in answer to some of the above letters. I don’t think the people realize what a very terrible situation we are all in. I heard this from a rich balabos who now lives in Yerushalyim for many years. He came for a simcha and was SICK. WE don’t realize how rock bottom our tznius is! The mingeling in smorganborch, kiddushim. WHY are there not 2 seperate entrances???? Why are there not 2 seperate smorgansbord??? oh it cost extra money. Pay a little less or serve a little less and think of Tznius at your child simcha. The very big problem as you say Where are the Robbonim??? Why don’t they talk??? They are being PAID a PAID worker does what his kehilla wants. unfortunately, thats why DO NOT ONLY BLAME the Rabbonim BLAME youself. Stand up and scream GEVALD when yuou see it. Thats what they would do in Yerushalayim GEVALD!!!. Klall Yisroel will be forever ..but unfortunately there are Tzoras!!! IS this not the reason,?? Where is your example to your children???? Gevald