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  • in reply to: Yom Hashoah, any thoughts? #944624
    yichusdik
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    DY – you wrote ” the Zionists theme of Kochi veotzem yodi” So you were indeed talking about Zionists rather than Zionism.

    But lets assume it was an honest error.

    I disagree completely, but I hear where you could look at Zionism from an angle that could be contrived to be described as Kochi… but even in the poetic dreamings of the early Zionists, it was a matter of will to accomplish in the future (for example, im tirzu, ein zo agada) , rather than “see what I have done” in the past, which is what Kochi is about. Once Zionism translated from an articulated dream into a reality that needed to be fought for, it is my opinion, derived from talking to the people who actually fought for it, that any vestige of Kochi…, if there even was one to begin with, went straight out the window as the miracles of Israel’s victories were revealed.

    I submit that it is simpler, more logical, and more in line with how Zionism is articulated today, and for several decades, if not most of a century, that for those Zionists who are not motivated as Religious Zionists are, it is much more a matter of “ein somchin al hanes, but we will embrace what is given,” than it is of Kochi…

    in reply to: Yom Hashoah, any thoughts? #944606
    yichusdik
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    DY, please, please disabuse yourself of the notion that Kochi veOtzem Yodi is a common belief among soldiers in the IDF or among even resisters in the shoah. Even the completely frei Bielski brothers valued the bits of Jewish education they could manage in their forest camps, and valued am yisroel more than themselves; and there are no atheists in the foxholes.

    I know hundreds of Israelis who have served in combat, religious and non religious, from the War of Independence until now – including my grandmother’s late cousin and his late wife, zichronom livrochoh, frum Jews all their life who served in the Haganah. I’ve never heard any of them describe their own valour in those terms. not once. I’ve heard them talk about nisim. I’ve heard them talk about HKBH’s help. I’ve heard them talk about the heroism and sacrifice of their brothers in arms. I’ve read their books and articles, I’ve seen them on film. Not ever, not once have I heard kochi veotzem yodi. I bet you haven’t either, except perhaps as described by someone who wanted to convince you that “di andere” are self centered morons blinded by their own sense of invincibility.

    You make an assertion. Maybe its just conditioning. Maybe its reflexive. I’ll be dan lekaf zchus and assume it isn’t malevolent. But it is simply and utterly in grave error.

    in reply to: Yom Hashoah, any thoughts? #944598
    yichusdik
    Participant

    Gavra, watch the video.

    in reply to: Yom Hashoah, any thoughts? #944588
    yichusdik
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    Two thoughts about Yom Hashoah VeHagvurah.

    As someone mentioned, this part of the year was chosen as it is at this time that the Warsaw Ghetto Uprising occurred. As the day commemorates not only the dead but the resistance – and gevurah took many forms, both spiritual (like those who celebrated pesach in the last days of the Warsaw Ghetto) and physical (like those who finally came together from all streams to fight the Germans off for a few days and weeks in 1943). If nothing else, this is the rationale for the timing, and anyone who spreads the falsehood that it is in Nisan dafka lehachis will need to give din vecheshbon to HKBH for their lies.

    ANd the whole hue and cry about Yom Hashoah dispossessing TIsha BeAv, or dishonouring the celebratory month of Nisan is a straw man, pure and simple.

    Did someone tell you to say kinos? Ovinu Malkeinu? Slichos?

    Did someone tell you dafka to say Tachanun if you aren’t?

    Did someone order you to give an individual Hespid?

    Did someone ask you to establish a fast day?

    Yeah, I didn’t think so.

    The reason it is rejected by the chareidi world is simple.

    Fear.

    Fear of the consequences of recognizing national responsibilities and national observances. That would mean that other Jews actually had a legitimate voice…in anything. Indeed, something to fear.

    The second thought.

    Even if one disagrees with my first point, the display of disregard for the sensitivities of the hamon am by dozens of chareidi yeshiva bochurim and kolleleit and their families in Sacher Park in Yerushalayim the other night, and the rationalizations given by those interviewed is disgusting, and indicates that whoever educated these people failed to introduce them to simple menschlichkeit. And yes, I know some will say – but “they” don’t care about our sensitivities! Well, if you don’t expect more from yourselves, how can you maintain your certainty of superior observance of mitzvos – especially of Hillel’s cardinal one?

    in reply to: Is Israel bent on losing their protection? #943501
    yichusdik
    Participant

    Health, read the whole post, don’t cherry pick. It isn’t becoming of you to imply the opposite of what I wrote. Its also an immature way to debate. I said the idea that since an increasing number of yidden were learning as the number of those killed by terrorism was increasing, by your causality link, we should infer that there was a direct correlation. I then wrote that the idea was preposterous, just as preposterous as your reading the entrails…

    in reply to: Is Israel bent on losing their protection? #943494
    yichusdik
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    I agree with Daas Yochid that undoubtedly there is more learning now than in pre war Europe. And as many, including R’ Shach z’l recognized, much of that is due to the establishment of the medina.

    Though the numbers weren’t tiny, and as Alan Dershowitz recounts in his book “Chutzpah” seeing a damaged gemoro in one of his trips to Poland with the label “property of the wagon drivers learning society”, many working people, everyday Jews, who weren’t learning in Kollel, and were working hard every day, were kovewah itim leTorah. There was much learning going on, and the concept of doing it to the exclusion of working – for the masses – is an entirely new concept.

    Maybe I should quote the chasam sofer here? If chodosh osur min hatorah, then…..

    in reply to: Is Israel bent on losing their protection? #943491
    yichusdik
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    Seems one can always learn new things. As an einikle of the Tosafos Yom Tov, I had learned of the connection and the mi sheberach of course; but having done a bit of research, I found an interesting concept, that The Chasam Sofer in Toras Moshe on Purim, as well as the Yismach Moshe on Perek Tes of the the Megillah quote a sefer She’eris Yisroel that the large Tav and Ches in the Megillah are a siman that the punishments that were supposed to be during the times of Purim for the various aveiras were postponed until TaCH v’Tat 1648.

    I don’t know if one would call that reverse or delayed causality, but I do know that I’d have more bitochon on the Tosfos Yom Tov’s capacity to infer causality than on myself or any of you, or any contemporary theorizer, for that matter.

    in reply to: Is Israel bent on losing their protection? #943457
    yichusdik
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    akuperma, you should get out more. Most Israelis believe that their country was founded as a place they could be free from persecution by umos haolom, and free to practice Torah umitzvos if they so choose.

    Most Israelis see and understand the miracles that HKBH has showered upon Israel since its inception.

    Most Israelis respect the “frummies” who see kedusha in the medinah because those “frummies” most often serve in the IDF alongside them.

    Those “frummies” make up almost 40% of the officer corps in Israel’s Combat brigades. That kind of position is earned and respected, and not given to those who are hated.

    In short, akuperma, you are building and burning a straw man. have fun, but don’t singe your tzitzis.

    in reply to: Is Israel bent on losing their protection? #943455
    yichusdik
    Participant

    Health: As the numbers of CHareidim learning in Yeshivos in Israel rose in the early 2000’s, so too the number of Jews being killed by suicide bombings, shootings, stonings, and other terror attacks also rose. I don’t need to remind you. We all know the truth. Over 1000 killed, over 6000 injured. Among the victims were charedim and chilonim, men and women, Rabbis and rock musicians, doctors and students.

    If you really want to go down the road of causality you are implying, then I guess that we should all infer that because more Jews began learning in Chareidi institutions, more Jews were torn to shreds, murdered, blown up.

    The idea is preposterous, of course, as is your arrogation of ruach hakodesh – or reading of tea leaves – to determine the causality of the recent rocket attacks.

    More Jews than ever in history are learning torah, tens if not hundreds of thousands of them over the years directly funded and subsidized by the secular Israeli government. That, from a causality POV, earns a lot of schar in HKBH’s protection.

    Do you really think or know that HKBH is a “yeah, but what have you done for me lately?” kind of diety?

    And do you ever talk to IDF soldiers, or leaders? I do. I have. The idea of kochi veotzem yodi is very far from their expression, and many of them acknowledge the nisim gluyim we’ve seen over the last number of years.

    I have to agree with charliehall – you’ve come up with some really out there ideas before, but this one takes the cake.

    in reply to: Future of Israel's Orthodox Jews #941305
    yichusdik
    Participant

    Ah, Popa, us contortionists love a good workout.

    But I must beg to differ. I am a Zionist observant Jew, no more or less, not a “religious zionist” I am not beholden to this “camp” or that “camp”. I am also not blind, so forgive me for seeing the ikveso demeshicho (not just in the medina, but well before) as HKBH intends for those with open eyes to see.

    It’s pretty simple to me, actually. It is who I am, its in my yichus, in the teaching of my parents and grandparents and greatgrandparents (including the one – among many others – who davened at the Mizrachi shul in Krakow in shtreimel and bekeshe), its in the old yishuv in yerushalayim where my grandfather was born, its in the yeshiva in chevron where my great uncle’s classmates were murdered. Its in the bases where my cousins are serving, its in the yeshivos they learned in first. Its in sefer Yirmiyahu. Its in the botei knesios at Katzrin and Masada.

    In fact, the only thing I need to contort my brain to figure out is how you can be so obtuse about it. But in a very endearing way, of course.

    in reply to: Future of Israel's Orthodox Jews #941292
    yichusdik
    Participant

    The future of Israel’s Orthodox Jews? Strong!

    How do I know? The answer is in Acco. In a fortress that used to be a British prison.

    In that fortress, there is a museum dedicated to those who gave their lives there al kiddush hashem for Am Yisroel and Eretz Yisroel. And in that museum, there is a pair of tfilin. They belonged to Dov Groner. Groner was executed by the British for his activities in the Irgun. He was and is an inspiration to generations of Israelis. He was a yeshiva educated frum Jew.

    He wasn’t ordered to leave a yeshiva, and he didn’t stop learning. He recognized his responsibility as a Jew in a Jewish land and he fought as well as learned.

    He lived and died for the future of Am Yisroel.

    The Israel that he helped to create has seen the most incredible expansion of Torah learning in the History of Am yisroel. Much of that has been subsidized by the state. A state interested in shmad doesn’t “waste” its precious resources on something it does not value.

    The Israel he helped create has yeshivos where talmidim and kollel learners reach heights of dveykus and amilus in Torah learning, and then get in a tank or a jeep and protect Jewish lives. They aren’t in bnei brak. they are in Maalot, Maaleh Adumim, Ashdod, Gush Etzion, and all over the country. A state interested in subjugating and persecuting Torah learners doesn’t train them to arms they may take up against their “persecution”.

    The Israel he helped create has had Prime Ministers who every motzei shabbos for decades brought the leading scholars from all fields together to study Torah in their households. A state interested in shmad isn’t led by those who value Torah.

    The Israel he helped create has members of Knesset who learn gemoro from the podium of the knesset chamber, and who establish shiurim weekly for the MK’s to be inspired by Torah. Decades of chareidi politicians never did this. It took a woman, from a party being accused of shmad, to bring more holiness to the manhigut of the country.

    The future is bright for those who actually care about the future, and who can think beyond their entitlements. It is an egregious, yet smug and self satisfying lie to insist that those who do not wear a particular levush or follow a particular hashkafic approach are not “frum”, are not “orthodox”.

    For the first time in almost 2000 years we can think as a nation and take up once again the responsibilities we have as a nation. For centuries we had no outlet for this aspect of our existence but now we do. It is the opportunity we have to demonstrate to the eibishter that we can be a complete people, not a collection of individuals doing individual mitzvos. That requires both more responsibility and more ahavas achim than many are used to. Israel is the place and now is the time to show HKBH what we can be.

    We can turn away from the challenge, turn inwards, if we choose to shut out the rest of the orthodox world who are moving towards that future. But if so, we should never again falsely claim that we look forward to the geulah. We will have refused to recognize its birth pangs. We will have made our insularity a liability.

    We are all, chareidi, dati, secular, all of us, better than that.

    May we all be zocheh to a complete geulah bimhero biyomenu. Chag kosher vesomeyach, everyone.

    in reply to: To the Parents of Teens #939449
    yichusdik
    Participant

    Aproudbyg, I concur with those who have asked youto report or to seek assistance from OHEL or a similar group. THis is abuse, and your mom has serious problems, even if you think they are tolerable or under control.

    However, if you are determined not to advise police or seek assistance beyond this forum’s advice, I urge you to document EVERYTHING. Write down what happens, when it happens, and if you have a bruise ch’v or worse or ripped clothing, take a photo. If you can record a violent incident with your phone, even if only audio, do it. B

    But this is only back up. it isn’t a substitute for seeking help, which I again urge you to do. If you only described one incident with your mom, I’d concur that anyone can have bad judgement and a bad day. But what you describe is systemic, and aside from the danger to you and the ongoing psychological damage you are receiving, you are also enabling her to continue her unacceptable behaviours. Please consider an outside agency or the police.

    in reply to: Chareidi Draft #939209
    yichusdik
    Participant

    Troll.

    While I believe that opposition to National Service if IDF is not palatable is wrong, I’d not make the blanket statement that “learning all day is very easy.” That is a provocation, and even though I disagree with the rejection of “share the burden”, I recognize that it isn’t an easy life that kollel learners choose.

    Herzl was many things. A unifying, national/religious/military/social leader of a nation such as a Moshiach will be is well beyond his limitations.

    There’s enough vikuach here. no need to add to it.

    in reply to: Rabbi Chaim Druckman #938498
    yichusdik
    Participant

    Truthsharer, I wasn’t edited. I chose not to post his name, because the issue is bigger than one Rabbi on this side or on that side. The issue to me is the attitude of our oilem – too often criticiszing those deemed inferior in their yiddishkeit when the same or even worse problems are at our own doorstep.

    It is this expressed attitude by too many among the “ehrliche”

    community that turns those presumed to be allies away from partnership with chareidim.

    in reply to: Rabbi Chaim Druckman #938495
    yichusdik
    Participant

    I have to be modeh that there is information here about R’ Druckman that if accurate may change my perspective on his conversions.

    But for those who condemn R’ Druckman while holding up the clean hands of the ehrliche community, I must remind you of the “work” of the EJF, of a particular (former) Rosh Yeshiva in Monsey and his issues with giyur, and the significant support he received for a long time from many authorities in the community.

    As I’ve said with regard to many issues here – no one is perfect, and we all have our hishtadlus to do, from great to small.

    in reply to: Rabonim Crusade Against Sushi #938617
    yichusdik
    Participant

    Not a yiddishe maichel – I guess cholopches are out, since they are ukranian. And blintzes, since the Russinas were making blini before we got there. The Scots were making kishke before we were exiled from Eretz Yisroel.

    In fact, most of what is considered Jewish food by non sefardim is simply a reinvention of local east european dishes with all the treif elements removed.

    One exception is cholent, which is likely derived from sefardi and mizrachi chamim, but which is common to other cultures as well.

    The obvious question is, how come the same authorities who claim sushi is not a yiddishe maichel aren’t insisting on reintroducing dishes that Jews in Spain (where most European Jews ultimately came from, on their way through West, Central, and Eastern Europe)

    would have eaten, and which their descendants from Italy, Greece, Morroco and Turkey still eat. This cuisine was as much if not more Jewish – because like all Mediterranean cuisines including that of eretz yisroel, it shared certain complex carbs, more fresh vegetables, more fish, and less heavy proteins than Eastern European food.

    This is not to say I am an advocate of one way or the other, but the obvious and inherent contradiction begs the question.

    in reply to: Kosher L'Pesach Cigarettes: Is Something Wrong With This? #938068
    yichusdik
    Participant

    Yup, Health, Chesed. Because when Rabonim in the Kashrus business get up in the morning, and think about how to apply their expertise for the benefit of klal yisroel (Assuming that this hechsher isn’t about making a buck) they immediately think about how they can do so while permitting people to shorten their own lives, put an increased burden on the health care system (and hence on everyone paying for it through taxes) and make it increasingly unlikely that they will be around to play with their grandchildren, chas vesholom. Yup, sounds like the thought process of reasonable, rational, rabonim.

    Seriously?

    in reply to: Kosher L'Pesach Cigarettes: Is Something Wrong With This? #938058
    yichusdik
    Participant

    Health, precisely my point. We know there is a minority opinion permitting smoking, which is shrinking by the year. We know there are people who are looking for chumras to apply to themselves. What I didn’t know, perhaps naively, was that there was ANY halachic authority who would leverage these realities to, as you put it, “make a quick buck”. That kind of thinking and acting is, or should be, michutz lamachane. It is beneath the dignity of Torah and of anyone purporting to be a halachic authority. Forest for the trees.

    When the xtians condemned us as pharisees who would twist “the law” through legalisms to make the obviously immoral halachically viable, I spent considerable time in anti-missionary work disputing that assertion, among other falsehoods. Reading about this, I am not so sure they were 100% wrong. Every lie has a grain of truth from which it grows. This hechsher is a crying shame.

    in reply to: Everyone Must Answer: Your Favorite Song #1032843
    yichusdik
    Participant

    Mine is ” A tzemishte tzeva fun choiref” by Feivish Simon and Aryeh Garfunkel.

    in reply to: Rabonim Crusade Against Sushi #938547
    yichusdik
    Participant

    VY, Just an observation. The use of the term “crusade” in any Jewish context is way more out of place than the consumption of sushi.

    in reply to: What To Do When You Lose A Political Battle #936009
    yichusdik
    Participant

    About Time, if you want to bash Lapid, be my guest, but do it on another thread please.

    As I said, I’m not trying to convince anyone about Lapid’s motivation, and frankly, it really doesn’t matter to the issue at hand – how can the Chareidi community mobilize enough support for its needs and perspectives for a plurality of voters to support those needs and tolerate those perspectives? I can read Yisrael Hayom too, and Chaim Shine is a card carrying likudnik who voted in their primaries and has an agenda, as he is perfectly entitled to – but he doesn’t come to the criticism of Yesh Atid with objectivity.

    If you want to change or drive policy, you won’t do it by reciting everything you think is reprehensible about those who won the battle. You will do it by preparing wisely for the next battle, and enlisting support from beyond your daled amos. You won’t do that by denigrating the dati leumi, or by considering the secular less worthy of HKBH’s love.

    in reply to: What To Do When You Lose A Political Battle #936002
    yichusdik
    Participant

    Bentch, in re-reading your post I realized that there is a fundamental disconnect in perception here. I and many others, don’t think Yesh Atid is necessarily anti-Torah, though it may be anti-Chareidi. It is the assumption that political disagreement with Chareidi parties or entitlements is by definition anti-Torah that has disengaged the rest of the religious/dati community in Israel politically from the Chareidim this time around. It is also the fundamental lack of respect or recognition of the value of the yiddishkeit of those outside of the Chareidi world that has disengaged this group from the Chareidim. I saw a short interview of Rav Chaim Druckman today, and when asked about the idea of a boycott of Chareidim in Bayit Yehudi forming a government, he said this.

    [brotherly love within the Jewish world] [Avraham Yitzhak Hacohen] Kook? I mean, this is a total boycott, all of the time.”

    He goes on to talk about the fact that when Rabonim and Roshei Yeshiva from the dati leumi world are referred to in many Chareidi publications or on the radio, they won’t use the term Rav or Rabbi. So its not the dati boycotting the Chareidi, it has been a chareidi boycott of the dati for a long time.

    This is why I am saying that the Chareidi veld, if it wants to accomplish anything practical, needs to make a cheshbon about how and why it is alienating its natural allies, let alone not engaging the non frum in any positive way, even if there are those who are inclined against them among these.

    in reply to: What To Do When You Lose A Political Battle #935998
    yichusdik
    Participant

    Bentch – granted. But they seem to have lost the political battle in that the rest of the electorate beyond their votes/seats doesn’t buy in to their narrative.

    in reply to: SHMAD! #935727
    yichusdik
    Participant

    But of course, any property tax or arnona exemptions that their yeshivos (the ones in Israel) might have should be continued (and yes, institutions get exemptions from local taxes that business and private individuals have to pay), even though they are from the government perpetrating the shmad; any subsidies they might get from the shmad government for utilities consumption, infrastructure upgrades, repair and upkeep of public access, and any other exemption or subsidy obtained from the government should be continued, because everyone is entitled, right? No moral quandary there.

    in reply to: Facebook Is To Blame For Rising Orthodox Jewish Divorce Rate? #935228
    yichusdik
    Participant

    In the Megila we just read, Mordechai tells Esther that if she doesn’t step up and seek an audience with Achashverosh, salvation of the Jewish people will come from somewhere else.

    I think that the corrolary is also true. If a person with taivos or character flaws uses facebook, they will possibly, even likely exploit it for aveiros, and that may lead to divorce. But truly, if facebook didn’t exist, the taivos and the flaws still would, and the person would use another avenue to transgress.

    in reply to: Pesach Done Affordably #932798
    yichusdik
    Participant

    RebDoniel: As much as I empathize with your ap[proach and your post, and am familiar with many of the products you bring up, and as much as I am not a chumra shopper, when it comes to Pesach, I think that it must be remembered that the reason there is so much “over the top” stricture is that the issur is on a kol shehu, and larger amounts or possibilities only affect the onesh, not the issur. So in observing one of the first mitzvos given to am Yisroel, many people will justifiably put themselves as far as possible from transgression.

    I am skeptical of R’ Maroof’s allowing the use of cereals, for example. Are these on their own product line, and to what standard are the processing machinery cleaned? What is used to clean and lubricate them? What might fall under botel b’shishim for kashrus purposes doesn’t cut it for Pesach.

    This is one example.

    Though there are many things in your post that are good ideas, I would revisit some of the others as insufficiently certain for most of the readers here.

    in reply to: Israeli Supreme Court #929256
    yichusdik
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    I’ve done some research, and every supreme court from the US to the UK, from Canada to Japan, and every democracy in between, is appointed, either by the cabinet, the PM/President, or the constitutional monarch. Increased democracy in the middle east – has given the muslim brotherhood the opportunity for a one man one vote one time hegemony where it has come to power. I’ll take the freedom of western liberal democracy – with all of its flaws – over that every time.

    Your perspective, moreover, is ironically quite anti democratic. Having failed to persuade the electorate that being torah observant is in their best interest, and the way to demonstrate that is to vote for Shas or Yahadut Hatorah, you now want to restrict the appointed judiciary to toe your party line even though you have failed democratically in the legislative branch.

    Would you have a re appointment every time there is an election? in Israel’s case, that wouldn’t even be long enough to deliberate on a single complicated case, in some situations. totally unrealistic.

    Regarding Emanuel, according to Sefardi chareidim, the court did the right thing, and I agree with them.

    Don’t get me wrong, I am not happy with the liberal slant of the supreme court either. But I guess I understand the dynamics of a democracy and the division of powers within it enough to realize that to change it you have to influence those who make the appointment.

    in reply to: Who Is Really On Welfare? Basic Hashkafa! #927893
    yichusdik
    Participant

    Confucious – “no doubt” you write. But you don’t know. I suggest you actually read some of Haj Amin’s words. Do the research before you talk. I have. Maybe read transcripts of his broadcasts from Nazi Germany. Maybe read some of the interviews he did with Collins and LaPierre in O Jerusalem. Maybe read about the passage in the muslim Hadith he often quoted which talks about the muslim mahdi not coming until every Jew is murdered, when even the Gharkad tree, according to muslim tradition a “tree” which loves the Jews, will say “O muslim, there is a Jew behind me, come and kill him!”

    So, were there Zionists in the time the hadith were were written and transcribed? In the 9th century CE?

    Do some research before you respond.

    in reply to: Yair Lapid to Chareidim- you won #927493
    yichusdik
    Participant

    The ignorance of basic economic and political realities here is truly astounding.

    First – I live in a country with socialized medicine. It is paid for not only through basic income taxes but also through a surcharge based on salary. So someone who is deliberately not reaching a threshold for income tax is not paying for their medical coverage. Believe it or not, Israel is not the only place where such imbalances exist, nor the only place where they are remarked upon. The rational argument is that IF a person is incapable of supporting the system, the society has a responsibility to sustain him. But IF a person has the capacity to earn and support the system that funds his medical care, but chooses not to – for whatever reason, then the rest of society will see this as an inequity.

    As well, many here have remarked that University students get many of the same subsidies as those learning full time. What they conveniently forget when they make that argument, is that nearly all those in University have completed their military or national service before setting foot in the university or being eligible for subsidies (an exception is made for students in special programs for technical positions in the IDF, where the students go to university first and bring to bear their engineering or other skills when they enter the IDF immediately after graduation. They usually consent to serve an extra year. At Machon Lev, in Yerushalayim, there are a number of students doing this, Learning in the Beis Medrash in the morning and studying engineering in the afternoon/evening, and then entering the IDF. Machon Lev/JCT is a wonderful example, and it also has Chareidi oriented non IDF engineering programs for men and women). Since these students have completed their service, and are then eligible, they wonder why others are eligible without service.

    I’ve mentioned before that those things never discussed that enter into the discussion include intangibles, like government subsidies for corporations that employ Chareidim and others in high tech, or in underdeveloped parts of the country. Yes, the government would do it anyways, but the tax breaks or other incentives ultimately cost money that comes from taxpayers. If people are deliberately keeping themselves under the income tax threshhold, they are not carrying a proportionate share of the economic burden.

    It goes without saying that legislation enacted more than 60 years ago to address the reality at the time cannot be held up as eternal law. Governments come and go, and their decisions in all democracies change. It is a wonder it lasted this long. Shall postage cost the same now as in 1948 because the government determined it cost 2 agorot at the time? Should malls and markets in Israel not have metal detectors and security guards because they didn’t have them in 1948? The idea is ludicrous, as is the insistence on Ben Gurion’s writ being extended leolom voed.

    Finally, I don’t disagree with the concept that Torah learning provides an incalculably valuable service for every resident and citizen of Israel. It makes sense to me. The problem is, I don’t need to be convinced, the electorate does. Israel is a democracy, and in a democracy, you have to convince people to support your position, and vote for it. It is the height of arrogance to assume people will accept your dictate, as if you are a paragon of virtue, probity, and perfection, instead of being, like I am, a Jew who tries to do what Hashem wants and more often than not doesn’t fully succeed. To do this the people of Israel have to be brought to a love of Torah, regardless of whether they are Zionist, anti Zionist, leftist, rightist, centrist, secular traditional, atheist, or anarchist. If you want their vote, you have to do a better job of getting them to love Torah, because right now, its not working. If they don’t love Torah, then you have lost.

    in reply to: Who Is Really On Welfare? Basic Hashkafa! #927866
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    Toi, regarding Chevron – I have a bit of a connection and so know a bit about it. My Great uncle was a talmid there at the time, and he happened to be sick the weekend of the massacre, at home with his family in Yerushalayim. His fellow students were murdered.

    There is clear, testimonial and documentary evidence that the Chevron Massacre was incited and initiated as part of a campaign by Haj Amin Al Husseini, Grand Mufti of Jerusalem, and perhaps the most anti-Semitic Arab leader in history. He was a Jew hater before he was against Zionists. He spent the War in Berlin as a guest of Hitler (Y’SH) and personally mobilized the SS Bosnian Muslim Division. His rhetoric is filled with Jew hatred. He hired Nazi fugitives to train and lead Muslim irregulars after the war.

    in reply to: Rabbi Chaim Druckman #938461
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    gavra, without the levush, the bnei brak address, the political expediency, and the opposition to the State, he’ll always be just another MO or Dati Zioni hack who doesn’t rate the time of day nor the respect of lomdus from posters such as you just received a response from.

    In the R’Mintz/R’Margoliyus feud hundreds of years ago over inyonim regarding marriage and divorce – no less critical to the status of the Jewish people than conversion, it was the Rabonim themselves who leveled their criticisms. No tom, dick or chayim had the chutzpah to put down a learned Rov, privately or publicly. Apparently, masseh ovos isn’t a simon levonim anymore.

    R’ Druckman and Rav Avior who but the beis din for giyur together ( I’ve met Rav Druckman and I know Rav Avior) are not my personal cup of tea, either politically or religiously. But their Torah knowledge is evident and well known, and their decisions were founded on halachic bases which you or I may or may not agree with, but which nonetheless exist.

    in reply to: Cars deserve skeelah #926238
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    TLIK, having grown up in an Agudah neighborhood next to a freeway, I know exactly what you mean. I agree that especially in Israel, it is just as insensitive for drivers to make noise in residential areas, frum or not, as it is for protesters to wake everyone with their protests. But I do expect those who purport to live a torah lifestyle to actually follow such strictures as against gezel sheinah more than I do those who are ignorant of the halocho and have only their (apparently lacking) common sense to go by as they drive and honk.

    in reply to: Cars deserve skeelah #926231
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    Confucious, maybe they don’t want frum people in their neighborhood because they don’t want rocks thrown at them… And considering that they are Jews, and that they send their sons to risk their lives to defend Jews, you have some nerve calling them anti Semites.

    I remember my first visit to Israel as a teenager. I was staying at a family friend’s apartment on Rechov Hillel in Yerushalayim. After a very busy few days, an exhilarating first Shabbos experience at the Kotel, and a long walk all I wanted to do was sleep. I lay down in my bed that Friday night, a frum Jew in awe of where he was, and all I could hear for the next four hours was cries of “Shabbes, Shabbes” and “Shaigetz, Shaigetz” from a crowd of at least 20-30 chareidi men on the street below, yelling at cars. This was in the mid eighties; this was not in or near geula or meah shearim, or any other chareidi neighborhood, it was on Hillel a block from Hamelech George.

    Never mind the stones, the chilul hashem, the lack of sense in being mekarev instead of merachek; that was pure gezel sheina by any definition, for anyone in a two block radius, it was a ruinous way to start a shabbos and a visit to eretz Yisroel.

    150 years ago, in Galicia, at least, if someone went out of the geder of the kehila, went to work on shabbes, sent his kids to a gymnasia instead of cheder, they may have been ignored or shunned, but no one attacked them violently. No one threw stones at them. No one spat at them in public. No one was mechallel shabbes to prove a point…about shabbes. So, COnfucious, where is your mesorah that this is OK behaviour?

    in reply to: Yair Lapid to Chareidim- you won #927444
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    I’m sorry, plonis, you pay $120 per month per kid, or you send your girls to BY for free and you think that isn’t subsidized? Who do you think funds the school for the balance of the cost of educating your children?

    There’s another element which doesn’t apply to you, plonis, but affects you nonetheless. That is the (few I hope, but the number isn’t 0, r’l) kollelim – if that is what they can be called – who are scamming the govt, and collecting funds for people who don’t exist or who are not learning or learning in other institutions. There were a number of these raided last year in Yerushalayim. Every dollar that goes to one of these (few) dishonest places both comes out of the pocket of the taxpayer – including any chareidi taxpayers – and either doesn’t fund chareidi education as it is supposed to or duplicates funding already in place.

    in reply to: This may sound like a crazy question but I'm serious… #941870
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    OverPopalation? Can’t be. Never enough Popa.

    in reply to: Yair Lapid to Chareidim- you won #927408
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    Daas Yochid, you may be right; he may be a wolf in sheep’s clothing. But I don’t see it. You want to call him misguided, or well intentioned but missing the point in a dangerous way, well I don’t agree but it’s a logical understanding of his approach. If he was as full of hate as his father, he would never put two Rabbis in his slate (including his #2), even if they are Rabbis who you may not regard highly. If he was into giving a shtoch, those Rabbis would be conservative and reform “Rabbis”, but they are not, they are dati tzioni and chardal.

    If you look at his historical analysis, It seems clear to me that he took the rhetorical approach of a socio-historical dialectic in his speech, and not a simple historical approach. Not surprised he’s drawing the conclusions he does within the context of the point he’s trying to make. Happens a lot when politicians play with history.

    And unfortunately, the definition of “chodosh” is entirely arbitrary and entirely in the hands of those who asser it for themselves, so it undermines his argument less than it does the consistency of those who define themselves by the Chasam Sofer’s perspective.

    in reply to: Yair Lapid to Chareidim- you won #927380
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    Of course – default Judaism. Of course we were wearing shtraamele and bekeshe at Maamad Har Sinai.

    Of course, there was no one in the field to leave leket and peah which are mitzvos deoraiso because everyone was in beis medresh learning.

    Of course, the same default Judaism – oblivious of the fact, for example, of the takonos of Rabeinu Gershom. No multiple wives – Excellent takonoh – NOT from maamad Har Sinai.

    Th truth is, this Lapid may indeed be “worse” than his father, because his father was consumed by his distaste for chareidm and all frum Jews, whereas this Lapid isn’t so easy to pigeonhole as a hatemonger, because he isn’t. He is more interested in effective solutions to what he sees as problems than he is in simply making public mockery like his father did. That makes him more dangerous to the status quo than his father ever was.

    If you really want to put your head in the sand, I suppose you could ignore him. But he isn’t going away anytime soon. In his speech, I saw many things where reasonable compromise could work without compromising halocho. maybe that’s a starting point.

    in reply to: Toronto? #924162
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    RT, I have seen this too, but it is a small proportion moving south (where property prices are very high) and in the Bathurst & Sheppard area, which is more affordable, there’s a lack of Jewish infrastructure that you would find both south and north of there. So unless that changes, the growth there will be limited too.

    in reply to: Toronto? #924159
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    OK, Toi, I concede, but the only time I can think of saying it with a “ch” is if I had something in my mouth at the time. In any case, considering where the frum population of the city is slowly moving, More people will be talking about living in or going to Thornhill than in Toronto anyways. Most recent stats show Thornhill (Vaughan), Thornhill (Markham) and Richmond Hill have between 50,000 and 60,000 Jews. That’s out of a Greater Toronto Area of about 195,000. And many, especially in Thornhill (Vaughan), are, as you know, frum.

    in reply to: Toronto? #924156
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    Second “t” is usually dropped. No one Pronounces the first “T” as “ch”.

    in reply to: Israel election: it doesn't look good #935131
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    LKY – yes. Including two journalists @ the Post, actually, among others.

    in reply to: Israel election: it doesn't look good #935127
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    I wanted to add that the latest “informed” speculation coming from friends in the press in Israel is that Bibi wants a very broad coalition so no single party leaving could topple the govt. On that premise, I expect he and Lapid will agree to include Shas along with the parties I mentioned above (assuming Shas agrees to some concessions on “sharing the burden”), but exclude Degel Hatorah. But who knows, really?

    in reply to: Israel election: it doesn't look good #935125
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    I agree with Health. I’ve heard him speak as well, and he doesn’t come across as a fantasist. And I think he has said he wants to end Chareidi, not Orthodox monopoly. He does wish to introduce more of a cross section of Orthodox Rabanim into the Rabanut, and there are plenty of talmidei chachomim who fit that bill, which while eroding chareidi monopolies in some areas, maintains a Torah standard. He may not be a friend of the religious, but I don’t think he cares to make himself an enemy, though that might be pinned on him by others.

    Any responsible family checks yichus on its own in any case, so introducing “civil” marriages for the circumstances Health outlined may not be as damaging as you think.

    The danger for chareidi parties is that they may have backed themselves into a corner by putting their red lines out there very early. Now Bibi can create a solid center-right coalition of 68 between Yesh Atid, Likud Beitenu, Yisrael Beitenu, Hatnua, and maybe Kadima’s 2. If you were a politician in his shoes, wouldn’t you rather meet the demands of 3 or 4 partners rather than 6 or 7? Where does that leave Shas, and where does it leave Degel? Sitting with Shelly and Zehava in opposition, I think, and that’s not a good place to be when every other party except the Arabs thinks differently about “sharing the burden”.

    in reply to: English is Absent and Math Doesn't Count at Brooklyn's Biggest Yeshivas #924926
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    Though my good friend Health may think I am all about “cursing out” chareidim, I think they may have ground upon which to stand in this argument.

    First, let us distinguish between the actions of private schools that receive government funding on condition of meeting certain benchmarks, and those who do not receive such conditional funds. On that score, whether in Israel or here, if teaching secular subjects is a condition of funding, fulfill the obligation or don’t take the money.

    On the other hand, if chareidi yeshivos are not taking public funds on condition, then they – the parents of the children – can decide what kind of education they are willing to pay for, and donors to these institutions can decide what kind of education they want to support. When government funds aren’t involved, and when donors are free to choose as they see fit who they will support, it seems to me it is up to the parents. If they don’t see a need for English and Math, so be it.

    Now, personally, I choose a different derech. I recognize that such subjects are useful, and serve a purpose, but if taxpayer funds aren’t being used, I don’t feel right telling others how to parent or teach.

    Note – my support for privately funded chareidi schools teaching how and what they wish comes from my closely held belief in not telling others what to do outside of the publicly funded realm.

    Oh, the irony of tolerance.

    in reply to: Jewish Summer program in Israel #925041
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    I highly recommend that you speak to your local NCSY regional office. If you post what part of the country you are in (not a specific city even, just like midwest, west coast, atlantic seabord, etc., I will get you the contact person. NCSY sends many dozens of kids as you describe to seminaries and yeshivos with scholarships every year.

    in reply to: The Webberman Verdict #923120
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    Litvishe KY, I do have tremendous respect for not only the women of Satmar, but the many men who suport their chesed and do their own.

    Weberman’s crimes are his own.

    The only problems I have with Satmar regarding this case are the perjurious testimony regarding Tznius committees, the rush to judgement on the girl (at least Weberman had a trial before he was found guilty) and the lockstep denial of even a hint of wrongdoing.

    You want to castigate me, go ahead. I consider the source when I read comments here.

    Oh, and Ben Levi, how do you know? Al Tarbeh Sichoh doesn’t apply to you? You’ve been interviewing?

    in reply to: The Webberman Verdict #923105
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    Maybe we should ask the incredible women of Satmar who perform tremendous acts of Chesed in Hospitals every day what they think of Weberman, his locks, his trips, his “charitable organization”, and most importantly about his interactions with this young woman and the other(s) who have spoken up.

    Of course, anyone asking them would need to guarantee their anonymity, because the vengeful pushback by the establishment(s) in their communities would certainly scare them off of going on the record.

    Many of these holy women of Satmar have encountered female victims of all kinds of situations in the process of doing their incredible acts of kindness. I’d likely trust their judgement and their experience before I’d trust the deniers here. I wonder indeed what they would say if they could do so without fear of repercussions.

    Yes I think Weberman did what he is accused of. Do I think 103 years is excessive? Probably, Yes, it is. I think it is about 3 times longer than it should have been.

    SInce we don’t have a sanhedrin, we don’t operate under halachic courts on criminal matters at the moment, and we are bound by dina demalchsa dina as the USA is not an arbitrary and cruel government, Indeed the case was adjudicated as any other would be, testimony was given, evidence (as determined by the statute and by the judge, not by you or me) was given, and a verdict was returned. It isn’t an injustice simply because you disagree with it.

    And just so no one makes the usual “you hate satmar” comments, I have described my tremendous respect for satmar chesed above; and I note that today an MO teacher in NJ pleaded guilty to similar type of crimes, and faces life in prison. The case was built in the normal way, as the weberman one was, and the guilty party will pay for his crime.

    in reply to: Racism and Chinuch: What do we teach our children about diversity? #929178
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    Haleivi, from Sushee’s perspective, that support of Israel probably makes him an anti-Semite.

    In general, racism is not only stupidity, it can lead to halachic violations very quickly. A Jew is a Jew, either from his mother’s status or from a halachic conversion. Full stop. So if there is a black or asian or hispanic individual who converts and becomes part of the community (I know many such, including the wife of a nephew of the Sepharadi Av Beis Din where I live), he is a complete Jew. To hold any racists thoughts about his skin colour or background at that point is an issur on many levels, including not hating your brother in your heart and in violation of veohavto loreacho komocho, among others.

    On the other hand, Jews are distinctive, are responsible first and foremost for each other before non Jews, and endowed by HKBH with obvious gifts (as well as obvious challenges). Jews have been chosen – not because of their racial characteristics, but because of their special repationship with Hashem.

    Now some here would argue that that makes us superior all by itself. I would argue that it makes us, well, chosen. With special responsibilities non Jews don’t have. With critical impact on the welfare and well being of the whole world. With additional responsibility to be a light to the nations. Better? Superior? I suppose, in the manner that a Chef is superior to a home cook. It is a matter of training, instruction, and responsibility, and we are lucky enough to have the Torah to teach us about all of them. But superior because we won the lucky gene pool sweepstakes, and have to do nothing at all to earn or hold our status? I don’t think so.

    in reply to: Girls in Shidduchim wearing sweatshirts ? #922947
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    Oh no, MR,

    “I live my life according to how I see fit and try my best to follow what I believe Hashem wants me to do. I don’t tell other people what to do especially when there is no basis for it.”

    Makes sense to me, but its a different language – maybe heresy – for some of your interlocutors here.

    here comes the hurricane…

    in reply to: What's wrong with the draft? #924053
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    OK sushee. Whatever you say. I guess no representatives of shevet Yehuda and shevet Binyomin came forward to sign it over.

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