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  • in reply to: Government Jobs #1304607
    Joseph
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    akuperma, please provide your valuable input on this subject.

    in reply to: Yeshiva tuition vs catholic schools #1304597
    Joseph
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    The Vatican is cash wealthy.

    in reply to: Kosher Sushi ✡️ 🍣 #1304587
    Joseph
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    Well said, lightbrite, very well said,!

    in reply to: The one failing of Jewish music #1304583
    Joseph
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    Another failing is that most of that junk isn’t Jewish.

    in reply to: Why is MK Litzman supporting a monopoly? #1304556
    Joseph
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    RJ, I don’t need a source. If you want to claim there’s an issue in the Torah against monopolies,*you* need to bring a source. (There isn’t any.)

    Furthermore, the well known Halacha of Hasagas Ge’vul frequently prohibits creating direct immediate competition with an established merchant.

    in reply to: "The Rav" #1304454
    Joseph
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    For Lubavitchers it does. Not for non-Lubavitchers.

    in reply to: Marrying a Bas Talmid Chochom #1304385
    Joseph
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    Where did anyone say it’s an obligation? There’s no obligation to not marry an unkempt slob either.

    in reply to: Why is MK Litzman supporting a monopoly? #1303951
    Joseph
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    I know nothing about this dispute, but the Torah and Halacha does not oppose monopolies. Indeed, Halacha often supports an existing merchant and prevents competition (depending on the circumstances.)

    in reply to: Toras Avigdor #1303884
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    Q:
    How should one curb his desire and the desire of his family to always “keep up with the Joneses”?

    A:
    Let him listen to these tapes. Play the tapes of these lectures in your home, to your family. It’s of the greatest importance to create an atmosphere of independence in your family – “We don’t follow the crowd!” It’s important. It’s very important. Here’s a man who is in dire straits financially; he’s on the verge of bankruptcy. But he has to marry off a child. And it costs him $50,000. He can’t help himself because his wife is pressing him, “How can we have less? We’ll be ashamed to face our friends. How can we not have this or that?” So this man thinks that he is a prisoner of circumstance. And so he goes even more deeply into debt. He borrows to make an expensive wedding. What a shoiteh he is! What a fool! Who cares what the relatives will say?! Who cares what the neighbors will say?!

    You can make a wedding even without a smorgasbord. Oh, of course, it’s apikorsus to say such a thing. Let’s say you were a German Jew. German Jews don’t make a smorgasbord. And therefore, you have a good model to follow. In every aspect of life, we have to learn to be independent – independent of the foolish pressures from outside the home. Because constantly we’re being pressured to spend money, to keep up with the relatives, and with the friends. Therefore, you’re running on a treadmill. You’re a prisoner of nothing, of false ideals. You’re laboring and spending your substance for something that הקדוש ברוך הוא never required you to do. That’s called wasting your life. You won’t get any reward for it, in this world or in the next world. You won’t get any reward for keeping up with the so-called Joneses or the Levys.
    TAPE # 597

    in reply to: "The Rav" #1303860
    Joseph
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    Is anyone referred to as the The Rebbe by anyone other than his Chasidim?

    in reply to: Kosher Sushi ✡️ 🍣 #1303859
    Joseph
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    Why would anyone care for sushi when we have our own delicious fish traditions such as gefilte fish?

    in reply to: Government Jobs #1303858
    Joseph
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    AWOB, what’s the relevancy to the employee whether the agency’s IT system is using older technology?

    in reply to: Are Rebbeim getting paid enough? #1303844
    Joseph
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    CTL, where’d you send them after pulling them out?

    in reply to: Marrying a Bas Talmid Chochom #1303842
    Joseph
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    Are you going to use your own criteria or the criteria Chazal tell us to use?

    in reply to: Marrying a Bas Talmid Chochom #1303746
    Joseph
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    Avi, Chazal tell us to check the potential kallah’s brothers to make sure they are ehrlich; not her mother’s brothers. Rav Moshe and Rav Yaakov have not ruled otherwise.

    RY23, Chazal tell us to marry a Bas Talmid Chochom.

    in reply to: Kosher Sushi ✡️ 🍣 #1303749
    Joseph
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    What about imitation pork chops, with an OU certification?

    in reply to: Dealing with the refrigerator light on Shabbos #1303660
    Joseph
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    Are you sure your repair person is completely sufficiently knowledgeable regarding the detailed technical intricacies of your specific model to be able to use his opinion to make a chillul Shabbos determination?

    in reply to: Marrying a Bas Talmid Chochom #1303653
    Joseph
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    There is a vast area in between am haretz and Talmid Chochom. It isn’t either or.

    in reply to: Toras Avigdor #1303563
    Joseph
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    Q:
    I saw in a sefer that music is the highest form of spirituality, right underneath the level of Torah. Is that true?

    A:
    That’s שקר וכזב. It’s totally false. Music is לא כלום – it’s nothing at all. Sometimes you have a man who sings well, and he wants to sell you his merchandise, so he tells you, music is this and it’s that. No, no. It’s nothing at all.

    The Chofetz Chaim didn’t have any music in his place. There was no music in the Chofetz Chaim’s house. No kind of music. He sang zemiros at the table, but it was mostly pensive, thoughtful things that he sang – nothing fancy. Rabbi Yisroel Salanter didn’t have any music. The gedolei Yisroel didn’t have any music. Music is for the המון עם, for the common folk. You have a lot of עמי הארץ, a lot of common folk, and you want to attract them to your table, so you sing. No harm. It’s better than going out in the street Motzei Shabbos. So they gather around the Rebbe’s table and they sing zemiros – very good. No harm done.

    There was a man who told me that when he came as a boy to America, he would have gone lost, but the Melavah Malka saved him. They sang music there and that saved him. But it doesn’t mean that it’s best thing to do. When people get together and they speak דברי אלוקים חיים, when they speak words of Torah, that’s the very best music.

    So music has absolutely no value, unless it’s accompanied by noble thoughts. And the Leviyim didn’t just sing bim-bum-bim-bum-biddy-bum-bum in the בית המקדש. They sang words. שירו לו זמרו לו, שיחו בכל נפלאותיו (Tehillim 105-2). שירו and שיחו means words. Words, yes. Words of music are inspiring. Words that help create Torah thoughts in your mind. But music without words is just tickling your nerves, and it’s a waste of time.
    TAPE # 609

    in reply to: Government Jobs #1303424
    Joseph
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    At one time it was true that government jobs paid less salary than private sector (though had more benefits and job security). But from what I’ve been reading it appears that in recent years government salary is at least on par, if not not actually more, than equivalent private sector jobs. At least with governments of the larger cities, states and fed. (The smaller cities and states may still be behind.)

    in reply to: Toras Avigdor #1303261
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    Q-
    What lesson should we learn from the mosquitoes and the disease that they carry?

    A-
    For us the lesson is as follows. Many people who should be sitting in the Yeshivas and the Batei Midrashim, in the evenings and whenever they have spare time, are instead going out and wandering around in places they shouldn’t be. Who said that you should be walking around in the parks and sitting on the stoops wasting your time?! Sunday, for instance. Sunday you have a day off. People could be sitting all day in the Yeshiva. No, instead they’re wandering around all day in the fields, in the parks and they’re getting bit by mosquitoes. A simple bite should be enough of a warning. But sometimes people ignore the simple warnings. And so they get sick. Some people get Lyme disease from lying in the grass instead of sitting at the shtender. And it serves them right. They should be at home making use of their lives when they have spare time. You wait a whole week for that one day off from your job. So you should be going to the Yeshiva on Sunday. Don’t most people have off on Sunday? So go to the Yeshiva and take along breakfast and lunch and stay the whole day in the Yeshiva. Stay there all day long and come home for supper. That’s how you should live. Be a Kollel man once a week. But no, you have to go wandering in the country, in the woods where the deer are spreading disease and there are ticks. Sometimes the blades of grass are poisoned with dangerous germs. And the children wander there too. So you want to wander in the woods and sit on the grass as if you forgot that you’re in this world to accomplish. So, make sure to use the mosquitoes as a lesson, a reminder, of what you’re here in this world for. And that you’re responsible for spending your leisure time in the best way possible.

    TAPE #E-201

    in reply to: Court ruling against El Al #1303210
    Joseph
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    This’ll just delay most ElAl flights since the flight attendants can no longer assist finding new seat assignments for men and women wishing to sit next to the same gender, what’ll now start happening at the beginning of every single ElAl flight is that you’ll have a 100 men and women going around themselves politely asking other passengers if they’re willing to swap seats until they find a kind passenger willing to make the swap.

    Since everyone will be doing it on their own at the beginning of each ElAl flight without using the staff, it’ll take much longer till everything settles and the flight can take off.

    in reply to: Are Rebbeim getting paid enough? #1303156
    Joseph
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    Yes, we certainly must raise the bar for salaries for rebbeim.

    mw13, what jobs are those two taking after their resignation?

    in reply to: Toras Avigdor #1302889
    Joseph
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    <<ZAP>>

    in reply to: Rumor about Ivanka Trump Spurs conversation about Geirus #1302869
    Joseph
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    You mean those (not only chasidim, btw) who hold by Rabbeinu Tam’s zmanim, such as the (second) shkia 58.5 minutes after sunset or 72 minutes after, as per the basic psak of the Mechaber (and Rema) and as practiced in Galicia?

    in reply to: Dealing with the refrigerator light on Shabbos #1302814
    Joseph
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    So what is the workaround for those with newish models?

    in reply to: "The Rav" #1302735
    Joseph
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    cherrybim, DaMoshe: I’ve never referred to him as anything other than Rabbi JB Soloveitchik. That’s how he referred to himself, that’s how his rabbinical peers called him (except those close to him or working with him in YU, who simply called him JB without title or last name simply since they were on a first-name basis with each other), and that’s the byline he chose to print his own books under. I’ve never omitted his title as Rabbi.

    And I’ve never c’v denigrated him. Quoting gedolim who said he was mistaken on various issues and policies is far from personally impugning or being inappropriate.

    in reply to: Toras Avigdor #1302527
    Joseph
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    פרשת קרח

    In this week’s Parsha we read about Korach and his two cohorts, Dasan and Aviram who lead a rebellion against Moshe Rabeinu. And in the final showdown, Moshe Rabeinu was told by Hashem to give his final warning to those who had been swayed by the smooth words of these three rebels. “Remove yourself from the area adjacent to the dwellings of Korach, Dasan and Aviram…Turn away now from the tents of these evil men… Lest you be destroyed along with them because of their sins.”

    Now, Korach’s tent was in the section of Kehas, in the area set aside for the Levi’im, while Dasan and Aviram dwelled together in a separate area set aside for the tribe of Reuven. But here it is evident that their dwellings were together. They were both located on the eastern side of the Mishkan and it is obvious that despite the segregation of each tribe in separate sections, Dasan and Aviram had pitched their tents on the outskirts of their section; and thus they were near Korach’s tent which was on the outskirts of the section of Kehas. And Chazal tell us the following with regards to the location of Dasan and Aviram in close proximity to Korach: אוי לרשע אוי לשכינו “Woe to the evildoer, woe to his neighbor.” Now, it is probable that these men had chosen to be near each other because they shared certain opinions in common and therefore gravitated to one another’s company. But there is no doubt that the dwelling in close proximity to one another subjected them to negative influence and made them much worse. Their choosing of the wrong neighbors, the wrong acquaintances and the wrong influences brought upon them their ruination and destruction.

    To live among the wicked is a most definite cause for a man becoming wicked himself. And not only among the wicked – even to live among Jews who are not excited about serving Hashem, will most definitely cool you off. If you want to be the best, if you want to be a success in the eyes of Hashem, then you must make it your business to live among the best, among those who are successful in the eyes of Hashem. You should be living among the good ones – conversing with them, consulting them, eating with them and walking with them. As much as you can, make sure to be surrounded by the best of the עם ישראל.

    But Dasan and Aviram didn’t learn this lesson. And those of the עם ישראל who joined together with them, failed this important test as well. And that’s why the final warning of Hashem was, “Remove yourselves from the dwellings of Korach, Dasan and Aviram.Turn away now, from the tents of these evil men.” The first step to saving yourself from everlasting destruction and ruination is to separate from the wicked. A man becomes whatever his environment is. It can’t be helped! You can be a frum and loyal Jew, but if you are in the wrong environment, it will ruin you. Anyone who wants to be a success in עבודת ה׳, which is the only reason you are in this world, must always keep in mind to choose – and to be constantly choosing – a good environment for 

    <ZAP>

    Maybe break this up into multiple posts?

     

    in reply to: Dealing with the refrigerator light on Shabbos #1302406
    Joseph
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    How have you folks here dealt with an issue where the tape unglued or somehow the light went on during Shabbos with all the Shabbos food now stuck in the fridge?

    in reply to: Pilgrim Jews #1302273
    Joseph
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    Don’t blame him. Yogi never said half the things he said.

    in reply to: Why New York is the best! #1302195
    Joseph
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    Avi, kosher/frum living costs are comparably less in NY. Also property taxes are less in NY.

    in reply to: Rumor about Ivanka Trump Spurs conversation about Geirus #1302166
    Joseph
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    yytz: Would you argue that if a potential convert was blissfully and earnestly unaware that Judaism prohibits – eating pork, doing labor on Shabbos, having a toeiva partner, having a party on Yom Kippur, and going to church on Sundays with his unconverted parent. And he was honestly led to believe that the main, and perhaps only, requirement of being Jewish is to light two candles every Friday night. And with that misunderstanding goes through a conversion which he celebrates after drying up from the mikva with a party with his new Jewish friends, including his toeiva partner who convinced him to convert as a sign of commitment to him, at Ruth’s Chris Steak House with delicious steak and pork chops. And then the next day lights two beautiful Shabbos candies Friday evening before he heads to his day labor job the following Saturday morning. Followed by his being kibud av by attending church with his father that Sunday.

    He, as you said, clearly stated honestly and earnestly that he accepts as binding on himself all the mitzvos, and the entire Torah without reservation. He simply didn’t know all the preceding was kneged halacha.

    And his conversion was presided over by left wing Orthodox rabbis, not any who consider themselves Conservative, who did the conversion because they felt it would keep this potential converts Jewish partner within the fold. So they never told him all the halachic prohibitions in order not to scare him away from Judaism.

    His conversion is valid?

    in reply to: Why New York is the best! #1302113
    Joseph
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    And, bderech teva, better parnassa in NY too.

    in reply to: Religious Coercion in Israel #1302114
    Joseph
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    Muslims and Christians get married and divorced in Israel.

    in reply to: Israeli Frum Soldiers In Meah Shearim Shuls – Solution #1302019
    Joseph
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    Yeshiva bochorim davening in Meah Shearim are as likely to don a tzahal t-shirt as they are to don a t-shirt from the Army of the Democratic People’s Republic of Korea. Either one is disrespectful to enter the shul with. Would you go to shul with a punk rock t-shirt?

    in reply to: Switching to the metric system is a bad idea #1302029
    Joseph
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    Standardize.

    in reply to: Toras Avigdor #1301479
    Joseph
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    Q: Is there one main leader of Klal Yisroel today?

    A: That’s not for me to say. But we have leaders today. Boruch Hashem, we have leaders.

    But I must tell you that I disagree with the attitude of being מבטל, of putting down, someone’s else’s gadol. No; I disagree with that attitude. Gedolim can be here and Gedolim can be there, and we have to appreciate all of them. Your Gadol doesn’t have to be the only Gadol.

    And even though there might be a מחלוקת, a disagreement, between them; yes, there may be a מחלוקת between them, but we should stay out if it. It’s fire! Worse than fire! We shouldn’t say a word. Not a word! So if Rav Shach, let’s say, and the Lubavitcher Rebbe may have sichsuchim, some arguments; I don’t know if they have, but if they have some sichsuchim, it’s none of our business. It’s the fire of Gehenim to open up your mouth. Keep your mouth closed. It’s a tragic mistake to mix in. And the wisest way is to say nothing and to have the greatest דרך ארץ, the greatest respect, for all those people who are recognized. After all, the Lubavitcher Rebbi is recognized by many people. And Rav Shach is recognized by many people. So we should keep our mouths closed and recognize both of them. That’s the way we should follow.

    Why did the earth open its big mouth to swallow Korach? Because Korach opened his big mouth to speak against Moshe. So don’t open your mouth. Even today the earth opens its mouth to bury men, many who are swallowed in an early grave because they opened their mouths. And what’s even worse; many are swallowed into Gehenim, just as was Korach. So don’t open your mouth. You’re only going to bring trouble upon yourself.

    TAPE # 901

    in reply to: Why New York is the best! #1301441
    Joseph
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    Hador, the cost of frum Jewish kosher daily living is less on a yearly basis in the NYC/Monsey/Lakewood area than OOT frum kosher areas.

    Additionally, the growth of the frum community in the NYC/Monsey/Lakewood area is greater than the frum growth OOT. Indeed, many of the newer frum residents in the NYC/Monsey/Lakewood area moved there from OOT. There are numerous OOT areas than have experienced a dwindling frum community.

    And as described earlier in the thread, the NYC/Monsey/Lakewood area has a plethora of frum services such as kosher groceries and food options. Yeshivos, Botei Medroshim, Chesed orgs (Hatzolah, Shomrim, Chaveirim, Bikur Cholims, Tzedakah orgs, Gemachs, etc.), in addition to the easy availability of many roshei yeshivos, rebbe’s, gedolim, etc, that aren’t nearly as easily or readily available in other towns.

    in reply to: East Ramapo budget should be voted down #1301220
    Joseph
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    It passed on a close vote and low turnout. And this was after a first wide voter rejection. It was a close vote even though there was no organized concerted effort to defeat it. Nevertheless it is still a shot across the brow that if in the future the private school children are contemptuously discriminated against in the budget (by the monitor rejecting additional busing or whatever), organized voter efforts will systematically reject any future tax increase, regardless of size.

    in reply to: Pilgrim Jews #1301151
    Joseph
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    The Agudas Harrabonim supported RIETS until they introduced secular studies. The Agudas Harabbonim saw in RIETS a counterforce against the Conservative JTS. In 1906 the Agudas Harrabonim helped create a smicha board in RIETS, publicly denouncing the rabbis who graduated from JTS.

    But the new “American social-economic order” struck, as the students demanded secular studies in RIETS. The board of directors was undecided about whether to concede. But pressure mounted, and in 1908 the board expelled 15 students for going to secular schools during time allotted for religious studies. This spurred a student strike. Many students left the school. Resulting financial pressure and bad publicity caused RIETS to compromise their principles and after three weeks, they caved in. They reaccepted the 15 expelled students and instituted a secular curriculum. As time passed, the secularization of RIETS accelerated, due to various influences. Harry Fischel, a philanthropist, became vice president of RIETS in 1908. He was bent on step up the secularization of the institution. In 1915, with the completion of the new RIETS building, Fischel made a speech stating that his goal is to “unite Orthodox Judaism and Americanism”. The Agudas HaRabbonim were not happy.

    in reply to: Rumor about Ivanka Trump Spurs conversation about Geirus #1301148
    Joseph
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    Neville, you’ve made very good contributions to this thread providing your perspective as a convert to Judaism. Thank you. You’ve also made very accurate comments on the state of Modern Orthodoxy in America today.

    I believe yytz is correct. The Israeli rabbanut, for what they’re worth, accepts American Chareidi non-RCA/GPS conversions.

    Regarding the topic at hand, be it known that I’ve made what you describe as “before it was cool” comments right here in this CR years ago, long before her father ran for president. Most didn’t make it past the censors but you might find some from back then. That said, I’m not sure why you think it is cool now; where other than here do you see these points being made?

    I agree with you that she almost certainly didn’t utilize a rabbanut approved or GPS beis din. The claims that she had used such a beis din only hit the internet rumor mill after Donald was well on his way to the White House. (Not that if it had been GPS approved, that point would change the underlying circumstances of the situation.)

    in reply to: East Ramapo budget should be voted down #1301044
    Joseph
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    ersd, some people fear the Orthodox moving into their area because they allegedly dont want to support public education, other people fear blacks or Hispanics moving into their area because allegedly they bring crime and other people fear Muslims moving into their area because allegedly they bring terrorism. Lots of people have all sorts of prejudices.

    But guess what? None of them can stop the Orthodox, blacks, Hispanics or Muslims from moving into their area. There are laws against that. And that’s why there’s a US Department of Justice that stops that when a town tries to pull that off. It happened right here in Rockland County just a couple decades ago when Airmont was successfully sued and stopped by the USDOJ for trying to keep the Orthodox away. Today Airmont has a huge Orthodox population.

    So despite what baselessly “seems to you”, it simply ain’t so. Desiring a low tax rate is a fairly universal objective of many people from many different ethnic background.

    in reply to: East Ramapo budget should be voted down #1300993
    Joseph
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    ersd, ER isn’t under-taxed and doesn’t under-spend per PS pupil even compared to other immediate neighboring districts. ER isn’t out of league and the school tax rate or per student spending compared to the neighboring suburbs.

    in reply to: East Ramapo budget should be voted down #1300954
    Joseph
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    Considering that ER is not out of league in being under-taxed and considering that ER doesn’t spend less per pubic school pupil than many other counties, I don’t think raising taxes and throwing more money at the system is the answer. Otherwise you could endlessly advocate raising taxes.

    in reply to: East Ramapo budget should be voted down #1300779
    Joseph
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    ersd, the spending per pubic school pupil in East Ramapo is not below the norm or average in the area or in the state.

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    “But it can not be overlooked that the private school students are getting over 55 million in benefits.”

    Considering how many private school students there are in the district, that figure (especially considered per student) is typical for a district in the state to spend per private student.

    in reply to: East Ramapo budget should be voted down #1300510
    Joseph
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    “What I havent seen mentioned here before is ER currently has one of the lowest school tax rates in the county.”

    Nothing wrong with that, even assuming that’s accurate. Some counties have lower. Being among the group of some of the lower taxed counties is nothing unusual as some counties will always be among the lower taxed ones.

    Residents of many counties prefer lower taxes.

    “And according to one of the districts latest bulletins, ER private school students on average are receiving 2000 dollars in benefits per student. This includes money going toward busing, special ed., Title 1,2 ,3 etc..”

    Pubic school students, on average – including regular students, special ed, Title 1-2-3, etc. – receive benefits valued many many multiples the benefits received by the average private school student.

    in reply to: East Ramapo budget should be voted down #1300351
    Joseph
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    “The mods didn’t allow it through.”

    The sheker zapper busted it.

    in reply to: East Ramapo budget should be voted down #1300106
    Joseph
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    LC, I’m sure even more excuses can be thought of for endorsing and funding such reprehensible clubs. And having such meetings as described above (where, in fact, some students stated their “pride” of being a member) on the undergrad campus.

    in reply to: East Ramapo budget should be voted down #1300095
    Joseph
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    You’re asking me to disagree with Maran HaGaon HaRav Elya Svei zt’l?

    In any event, there’s exactly such clubs listed on YU’s website as being university funded at both Einstein and Cardoza. And even YUs own roshei yeshiva condemned the meeting at YU that mashgiach R. Joseph Blau attended regarding supporting toeiva.

    in reply to: East Ramapo budget should be voted down #1300074
    Joseph
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    They should (fully) fund secular studies in private schools. Obviously it the school chooses to not give any secular studies, there wouldn’t be any state funding.

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