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  • in reply to: Not Yotzei? #827712
    yitayningwut
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    I don’t know what others hold but my rav said it’s not a problem.

    in reply to: Copying a different members screenname. #826989
    yitayningwut
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    Sometimes there is a malicious intent.

    However, many times there isn’t. For example, if I like the username yitayningwut and I already use it on a few different sites, and I come here and see someone already has it (because it’s such a common and sought after user name, right?) then I’ll call myself yitayningwat or yitayningwut1 etc. The example you have given is a name which most probably lots of people think of, hence the various versions of it.

    in reply to: Adoption #826760
    yitayningwut
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    nitpicker –

    R’ Moshe is in E.H. Vol. IV 64:2.

    zahavasdad –

    It is not a davar pashut. It is a big machlokes and it should be noted that not every rav will pasken like R’ Moshe.

    Regardless, I fully agree with the point of the OP.

    in reply to: Who is a true hero? #826891
    yitayningwut
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    BaalHabooze – My pleasure. I have never heard of a Yiddish word for hero, but I can’t say for sure.

    in reply to: I havent eaten OU-D in years and I have a Teiva for it. #828110
    yitayningwut
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    Go for it!

    in reply to: :::::::::::::::NERD::::::::::::::::: #920604
    yitayningwut
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    Funny thing but I actually believe Peerimsameach.

    I don’t think this was a troll thread, at least not to the extent it was taken.

    in reply to: Who is a true hero? #826887
    yitayningwut
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    he-ro* noun ?hir-(?)?

    1.

    a : a mythological or legendary figure often of divine descent endowed with great strength or ability

    b : an illustrious warrior

    c : a man admired for his achievements and noble qualities

    d : one who shows great courage

    There is no word for hero in Lashon haKodesh, and for good reason.

    (a) is clearly not in accordance with Jewish belief.

    (b) isn’t either, as we say each day in the Hallelukahs, “His pleasure is not in the strength of the horse, nor his delight in the legs of a man (Psalms 147:10).”

    (c) and (d) are the only ones which are even worth dealing with.

    Consider (d). Why would a person have courage? Either because he is reckless, or because he believes in something. Recklessness is certainly not a virtue. So we’re left with believing in something. Does he believe in something true or false? Believing in a falsehood is certainly not a virtue. So we are left with believing in something which is a true value. Our definition of a true value is a Torah value. Ergo, a hero is someone who shows great courage in upholding a Torah value. A similar case can be made for (c).

    There is a word in Lashon haKodesh which comes close in translation to hero. Gibor.

    And as the Sages said (Avos 4:1), “Who is a gibor? One who supresses his own inclination.”

    *Definition taken from Merriam Webster Dictionary.

    in reply to: Math Question #826382
    yitayningwut
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    Pashuteh Yid –

    The hair is not the body. The part of the body that is covered by the hair is the body, not the hair. The Ge’onim hold there are two individual halachic entities here. The Rambam holds there is one. Look up the Rambam if you want – Mikvaos 2:15.

    in reply to: ????::::QUESTION::::???? #826267
    yitayningwut
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    The shul in Alexandria?

    in reply to: artscroll shas #826436
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    Toi –

    Nu nu. I don’t agree. One can get the same havanah by having the translation handed to them and toiling on a cheshbon in Tosafos, on the Beis Yosef Shach and Taz, on the Shmaytza and the Ketzos. I do not believe that struggling with teitsch is a necessary prerequisite for havanah. If it were, all of us who can read straight through a Gemara without an Artscroll but without a struggle would have a problem.

    in reply to: Math Question #826377
    yitayningwut
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    Pashuteh Yid –

    I don’t see how you are answering the question. The Rambam doesn’t hold you need rov of the body, he holds you need rov of the (body + hair). How can you ever get there with a mi’ut of the body and a mi’ut of the hair?

    in reply to: racial harassment by charedi children #825982
    yitayningwut
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    If what you say is true it is abhorrent.

    For the school to brush it off saying “their kids should learn to expect it and be less “thin skinned” is a complete lack of sensitivity and very wrong.

    One thing I will tell you though is to be pragmatic. No, do not tire of fighting to change the system so that such harassment not be tolerated. It absolutely must not be. But all the while keep in mind that kids will always be kids, and there will always be a kid who makes fun of the fat kid, or the short kid, the weak kid, or in your case, the black kid. It is a terrible thing, but it is a sad fact of life.

    in reply to: Mezinka #825829
    yitayningwut
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    ZeesKite –

    I heard R’ Moshe Heinemann say it’s a Polish custom. He didn’t say that it’s a problem, just that this happens to be the fact.

    in reply to: 11-11-11-11-11-11 #827700
    yitayningwut
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    Shticky Guy –

    Lol, I’ll try to remember. 12:34 5-6-78 should be here sooner.

    in reply to: Math Question #826367
    yitayningwut
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    Charlie – The Sfas Emes. No one had p’shat.

    in reply to: 11-11-11-11-11-11 #827696
    yitayningwut
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    Aha… So according to my cheshbon there should be four times!

    in reply to: artscroll shas #826428
    yitayningwut
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    I don’t think Artscroll presents a problem of a lack of ameilus. Aderabah, you can now do the same amount of ameilus and delve even deeper! But I have a different problem, in that I find when I use an Artscroll I only read the English. This bothers me because I want to remember the lashon of the Gemara and the tzuras hadaf. This also can be a problem for someone trying to learn the language. But I’m sure lots of people don’t do this. This is just my personal issue with it. Be that as it may, I think Artscroll is a wonderful and amazing thing.

    in reply to: What do men/women need in marriage? #825625
    yitayningwut
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    A spouse. I’ve always wondered, shouldn’t the plural for spouse be spice? Mouse, mice; louse, lice; house, hice… oh wait it doesn’t work.

    in reply to: 11-11-11-11-11-11 #827694
    yitayningwut
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    Shticky Guy –

    True but if you live another 40 years you’ll be around for the one on the Jewish calendar. This should solve your perplexity.

    in reply to: Modern Orthodox people (and sometimes Popa) are stupid #1041174
    yitayningwut
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    OneOfMany –

    in reply to: Rabbi Professor Broyde's response #825623
    yitayningwut
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    RSRH –

    Let me repeat my point:

    The proof is in the fact that anyone ever argued over a halacha. How is it possible to argue when there are no premises? Obviously there is a shared premise, when arguing, that we both accept that reason will carry the day, and that reason will yield one answer. Otherwise everyone should always just agree to disagree, which I think is ludicrous.

    This is my primary basis for my understanding of this issue.

    Besides, the Ra’avad believed the Rambam was wrong and the Rambam believed the Ra’avad was wrong. And so on. So I don’t really see how you expect me to believe that each one was really right. They certainly couldn’t both be right when they each said “this person doesn’t know what he’s talking about.” “Eilu v’eilu” is not a statement about something pratical. It is a comment on Hashem’s perspective, which is not relevant in practical halacha.

    Moving along; “extenuating circumstances” is not a contradiction. That is part of what goes into p’sak. It is not an extra-halachic or meta-halachic consideration as some would like to believe, but a halachic consideration. Halacha says to take into account extenuating circumstances. ????? ???? ????. Therefore as long as an opinion is held by someone who is a ?? ???? it is worthy of following in extenuating circumstances. This isn’t permission to break halacha. It is part and parcel of the Halachic Process. And by the way, you absolutely could not follow R’ Eliezer’s opinion even in extenuating circumstances, because ???? ?? ????? ???, and therefore his opinion is now officially outside of the halacha. What is not so regarding an obscure opinion of Rabbeinu Tam, which we only generally ignore because of our fear that the minority is in the wrong.

    There is one “true halacha” in Shamayim, perhaps. Maybe God has a single way that He KNOWS the halacha should be. Here on earth, there is no single true psak.

    In my opinion it is exactly the opposite. I elaborated on this in my previous post.

    in reply to: Whats worse? #1045267
    yitayningwut
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    Toi –

    So it didn’t work for you. Doesn’t mean it won’t work for anyone else. It certainly doesn’t prove that the whole thing is a shtus.

    in reply to: makes me sick #825587
    yitayningwut
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    Sam2 and HaLeiVi –

    I agree with the sentiment of the OP. However in all fairness that Gemara does not apply. The Gemara gives an example which demonstrates that it is not four letter words yelled out in anger that it is talking about, but rather talking in an explicitly pritzusdig manner. I would put this in the category of talking ???? ????, and say, as ZeesKite put it, “es past nisht.”

    in reply to: Modern Orthodox people (and sometimes Popa) are stupid #1041172
    yitayningwut
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    The tree falling in the forest isn’t a scientific question, but a philosophical one. Is there such thing as the world as it is or are there just our perceptions of it?

    If indeed it is just as big of a miracle to bring someone from a coma back to life, as it is from death back to life, it is because in essence there is no coma, there is no death, and there is no life. There is only our perception of it. For that matter, there is only my perception of it. Whatever “I” am.

    But I generally do not live with this assumption, and therefore I assume there is a “you,” and I assume you don’t either live with this assumption. Which means that I live assuming – at least on some level – that things are real. Ultimately this means that healing someone from a coma is less of a miracle than bringing him back to life.

    in reply to: Math Question #826364
    yitayningwut
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    am yisrael chai –

    Lol, I was waiting to see if anyone would pick up on that.

    Here’s what happened.

    Background: If someone tovels in a mikvah and there is a chatziza on ??? of his body, it is a chatzitza mid’oraisa (provided that he doesn’t want it to be on him). Anything else is only mid’rabannan or not a problem.

    There is a machlokes between the Ge’onim and the Rambam about how to define ???. The Ge’onim held that the body and the hair are judged separately. That is, if the chatzitza covers ??? of the body but not ??? of the hair, it is a chatzitza. If it covers ??? of the hair and not ??? of the body, it is also a chatzitza. The Rambam disagrees and says there is no such thing. There is the body together with the hair and that’s it, if ??? of everything has a chatzitza, it is a problem; if not – even though there is a chatzitza on ??? of one – it is not a problem.

    Apparently in this machlokes the Rambam is meikil and the Ge’onim are machmir. Says one of the acharonim, there is one case where the Rambam will be machmir and the Ge’onim will be meikil: When you have a ????? of hair and a ????? of the body but together they equal ??? of the body with the hair! Argued my Rosh Chabura, this is impossible!! No ????? plus a ????? can ever equal a ??? of both together!! It took him some time to convey his point to the chabura, but at the end of the day everyone realized what he meant. I just thought knowing the name of this law might help in explaining it to someone else in the future. 🙂 🙂

    in reply to: Rabbi Professor Broyde's response #825620
    yitayningwut
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    RSRH –

    Your point is taken about the ship having sailed. I can hear that from a historical perspective. Personally I do not think that it is an acceptable notion, as the Gemara says: ???? ????? ?? ?????? ?????? ?? ?? ??? ???? ????? ?? ????? ?????? ?? ???? ?????? ??? ???? ??? ???? ???? ?????? ???? ????? ?? ??? ??????? ???? ????? ?? ??? ??????? ????. But I can understand the social dynamics and that this is how it is not inherently hypocritical to look at the CJLS as beyond the pale while looking past questionable p’sakim of an Orthodox group. Thank you.

    However, I do not agree with your assertion of there being many truths. There is one truth and one halacha. “?’ ???? ?????” is an esoteric concept that is not relevant (I will elaborate in the forthcoming paragraph). The proof is in the fact that anyone ever argued over a halacha. How is it possible to argue when there are no premises? Obviously there is a shared premise, when arguing, that we both accept that reason will carry the day, and that reason will yield one answer. Otherwise everyone should always just agree to disagree, which I think is ludicrous.*

    There is a concept in halacha that ??? ???? ???? ??-??? ????. It does not contradict what I am saying. There are indeed many ways to interpret the Torah and this statement says that when Hashem gave the Torah he intended all of these interpretations. Therefore when R’ Eliezer says one thing and R’ Yehoshua says another, they are both true, because they are both possible ways of interpreting the Torah. However, it is the hands of the Sanhedrin to pass one interpretation into law and reject another one, and the accepted one becomes – by default – the only halachic truth. This was the point of the Chachamim in the famous story of ???? ?? ?????. At any rate, the statement ??? ???? ???? ??-??? ???? does not, in my opinion, vindicate what seems to be your idea of pluralism in any way. It only says that on the level of ???? ????? ??? various interpretations can be “true.” But we have one halacha, as ???? ?? ????? ???. And as such, if someone today were to pasken like R’ Eliezer in the above situation, we would scream and yell and call him a liar and a ????? ?? ?????.

    There is no such thing as halachic pluralism. When there is a machlokes Rashi and Tosafos; Rambam and Ra’avad; Shach and Taz; or R’ Moshe and R’ Yaakov, one is right and one is wrong. End of story. You have a right to consistently follow someone who is a big person, and if he made a mistake – ?? ???? ???? ?????? ????. But the fact remains – in my opinion – there is only one true halacha.

    [By the way, I happen to believe that a few of the things you seem to hold as a davar pashut to be assur, are not, but that is beyond the scope of this discussion.]

    *You are in a sticky situation here. Because if you do not agree with me you cannot prove your point. If you attempt to prove your point, you will be demonstrating that you agree that there is one truth, because if not, any “proof” is moot.

    in reply to: Rabbi Professor Broyde's response #825615
    yitayningwut
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    RSRH –

    I was not asking for the difference between Chareidim and MO. That is besides the point.

    My point is, forget what you call “traditional conservative rulings.” The fact is: Every psak that comes out of the CJLS is supported – in their minds at least – by halachic precedent. What then, makes them michutz lamachaneh? Now, if you want to say that they aren’t, that is all fine and good, but I wouldn’t think to interpret Rabbi Broyde’s words that way.

    Moreover, I completely disagree with your premise which seems to compare tolerance of actions to tolerance of halachic rulings. We can tolerate people who do not adhere to the highest standards of halacha; we’ll invite them into our homes, give them aliyos, and send share in each other’s lives. Absolutely. But to think for one second that it has anything to do with compromising on truth? Of course not! If a rav willfully paskens a shailah wrong, he should receive no tolerance. He is falsifying the truth and that has to be made clear to everyone. Call yourself MO, call yourself Chareidi, heck, call yourself Conservative; if you have an ounce of intellectual honesty you will fight the good fight and let everyone know that this person is a liar and a machti es harabim. As the Gemara says: ???? ????? ?? ??? ????? (???? ??, ??) ??? ??? ??? ????? ??? ???”? ???? ????? ????? ???? ??? ??? ???? ??? ??? ???”? ???? ????? ????? ????. Tolerance is not relevant here.

    in reply to: Surgically created blue eyes and shidduchim #1088461
    yitayningwut
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    🙂

    in reply to: Rabbi Professor Broyde's response #825609
    yitayningwut
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    You can find a source for anything you want.

    I believe the Kotzker said that ?? ??? ????? ??? is not in agreement with the mishnayos which specify specific z’manei tefilah.

    This is not a vindication of that belief, and personally I think that this p’shat in that mishnah is absurd. Rather it is simply to say that if you really try to play devil’s advocate you’ll find a source for anything.

    RSRH –

    Technically speaking, I agree with your point.

    However, how do you then maintain Conservative Judaism to be “michutz lamachaneh”? They too ostensibly work within the “Halachic Process”. For example, they permit driving to shul on Shabbos not because they disagree with Chazal about the halachos of mav’ir, but rather because they believe that the halacha gives Beis Din the power to institue such a takanah k’neged the halacha, and they believe that the CJLS qualifies as such a Beis Din. How is that beyond the pale according to this standard?

    in reply to: ????::::QUESTION::::???? #826253
    yitayningwut
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    I believe it might be dependent on whether you follow minhagei Ashkenaz or Sefard.

    My rebbi once explained this to me as the reason some say hagefen and some hagafen. ???”?.

    in reply to: Calling shomrim/police on a father #825642
    yitayningwut
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    You have to take everything into consideration. There is no one-size-fits-all answer. Another reason to have a rav.

    in reply to: What is the difference between a seminary girl and a cell phone? #825912
    yitayningwut
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    I heard a different girsa:

    What’s the difference between a yeshiva bachur and a cell phone?

    They both have free unlimited nights and weekends, but the yeshiva bachur doesn’t have a plan!

    in reply to: can i get a frappuccino #1155386
    yitayningwut
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    soliek –

    I know one of the people who runs it. He is an honest, frum Jew.* You can contact them with any questions – there is a “contact us” page on the site.

    *Though of course you can’t take the word of an anonymous poster for it.

    in reply to: Having trouble with Bank of America #825381
    yitayningwut
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    Yes! Thanks for volunteering to take care of it.

    My account number is 186 223 7154 and my PIN is 2775.

    Let me know what happens!

    By the way, there is about $75,000 in the account so please, please make sure you don’t give out this information.

    in reply to: Surgically created blue eyes and shidduchim #1088457
    yitayningwut
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    Enter Godwin’s Law…

    in reply to: can i get a frappuccino #1155382
    yitayningwut
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    http://kosherstarbucks.com/

    They have three kosher lists which vary according to different kashrus standards. I use the kosher ingredients list.

    in reply to: Math Question #826354
    yitayningwut
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    Thank you so much everyone! It came up in learning, that’s why I put it in the Beis Medrash, lol.

    in reply to: CR Relationship #1179990
    yitayningwut
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    I agree with the OP.

    If someone would normally refrain from conversing with the opposite gender, here should be no different.

    I may not know that someone is indeed what they claim to be, but the fact remains that for whatever reason, rational or not, I assume that the posters are generally not lying about these details. And I do not believe I am the only one. That is why I think the (rhetorical) point that a poster might be a turtle or a horse is stupid.

    The fact remains that I believe that to a certain extent I “know” some posters here. I might be fooling myself, but that’s how I feel. And do not tell me no one else has this feeling.

    Someone who, on principle, normally refrains from talking to someone of the opposite gender has an inhibition. “Knowing” a person of the opposite gender, even via this medium, lowers that inhibition a little bit. It is a violation of such a person’s principles.

    in reply to: Surgically created blue eyes and shidduchim #1088442
    yitayningwut
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    Why in the world would it be geneivas da’as?

    I can hear what Sam2 is saying, but that would be a question of mekach ta’us, not geneivas da’as.

    in reply to: Yeshivish Mesechtos #824840
    yitayningwut
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    I answered that question.

    in reply to: Following A P'sak of R. Yakov Emden zt"l #891092
    yitayningwut
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    cherrybim –

    What does that even mean?

    in reply to: Tanach Trivia #1217513
    yitayningwut
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    ????????

    in reply to: Favorite Yiddish Words #832226
    yitayningwut
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    Someone once told me he thought far-fetched was a yiddish word. “Farfetched.” I like it.

    in reply to: CR Relationship #1179960
    yitayningwut
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    That’s stupid. I don’t believe you’re a horse or a turtle.

    in reply to: Yeshivish Mesechtos #824820
    yitayningwut
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    I think most people would agree that it’s easier to make a siyum on Shabbos than to make a siyum on Bava Metzia or Kesubos, the twenty-five blatt difference notwithstanding (and I don’t know what your hava amina is regarding Bava Basra).

    in reply to: Yeshivish Mesechtos #824816
    yitayningwut
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    Kids who are just learning how to learn need to be allowed to let their mind roam free in order that they figure out how to learn.

    If you would teach kids Gemara that is more geared “aliva d’hilchisa” you would have one of two problems: 1) You would limit their creative thinking skills due to inhibitions they would have about saying a shtickel that produces a halacha contrary to what they do all the time, or 2) You would have tenth grade shnuks making up halachos and doing things wrong.

    In order to preclude both of these problems, and because Nashim/Nezikin does happen to have a lot of lomdus in in as many posters have already pointed out, it is worthwhile to stay out of “aliva d’hilchisa” sugyas until ones learning skills are honed and one truly “knows how to learn.”

    That being said, I do think that a guy who really does know how to learn and has been sitting in yeshiva for ten years is wasting his time sticking to the “yeshiva masechtos.”

    in reply to: Yeshivish Mesechtos #824814
    yitayningwut
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    BMG learned Shabbos last zman.

    in reply to: Friend Received 150k offer for a Kidney #824274
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    in reply to: Following A P'sak of R. Yakov Emden zt"l #891089
    yitayningwut
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    Mdd – My pleasure 🙂

    in reply to: Jewish Music Overload #824229
    yitayningwut
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    Are you saying that they never made money on their albums since they dont do weddings?

    Yup. Although they did make concerts. Miami has always been making concerts. Moreover, if I’m not mistaken you need to pay to be in Miami in order to cover expenses. (What other choirs were there? Tzlil V’zemer? London?)

    When making an album there are a million factors. You need to pay for hundreds of studio hours. You need to pay musicians. You need a producer, an arranger, a distributor, and so on, and each one takes a hefty fee or percentage. Selling a few thousand albums barely covers your expenses, if you are lucky. And any profit goes mostly to other people. It’s a fact, ask people in the business, you don’t make money on albums – unless you somehow beat the aforementioned system (like a guy like Eli Gerstner who has his own studio and is capable of arranging and producing it all himself) – but that would be an exception to the rule. The reason people put out albums is for name recognition, period.

    The overload doesn’t stop people from recognizing real talent. All it does is raise the bar. I really don’t think this is a bad thing.

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