParticipantNu, as a member in good standing of the religious left, you’ve noted many times on this forum that you find members of the religious right to be pasul in your book. 🙂
August 10, 2016 7:42 pm at 7:42 pm in reply to: Book Review – One Above and Seven Below: A Consumer's Guide to Orthodox Judaism #1176614JosephParticipantgaw – all his positions are given with a very detailed halachic analysis, including sources. Feel free to dispute them one by one rather than your making a generalized comment. Secondly, regarding the issue you raised, even the Israeli courts took that position. Thirdly, he in fact did not say she should not be locked up in Israel. Indeed he wrote that would be much preferable than extradition. Fourthly, the book covers an entirely different topic than any of this. None of your comments approach the subject of the title.
JosephParticipantI always knew the folks here would eventually come to agree with me. It took some longer than others, but eventually everyone comes around.
Even takahmamash came around five months ago. See:
http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/now-i-know-what-it-feels-like#post-602551
August 10, 2016 6:30 pm at 6:30 pm in reply to: Book Review – One Above and Seven Below: A Consumer's Guide to Orthodox Judaism #1176610JosephParticipantmiamilawyer –
Did you get hold yet of a copy of the book?
JosephParticipantAnd I agree with all of yichusdik’s comment.
The only outstanding question is whether Clinton will win a landslide or win a close election. I’m leaning more to her winning a landslide being more likely. But the worst case scenario, for her, is winning a close election.
JosephParticipantWho cares. Clinton’s election has been a foregone conclusion ever since Trump became the presumptive nominee.
JosephParticipantJosephParticipantIt differed. In Poland it differed in one way and in Italy it differed another way. If you saw a Jew in the street on a weekday you would immediately know it’s a Jew.
JosephParticipant“They don’t accept the written Torah as an inherently binding legal text”
And that is exactly what makes them apikorsum.
JosephParticipantJews have always dressed differently than non-Jews. At all times in Jewish history there has been a Jewish mode of dress. It may have differed between different Jewish customs in different locals, but each place dressed distinctively Jewish. (Other than the Hellenists and other, later, assimilators.)
JosephParticipantabsan, you’re absolutely correct.
JosephParticipantIn 1992, the Conservative Committee on Jewish Law and Standards affirmed the Levitical prohibitions on male homosexual conduct.
In 2006 the CJLS effectively overturned their previous affirmation on the Torah prohibition.
Did “their Torah” change between 1992 and 2006? Or, shall we say, the Torah didn’t change but the political winds did.
August 9, 2016 10:58 pm at 10:58 pm in reply to: Why the ashkenazi schools don't accept sefardi children #1164143JosephParticipantAh, so he’ll eat from non-meshichist Lubavitcher shochtim.
JosephParticipantI specifically made clear it isn’t the fact that they violate Torah laws, that they are aware are Torah prohibitions, that makes them apikorsum. Many people, out of weakness or otherwise, regularly violate Torah laws. They are not apikorsum as they do not deny the Torah prohibition’s binding nature, even when they’re violating it.
What makes them apikorsum is the fact that they know something is a Torah law and, yet, they declare that they reject the applicability of said Torah law. Even if they never violate said Torah law they are, nevertheless, apikorsum.
August 9, 2016 10:11 pm at 10:11 pm in reply to: Why the ashkenazi schools don't accept sefardi children #1164141JosephParticipantjf02, you completely misconstrued my comment. Of all things we’ve argued about this is the last one I had any feminist connotations in mind. To break it down in simpler terms, other than the meshichist issue, to whom it is applicable, there is no other plausible halachic differentiation between a non-meshichist Lubavitcher shochet and your local reliable Orthodox shochet.
But to settle this point, instead of arguing with me, why don’t you ask your husband for his reason and report back.
JosephParticipantapy, zicher a tzadik like you who keeps his eyes always focused on the ground wouldn’t have any hasaga on this inyan. But the seforim hakedoshim are abundant in admonitions on the mode and choices women make in dressing.
JosephParticipantWe’re enjoying talking to ourselves here.
JosephParticipantSyag is one of my alter-egos.
JosephParticipantwe could care less what you think we are concerned with what other women think whether we are dressed for a wedding or a trip to the supermarket.
They dress to kill other women?
JosephParticipantHow do your sisters know what men think?
August 9, 2016 3:29 pm at 3:29 pm in reply to: Why the ashkenazi schools don't accept sefardi children #1164138JosephParticipantHe won’t have any good halachic explanation then.
JosephParticipantjf02, seriously? How could you say something like what you just posted if you claim to be an Orthodox Jew? “Our Torah is not their Torah.” Come again? Our Torah is every Jew’s Torah, like it or not. And anyone who thinks, feels or says that “Our Torah is not their Torah” is an apikorus on that basis alone.
Secondly, and in addition to the above, no Jew denies that the Torah shebksav, not just the shebalpeh, literally and explicitly forbids homosexual relations. The Reform and Conservatives, including the majority of their everyday laymen, know the Torah forbids it but simply reject that explicit Torah commandment. That makes them apikorsum.
JosephParticipantThe Oxford English Dictionary lists the word irregardless. It originated in the mid-19th century and is informal.
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