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  • in reply to: “Frum” therapist #2048441
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    The potential for יחוד and inappropriate relationships should suggest that it isnt a “frum” profession.

    Get a door with a window. Problem solved.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Golem of Prague #2048440
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    There is a statue of the Maharal in Prague.

    No one disputes that the Maharal was a real person.

    The existence of a statue of the Maharal neither confirms or refutes the existence of a Golem.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: How Close Are You To Your Siblings? #2048439
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    Please define the meaning/definition of your close relationship.

    Why? It’s “close” as I define it.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Penniless #2047975
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    There are enough pennies in circulation that they will still be around for decades to come.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: How Close Are You To Your Siblings? #2047973
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    I have one sister and we’re very close.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Torah #2041225
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    Is sweeter then honey

    OK, I agree it’s sweeter. Now give me my honey.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: How to end a first date when there’s no shadchan #2038493
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    There’s no excuse to not be using a shadchan.

    Period.

    And if you happen to meet on your own and hit it off?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Keeping my last name when married #2038486
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    FWIW, when my wife and I got married (over 30 years ago), I told her that I had no problem if she wanted to keep her last name. She wanted to take mine, but if she didn’t, it would not have bothered me at all.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Talis Bag to be Placed on the Floor #2038485
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    FWIW, when I travel, I have my backpack (filled with my camera gear) as my carry-on. I also have an under-seater in which I carry (among other things) my tallis and tefillin.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Shooting with a DSLR #2021370
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    Well, here I am.

    To be honest, I don’t have a great deal of experience in shooting video, as 99.99% (or more) of what I shoot is stills.

    That being said, I’ve seen some very nice videos that were shot using DSLRs. It certainly could be done, but I’d consult with someone who actually works in this area before committing to an expensive camera and/or lenses.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: do goyim have bchira chofshis? #2021367
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    If a person does not have b’chira, how can they be rewarded/punished for their actions?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Camera #1982171
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    For starting out, almost any entry level DSLR from a major brand will work out for you.

    I started out in photography quite a while ago. My first DSLR was a Canon Xsi.

    If you have questions about specific models or features, I’m more than happy to help.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Thank you! #1969770
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    Wolf, how many photography blogs do you have?

    Two. One is a personal gallery site and the other is an educational site.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Thank you! #1969454
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    Is there a blog for just kugel??

    Not to the best of my knowledge. Perhaps you would like to start one?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Thank you! #1967405
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    Was this on your photography blog?

    Yes.

    so say thank you on that blog. why here?

    Two reasons.

    1. It seems to have been a concerted effort of some people here in the Coffee Room to reach out to me on my other blog. There were just too many of them in too short a time period for it to have just been a coincidence.

    2. Most of my readers on my photography blog have no idea what the Coffee Room is. It’s better to do it here, where I know that all (or the majority) of those who have reached out will see it.

    Anyone know if they have kugel blogs?

    Yes. They are called recipe sites. 🙂

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Thank you! #1966843
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    I have more than one blog. Some people from the Coffee Room reached out to me on that blog.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Kerestir #1965405
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    I have absolutely no idea what this is. Should I consider this to be a case of “ignorance is bliss?”

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Saying Inappropriate Tehillim #1965332
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    I don’t think I experienced it to be your message, but it struck me very deeply the first time I saw it and became representative of the dichotomy of how we feel vs how we look, and how we look vs how we wish we looked etc. It really pulled me so I hope you don’t mind me applying my own messages.

    I never quite thought of the picture in that way. Thank you.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Saying Inappropriate Tehillim #1965244
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    Then I’m sorry I’m not clear

    No need to apologize. It could be that you were clear and I just missed it anyway.

    A person shouldn’t be judged on how little he (or she) does, as long as it’s done with the right כוונה
    As long as your כוונה is right you are doing a good thing

    OK, I think I can agree with that.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Saying Inappropriate Tehillim #1965245
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    wolf – I know I’ve posted this before but I’m saying it again. Your photographs are stunning. You obviously possess intense feelings and awareness of beauty. I can only assume this intensity sometimes works against you as well, your funks are no strangers to the CR.
    You are a man of tremendous talent, but also of depth and perception (can perception be used in this way? Well it can now).

    Thank you for the kind words. I appreciate the comment and am glad that my photos bring you happiness.


    I argued with my daughter today about an intense picture I saw online of a disheveled man looking in the mirror and a well kempt man looking back. I said this seems to be the opposite of a depressed man, who is actually well kempt but sees himself as disheveled. She said that she thinks this is not the opposite. This is a man feeling awful, who’s pain is ignored by everyone who only sees a well kempt man.

    What do you think?

    Actually, neither. That picture had nothing to do with pain or depression. It was just a photographic experiment that worked fairly well, trying to composite two different pictures while telling a story. If anything, the picture means nothing more than “it’s just too early in the morning…” 🙂

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Which came first: The chicken or the egg? #1965247
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    Hashem created animals…Adam Harishon named animals…not the eggs. so Mistama the chicken came before the egg

    And how do you know that the first chickens weren’t created hatching from their eggs?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: YWN COFFEE ROOM AGES #1965171
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    I have no data to back this up, but my gut tells me that I’m in the older half of the posters in the Coffeeroom.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Saying Inappropriate Tehillim #1965170
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    You’re deliberately misunderstanding me and you know it

    I give you my word that I’m not deliberately misunderstanding you.

    You don’t judge a person on how little he (or she) does, as long as it’s done with the right כוונה

    I wasn’t judging anyone other than myself.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Saying Inappropriate Tehillim #1964910
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    Wolf,

    There are numerous stories of gedolim that “steal” 5 minutes a day to learn something where in the end they make a siyum called a “5 minute siyum”

    And that’s wonderful. But it also has nothing to do with me. I’m not competing with the Gedolim to see who can accomplish the most in the least time.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Is “sir” a British thing #1964286
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    Wolf, as I asked you above, do you utilize “ma’am” with your female immediate family as you do “sir” with your male immediate family?

    Interesting question. No, I can’t say that I do.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Saying Inappropriate Tehillim #1964287
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    There’s no such thing as “chance”.

    You know what I meant…

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Saying Inappropriate Tehillim #1964289
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    So what? How many people say even one perek of tehillim (besides the שיר המעלות that everyone says)

    I don’t judge myself in comparison to others. Whether every one says the entire sefer 100 times a day or not at all does not change my own views about my own accomplishments (or lack thereof).

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Describe yourself #1964290
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    Terrible.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Saying Inappropriate Tehillim #1964200
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    And, of course, as chance would have it, today I was up to Tehillim 20.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Is “sir” a British thing #1964201
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    Wolf, I know people who said “Sir” and “Madame” to their kids sarcastically.

    I never use the term sarcastically.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Saying Inappropriate Tehillim #1961868
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    Wow wolf!

    Thank you, but in reality, it’s not that big of a deal. It literally takes me no more than three minutes a day.

    (And, to be completely honest, I did miss a week in November when I got sick with food poisoning and had to be hospitalized.)

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Is “sir” a British thing #1961876
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    The formalized title is, indeed, a British thing. However, it’s common usage is not. I use “sir” with just about anyone outside my immediate circle of family and friends (and sometime even within… I’ve been known to say “Thank you, sir” to my sons when they do something for me). I even use it for kids, saying “Thank you, sir,” when they hold the door open for me or something else.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Saying Inappropriate Tehillim #1961864
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    I believe it is incumbent for posters to henceforth always refer to the OP as “Der Tzadik Reb Volf”. (Wolf doesn’t do him justice.)

    In all and complete sincerity, please, please, please do not do that.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Are you a Ka'eylah Jew? #1961861
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    Being the shul’s Ba’al Kriah, I just stop and let everyone get it out of their systems, then continue.

    That would drive me nuts. Fortunately, they don’t do it my shul, but if they did, I would just go on. Hopefully, eventually, they would get the message that I’m not putting up with that. 🙂

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Sick of the name calling! #1948801
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    Who is calling someone else names?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Sick of the name calling! #1948802
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    If it was me, I apologize. I did not intend to call another person by any derogatory name.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1948379
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    Please, don’t ever undervalue the importance of kaddish.

    If we are going to accept, a priori, that it’s proper for me to say kaddish (which I’m going to do anyway, since I told the family members that I would), then the question should be thus:

    My commitment to say kaddish is a commitment that I can take voluntarily. But I cannot force the tzibbur to take the time to listen to it. I don’t have the power (nor do I want the power or responsibility to) force the tzibbur to do so. Since I am, in effect, doing so, what are the proper steps that I should take to remedy it to the tzibbur?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: democrats stupid argument #1948324
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    Could there be anything more non judicial than a partisan hack, Patrick Leahy, who had already decided publicly that he would vote for impeachment

    I’d be willing to bet that at least ninety of the Senators went into the process knowing how they would vote and had no intention on changing their vote no matter what evidence or argument was presented.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1948323
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    Wolf, how about not ignoring the strong answers and only refuting the weak answers. This is a trademark of yours.

    What strong answers? That I’m anti-tefillah????

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1948197
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    Do you think the avos hakdoshim davened for no reason????????????????!!!!!!!!

    My question has NOTHING to do with davening. It has to do with saying kaddish. You can have a 100% valid and kosher davening without someone saying kaddish at the end.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1948198
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    Anan,

    How about answering the question I asked, rather than get outraged over something I never said.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1948196
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    shachris on a regular day should take 55 minutes MINIMUM

    The numbers were just to illustrate the point. They weren’t meant to imply that davening should be of any particular length.

    You are correct! The only reason you would ask such a question is because you do not value tefilla

    Fine. Despite the fact that I said above that I was in favor of tefilla b’tzibbur, you’ve decided that I don’t value it. So I don’t value it. I guess that’s what you’d expect of a complete rasha like me.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1948174
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    I do not understand what you mean by wasting other people’s time. ITS CALLED TEFILLA BITZIBUR!!! During the lockdown, I PERSONALLY REGRETTED every moment of davening I missed. What is this an ANTI-TEFILLA GROUP???!!!!

    If I gave you the impression that I don’t believe in Tefilla B’Tzibur, then I apologize. That wasn’t my intent.

    My point was that I feel responsible for Shacharis taking 45 minutes instead of 42, wasting three minutes of everyone’s morning every day. That was my point. My apologies if I gave the wrong impression.

    (Of course, the fact that I’m a stupid apikorus is probably why I wasn’t clear…)

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1948163
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    Thank you, Dr. Hall. That may be true, but I don’t know that the gabbai has the authority to allow one person to potentially waste everyone else’s time.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Talking in Shul #1947953
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    pretending leining is talking

    It is, is it not?

    Perhaps you can more properly classify it as singing or chanting, but those are both subcategories of speech.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Is Sherry Cask Scotch kosher? #1947944
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    If treif wine,

    Thank you. I did not realize that the same barrels were used for wine and whiskey. Being a non-drinker, I never would have thought of that.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Talking in Shul #1947934
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    In our shul, they say the Misheberach of the Tosfas Yom Tov every shabbos.

    My shul did that too, although they recently stopped it. I was actually very upset when they stopped it (despite the fact I talk during laining). Alas, my opinion (being worthless and stupid) was not asked when this change in practice was being considered.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Talking in Shul #1947933
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    Wolf, is it because they are all taking?

    No. They’re usually silent.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Talking in Shul #1947921
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    I talk constantly throughout laining. No one in the shul seems to mind or complain.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Is Sherry Cask Scotch kosher? #1947912
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    For the extremely stupid, ignorant and non-drinkers among us (meaning, me), can someone break down exactly what the issue is? Please explain to it to me like I’m five.

    Thank you.

    The Wolf

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