Dear RebYidd23,
I am not trying to argue with you. On the contrary, i am with you on this as well. I am not saying that this has to happen very often. What I am saying is that when a counselor wants to arrange something special with his/her bunk during the year every so often (like 2 to 4 times a year, or whatever a person feels comfortable with), parents should not stand in the way of letting this happen.