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  • in reply to: Tochacha #1204305
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    If you’re uncertain whether or not the person will react positively to the tochacha, you’re required to give it since there’s the possibility he might correct his action after the tochacha.

    in reply to: Shalom Bayis classes for Lakewood newlyweds #1204124
    Joseph
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    What do you mean by whether they experienced it at home?

    in reply to: Eating Before Shacharis if it helps to daven #1204693
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    I’ve seen some people eat cookies or cake Shabbos morning before Shachris.

    in reply to: Rules for Davening #1206885
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    mik5: Shkoyach.

    1) Thus one is required to wear a belt (if not wearing a gartel) when davening.

    2) Would waiting to start your S”E simultaneously with the chazaras hashatz be preferable to some or any of the order of preference you listed?

    3) Is it ever permissible to daven S”E while sitting (i.e. while traveling)?

    4) Do some people follow Zohar on this and say S”E without actually saying it?

    5) Thus you cannot finish S”E ahead of the Shatz?

    6) If you sit down after finishing S”E, prior to the chazoras hashatz beginning, must you stand up at the beginning of the chazaras hashatz?

    7) At what point is S”E considered to be “finished”, and you cannot go back to fix your error?

    8) Other places i.e. between barchu and shema. Or in shema.

    9) Do you ever say Kedusha while in middle of S”E, i.e. in middle of elokei netzor?

    10) While waiting for the Shatz to catch up to you for barchu? During leining?

    in reply to: Rules for Davening #1206877
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    If you bedieved sit down after finishing S”E, prior to the chazoras hashatz beginning, must you stand up at the beginning of the chazaras hashatz?

    in reply to: Rules for Davening #1206875
    Joseph
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    Lilmod, the people you see with some space between their feet during S”E are wrong?

    in reply to: Rules for Davening #1206870
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    If starting S”E later than the tzibbur started, is it preferable to start immediately after saying Gaw’al Yisroel or to wait to begin together with the Shatz?

    in reply to: Shidduchim – asking the girl first #1203169
    Joseph
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    Lilmod, there’s a strong argument that there are more girls in shidduchim than boys in shidduchim, since girls enter the shidduch parsha younger than boys.

    in reply to: Coffee Connoisseurs #1203125
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    Most coffee drinkers will rarely if ever drink black unsweetened coffee. Hence most folks don’t benefit from a “better” coffee.

    in reply to: Christmas Presents to Give on Chanukah #1200653
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    ubiq, have you gotten the kids chrismaku presents yet? :p

    in reply to: How young can a child babysit the younger children? #1200631
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    Are citizens obligated by law to follow “standards”? How are they to know what the standards are? And are the same standards applicable statewide?

    in reply to: Davening Mincha and Maariv Together #1204770
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    Would holding by Rabbeinu Tam’s shkia impact the answer to this question?

    in reply to: Chessed? Or Just a Waste of Time? #1204229
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    Of course it is a Chesed. Without doubt.

    in reply to: What will Trumpica look like? #1213353
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    Well, close to 17. Carson was a clown.

    in reply to: Tehillim Minyan #1200665
    Joseph
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    Many shuls have a minyan saying the complete Tehilim every Erev Rosh Chodesh.

    in reply to: What will Trumpica look like? #1213351
    Joseph
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    I opposed Trump in the primaries. Out of 17 Republican candidates he was my 17th choice to win. In the general election I voted for him as the lesser of the two evils. I thought he had almost no chance of winning against Clinton. In fact I thought he had very little chance of winning the primary.

    But since winning he’s impressed me very much with his personnel choices for his cabinet, across the board. More real conservatives than even Ronald Reagan I think. So I now have much bigger hopes and anticipation for his presidency.

    By the way, both he and his father have had a stellar reputation regarding their friendliness with Jews and Jewish causes long before both his candidacy for president and before his daughter’s marriage.

    in reply to: The Sephardim's Relationship to Ashkenazim in Israel? #1205836
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    lb: An Ashkenazi is forbidden to allow his wife to eat kitniyos.

    in reply to: Shidduchim – asking the girl first #1203149
    Joseph
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    There’s no reason it needs to be one way over the other. Either way is fine.

    in reply to: How young can a child babysit the younger children? #1200629
    Joseph
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    Related Questions:

    At what age can (or “may”, cr. CTL) a child be permitted to cross the street themselves and/or walk or bike to school or friends themselves?

    Additionally, does the government have the right to be a nanny state and override the parents decisions on these issues?

    in reply to: The Sephardim's Relationship to Ashkenazim in Israel? #1205829
    Joseph
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    Of course Ashkenaz and Sephard are not the only groups. Some fall into neither category. Teimanim are not Sephardim. Italkim are not Ashkenazim. etc.

    in reply to: What will Trumpica look like? #1213349
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    In 30 years Americans will be speaking with nostalgia of the historic Trump era and the greatness of his presidency.

    in reply to: The Sephardim's Relationship to Ashkenazim in Israel? #1205827
    Joseph
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    You go by your father (and his father), until you go by your husband, so you’re always only one or the other.

    in reply to: How young can a child babysit the younger children? #1200626
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    iacisrmma: Is that age specifically coded in NYS statutory law?

    in reply to: The Sephardim's Relationship to Ashkenazim in Israel? #1205822
    Joseph
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    The secular/chiloni Israelis, especially the elite, hold Sephardim in contempt. Just like they hold the Torah in contempt r’l. Baruch Hashem the frum Sephardim and frum Ashkenazim in Eretz Yisroel get along splendidly together with each other, just as the frum American Sephardim and Ashkenazim in New York, Lakewood, Deal, New Jersey, etc. get along spectacularly with each other. Both in Eretz Yisroel and in America you will find Sephardim in most Ashkenazi yeshivos, especially the top Ashkenazi yeshivos.

    Unfortunately the secular/chilonim in Israel, in a feeble attempt to justify and cover up their discriminatory anti-Sephardic policies in the State of Israel, its universities as well as private industry, falsely accuse the frum of Eretz Yisroel of also having some sort of bias against Sephardim. It is laughably false. But they, especially the anti-religious media in Israel, never cease making their false allegations.

    in reply to: The Most Thankless Jobs #1204988
    Joseph
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    Husbands & Fathers.

    in reply to: Tehillim Minyan #1200662
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    I think Shomer Shabbos has one.

    in reply to: Coffee Connoisseurs #1203110
    Joseph
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    Says you.

    in reply to: Coffee Connoisseurs #1203107
    Joseph
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    Frankly, Taster’s Choice instant coffee tastes as good or better than the vast majority of brewed coffee. Including Gevalia and Starbucks.

    in reply to: Is Dating Tznius? #1212046
    Joseph
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    BG, benignuman already addressed your point several ways. One was that the roshei yeshiva may well be unaware of where the bochorim are taking their dates to. Not everyone runs their dating options through their rosh yeshiva. Or they may not be aware what “activities” are available at specific dating venue. Do you always ask your rosh yeshiva if a particular dating venue is kosher? (You should.) Furthermore, the roshei yeshiva DO protest various dating activities, including venues. Who said they don’t?

    in reply to: CIA #1199652
    Joseph
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    And why were classified emails in particular, and Huma’s State Department emails in general, on Weiner’s computer in the first place?

    in reply to: What will Trumpica look like? #1213345
    Joseph
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    I’d rather round you up myself. Because you’re Jewish. And we need a tzeinter for our minyan.

    in reply to: Is Dating Tznius? #1212031
    Joseph
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    Lilmod, which godol was that?

    Chelsea Piers is a sports arena where they have bowling and some other sporting activities. The other place I haven’t heard of.

    in reply to: Is Dating Tznius? #1212029
    Joseph
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    I believe benignuman’s point that the Roshei Yeshiva do not know what goes on typical dates (outside of the very Yeshivish) is accurate. I also think lightbrite’s point that the roshei yeshiva realize that with certain segments of people they are facing an uphill battle fighting this scourge is also true. Additionally I think that the roshei yeshiva do talk about this problem to a large extent, where they think they can be a positive influence on the bochorim. Unfortunately while they are more successful on the very yeshivish, as benignuman pointed out, they are less successful with the less than very yeshivish.

    in reply to: Is Dating Tznius? #1212023
    Joseph
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    benignuman, how many dates did you have with your wife prior to marriage, and what did you do on your later dates?

    in reply to: Making aliya now #1199966
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    Aren’t you in the UK, which also provides free tuition (or low cost government subsidized) for Jewish schools/yeshivas?

    in reply to: Is Dating Tznius? #1212019
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    benignuman: You agree that the halachic point you are making indicates that the chasidish model is far preferable halachicly, if not actually mandatory?

    in reply to: Who should be Secretary of State? #1198784
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    Any country that recognized Kosovo being independent from Serbia, the US included, has no standing to complain about Crimea declaring independence from Ukraine. Once either one is independent then they have a right to join another country should they so choose. There’s little moral difference between Crimea declaring independence from Ukraine and then acting as a sovereign state, than them subsequently electing to merge into another state.

    My primary underlying point is not that either of them (Kosovo or Crimea) is okay or justified. Both independence declarations (from Serbia and Ukraine respectively) were equally legally unjustified and illegitimate. But if a state recognizes one, it has no moral standing to object to the other.

    in reply to: Who should be Secretary of State? #1198783
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    The annexation came after Crimea declared independence from Ukraine and considered themselves an independent nation. Just like Kosovo declared independence from Serbia.

    If Kosovo and Albania jointly agree that Albania should annex Kosovo, would you consider Albania to be as bad as Russia annexing Crimea?

    in reply to: Siyum Hashas on eBay controversy…. #1199527
    Joseph
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    DY: No.

    in reply to: Closing online business for Shabbos #1198548
    Joseph
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    B&H, as well as any other credit card merchant, does NOT get the money before they ship. The credit card is only authorized, not charged. It is only charged once they ship. This is per the standard VISA/MasterCard/AmEx/Discover agreement.

    They don’t take orders altogether on Shabbos anyways.

    in reply to: Closing online business for Shabbos #1198544
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    And what if someone actually does order your box of Kleenex tissues on Shabbos for $30/box?

    in reply to: Is Dating Tznius? #1212008
    Joseph
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    Meno, what leads you to believe that if the yeshivish oilem emulated parts of the chasidish shidduch methodology (even if not across the board), it would be detrimental?l I don’t think there’s evidence of that.

    in reply to: Closing online business for Shabbos #1198536
    Joseph
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    Lilmod: +1

    in reply to: Is Dating Tznius? #1212005
    Joseph
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    Meno, the Chasidim have at least as many great marriages as non-Chasidim, so clearly something is working with how they’re doing things.

    Lilmod, even among the yeshivish the divorce rate is no lower among those that dated their spouse more times than those that dated less times. Anecdotally I’ve even found better marriages and less divorces among those that dated less times in the yeshivish oilem.

    in reply to: Is Dating Tznius? #1211999
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    benignuman: You’re making a strong case that a chasidish type shidduch system is halachicly required.

    in reply to: friend benchs #1198752
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    Is this like a “safe space” in universities where, like, guys who are upset Clinton lost the election can go to to vent?

    in reply to: Who should be Secretary of State? #1198779
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    YY, correct. And America approved and was subject to UN Security Council Resolution 1244 which recognized the territorial integrity of Serbia, yet America pushed for and supported the disputed breakaway of Kosovo from Serbia. So America has little standing to complain about the breakaway regions of Georgia and Ukraine.

    in reply to: Is Dating Tznius? #1211976
    Joseph
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    As far as the issue, if you were driving solo from Ashdod to Haifa and the nice neighborhood seforim store owner guy your family knew for years needed to get there too, would you offer him a ride? (Or feel comfortable if he asked you for a ride.)

    in reply to: Is Dating Tznius? #1211975
    Joseph
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    Lilmod, that doesn’t excuse why those dating in Brooklyn and similar places drive together solo, even if we accept your rational for other places.

    in reply to: Is Dating Tznius? #1211972
    Joseph
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    Lilmod, Brooklyn and some other places don’t have that excuse.

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