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Better question – can an Amaleki Ger (convert) commit suicide to fulfill the chiyuv (in nach there is a story of dovid hamelech who killed a ger amelki, and he retains his status after gerus.)

not so funny – my uncle was mugged outside a fancy hotel by Heathrow on his date, were a group of arabs took his wallet, watch and phone. Not such an awe-inspiring moment! He married her, lol

my freind walked in with his wife to his best freind’s date with her best freind. they spent the whole evening laughing and having fun instead of dating!

there is ‘tzvei dinim’ in brisk bochurim. those who think that smoking makes you automatically yeshivish and the worlds #1 bochur is not the person you want for your shidduch. And, there is R’ Avrohom Yehoshua and R’ Dovid – which do you mean?

The gemara kesubos 17a brigns story of tanna who danced with kalla on his shoulders. His talmidim asked him if they could do the same, and he said ‘if a woman is like a peice of wood to you, then by all means do it. if not…’ I think this suitably answers al your proffs from roshei yeshieves who went to mixed weddings. Are you the same? A boy went to R’ Elya Lopian zt”l (rosh yeshiva of gateshead) asking permission to go to a mixed wedding, saying he won’t be affected by these things and can control himself. R’ Elya said ‘I am eighty and blind in one eye, and i look down in the streeet when i walk, and i still am scared i will see an improper sight. YOu are a teenager…” Is there anything more to add? I rest my case.