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yitayningwutParticipant
RSRH –
You weren’t by any chance being sarcastic there, were you?
yitayningwutParticipantDo you mean who has left or who is left? Or who identifies with MO?
yitayningwutParticipantyungerman1 – What does that mean? The view of science is part of Torah according to the Rambam. Ma’aseh Bereishis is the natural sciences in his opinion.
yitayningwutParticipantha ha good one popa 🙂
yitayningwutParticipantThe Rambam held that science is Torah.
yitayningwutParticipantsam4321 –
Personally I am noteh to say that if it isn’t actually cross-dressing, i.e. it’s just a shirt, it’s not possible to say she is posing as a man (or vice versa) and therefore the issur does not apply. I haven’t seen anyone say this though.
November 23, 2011 7:40 pm at 7:40 pm in reply to: Why do ONLY seminary girls get to learn navi? #858976yitayningwutParticipantToi –
I was referring to math.
yitayningwutParticipanttzaddiq –
There are over 6000 students in BMG. If you do the math there are probably at least five times as many affiliated with the Yeshiva. At least.
November 23, 2011 3:48 am at 3:48 am in reply to: Why do ONLY seminary girls get to learn navi? #858972yitayningwutParticipantOneOfMany –
You mean a principal told you that girls are to stupid? That’s sad. Pretty ignorant too. How would he explain the fact that 60 percent of Bachelor’s Degrees currently go to women? And so on.
As for your question. I don’t want to get involved in the whole debate right now regarding the status of women with regard to studying Torah. But everyone agrees that women do not have the same obligation of Torah study as men, as the Gemara derives their exemption in Kiddushin 29b. If math and science are “like jewelry” for a woman, and you are exempt from learning Torah anyway, then why not learn the math and science? You can learn Torah also, but there is no reason to put so much emphasis on it, as if it needs to be the basis of the entire curriculum. Personally I think that the reason they are teaching girls Nach and all is simply because they got this idea that girls have to learn all day just like guys (which, by the way, I don’t fully agree with either), but they feel that girls shouldn’t learn Gemara, so what will they learn? Nach is the next choice! Which is stupid. Girls don’t need to learn all day. They should be taught Halacha and the basics and if they want to learn more, they should have the option, but otherwise they should be given the opportunity if not the push to grow academically in other subjects such as advanced math and the sciences etc. Anyway I got a bit carried away.
yitayningwutParticipantvery nice raya
yitayningwutParticipantmik5 –
In my limited knowledge of Halacha I have never heard of such a concept.
yitayningwutParticipanttzaddiq –
Most people living in Lakewood are there for job opportunities. (Is that fair to say?)
No, it isn’t fair to say. Perhaps many, but certainly not most. If there is a majority it is definitely b’nei yeshiva.
mamashtakah –
Count the amount of times Eretz Yisroel is mentioned and how many times Torah is mentioned. Hey wait a second the whole Torah is Torah…
November 23, 2011 12:07 am at 12:07 am in reply to: Why do ONLY seminary girls get to learn navi? #858967yitayningwutParticipantMy haha was to Toi. Heimishe Mom, as Popa said, I think that most guys don’t have that problem, at least once they’ve been through a couple of years in yeshiva.
OneOfMany –
You should tell those men to look at the Yerushalmi in the beginning of Pei’ah:
??? ???? ??? ?’ ????? – ???? ???? ???? ?? ??? ?????? ???? ???? ????? ??
The Gemara is saying that “Greek Wisdom” (which I assume refers to mathematics, the sciences, etc) is an “article of jewelry” for a woman, and therefore one may have his daughters study it (as opposed to himself, as it can possibly be a question of bitul Torah). Kind of irrelevant if women are to stupid to understand it.
November 22, 2011 8:16 pm at 8:16 pm in reply to: Why do ONLY seminary girls get to learn navi? #858961yitayningwutParticipantHaha
yitayningwutParticipantmamashtakah-
???? ????? ??? ???? ???? ???? ?? ????
Better to live in a place of Torah that has no inherent kedusha then in a place of inherent kedusha that has no Torah.
yitayningwutParticipantThe idea of Lakewood being second to Yerushalayim is nothing new.
Rabbeinu Tam records* that in his time they used to say ?? ????? ??? ???? ???? ?’ ????????.
All of you who have issues with Lakewood cannot deny the fact that at the end of the day there are thousands of people sitting and learning there (I learn in a Beis Medrash with over 1000 people in the room alone!), something that is not found anywhere in the world in those proportions.
*http://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=14542&st=&pgnum=109
November 22, 2011 7:33 pm at 7:33 pm in reply to: Why do ONLY seminary girls get to learn navi? #858958yitayningwutParticipantWIY –
He wasn’t talking about the religion, he was talking about why it isn’t in the yeshiva’s curriculum. The yeshiva is a non-profit organization. He was making a joke.
cleverjewishpun –
The explanation I heard was that extensive Old Testament study and analysis is one of the things that led to the Haskalah and the like back in Europe.
This is not a cop out. It’s actually a Rashi in Berachos 28b:
??????? – ?? ??????? ????? ???? ???? ???? ?????
I don’t know why girls should be better though.
OneOfMany –
What’s wrong with calculus?
November 22, 2011 4:51 am at 4:51 am in reply to: Why do ONLY seminary girls get to learn navi? #858949yitayningwutParticipantHere’s the Tosafos everyone is talking about (Sanhedrin 24a):
????? ????? ?????? ???’. ???? ????? ?? ??????? ???? ??? ?????? ????? ??? ????? ????? (???? ?”? ?? ??.) ????? ???? ??? ?????? ???? ????? ???? ????? ???? ??”?
November 22, 2011 4:44 am at 4:44 am in reply to: Why do ONLY seminary girls get to learn navi? #858947yitayningwutParticipantMr. Mod – lol 🙂 I guess it’s a small world.
November 22, 2011 4:20 am at 4:20 am in reply to: Why do ONLY seminary girls get to learn navi? #858942yitayningwutParticipantSomeone once asked this question to a Rosh Yeshiva of mine.
On the spot he replied, “Because we are a non-prophet organization…”
And guess which mod just figured out what yeshiva you went to.
yitayningwutParticipantcinderella –
Thanks, and you do make a good point as well. People will always notice something, so it’s very important to make sure that they will notice the meaningful and not the superficial. That is very true.
yitayningwutParticipantmommamia22 –
It happens to be a machlokes if that halacha is true, but the answer is Thursday. I would assume Wednesday night inclusive.
yitayningwutParticipantmik5 –
Some are and some aren’t. The important thing is not to judge those who aren’t, because they certainly have what to rely on.
yitayningwutParticipantcinderella –
You are right that tznius is a way of life. But tznius is not about showing things to the world.
It is not tznius to show off your body. But it is also not tznius to show off your internal self. The pasuk says ?????????? ????? ??? ?????????. It isn’t talking specifically about women, and I don’t believe it is talking about clothing. The word tzanua literally means hidden. You can hide physically and you can hide by not broadcasting your personal, deep, internal relationship with God.
Consider human relationships for example. It is proper and even expected that a person show a certain amount of love for their significant other in public. If that affection is not shown then they must be lacking in their relationship. But at the same time, to publicly display past a certain point is superficial and distasteful, even vulgar. Not just because of “pritzus” issues. But because there is a certain depth to the relationship which is so rich that it is not possible to be shared with others, and when one tries to show it off it gets watered down, so why would you want to show it off?
Tznius is about hiding something. It is not about showing off anything, even good things. ?????????? ????? ??? ????????? tells us that there is an aspect of our relationship with God that we should keep private. It might be that there is value in showing off certain things in a certain refined way, but that is not the parsha of tznius, that’s something else. Tznius is about the value of keeping it to yourself.
yitayningwutParticipantmik5 –
No.
I am saying that the Arizal, the preeminent authority of Kabbala, did not hold of this law. So even within the Kabbalistic community this law isn’t held of.
yitayningwutParticipantcinderella –
Because if you define tznius the right way, which is showing the world that you are not a body…
Side point, which I made on an earlier thread of yours too:
Tznius is not about showing the world anything. It is about refraining from showing things to the world.
yitayningwutParticipantmik5 –
I know that they should not be cut in order under any circumstances…
That is a bit strong.
As ‘Dont get me wrong’ pointed out the source is a Rema in OC 260. The Magen Avraham says on the spot that the Arizal would ridicule (??? ?????) the whole concept. Being that this is a matter of Kabbala and the Arizal is arguably the most recognized authority on Kabbala, you can see why there is an argument to be made not to worry about this. The Magen Avraham says it worth being concerned about, even so. The Aruch Hashulchan concludes that “one who cares, cares, and one who doesn’t care, doesn’t care.” Basically do whatever you feel like.
Yankdownunder, Dont get me wrong, Sam2 –
The Aruch Hashulchan writes:
????? ????? ??????? ?? ?? ???? ???? ?? ?? ????, ???? ????? ????? ?????, ????? ???? ?? ????, (?”? ??”?) ??? ????? ????
yitayningwutParticipantBubbyLa –
If you are musical then you will appreciate the sound of a band much more. If not you won’t see a difference.
Mazal tov by the way.
yitayningwutParticipantOneOfMany –
True, but when there may be a possibility that it is legally wrong I can see that it would be a chillul Hashem. In this case, besides for the fact that legally they have no argument, since it is part of their contract it is unfair for the schools. The fact that someone complains doesn’t create a moral imperative to cancel his/her obligations. I can complain too.
yitayningwutParticipantOneOfMany –
The only similarity between the two cases is that they both involve bussing. Be that as it may, that was a legal issue. This is not.
yitayningwutParticipantzahavasdad –
Most of these drivers don’t even live in Lakewood (that’s how it was when I was growing up, I would imagine more so now). They could have taken a public school route in Jackson or Howell for the same price.
BTGuy –
Lol, the pumpkin pie thing is a joke.
yitayningwutParticipantAccording to Michael Inzelbuch:
“Please be formally reminded that pursuant to contract, New Jersey Administrative Code, and information provided by the New Jersey Department of Education as recently as yesterday, bussing must be provided on November 24, 2011 (Thanksgiving) unless same is not required by the school(s) you serve.” (from The Lakewood Scoop)
This doesn’t sound backdoor to me. This sounds like something perfectly legitimate which some disgruntled people are upset about, but cannot say they were tricked into.
yitayningwutParticipantBTGuy –
I do understand that. But why did they have to take a private school route? What are we supposed to do exactly? It isn’t fair to us.
I am not saying that there is this grand scheme to manipulate our feelings. I’m not such a conspiracist. However, I do think that on some level this is the – perhaps unconscious – motive of all people who complain about not getting something they do not deserve.
One more thing. How can people say it’s a chillul Hashem when it is part of their contract? There is no manipulating on our part. We are not doing anything wrong. I am fully aware that there are some angry feelings directed at us but angry feelings do not equal chillul Hashem. They may equal guilty conscience. But not chillul Hashem.
yitayningwutParticipantgefen –
Am i really well known here?
Sure, at least I think so 🙂
yitayningwutParticipantgefen –
Just ignore him, nothing will be gained from going back and forth like this. And btw you are well known here enough that no one would mistake you for a troll.
yitayningwutParticipantI apologize for coming on a little strong in my previous posts. I had a rough day and it showed. I’m sorry.
My opinion is still the same of course.
November 17, 2011 11:46 pm at 11:46 pm in reply to: School Busing on Thanksgiving in Lakewood #834768yitayningwutParticipantNope. Whether or not they work will have no effect on my life. Actually, I’d rather they not work. Lack of bus traffic is always a relief.
I’m just a very opinionated fellow.
November 17, 2011 10:12 pm at 10:12 pm in reply to: School Busing on Thanksgiving in Lakewood #834763yitayningwutParticipantI don’t agree. Civil rights are rights. To take off on a day that you signed up for is not a right. Not every time that someone whines do we have to give in. This is not called being sensitive, it is called being a pushover.
Again, my point is that this is part of the job, and we all knew Thanksgiving was going to happen when they took the route. Your example about your employee taking off for a wedding is not relevant therefore, because being that it is an unforeseen circumstance, I can see that it would be insensitive of you not to let them off. Thanksgiving is not an unforeseen circumstance. The ones being insensitive are the bus drivers, not the schools.
yitayningwutParticipantI agree. Unless the terms of my job stipulate that I have off those days.
yitayningwutParticipantIt is not a “gross lack of understanding and leadership, if not outright insult to the bus drivers” when this is part of the drivers’ contract. It is completely pathetic that people are being led down a guilt trip because of this.
November 17, 2011 7:05 pm at 7:05 pm in reply to: I havent eaten OU-D in years and I have a Teiva for it. #828131yitayningwutParticipantI agree with essy8 that the comment to GumBall was not nice.
GumBall, you might be a kid, but things can be just as hard for you as for grown-ups. Don’t listen to these grumps.
Lomed Mkol Adam –
Haven’t seen you around in a while. Welcome back!
yitayningwutParticipantIt’s not a question of sensitivity. They are required by law to work and they knew that when they took the job and bid for the district with the Jewish routes.
People should have a little shtultz and realize that these are a few whiners who think they are above the rules and enjoy the fact that they can exploit the Jews by putting us on a guilt trip and subtly reminding us that we are supposed to feel like second-class citizens.
And the comparison to civil rights is ignorant. There is Freedom of Religion in this country. As for a Jew being let off work for a Jewish holiday, if it was not stipulated beforehand I absolutely agree that he should not be let off work and his boss has a right to fire him. Or take a sick day or something. In this case it is part of the job description. So stop feeling guilty and have some shtultz.
November 17, 2011 3:45 am at 3:45 am in reply to: anyone know anything about Atlanta Jewish Community? #826968yitayningwutParticipantyitayningwutParticipant(???? YCT ????)
ROTFL
yitayningwutParticipant🙂
yitayningwutParticipantOneOfMany –
Lol, yup. See my post about halfway down on here:
http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/ive-got-a-twin-on-here-can-anyone-guess-who-it-is
yitayningwutParticipantmoishy –
It means to post a comment just for the sake of bumping the thread back up the list of “Latest Discussions.” Usually a person will just type in “bump” and post it.
yitayningwutParticipantvery shticky fellow
yitayningwutParticipantTell him it’s a cultural thing. What connects us is a common adherence to the same rules and practices. Beyond that it’s simply a cultural thing, if you come from one community you’ll dress one way and if you come from another you’ll dress differently.
yitayningwutParticipantlol
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