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    Everyone’s an expert.

    in reply to: What happened to Kaufmans Bungalow? #1317808
    Joseph
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    APY, you’re asking the question 9 years after the post. He probably forgot.

    in reply to: Innocent until proven guilty #1317799
    Joseph
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    I actually meant to refer to Saul Lieberman, not Saul Berman. But I see Berman is an affiliate of Avi Weiss and his Open Orthodox denomination.

    in reply to: Innocent until proven guilty #1317538
    Joseph
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    iac, The press is generally notified by the prosecutor/law enforcement agency about the arrest after it is made. But it not too infrequently occurs that the prosecutor’s office will tip off the press prior to the arrest ofwhen and where the arrest will take place, so that the prosecutor can gain much more potent press coverage with pictures of the (still presumed innocent) defendant being taken away in handcuffs.

    in reply to: Alternatives to BMG #1317534
    Joseph
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    CTL, how many yeshivos were around in Brooklyn in your father’s day that are still operating?

    in reply to: Innocent until proven guilty #1317308
    Joseph
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    Avi, you’re not perturbed that the prosecutors corrupted the case against the defendant to get an unfair conviction that placed him in prison for over two decades before it was overturned?

    That happens every day in American courtrooms nationwide. Sometimes it is later overturned. Often after wrongly spending years or decades behind bars. Even more times it is never overturned. The Brooklyn DA alone has been on a mission over the past three years overturning many wrongful convictions from the previous Brooklyn DA’s tenure. And that’s just one DA (out of thousands nationwide) with so many wrongful convictions.

    And you’re down to quoting Conservative “rabbis” like Mr. Saul Berman to make your claimed halachic points?

    in reply to: Innocent until proven guilty #1317302
    Joseph
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    iac: Perp walks are *not* coordinated with the defendant beforehand. They’re a surprise to him. If they’d be coordinated he’d have been able to turn himself in to the DA’s office without an early morning surprise home raid scaring the living daylights out of his little children and spouse. The only ones not surprised are the TV cameramen who got advance notification of the address and time of the “surprise” arrest raid. It frequently occurs the prosecutor will tip off the press when he’s seeking the limelight as tough-on-crime as they walk him out in handcuffs in front of the press cameras — and his family and neighbors.

    (“It cannot be said they…” should have read “It cannot be said that you’re innocent of bank robbery.”)

    in reply to: Innocent until proven guilty #1317268
    Joseph
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    iac: It cannot be said they you’re innocent of bank robbery. Sure, as far as I know, you were never charged with bank robbery. But that doesn’t mean you’re innocent.

    You’re no more innocent than an accused bank robber who was found not guilty in court. Or for that matter, an accused bank robber who hasn’t yet had his day in court.

    Agreed with this sentiment?

    in reply to: Innocent until proven guilty #1316993
    Joseph
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    You’re going to put your trust in 12 random jurors from the street whose only common qualification is that they all were unable to somehow get out of unwillingly serving on a jury? How often does a CEO or CFO or CIO or Chairman or board member of a Fortune 1000 company or a S&P 500 company serve on a jury? No, the jury system is heavy laden with the homeless and unemployed and underemployed who don’t have nearly as much to lose financially being paid $40 a day for a week or two weeks of potentially losing their regular job income for that period. And other jurors (who did unsuccessfully try to get out of jury duty) who want to get away from the jury ASAP back to a job paying more than $40 a day, and if that means just voting guilty to get home quicker rather than deliberate longer, even though they might not be convinced of guilt, then so be it. No sweat off his back if an innocent man spends the next 5, 10 or 20 years languishing in prison.

    And judges who if they woke up on the wrong side of the bed that morning or missed breakfast or are hungry for lunch or don’t like your lawyer or are good friends with the prosecutor can easily and subtly push for a conviction by all kinds of unjust rulings against the defendant.

    Or a system that frequently and regularly uses convicts in plea bargains who are promised a much lower jail sentence if they testify against the defendant, and will comply and will make make up whatever it takes to make the prosecutor happy and get that lower jail sentence by falsely testifying or by turning in innocent people so that he has someone to testify against in exchange for an easier sentence.

    In Beis Din a convict is pasul l’eidus for very good reason.

    And prosecutors who must run for re-election by getting convictions and proving to dumb voters how tough on crime they are or are seeking appointment to higher office in the DOJ or future elected office by making a name for themselves and pandering to the cameras and needing bodies to convict.

    One nice perk of being a prosector is giving the perp walk to those “innocent until proven guilty”, and calling up all the TV stations beforehand (“on the condition of anonymity”) to give them the addresses the FBI will raid to take those non-convicted out in handcuffs in front of their children and neighbors.

    in reply to: Innocent until proven guilty #1316984
    Joseph
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    According to iacisrmma, once accused you’re never innocent. You’re damned if you do and you’re damned if you don’t. Because, as he says, even if you’re outright acquitted you’re “not innocent”.

    The reality, however, is they even if found guilty it is no indication of actual guilt, given America’s corrupt court system and prosecution system.

    Need I remind anyone how many former convicts were later exonerated? Often after serving decades in prison wrongly. You hear another such case almost every day. And how many more innocents are still languishing in America’s prisons convicted but not exonerated?

    Halacha, on the other hand, puts the onerous on the accuser. Even guilty beyond reasonable doubt is insufficient to convict of a crime. Each Dayan who votes guilty must truly believe with his entire heart and soul that the evidence proves beyond *any* doubt that the accused is absolutely guilty, in order for the Dayan to be permitted to vote guilty.

    And if not convicted, the accused is considered a member in good standing of Klal Yisroel as much as the Kohen Godol.

    in reply to: Please help! Falsely Accused Lakewood family #1316895
    Joseph
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    Even if found guilty it is no indication of actual guilt, given America’s corrupt court system and prosecution system.

    Need I remind anytime how many former convicts were later exonerated? Often after serving decades in prison wrongly. And how many more innocents are still languishing in America’s prisons convicted but not exonerated?

    in reply to: The Post Kollel Financial Crisis #1315671
    Joseph
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    It was never for “the best” learners but rather for anyone who WANTED the honor of learning in Kollel, as the Rambam describes those who WANT to join Shevet Levi. He does not condition their membership in the Kollel community as having to be the best, but rather having the desire. The idea that only the “best’ should learn in Kollel is a baseless falsehood and it is against the Halchah as expressed by the Rambam which states that anyone who so chooses may learn in Kollel. See also YD Laws of Talmud Torah 246:21 and Shach ad loc. Kollel is a special privilege and status that anyone can go for if they so choose, the Rambam says.

    Sitting and learning all day is the ideal. “Talmud Torah kneged kulam.” Chazal say, one word of Torah is higher than an entire lifetime of doing these Mitzvos. Chazal often mention that Toroso Umnoso is the ideal, that we do nothing all day but learn. Nowadays poskim say that w cannot reach that level, but clearly the closer the better. Also, Shulchan Aruch Hilchos Toalmud Torah, in the Shach ad loc, says that nowadays learning all day is the ideal, and that if someone has the ability to do it, he should. The Shach adds that regarding learning all day in general, nowadays we cannot reach our potential in learning the way the Rambam etc. did, since we are not on that level. Therefore, we should learn all day if we can.

    The Rambam writes that a “working person” is someone who learns 8 hours a day and works 3 hours. Not works 9am to 5pm.

    in reply to: The Post Kollel Financial Crisis #1315582
    Joseph
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    The workplace, even frum workplaces, is not a place for a good Jewish boy. We have to be there, granted; we have to make a living for our families – which is a Mitzvah in itself – but we need to realize the price we pay for those necessities.

    There is a story in the mussar seforim, about a man who had a premonition that next year’s crops would be poisoned, so that whoever would eat it would become insane. He didn’t; know what to do — if he would eat the crops he’d become insane, but if he does not eat the crops, the whole world will be insane except him, and being the only normal one in an insane world is just as bad as being insane. Warning people about the crops is useless because nobody would believe him anyway. So he went ot the village wise man who told him, “You have to eat the crops. You’re right – that being the only normal person in an insane world is as bad as being insane. Plus it will drive you crazy anyway. But here’s what you do:

    “Tie a string around your finger to remind yourself constantly that you have eaten from the crops and you are insane. Being insane is bad, but in this case you have no choice. However, for the rest of the world, much worse than being insane is the fact that they will think they’re normal. Being insane is bad, but being insane thinking you’re normal is much worse. So tie a string around your finger which will always remind you that you are insane. You’ll be insane, but at least you’ll know you’re insane. Everyone else will think they’re normal, so you’ll be much much better off than the rest.”

    The nimshal is, there’s nothing wrong with going to work, and often it may even be a necessity. But to spend the gift of life that Hashem gives us for such a short time in this world selling cars or programming computers or whatever we need to do to make a living, is insane. It may be necessary, but it’s still insane. We have so little to live in this world (we should all live to 120 years, but compared to eternity in the afterlife, 120 years is nothing), and its our only chance to collect Torah and Mitzvos — how crazy is it to busy ourselves with other things??

    But we have to? OK, we have to. At the very least, let us realize that we do so out of necessity and that making a living necessitates our leading a life which, when you consider what we’re on this world for and the opportunities that exist ONLY while we are here, is insane. Let’s at least realize that.

    For those who learn all day, they may not need to tie strings around their fingers, but, unfortunately, in the materialistic and confused world that we live in, they need posts such as this one, to constantly remind them that their lives are very, very normal, sane, and healthy.

    The hardships of Kolel are nothing compared to the pleasures. Like Rav Aharon ZT’L said – that those who support learning might get Olam Habah like those who learn, but they surely don’t get Olam Hazeh like them. Money isn’t everything – even in Olam Hazeh.

    in reply to: The Post Kollel Financial Crisis #1315576
    Joseph
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    Contrary to the belief of many, it is impossible to predict who will become a Talmid Chacham. As the Chazon Ish said, “Every student is a possible godol hador”. The Roshei Yeshiva of today were not all the ones who people thought would become the Roshei Yeshiva of today. And vice versa. Talent and intellect help, to be sure, but effort and siyata dishmaya are more important to success as a Torah scholar. Becoming a “godol” is not just for the brightest. In fact, often it is not they who attain that goal. An average student, and it has happened that also below average students, have become great Gedolim and surpassed their more talented peers. Not everybody can become the greatest Talmid Chacham in the world. But everybody can become as close to the greatest Talmid Chacham in the world that he can. Those Bnei Torah, the ones who pour their heart and soul and life into learning Hashem’s Torah, merit, every single one of them, the greatest share in Olam Habah possible.

    That is the main reason people learn in Kollel. Because Talmud Torah Kneged Kulam.

    in reply to: What’s the point in “real” jewelry? #1315569
    Joseph
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    Off brand hats are perfectly fine.

    in reply to: The Post Kollel Financial Crisis #1315544
    Joseph
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    Someone who has a weak head at learning has the exact same mitzvah rabbah, and receives the exact same schar, and is as valuable to the security of Klal Yisroel, as the person who is a terrific learner when both put in the same full time hours of Limud Torah.

    There is absolutely zero basis to assert that the better learner has more right or is more suitable to be a Kollel yungerman than the person who cannot learn nearly as well.

    in reply to: Frum Mom of 6 Thrown In Jail #1315545
    Joseph
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    The fact that she’s frum and wants to bring up her children frum while he’s not frum (and possibly not Jewish) and wants to bring up the children as goyim, is in itself more than sufficient reason to fully support the mother.

    in reply to: Getting down on one knee #1315548
    Joseph
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    I hear. But to davka use that specific verbiage rather than anything else because of societies fondness of it, is where my point is applicable to.

    Obviously this isn’t the same aveira as c’v actually getting on the knee.

    in reply to: Getting down on one knee #1315524
    Joseph
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    Even without being on one’s knee, the very idea of the guy proposing with the verbiage “Will you marry me” itself comes from the goyim.

    in reply to: Frum Mom of 6 Thrown In Jail #1315508
    Joseph
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    The court documents, as written by the judge(s), make clear she’s frum and he became frei. And the court penalized her for trying to stop him from teaching the children to dislike Judaism, go to public school instead of Yeshiva and feed them treif.

    in reply to: Q&A With Rav Avigdor Miller #1315477
    Joseph
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    He said ha’motzee mei’chaveiro a’lav ha’raiyah. You have to prove it.

    Also, ein kemach, ein Torah; ein Torah, ein kemach. (My own add-on.)

    in reply to: Frum Mom of 6 Thrown In Jail #1315473
    Joseph
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    He wants to bring the children up as goyim whereas she wants to bring the children up as Yidden.

    in reply to: Frum Mom of 6 Thrown In Jail #1315468
    Joseph
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    The fact that she’s frum and he’s frei is in itself more than sufficient for the entire frum community to throw our full, unthrottled, support for her. Financially, morally, physically and emotionally.

    in reply to: Please help! Falsely Accused Lakewood family #1315454
    Joseph
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    May they be completely matzliach in defeating these false charges quickly.

    You should strongly consider opening a fund raising campaign on one of those websites that specializes in fund raising. i.e. GoFundMe, etc. There are also some sites that specialize in fund raising for frum causes.

    in reply to: Ideas For Bachurim 💡👨 #1315433
    Joseph
    Participant

    What’s more fun that finally figuring out a Tosfos?

    in reply to: Ideas For Bachurim 💡👨 #1315421
    Joseph
    Participant

    Learn in the Beis Medrash.

    in reply to: The Post Kollel Financial Crisis #1315398
    Joseph
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    The generous askanim who support worthy mosdos are just as happy to support a Kollel man who doesn’t have the greatest head for learning as they are happy to support Kollel men who are terrific learners. Just as the Torah makes no distinction between the Limud Torah of those two types of learners, neither do Klal Yisroel’s choshove baalei tzedaka who happily support both types.

    Part time Torah study is nowhere near equal or as worthy as full time Torah study. Not without the non-full time learner financially supporting the full time learner (Yissoschor-Zevulin partnership). Then, with the balebatim supporting those learning full time Torah do they reach the learners level with Hashem.

    So if you want to have the zchus of being a full time Torah learner, and you aren’t one, then go out and give money to those learning full time.

    in reply to: Lev Tahor – what now? #1315394
    Joseph
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    That’s complete hogwash. He’s far from the only defender. And he does not confirm any of the false allegations that you claim he verifies.

    in reply to: Talking about G-d #1315314
    Joseph
    Participant

    WB, Feivel!

    in reply to: Lev Tahor – what now? #1315267
    Joseph
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    Yseribus: How long would you guess it would take a detractor to write up that stuff? An hour? Two hours?

    Oh, there are signatures. Then it *has* to be real! How could I have missed that??

    Joseph
    Participant

    I offered my opinion. I stand by it, but it is just my opinion. And, note, I didn’t say it is universal.

    in reply to: Talking about G-d #1315275
    Joseph
    Participant

    I think it would answer the question, Avram, but it wouldn’t be sufficiently a clear answer to the questioner.

    in reply to: Bait & Switch #1315277
    Joseph
    Participant

    Mekach Taos, kiddushei taos. (I know someone will take this seriously.)

    in reply to: The Post Kollel Financial Crisis #1315278
    Joseph
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    That’s your best shot? You’re arguing against my comments without offering any counteracting data? I said the number of Jews is underreported due to many not even considering themselves Jewish despite being halachicly Jewish. Even not counting them, as we should, the official estimate of worldwide Jews is close to 18 million.

    in reply to: The Post Kollel Financial Crisis #1315164
    Joseph
    Participant

    Yet, somehow, you don’t find homeless Yidden living on the streets of Lakewood and starving.

    in reply to: Bachelors Degree #1315163
    Joseph
    Participant

    A large portion of those taking the bar examination, including those who went though law school, fail it. Lawyers don’t like competition. They’ve made it intentionally difficult to become a lawyer.

    in reply to: Lev Tahor – what now? #1315162
    Joseph
    Participant

    There’s nothing new there other than a repetition of the same media babble of false allegations by detractors that’s been printed previously.

    in reply to: The Post Kollel Financial Crisis #1315090
    Joseph
    Participant

    Who said anything about expecting an entitlement to pubic funds? A large segment of the balebatish Torah community is more than *happy and eager* to provide kollelim money. You don’t want to? No problem. Someone else will fill in your missing shoes.

    in reply to: Q&A With Rav Avigdor Miller #1315083
    Joseph
    Participant

    Q:
    Someone told me that if I was saved from a perilous situation, my merits are used up. Is that true?

    A:
    Now, if a man puts himself in danger, if he risks his life, and he happens to be saved, he should know that the Gemara says that he has used up many of his mitzvos. It doesn’t pay. It’s a lot of tefillin. A lot of שמירת שבת. It definitely doesn’t pay to put yourself in dangerous situations. If you are a smoker and your lungs are healthy, you should know that it’s costing you a lot of tefillin.

    But, if somebody was in danger not because of his own fault, and הקדוש ברוך הוא rescued him from that danger, then he’s not using up any of his merits – unless he fails to appreciate it. When Hashem does something for us – not only saving us from danger – when He gives you health, He gives you the ability to use your eyes, the ability to walk, to function, and you don’t thank Him for each one of these gifts, then you’re using up all your mitzvos. You have to do something in return. So Hashem says, “Either you thank Me for your eyes, or I’ll take something from you in return.” One of your merits is subtracted from you.

    You have to thank Hashem for the fact that you can walk. ברוך אתה ה׳ המכין מצעדי גבר. He establishes a man’s footsteps. You have to make that blessing every day, but that’s not enough. You have to think about what you’re saying. And you have to think about it all day long. When a man walks in the street and he sees people sitting in wheelchairs who cannot walk, and he doesn’t appreciate the great benefit of walking, the great happiness of locomotion, then Hashem says, “You’re not paying me; I’ll collect from you.” Therefore, if a person thanks Hashem for what he’s getting, then he’s not going to be forced to pay in other ways. And that’s the very great importance of thanking – otherwise we’re in debt. Very deep debt.
    TAPE # 776

    in reply to: Q&A With Rav Avigdor Miller #1315074
    Joseph
    Participant

    Finding Life on Mars

    Q-
    Why does the Rav keep saying that there is no life on other planets? Just because life follows a certain pattern here, doesn’t mean that there isn’t a different form of life on some other planet.

    A-
    Life, you have to know, must have ingredients that make life possible. Do you know what life is? Life is the ability to take things from the outside and to assimilate them into your body in order to replenish the worn out cells. The taking in of these outside ingredients to rejuvenate the body. And to provide you the energy needed for life. You have to have something – something to provide for life! And therefore, whatever it is, let’s say you want a different life form on some planet somewhere. Ok, let’s say you want people with wings. You still have to eat. Your still have to breathe. It can’t be otherwise. Look, just because you want to imagine that there are beings that don’t have to breathe and don’t have to eat – look, ha’motzee mei’chaveiro a’lav ha’raiyah. You’ll have to prove such a thing. It’s a meshugas! So you have to prove that meshugas. Otherwise, we know that life is a certain thing. It’s a certain system. A certain process. Life needs nourishment. Life needs air. Life needs water. Without air and water and without food, you can’t have any life.

    Oh, so you’re telling me that maybe there’s life that doesn’t need any food and air. It doesn’t need water. (The Rav laughed) A meshugas! All kinds of crazy ideas. Think up as many crazy ideas as you want – but I’m not michuyav to worry about the crazy ideas. Ha’motzee mei’chaveiro a’lav ha’raiyah. You have to prove it. That’s all.

    TAPE # E-265

    in reply to: Lev Tahor – what now? #1315051
    Joseph
    Participant

    Has anyone heard where the rebbe’s mishpacha is sitting shiva?

    in reply to: FDU Accounting Program #1315049
    Joseph
    Participant

    Who runs FDU?

    Joseph
    Participant

    Most bochorim would benefit from an out of town mesivta, away from the distractions at home, allowing him to focus fully on his limud.

    in reply to: The Post Kollel Financial Crisis #1315043
    Joseph
    Participant

    Phil, don’t worry. You need not contribute one miserly penny towards even a single Kollel. You keep stashing your “hard earned money” into your savings account and one day you’ll be able to afford a golden casket.

    In the absence of your contributions, I am pleased to report that nevertheless over the past 75 years of the postwar period, despite great predictions of the Kollel systems impending demise that’s been predicted by naysayers such as yourself each and every year for over the last 50 years, the Kollel system is going as strong as ever. And has continued so through both good economic times and bad economic times.

    in reply to: The Post Kollel Financial Crisis #1315035
    Joseph
    Participant

    There are more than 18 million Jews since many Jews don’t even know they’re Jewish and aren’t counted as Jewish. And unfortunately Eretz Yisroel doesn’t have anything close to the number of Kollel men as you claim.

    Halevai that there should be 100,000 Kollel guys in Eretz Yisroel. If we work hard enough hopefully we can reach (and exceed!) that figure.

    in reply to: The Post Kollel Financial Crisis #1315014
    Joseph
    Participant

    For the sake of Hashem, 1 in 1,000 Jews are in Kollel and it bothers you that that’s too much!? We should bring it closer to 1 in 100 Jews in Kollel. You should be bothered that currently there’s not enough Yidden are in Kollel!

    in reply to: Things you shouldn’t eat before a fast #1315012
    Joseph
    Participant

    Victuals, aliments, edibles, food. Whatever floats your boat.

    in reply to: Alternatives to BMG #1315006
    Joseph
    Participant

    Thank you for sharing.

    in reply to: The Post Kollel Financial Crisis #1315001
    Joseph
    Participant

    There’s about 18 million Jews in the world. One tenth of one percent would be 18,000.

    in reply to: The Post Kollel Financial Crisis #1314983
    Joseph
    Participant

    Being a Kollel man should not have anything to do with learning ability. Someone who is a poor learner but has a great desire to learn Torah full time has just as much right to be a Kollel man as the best learner in Brisk. There’s absolutely no halachic reasoning, logic or source to say that the best learner has more reason to be a Kollel man than someone who cannot learn so well but nevertheless greatly desires to learn Torah all day.

    And today with so much assimilation that the frum are a tiny minority of Jews, there are so few Jews dedicated to full time Limud HaTorah. Perhaps about 1 in 1,000 Jews are in Kollel. Only 1 in 1,000 Jews in Kollel, Rabbosai! Do you hear that dismal number?! We need to raise by manifold the number of Kollel yungerleit. Over the next four to five years we must aim to at least triple the number of Kollel men.

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