YehudahTzvi

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  • in reply to: What is your most controversial opinion? #848819
    YehudahTzvi
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    Yet another peeve. Some of our month names should be changed back from the ones that make us utter the names of false idols such as Tammuz. How about Chodesh Ha-Aviv, Chodesh Sheini, etc? ALL the names of the months we use now are BABYLONIAN and not Hebrew.

    in reply to: What is your most controversial opinion? #848744
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    Another – All Kohanim should learn hilchos Kehunah and everything related to it. I was stopped by an elderly gentleman after duchaning who told me: “You are the ONLY person up there who know the halachos and is doing it correctly.” I tried holding a shiur for Kohanim in the community to learn and I had only ONE taker. Even when I pointed out certain errors straight from the S.A and Rema, I was rebuffed.

    in reply to: What is your most controversial opinion? #848743
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    “Yehuda Tzvi- If women have a chiyuv to bentsch then why not to make a mezuman?”

    I said they should.

    “With that logic if women have a chiyuv to daven then why not make a minyan?”

    Because they don’t have a chiuv for minyan. There are those who hold they have a chiuv for mizuman. MY opinion is that this should be followed and not poo-pooed as something controversial.

    147 – Good for you. More people should do it and yeshivos should stress it.

    in reply to: What is your most controversial opinion? #848735
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    Oh, one more thing. People should be learning, and I mean LEARNING more Navi. The moral lessons there are powerful and important.

    in reply to: Yehudah Tzvi UPDATE #847293
    YehudahTzvi
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    “What if you do not opt for the surgery, then what?”

    The metal screws (the only thing keeping my femoral head in place) would eventually fail.

    in reply to: What is your most controversial opinion? #848725
    YehudahTzvi
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    I am a regular frum joe who wears a black hat on Shabbos and davens in a small yeshivish minyan.

    1. Three woman should ALWAYS do a mezuman. My Rav (father of six daughters) held this way and he would excuse himself when they did it. If women have a chiyuv to bentsch then why not to make a mezuman?

    2. Orthodox Shuls should be more hospitable to woman. It’s one thing to separate, it’s another to confine woman behind a thick sheet so that they can’t see anything. When I duchan, I always make sure to tilt my body toward the woman’s section (if it’s to the side) so that they are included in the bracha. Many Cohanim don’t do this.

    3. Woman learning. Many girls and women I know don’t daven what they should, don’t learn what they should and chalk it up to everything being “for the men.” I feel that we are neglecting 50% of our people when it comes to Jewish education and tefillah.

    No, I am not a feminist. I am not pro; “Women of the Wall” (because of their incitement agenda. I just want to be fair to ALL Jews.

    Lastly, I despise some of the racism and ethnocentrism in the Yesivish world. We had an Asian convert over for Shabbos once and another guest asked her: (shouting, as if she was deaf) “How long have you been in our country.” The woman replied: (loudly) “Three generations! You?”

    Not all Frum Jews are pasty white. We should embrace all colors and ethnicities who are either born Jewish or converted and be a Kiddush Hashem to those who are not Jewish.

    End rant.

    in reply to: Yehudah Tzvi UPDATE #847291
    YehudahTzvi
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    **UPDATE**

    Went to a metabolic bone orthopedist who did some blood work. His conclusion is that I can either have a total hip replacement (BUT it is very dangerous as I am much more susceptible to infection like sepsis since I amost died from it). My only other option is a “Girdlestone” operation which I don’t even want to discuss.

    My parnassa is not getting us through. Today we had -$168 in the bank. We are constantly borrowing from in-laws just to survive.

    I am at a very low point. I don’t know why I have been centered out for this. I told my wife, if we had parnassa, I could deal with the health issues. If I had health I could deal with the lack of parnassa. But alas, I am forced to deal with all of these stressing and I feel like I am going out of my mind.

    in reply to: Serious BT problem – Please help. #846929
    YehudahTzvi
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    “”She is aware of our displeasure”

    Is she aware of your love for her?”

    Yes. My mom and I are very close and speak nearly every other day.

    “YehudahTzvi: What do she lose by living with a non-Jew? I would say leave her be.”

    Not living together. Dating.

    “How exactly is this a BT problem?”

    Ba’alei teshuvah usually have non-frum parents. FFBs, by definition have frum parents (or are a miracle).

    “Does she have siblings? What do they think about this recent development?”

    Three brothers. All anti-religious.

    BTGuy- Thank you for your insight. Sounds right.

    “Never put your love for your mother under any conditions.

    “Never put your love for your mother under any conditions.”

    Not an issue. My love for my parents was never and never is conditional.

    in reply to: Yehudah Tzvi UPDATE #847290
    YehudahTzvi
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    Hi, all. I have been in excruciating pain. Don’t know why it’s gotten worse but it has. Could be the weather or maybe something broke. I am now, I”H going to be also under the care or a metabolic bone disorder dr. Hopefully I can figure out what’s wrong with me. Your tefilos and good wishes are very helpful. I thank you all for caring.

    in reply to: Yehudah Tzvi UPDATE #847283
    YehudahTzvi
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    Thank you all. I have been experiencing some serious panic attacks due to Post Traumatic Stress. I have been self medicating and am falling into great despair. My future is not looking bright anymore. I am 43 and depressed at how the rest of my life looks.

    in reply to: Yehudah Tzvi UPDATE #847280
    YehudahTzvi
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    It’s not that I wouldn’t consider having the hip replacement done, it’s that my surgeon does not want me to have it done just yet. I have nearly died a few times within the past two years and five surgeries. It’s taken a great toll on my body.

    in reply to: Yehudah Tzvi UPDATE #847266
    YehudahTzvi
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    Health: I nearly died during my last surgery and have had five MAJOR surgeries in the past two years. My Orthopedist is not rushing to get me back on the table after all I’ve been through.

    in reply to: Yehudah Tzvi UPDATE #847265
    YehudahTzvi
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    Thank you all. Yehudah Tzvi Ben Elisheva.

    My daughter and I had a good cry today. This has been a long, torturous road. I really thought i was going to hear good news today. But alas, more pain, poverty and immobility. Who knows if and when it will ever end?

    in reply to: Yehudah Tzvi UPDATE #847255
    YehudahTzvi
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    My Orthopedist is head of Orthopedic Trauma at the #1 Los Angeles hospital. He is the authority.

    in reply to: YehudaTzvi? #886458
    YehudahTzvi
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    Orthopedist tomorrow (Thursday) at 11:00 am PST. Hope to have good news!

    in reply to: Shaimos #842025
    YehudahTzvi
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    Sam2: I assume that the Kabbala Centre falls under this rule?

    in reply to: Shaimos #842023
    YehudahTzvi
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    Syag Lchochma: Glad I’m not the only one!

    in reply to: Shaimos #842022
    YehudahTzvi
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    I am confused by the statement: “Literatue that has Shem HaShem (even not Lishmah) has to be buried.”

    Us LA people have to contend with a lot of Kabbala Centre stuff floating around. A Rav here paskened that the Zohars they print should be burned (publicly). Isn’t it halacha that if a Xtian group writes a Sefer Torah it needs to be burned? Why would the YKVK written in secular kabbala books be any different.

    in reply to: YehudaTzvi? #886454
    YehudahTzvi
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    Thank you so much, RT. It’s a bit challenging as I am still in a wheelchair, but you have to start somewhere!

    in reply to: YehudaTzvi? #886451
    YehudahTzvi
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    Hey, all. Thanks for checking up on me. Baruch Hashem I am getting better. Just got over bronchitis (fun never ends) but I lost some weight, am dieting and trying to exercise so at least I’m heading in the right direction. I will hopefully see my Orthopaedist this week and have some (good I”H) news.

    in reply to: Popa Is Retarded. By, Popa #1200433
    YehudahTzvi
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    happiest: You are right. Derech Eretz, people. There is no reason to use this special needs classification as a pejorative. Think of those who have mentally retarded siblings, children, students. I know I will get flamed for this, but I think it’s just mean and wrong.

    in reply to: Xmas and Christians #838100
    YehudahTzvi
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    I was brought up in an entirely secular household. Yet, as nonreligious as my parents were, they always referred to Yoshke as Yossel. Anyone else ever heard of this?

    in reply to: Kidney Stones – Anyone? #835578
    YehudahTzvi
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    (WebMD) Pulverizing kidney stones with shock waves raises a person’s risk of diabetes and high blood pressure, a new study shows.

    In the early 1980s, getting a kidney stone removed often meant painful open surgery. Then came shock wave lithotripsy. This revolutionary technology uses sonic waves to blast kidney stones into tiny grains of sand. No surgery is needed.

    It has always seemed to be safe. But now there’s disturbing new data from a Mayo Clinic study. The study appears in the May issue of the Journal of Urology.

    Shock Wave Damage

    The study compared kidney stone patients treated in 1985 with shock wave lithotripsy to patients given other nonsurgical kidney stone treatments that same year. Nineteen years later, the shock wave patients were nearly four times more likely to get diabetes. And, if both kidneys were treated, the patients were 47 percent more likely to have high blood pressure.

    It’s not yet clear how shock wave treatment might cause these problems, says researcher Amy E. Krambeck, M.D. What seems to be happening is collateral damage from the shock waves.

    “The theory is that the shear forces related to shock wave lithotripsy can cause tissue damage,” Krambeck tells WebMD. “Damage to the pancreas could put patients at risk for diabetes.”

    in reply to: Kidney Stones – Anyone? #835577
    YehudahTzvi
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    Posted links and info. Mods took it down. So much for free speech.

    in reply to: The Mechalel Shabbos Troll #839139
    YehudahTzvi
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    Perhaps they are just in a different time zone.

    in reply to: Kidney Stones – Anyone? #835571
    YehudahTzvi
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    Yes, I had them a few years ago. BEWARE: lithotripsy increases the likelihood of getting Type II Diabetes and hypertension by FOUR TIMES.

    in reply to: English corresponding to Hebrew #846491
    YehudahTzvi
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    Just remember…

    You can’t spell flatulent without chulent.

    I’ll let myself out.

    in reply to: Anyone ever hear of a Simchat Bat? #834656
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    in reply to: Anyone ever hear of a Simchat Bat? #834651
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    Bless you, Kapusta.

    in reply to: Anyone ever hear of a Simchat Bat? #834636
    YehudahTzvi
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    This mesora is directly from my cleaning woman, so argue that!”

    Really? Nothing? Not even a chuckle? Wow, tough room. I’ll be here all week, folks. Try the veal!

    in reply to: Anyone ever hear of a Simchat Bat? #834623
    YehudahTzvi
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    This mesora is directly from my cleaning woman, so argue that!

    in reply to: Reporting Spelling Errors. #833108
    YehudahTzvi
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    Today’s gem: Rav Shomo Amar: Fmale Segregation Is Not Jewish law

    I have tried to link to the articles but my posts have been deleted. It is sloppy reporting and a sad testament to the state of the linguistic erudition of the editorial staff and reporters.

    YWN: If you wish to be taken seriously as a news source at least get the basics of spelling down!

    in reply to: Drinking #833097
    YehudahTzvi
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    Beer…? what a waste of calories! Scotch!

    in reply to: Anyone ever hear of a Simchat Bat? #834607
    YehudahTzvi
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    yichusdik: You are DA MAN!

    in reply to: 40 challah bakers #833500
    YehudahTzvi
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    My wife did it last night.

    in reply to: 40 challah bakers #833495
    YehudahTzvi
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    He should have a complete Refuah Shelaima!

    in reply to: 40 challah bakers #833492
    YehudahTzvi
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    My wife will add him to the list tonight when she bakes, B”N.

    in reply to: Reviving an iPod …any Ideas??? #832889
    YehudahTzvi
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    Do NOT remove the cover or back! It is not made to be removed and will mess up the Ipod and invalidate any warranty.

    in reply to: Reviving an iPod …any Ideas??? #832885
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    in reply to: Reviving an iPod …any Ideas??? #832878
    YehudahTzvi
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    Have you tried a hard reboot? I think you press the dial button while pressing the bottom of the dial. That is obvious for the pre Ipod Touch.

    in reply to: Hakaras HaTov to the USA #829512
    YehudahTzvi
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    Really? Every Yeshivah out here is closed on Thursday.

    in reply to: Hakaras HaTov to the USA #829509
    YehudahTzvi
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    “The reason why people don’t celebrate Thanksgiving is because it was established as a thanks to the lord that provided for them.”

    And I as well thank Hashem for providing for them which allowed this country to be born. Don’t see a problem with that.

    in reply to: Possible to change Mazel? #829342
    YehudahTzvi
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    Sam2: They are Gassos tefillin and wouldn’t need to be checked (though they were a few years ago and were fine).

    Is having a passul mezuzzah really bad for mazel? Where is it brought down?

    in reply to: Possible to change Mazel? #829341
    YehudahTzvi
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    Kapusta: “One, did you ever consider doing the thing with lead to remove any possible ay”h.” Could you explain? I have never heard of such a thing.

    in reply to: common Jewish last names #828464
    YehudahTzvi
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    Stalkenstein.

    in reply to: Not Yotzei? #827752
    YehudahTzvi
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    Gevald! I am sorry for starting this machlokes. I just wanted a clarification.

    Please mochel me.

    in reply to: Not Yotzei? #827720
    YehudahTzvi
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    Clarification: there are NOT separate minyanim.

    in reply to: Not Yotzei? #827716
    YehudahTzvi
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    Popa: Wish that was the case but I asked my son straight out if it is a Yeshiva Mesorah issue. He said no. The Rabbaim there apparently hold that Sephardim listening to Ashkenazi leining are not yotzei as well and they have separate minyanim. This infuriates me and I need to dig deeper to find out what’s really going on (as the resident Yekkish Litvak Sepharadi)

    in reply to: Not Yotzei? #827711
    YehudahTzvi
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    Both.

    in reply to: Which album (not one song) inspires you most spiritually? #826733
    YehudahTzvi
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    Shlomo Katz: V’haKohanim.

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