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  • in reply to: Blocking traffic while turning left #1178777
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    Is it okay to make a right turn on a red light?

    Joseph
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    Meno, how long is it reasonable to hold up traffic while you wait for the slowpoke to pull out?

    Joseph
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    ubiq, often the guy pulling out doesn’t hustle and takes his pretty time (and four cars are honking for you to move.)

    in reply to: Why Brooklyn Bais Yaakovs Need Unity Now #1178814
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    HaLeiVI, his English writing, that you posted, is difficult to decipher his point. His points about Lakewood, affluence, quiet rejection and the Agudah are completely incomprehensible.

    AFAIK all poor frum children, whose only fault is being poor, are in yeshivos and beis yaakovs.

    in reply to: Why Brooklyn Bais Yaakovs Need Unity Now #1178810
    Joseph
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    ” Where are the parents? “

    What if the parents are dirt poor (and working)?

    in reply to: Why Brooklyn Bais Yaakovs Need Unity Now #1178805
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    TLIK, Which Yeshiva our Beis Yaakov expels children for missing payments on the tuition balances? From everything I know that is a myth.

    in reply to: Discussing Salary With Colleagues #1178754
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    I posted a response but it wasn’t approved and the thread was zipped.

    in reply to: Discussing Salary With Colleagues #1178752
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    In the back office at JP Morgan Chase.

    in reply to: Is Hillary too weak and fragile to survive the rigors of the presidency? #1190250
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    It’s too late under most State’s laws to change the name on the presidential ballot.

    in reply to: Discussing Salary With Colleagues #1178748
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    apy, that’s rubbish. Negotiating skills in salary negotiations is vital. And having more information gives you more leverage. Companies will try to pay the least they can while hiring/retaining you.

    It is well known companies very often insist on knowing your previous salary since they don’t want to pay you too much more than your last employer. Even if they would have been willing to pay someone with your skill set and experience much more than your previous employer had. Knowing what you are/were paid, they will lower their offer to something not too much above despite their coming in willing to have paid more prior to knowing your last salary.

    in reply to: Ladies First – Is it respectful or not? #1178608
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    lilmod, I was assuming the Titanic to be an all-gentile ship. So I was looking for an answer along the lines I just gave to Person1 in my last comment. But I agree with you in your listed priority of yehudi zochor, yehudi nekeiva, nochri.

    in reply to: Discussing Salary With Colleagues #1178746
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    apushatayid, knowing the salaries of colleagues with similar responsibilities/functions provides you with a great deal of negotiating information and leverage compared to being in the dark about that information. No doubt about that.

    Companies have been known to pay a subordinate more than his supervisor due to different salary negotiating skills between them.

    in reply to: Ladies First – Is it respectful or not? #1178606
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    Person1, oh, halacha aside on the Titanic; I think without halacha there would be no priority given anyone among goyim. Btw, the law in both the US and Britain as well as the law at sea, both at the time of the Titanic disaster as well as now, provides no gender based preferences in rescue efforts.

    in reply to: Ladies First – Is it respectful or not? #1178603
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    gavra, if there’s no Vadai that the unsaved will die, why deviate from the halacha as given in the Gemora and S”A? Regarding the percentage, if it is less than 51% likelihood of surviving, I surely see no reason to take that into account to deviate from the standard halacha. Arguably, anything less than 100% should leave the standard halacha in effect.

    lilmod, I understood Redleg to mean he makes no distinction between yidden and goyim. If he’s only referring to goyim then my comment to him is possibly inapplicable.

    Person1, see the Mishnah in Horios 3:7, the Rambam on the Mishna, Beis Yosef YD 251 and S”A YD 252:8.

    in reply to: Discussing Salary With Colleagues #1178743
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    lilmod, why don’t you look at it that you’re helping the person get a higher salary or lower rent?

    in reply to: Ladies First – Is it respectful or not? #1178598
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    Redleg: The Torah and Halacha disagree with you. The Shulchan Aruch says the opposite of you.

    in reply to: Why Brooklyn Bais Yaakovs Need Unity Now #1178790
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    It was a new and small school that didn’t have funds to continue.

    Should yiddishe meidelech go to public school because they are orphans with no parents to pay a full tuition?

    in reply to: Is Hillary too weak and fragile to survive the rigors of the presidency? #1190240
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    huju, you’re referring to the cripple who sent a shipload of Jews back to the Nazis and their deaths and refused to bomb the railroad tracks to the death camps or otherwise intervene to save the Jews in Europe from genocide?

    Don’t swallow all the “greatest” junk the uber-liberal “historians” throw at you.

    in reply to: Ubiquitin and Health are still at it! #1179681
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    I also sympathize with them.

    Say, I could help out by relieving you for a couple days and volunteering to do your modding while you can relax.

    in reply to: Ladies First – Is it respectful or not? #1178591
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    lilmod, as you know, on the Titanic they prioritized saving women before men. Putting aside the halachic requirement to save men first, as after all the Titanic wasn’t a Jewish ship or subject to halacha, if you had any say in prioritizing the saving of lives on the ship, how would you prioritize? Would you take gender into account, and if so in what way?

    in reply to: Discussing Salary With Colleagues #1178736
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    Employers don’t have control over employees personal lives after hours when they are socializing with other employees off the employers premises. What is discussed between two people, who happen to work in the same company, while they are offsite is proprietary to those two folks and they have no need to inform their employer (who they are not on the clock for at the time) what they discussed between two private parties. Obviously they’ll want to be circumspect in any conversation they have with their employer not to make known they shared that information off hours.

    in reply to: Used Car Salesmen #1179890
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    What made the mechanical odometers more secure from modification?

    in reply to: Is Hillary too weak and fragile to survive the rigors of the presidency? #1190228
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    She’s been hiding her health problems and dismissing all talk of it, until today’s public spectacle, as right-wing conspiracies.

    in reply to: Ladies First – Is it respectful or not? #1178588
    Joseph
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    I didn’t mean it was a daas yochid to rule that one must wash on even one slice. Many poskim ruled as such long before this survey. And many people have washed for one slice long before this psak. See:

    The Pizza Study

    I meant the methodology itself of looking at general non-Jewish society for this purpose is unusual and apparently daas yochid, assuming you’re correct in relating that the survey was the decisive factor in the psak. Most poskim wouldn’t accept considering non-Jewish society in determining the psak for this purpose.

    Various other poskim ruled it mandatory to wash on one slice long before this survey for reasons other than what the goyim do.

    in reply to: Ladies First – Is it respectful or not? #1178582
    Joseph
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    Don’t worry, I’ve been called worse. (Just ask Health.)

    If a couple of poseks use a methodology that is very atypical in psak halacha and goes against the grain, it doesn’t prove anything other than their methodology was a daas yochid that lacks widespread acceptance among the poskim. So it in no way proves we care what the goyim do in this sense. You can find non-accepted psaks through out history (from choshuve poskim), even some that go completely the opposite of what is the near universal accepted psakim, that were never accepted among the consensus of poskim.

    in reply to: Discussing Salary With Colleagues #1178729
    Joseph
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    Or in online discussions. (Feel free to post your salary below.)

    in reply to: Ladies First – Is it respectful or not? #1178578
    Joseph
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    lilmod, nowhere have you indicated that Rav Bodner advised you that the decisive factor in the psak was the survey. You appear to have come to that understanding (specifically the reason for the psak being the survey) from other sources. Various rabbonim have ruled to wash on pizza for various reasons. And Rav Bodner and Rav Forchsheimer may have ruled to wash because they believe that it is customarily only eaten in America as part of a meal. But that doesn’t mean they concluded that due to this survey you referenced. They may have made that evaluation primarily based on other factors they’ve assessed.

    Furthermore, even if it was the survey that was the decisive factor in their ruling, the use of that for this purpose is not typical methodology of mainstream psak halacha among most poskim. It would be quite unusual, in fact. It goes against the grain amongst poskim, who would use only how the food is eaten among Yidden.

    And as I mentioned earlier, there are poskim in America that still rule today like Rav Moshe, that one need not wash hamotzi when eating less than two slices.

    in reply to: Ladies First – Is it respectful or not? #1178576
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    Person1: Western culture, which changes as fast as the seasons, is never better than Jewish culture. Not in any way, not in any how. Non-Jewish culture is to be avoided like the plague. The reason some folks become enamored by them is due to golus and the unfortunate daily indoctrination of this foreign culture.

    As limod ably pointed out in the previous page, Jewish law and culture strongly disagree with Western notions of equality. Regarding your first example, women should ideally be homemakers and not working – that is the man’s job.

    in reply to: Ladies First – Is it respectful or not? #1178569
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    It has to do with the Yidden not the non-Yidden.

    in reply to: I just dropped something on the floor #1178709
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    Virtual reality?

    in reply to: Ladies First – Is it respectful or not? #1178565
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    BTW, there are still poskim in America who rule hamotzi only on two or more slices, in accordance with Rav Moshe. Rav Moshe’s point about it being a quantity to constitute a meal could refer to a dinner – which is a full meal (and which one slice of pizza doesn’t make a dinner), and not lunch, which in America is a light meal.

    in reply to: Ladies First – Is it respectful or not? #1178564
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    lilmod, I would seriously question the accuracy of your contention that their psak was substantially based on a general survey. I would strongly submit it was not. Furthermore, use of such a medium for such a purpose is clearly out of line with mainstream psak. I would suggest you check the accuracy of your source on this point.

    The societal normative practice in how it pertains to halacha and psak is determined specifically on how Jewish society acts and not on general secular/non-Jewish society. If Jewish society happens to act similarly to its surrounding society, whether or not that is because they picked up a custom or practice due to surrounding society’s influence, then by all means that is the determining factor. But it is certainly not a given that Torah Jews habits are in sync with that of its surrounding neighbors.

    in reply to: Ladies First – Is it respectful or not? #1178561
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    in reply to: Ladies First – Is it respectful or not? #1178559
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    I did. I think the principles you make are good. Though your nomenclature are disagreeable. You make very good points demonstrating the non-equality between Kohanim and Yisroelim, men and women, etc. You also saliently point out we are victims to the influences of the Western culture that we unfortunately live amidst.

    The idea that there is something wrong with all men not being equal, is a western concoction that has no basis in our Mesorah. So to challenge that the Rambam doesn’t say we aren’t equal is looking at it backwards. The Rambam also doesn’t say we aren’t apes. That doesn’t mean we should consider ourselves to share a common ancestor with apes unless proven otherwise. Similarly there is no valid reason to assume equality. The way you’ve reinterpreted the term equality to fit the end result you wished to produce doesn’t fit how the term is commonly used in the world, as you’ve conceded. Nor is the term, as you’ve described it, the proper terminology to define ourselves within Judaism.

    In any event, the inequalities you’ve pointed out between men and women, and Kohanim and Yisroelim, would be found very objectionable by contemporary societies insistence on the equality of all people.

    in reply to: Ladies First – Is it respectful or not? #1178556
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    But you said you’re Orthodox. The Orthodox only have a Patriarch…

    in reply to: Ladies First – Is it respectful or not? #1178554
    Joseph
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    I’m Orthodox.

    Ahh, so you do believe in the Patriarchy!

    in reply to: Unnecessary Dentist procedures #1178305
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    CTL: So if his patient sues him for completing dental services he didn’t order you defend him free of charge?

    in reply to: shiurim #1178686
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    Rav Moshe Meir Weiss.

    in reply to: Unnecessary Dentist procedures #1178302
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    Frumguy: Dr. Martin Bienenstock is great.

    in reply to: Unnecessary Dentist procedures #1178296
    Joseph
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    Do the two of you possibly share the same dentist?

    in reply to: Ladies First – Is it respectful or not? #1178552
    Joseph
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    I’m just traditional.

    in reply to: Ladies First – Is it respectful or not? #1178550
    Joseph
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    I believe sparkly switched worldviews in the last few days from hard left to hard right.

    in reply to: Why is Picasso the default example #1180382
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    It isn’t.

    in reply to: Ubiquitin and Health are still at it! #1179656
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    I’m making popcorn for everyone.

    in reply to: Obama vs. Putin: Who is the better president for his country? #1185543
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    Other than taking Crimea by force, what Putin done to outdo Obama.

    Crimea was taken bloodlessly. A vast majority of the population support being part of Russia. Crimea has been Russian for many centuries until Soviet dictator Nikita Khrushchev gave it as a “gift” to the Ukraine in an internal (and at the time effectively meaningless) Soviet transfer.

    As far as Puting outmaneuvering Obama on Ukraine, Obama supported the coup de’tat against the elected government because they were pro-Russian unlike the previous government which was pro-Western and pro-NATO. Obama hoped with the overthrow of the government it would bring Ukraine closer to the West. Putin, in response to Obama backing the coup, backed Ukrainian rebels opposed to the unelected government who assumed power after the coup. As a result of Russian backing, the rebels have created a de facto split in Ukraine between the pro-Western regions, which are under government control, and the pro-Russian regions, which are under rebel control in a stalemated frozen conflict that has effectively prevented Ukraine from becoming closer to NATO and the EU, something Russia would abhor.

    in reply to: Obama vs. Putin: Who is the better president for his country? #1185541
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    benignuman: From the moral examples you gave between Obama=Bad and Putin=Worse, you are saying while Obama is morally better than Putin but that Obama is still morally “bad”.

    But to take your Syrian example, you criticize Putin for supporting the Syrian government, yet it was Putin’s Syrian intervention that gave the government the ability to begin defeating the Islamic State, which you surely agree is far worse than the government. Furthermore, even the rebels (Free Syrian Army, Nusra Front, etc.) have engaged in war crime atrocities. So it is difficult to assert that Russia’s actions in Syria made matters worse.

    It was Obama’s actions in Iraq, and lack thereof in Syria, that made way for the birth of the Islamic State in its current form in Iraq and Syria.

    Regarding Iran, Russian know-how and technology assistance began before Putin came to power in Russia. Additionally, France bears as much blame in that regard.

    You also didn’t acknowledge Obama’s support of the coup in Ukraine that overthrew the government that preceded the civil war there.

    in reply to: Ladies First – Is it respectful or not? #1178541
    Joseph
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    Does a Rebbi treat his talmid obnoxiously since they’re not equal? Does a mother treat her daughter obnoxiously since they’re not equal?

    in reply to: Ladies First – Is it respectful or not? #1178539
    Joseph
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    lesschumras, huh? What on earth are you talking about? Did you have a cholem? You are addressing the wrong poster and in the wrong thread. You meant to post in the humor thread.

    Sparkly, equality is a modern day Western invention and pipe dream that has no basis in Torah and Halacha.

    in reply to: Ladies First – Is it respectful or not? #1178534
    Joseph
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    ” The Torah dictates that are being quoted regarding marriage are: a) not D’oraisa as far as I know”

    As you can see from the afore-quoted halacha in Shulchan Aruch, they are so strong that it actually takes precedence over the wife’s d’oraysa of Kibud Av Veim, one of the Aseres Hadibros.

    in reply to: Ladies First – Is it respectful or not? #1178529
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    That’s the term the S”A uses.

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