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i turned it back on like a few hours later…they werent even home.
geshmakebachur-who r u? lol
oh and the other night…they had the washing machine going at 12AM and it was shaking our apt!
yogiboobooMemberi wanted to let you know that we are B”H moving because of them!!!! we found a place right away and we are thrilled!
“Tell her when you move out that you’ll leave your new address and phone number, so when Elul comes she can contact you and ask you to mochel her.”-that came from a poster
and i want to tell you that i plan on doing that if she comes outside during the move!
yogiboobooMemberi am yogi bear but sometimes i let boo boo come on in place of me
yogiboobooMembercandy-Neve
yogiboobooMemberi was totally saying it as a joke. i was in seminary a few years ago. I actually dont like Bnos Sarah bec of a certain incident that happened. I went to a seminary that was on the same campus and because I befriended some of the girls, the prinicpal didnt like it because i was not like them. it was extremely ridiculous!
yogiboobooMemberi was talking about the OP. mw13- i will stop talking to you!
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yogiboobooMemberlol mod
yogiboobooMembermods-please close because some people are really ignorant!
ignorance is not so bad. educate them. (Also, I am among the “ignorant” on this.)
yogiboobooMemberreal-brisker: it only bothers me in the sense when they allow their kids to drink and have no limits.
Binah is right. men canget drunk in a responsible way. the men that are driving around with the bottle of wine while hanging out the window trying to show how “cool” he is, are dumb.
kids doing it to show how cool they are, are really not. They can have a drink with their fathers, but why get drunk? so what if they are over bar mitzvah, what does that prove?
You know what, to those people who think they have to get “stone drunk,” do it! end up in the hospital and then I hope you regret it. I really hope you do.
mw13-“what goes around comes around?”
what the blazes is that supposed to mean? i was NEVER directing anything at you from the very beginning. only you started that. i was just saying that people need to be more careful and that its disgusting what does go on! if you have a problem with that then im sorry for you!
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yogiboobooMembermw13-first of all watch the way you talk to me.
secondly-im not saying dont follow halacha. the halacha is NOT to get drunk and dont know what is going on around you and to mess up peoples homes. The halacha is ad dlo yodah! go ahead have a drink! but dont intoxicate yourself. tell me something how old are you? are you one of those people who find it cool to drink?
i am not telling people not to keep what the SA says. I am telling you to watch yourself. Dont go crazy or overboard and most of all learn to be responsible.
Why do I need to have a source for the fact that Hashem isnt happy that His children are ending up in hospitals and some even dying bec of alcohol poisioning??
yogiboobooMembercanine and mw13- He wants us to follow halacha but not get sick when doing so.
I’m noticing some people here really dont have a clue and maybe you should speak to a hatzalah member and ask him what goes on on Purim.
Do you know how many kids get alcohol poisioning? It is not an outlet despite what others may think.
all in all:
ITS NOT FUNNY ITS NOT CUTE AND MOST OF ALL ITS STUPID!
oh and while you are teaching your kids to drink, why dont you teach them what it means to have derech eretz for people and peoples belongings because if you can teach them to drink like that, only G-d knows what else you are capable of(and how to mess up your children more.) Now I see why so many kids are OTD, because of parents like you who have your priorities screwed up. I’m sorry to put it bluntly but it needs to be said
yogiboobooMemberdo you think this is what Hashem really wants???
yogiboobooMemberPBA-usually I agree with you on things and like what you say…but not this time!
yogiboobooMemberOk here goes:
1. ill never forget when a kid lost it all and he had to end up in the hospital but then the doctor along with hatzalah members put him in the ambulance he literally kicked the doctor who is one respected member in my community. Where were the kid’s parents when this happened?? oh yeah, prob getting drunk to.
2.The mitzvah of drinking is NOTto get drunk. it’s to get a little high. all of you who think what these kids are doing is ok, then I want you to go to the hospital on Purim and sit there with all those families that got stuck there bec of their stupid idiotic kids.
3. I took that bottle away from that kid, bec then I knew there was one less drink that boy was having. The security guard that was there actually thanked me for what I did.
4. MW13- “So what? If it was only legal to keep Shabbos for those 21 and older, would you say those under 21 shouldn’t keep Shabbos?!”
what shyichus is that??!?!! that made no sense. do you know how many police cars are around in my community on that day. They dont care who they get as long as they get them and they are right!
5.real-brisker: why does it bother me how they mechanech their kids? this is NOT called chinuch!
6.I thank all those that agree with me on this. it’s a very big thing and I hate hearing Hatzalah…ALL DAY LONG! I watch as the men hang out of the car windows and the wives drive around as if its so funny. its really not and they look so stupid! Purim is about being with yur family, dressing up, megillah, shalach manos, having a seudah(with a little bit of wine), and giving to the poor. How can you be a father if you are so drunk? Why does everything have to fall on the mother…”no more candy,” “stop bothering so and so,” “no mroe nosh” that is not fair. It is stupid and irresponsible of all those men out there who continue to give out drinks to all those underage boys and if you allow your kids to do it, like i said earlier I hope your child doesnt become a story!
yogiboobooMemberdoodle: when noshing all day do you really need dessert????
yogiboobooMemberu can do a fruity theme. give like “orange” soda and “strawberry” or “cherry” licorice. or “grape” juice.
you can do a black and white theme. then with that u can do chocolate and vanilla.
you can do a breakfast theme..
February 27, 2011 2:24 am at 2:24 am in reply to: Ladies, do you say ??? ???? ???? and ??? ???? ????? #745475yogiboobooMemberi was taught what u were taught. that is so weird!
yogiboobooMemberhow about potato blintzes with mushroom sauce
then have popcorn chicken(bite size chix cutlets with a dipping sauce), corn beef with a mustard sauce or a deli roll, or u can make veggie pockets.
dont forhget the soup with kreplach
yogiboobooMemberI am going to the BJJ rejects school…Bnos Sara
yogiboobooMembercandy-thats a really dumb rule. people should be happy for you! sooo what sem did you get into? now im curious….ppl arent supposed to know who you are here anyways so…
yogiboobooMemberits usually the fancy 5 towns ladies who wear their sheitals when owrking out…
February 23, 2011 11:47 pm at 11:47 pm in reply to: Finding Out if It Will Be a Boy or Girl? #1028726yogiboobooMembersomeone i know recently asked their Rav and he said not to because you may slip and tell ppl. ppl go all the time without knowing and they are usually OK with a shalom zachor etc
February 23, 2011 11:44 pm at 11:44 pm in reply to: Light /Dark loaf type Bilkelech served at Ateres Chynka- YUM! #744250yogiboobooMemberi love them too!
yogiboobooMemberdont wash ur hair daily. get ur ends cut and stopusing iron. but i also used the hot tools ceramic till it broke and it was great then i got another one that was awesome. now im married with no problem
February 23, 2011 1:54 pm at 1:54 pm in reply to: Which Singer Would You Choose To Sing At Your Wedding? #743795yogiboobooMember1st-Shwekey
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yogiboobooMemberProfessional-nails are meant to be polished thats why there is a business for it. I love getting my nails done, it is so relaxing and then it makes them look beautiful.
we came back from Pesach break and it was time to teach us about Tznius. They introduced it in such a beautiful way. They offered for teachers to come to our dorms and help us go through our closets and pick out whats ok and whats not. Some of the madrichot even went shopping with the girls. The fact that it was made fun and enjoyful made all us want to be tznius. . B”H I took that with me to my married life what i learned in my seminary. Thank you__(seminary name)__ for teaching me the way you did!
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yogiboobooMemberi know people who wont let their kids go and there is a school here that doesnt let the boys go either. besides the language that goes on what about the cheerleaders and the other women running around shooting the t-shirts etc. what about when the girls come out on the ice…ya know? thats just as bad too
yogiboobooMembermytake-i dont know anyone who follows Rav Falk. He is EXTREMELY strict.
in the school i work in they dont let it cuz its a bais yaakov.
but i do wear and i wouldnt have a problem with my kids wearing it either. i should be nervous that my daughter or myself is being looked at as a parutz? come on, there are much worse things out there then nail polish. As long as we stay away from the blacks, blues, greens or any of those other weird colors its fine.
yogiboobooMemberthis is a very old story and is in Rabbi Krohns book. This story makes me cry everytime. Let me tell you the good Yeshiva Darchei Torah does for the klal. First of all its a wheel chair accssible school. Secondly, there are a few kids in the school with handicaps and the love that the children has for those kids show no bounds. I watched dancing at a Bar Mitzvah of one of those boys and I was moved to tears. the kids were just unfreakin believable. Rabbi Yaakov Bender has done an amazing job teaching the proper chinuch to all of his talmidim. May he merit to see all his “children” grow to be real talmedei chachomim!
yogiboobooMemberthe kids are happier without him. she seems to be happier without him too. so i think its better for all if they do get divorced. Or, let them seperate see if he really goes for the help and then they can take it from there. But does an abusive person ever change? hes got a LOT of changing to do! also how can a community ever forgive Mottie for what he did? I really think that if Mottie is truly sorry, then he’s got a lot to prove!
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yogiboobooMembersender av-yes…Rabbi mordechai Greenfield!! a real tzaddik!
yogiboobooMemberWhat does the principal say? How many kids are in class? Are they boys or girls? If they are boys, of course they dont want stickers! You need to start a chart system with them, some behavior modifaction charts. Here’s what I have seen: give each kid a jar, and anytime they do something good ie, sharing, lsitening to morah etc. they get a marble or whatever else you want to use. When they get 20, they get a prize. If they are girls, then I dont know why they wouldnt respond to stickers. I teach Pre1A girls and they gravitate to stickers like its soda! Or what you can do is, put 3 stars on the blackboard and if they disappear during the day, no prize, but if they stay on each day for a week, you must get them a special treat for shabbos party(and of course make sure its nut and allergy free!)
yogiboobooMemberyou wanna know whats clean?? Baby Einstein! and the Magic School Bus
yogiboobooMemberFeif un=what semionary??
yogiboobooMemberits very high in sugar and carbs!
yogiboobooMemberthe goq is right in how the halls should be in his building. there are other people living there and it should not be a place to hang out. ive been in manyu buildings where NO ONE hangs out. people want to sleep, relax etc and shouldnt have to deal with kids running or screaming in the halls. GOQ I am going to agree with you on this one. You have all the reason in the world to be upset and frustrated.
I grew up in an apt building and I was always told you dont run in the halls, you dont play there either. Yes I did learn how to ride my bike and how to roller blade but I was very quiet when doing so and it was done when people weren’t around. and if someone came in the hall, i carefully moved aside.
BTW- my upstairs people came home at 2AM and woke me up by making LOTS of noise!
yogiboobooMembermy shul has one once every other month (i think). they are actually having one this shabbos.
When I was in seminary I had the privelage to go to the “Moshav” where Reb Shlomo lived its known as moshav modiin but everyone just calls it the moshav. I loved it there. I used to be thrilled every time I could go there. Although many people dont agree with what they hold or do its still a beautiful place. Anyways, the davening that they do there is just beautiful. there is also one point where we dance during kabbalas shabbos(seprately of course) but its just awesome!!! until you experience a shabbos like that there is nothing like it!
yogiboobooMemberThey do have carpeting. They were not home last night B”H and when they did come home at 2 AM guess who woke up from it???? ME! thats right!
That is correct, the landlord did not care.
I sent the girl upstairs a text that said that once it comes time for her child to go to sleep…i wrote GOOD LUCK!
you really wanna know what i did??? i have acsess to all the boilers in my apartment so i turned theirs down to low. But then before I went to sleep I turned it back right. yes i know im bad but they had to reealize..dont mess with me!
yogiboobooMemberwhen i was in sem i had a rabbi who was known as the “matrix rabbi” he taught the beauty of the world of Hashem and stuff thru movies. He’d skip things irrelevant but he was amazing!
February 17, 2011 12:54 am at 12:54 am in reply to: King's (Yossi's) Grill in Cedarhurst closed? #741856yogiboobooMemberwhat?!?!?!?!?
yogiboobooMemberour fri night minhagim are:
fri night chulent at some point after meal
no kiddush btwn 6-7(anyone else have that minhag?)
make sure to be in PJs under the robe!
oh and try to get the hubs to sing
yogiboobooMemberi have a fear of….sharks. I cant go into the ocean too far cuz I think they are going to find me and get me.
I am also petrified of dolls!
yogiboobooMemberONLY CHILD!!!!
yogiboobooMemberAPY-no they are not.
guy-not funny. also people dont rly know what goes on behind close doors and why i need to do what i have to do and why i need some quiet.
When I was growing up I lived in an apartment building. we lived on the top floor and I was told from day 1, YOU DO NOT BOUNCE A BALL IN THE HOUSE bec ppl live underneath you. Yet, they let their child do it. If I was caught bouncing it, it was taken away from me. I was also not allowed to jump or run around in my apt bec ppl were living underneath me. That’s called commonsene and having consideration for others. I guess they were raised like animals but thats wha happens when you grow up in …
Nishtday-they told me they can hear some things too, so I made sure to keep it down! but you know what to heck with them!
yogiboobooMemberOK rather than indiviually answer you all I was generalize it and find what pertains to you:
1. not calling the cops.
2. i called the landlord he says nothing he can do. he says hes not a dorm counselor(doesnt sound like he wants to say anything anyways) and i said either somehting needs to be done or im out. for health reason i am not allowed to be under stress or get myself worked up so now i got it bec i gotta move. whatever
3. i was so nice. i asked her to come for a shabbos meal(more than once) and finally she says we dont eat out and later that week we saw them going out for the meal.
4. i use ear plugs but with a treadmill it doesnt work. my husband cant otherwise he wont hear his alarm.
5. i invited them to come down to listen to the noise and they said “i dont need to hear it because i dont care!”
Besides all that why should we have to suffer like this.
I am searching now for an apartment. But you know what they say what gors around comes around. But I did get them and well see how long it takes for them to realize what I did.
yogiboobooMemberi did dont worry…..but you know teens…you gotta explain things differently
yogiboobooMemberDov’s or Fresh and Frozen or Royal
yogiboobooMemberapparently what i had written in response to your post was never put up. So I will rephrase everything. This post that you posted is irrelevant to facebook and the fact that YWN is on FB. What shychus is there? OK so you were told not to be on FB and that’s it! you cant go and tell people that there are dangers when in reality you dont have to put yourself into that situation. Mike, always and myself explained the good that goes on with FB. Apparently you didnt have a good experience. Please, instead of making others feel bad about being on FB think as to why they are on and the good they are doing on there. You choose who you want to and dont want to be friends with and if you dont know the person you say NO! plain and simple. You can put up many blocks so people cant find you and you can request. Again, dont go saying negativity until you see the positive.
yogiboobooMemberi agree with doodle.
But def have your husband speak to his Rav as to decide where would be best for you to go. My friend’s husband did that and he foiund a job in Pennsylvania and they had mazel there for a couple of years but then moved back closer to her parents and are happier now too. The best would be to find a job first and then decide tpo move close to it that way you dont have to travel or get here and then find out you need to move again in order to get a job. figure out your top three priorities first and then go fdrom there. but again speak to your Rav
yogiboobooMemberyes! my BIL was marrried to a girl for 6 months before they realized SHE was abusive. The stuff she did to my BIL was unimaginable. but yes many times a girl is at fault.
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