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Again I am talking from a mathematical standpoint and there is no way around the facts. Hashem has planned this but we cant do our best to mess it up. Remember it does say ben shmonah esrah lechupah so for us to think we can get married whenever we want and blame g-d is not really right. Suggesting anecdotal evidence about how many people unmarried you know is of course meaningless. Many studies have already corroborated the mathematical reality that there are much more girls in their ninth grades across any town than for example in the 12 grade and the same for boys which is obvious. Therefore 4 years later when the 12 grade boys are marrying the ninth grade girls it doesnt work so unless you can challenge this with facts it stands as is unfortunately. It has nothing to do with shadchans, personality, level of religious observance or any other factors. It is simply not the same number of people in the pie to match. You can have 10,000 shadchans and it will not help at all. It is a huge problem facing klal yisroel and one TOTALLY man made. Please lets change how we do things so that your children will not suffer.
Folks – unfortunately the age gap is not theory but hard mathematical fact. Since the population continues to grow every year by whatever % – if older boys keep marrying into the larger population of younger girls there will continue to be a major problem. The only way to solve this is to marry at the same or very close age. I challenge anyone to dispute this in a serious though out mathematical way. It seems to me that this keeps being discussed as though it is a theory but I have yet to see anyone explain in a real way why it would be. In my opinion this is one of the largest problems facing klal yisroel right now where thousands of people cant get married- and the one that is most preventable if we change the way we do business.
This post matter not at all. 99.5 % of the frum people in this country live in states where Hillary will win by a landslide anyway unfortunately so it make zero difference what the frum people do.
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