Sorry but my daughter was tossed out the semester before she graduated because she was seen with a guy, even though the guy was her brother. We were told, ‘we’ve been waiting for this for four years’. She managed to take the regents but not finish her Jewish studies. She wasn’t allowed to graduate with her friends and was denied a yearbook. This is not the way to mentor children, this is the way they crush their self esteem and turn them away from Torah values and Yiddishkeit.