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  • in reply to: Artscroll gemara now coming onto technology #1149489
    WolfishMusings
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    Yup, the same way He read all the others.

    I’m sorry that you took my disagreeing with you as an insult.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Artscroll gemara now coming onto technology #1149480
    WolfishMusings
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    that doesn’t me im wrong

    It doesn’t mean that you’re right either… and as the party asserting a position, the burden of proof is on you.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: The World To Come and Gilgulim #1117296
    WolfishMusings
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    Thank You wolf, that was very informative. Another question, does hashem only recycle the gilgulim amongst 1 group of people? Is my gilgul from a non frum person maybe?

    My belief in gilgulim is very wishy-washy at best, so I don’t have an answer for you. I simply tried to provide a *possible* idea of how it might work. Of course, I could very well be 100% wrong too. I don’t have any inside knowledge on what will happen – and I certainly have no knowledge of who your past gilgulim are (if any).

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Artscroll gemara now coming onto technology #1149469
    WolfishMusings
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    So if its not loaded with garbage then its not a bizayon!!!

    But that’s not what the OP was all about. The OP made no such qualification… he just made the blanket statement that (and I’m paraphrasing here) “if it’s not paper, it’s bad.”

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Talking during davening #1117235
    WolfishMusings
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    If that fathers in shul are schmoozing through davening, what message is being taught to their sons?

    Exactly… and I learned this the hard way.

    While I’ve always been a stickler on talking during davening, there was one thing I used to do consistently… learn during Chazaras HaShatz. While the Chazzan recited the Amidah, I would often take out a Mishnayos and learn.

    One day, I caught my son reading a novel during Chazaras Hashatz. When I asked him about it, he told me that he sees me reading, so it must be okay. I tried to justify it by claiming that, at least, I was learning, but at the end of the day, I had to admit that he was right.

    Since then, I no longer learn during Chazras HaShatz. I now follow along in the siddur with the Chazzan.*

    The Wolf

    * I’d be lying if I said I *never* drifted off into day-dreaming during Chazaras HaShatz, but it doesn’t happen to often….

    in reply to: The World To Come and Gilgulim #1117293
    WolfishMusings
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    So we have the same Hashkafos and passions etc?

    Unlikely. You’d be the product of two very different times and cultures, shaped by very different experiences.

    Think of it this way… perhaps your neshama is like a specialized type of clay. An experience potter can make many different things with it, depending on the types of pressures, heats and other factors applied to it.

    Your neshama could turn out a million different ways, based on where you live, when you live, who your friends are, the time and culture in which you live and on and on. If you met an alternate version of yourself from a universe where things worked out very differently, you might physially be the same people (like a set of identical twins), but emotionally, spiritually, culturally and mentally, you’d be very different.

    Likewise, the “you” from a five hundred years ago in Europe, and the “you” who lived a millenium ago in Spain and the “you” who lived two millenia ago in present-day Iraq are all very different people. The factors that form your neshama, like those that affect the clay, are very different in different circumstances and, as a result, the final form will be very, very different.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Artscroll gemara now coming onto technology #1149467
    WolfishMusings
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    To summarize: I believe it is a bizayon to Hashem to learn (or daven) from a device that is loaded with garbage.

    I think it is wrong of you to assume that when you see an Ipad, that it is loaded with garbage.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: The World To Come and Gilgulim #1117286
    WolfishMusings
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    If I’m a gilgul of someone who lived a long time ago, then by Techiyas Hameisim, which body gets the neshama? There’s 1 neshama for 2 bodies!

    If we’re going to say that HKBH can bring dead bodies back to life, then I’m sure He’ll have a way of resolving this issue too.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Artscroll gemara now coming onto technology #1149453
    WolfishMusings
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    its great for traveling but soon these ipads will not only be used for traveling it will be people one gadget with all seforim on it & thats it

    And that’s bad, why????

    people may also C”V bring it into a restroom to read YWN & forget that Hashems name is written in it & thousands of seforim are on that same ipad. thats a major bizayon hatorah & may be ossur to bring into restroom.

    No it’s not… not anymore than it is to bring a tape with an audio shiur into the bathroom. As long as it’s not on the screen, it’s fine.

    Based on your logic, I could never swipe from one passuk to the next because I’d be erasing the Shem. Nonetheless, it’s clear that unless it’s literal writing, those halachos don’t apply.

    Of course, one should not actively be learning on it while using the bathroom, but that just as easily applies to a physical book as well.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: VaYigash: 70? there are only 69 people listed! #1117927
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    Source, please.

    For what? For what I said?

    I don’t have an explicit source, but it’s common sense. Full brother-sister marriage is prohibited even to a Ben Noach. So it makes sense that they married half-sisters from different mothers.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Solution to the Shidduch Crisis! #1118432
    WolfishMusings
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    The zionists should marry the vegitarianists!

    But only if they don’t learn from their iPads. 🙂

    The Wolf

    in reply to: VaYigash: 70? there are only 69 people listed! #1117924
    WolfishMusings
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    Isn’t there a medrash that says the shevatim

    all had twin sisters and married them?

    Yes, but they would marry a sister from a different mother (Reuven, for example, might marry Gad’s twin, but not Levi’s).

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Shidduchim- trying them all? #1141752
    WolfishMusings
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    I know someone who got engaged to the first girl he dated (and I think he may have been her first boy too) after two dates. They knew they were for each other by the end of the first date.

    I can’t say that it was *that* quick for Eeees and I, but we knew within about three weeks that it wasn’t “if” we were going to get married, but “when.”

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Artscroll gemara now coming onto technology #1149448
    WolfishMusings
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    wolf:listening to a shiur on tape while driving is a opportunity to learn torah & do something ruchnius. versus just driving. people don’t listen to these shiurim on tape so they could avoid sitting live with a speaker.

    No, you missed the point. My point was, why is listening to a shiur on tape (as opposed to in person) not a bizayon, but my learning something on my iPad is one?

    versus our topic of all seforim on a ipad. puts the kedusha of learning Hashems torah much lower & makes it not as ruchnius as learning from a sefer in a bais medrash or even at home.

    Why is there less ruchnius from learning something from an electronic source? What makes paper inherently more ruchnius? And, often, when I’m learning from my iPad, it’s because I’m neither in a beis midrash or at home — I’m travelling. So, why is it more spiritual to limit myself to one or two sefarim, as opposed to having access to lots and lots of sefarim?

    (Example: I’m learning gemara and they quote a passuk, but I’d like to see it in context and with Rashi. I can do that very easily on my iPad. I can’t do that with paper because I don’t carry an entire library around with me. Is it bad that I can do that? Does my ability to delve deeper into sources or rapidly find related material make my learning any less valuable? If so, please explain why.)

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Artscroll gemara now coming onto technology #1149445
    WolfishMusings
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    RebYidd: they all gave the potential of being loaded with garbage.

    … and any book has the potential to have inappropriate things written in it, and any tape recorder could be used for inappropriate music. Your point?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Shidduchim- trying them all? #1141750
    WolfishMusings
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    Am I the only one that ever feels like she needs to date every potential guy she knows

    I don’t know. I married the second girl I ever dated and I never felt like I missed out on anything… and we didn’t even use a Shadchan.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Artscroll gemara now coming onto technology #1149435
    WolfishMusings
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    what will the word davening mean then? a joke C”V i can drive to work wearing my tefillin & davening by heart & then text someone else at the same time C”V

    Your example is not relevant to the discussion at hand.

    For a minyan, halacha specifies that the members have to be physically present. There is no inherent requirement for paper when it comes to Talmud Torah.

    I’m still confused why you feel learning from an electronic source is a bizayon, but learning from a paper one isn’t. Do you feel that listening to a tape recorded shiur is a bizayon? If not, why is that any different?

    Personally, I *like* having an app on my Ipad through which I have all of Shas, Tanach, the Shulchan Aruch, works of mussar and halacha and lots of other stuff. It’s a virtual portable library. I’m not limited to learning the one book I have.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: women saying hallel on chanukah #1116465
    WolfishMusings
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    Hallel is a mitzvo she’hazman gromoh and isn’t required of women

    So what? There are lots of time-bound positive mitzvos that women are not required to do and yet, if they do decide to do them, they recite the bracha.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Buying returned food equipment or utensils #1116454
    WolfishMusings
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    When you find a piece in the street, you may assume it is kosher if certain conditions are met (majority sold as kosher, near a store where kosher food is served).

    Why should this be any different? The vast majority of appliances are, in fact, new.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: davening from electronic device #1116429
    WolfishMusings
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    The morning after Hurricane Sandy, the power was still out in my neighborhood. The shul we daven is is dark, but I had a siddur app on my iPad and used that.

    If you want to condemn me for that, go ahead.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Parents visiting married children uninvited at night??? #1117059
    WolfishMusings
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    Of course, the correct answer is that it depends on the couple.

    Look, my in-laws stop by without calling first. So does my sister – and I stop by her place unannounced at times too – but that’s because we have that sort of close relationship. Others may not have it.

    By all means, if a couple asks that you call first before coming over, then they’re wishes should be respected — and it doesn’t matter if it’s parents, sisters or brothers, in-laws or even adult children who no longer live in the house.

    The Wolfr

    in reply to: Obligation to read/listen to advertisements? #1115207
    WolfishMusings
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    If it isn’t, is it anything more than ad hominem (pardon the pun)?

    No, it’s not. If someone is trying to imply that there is some obligation when viewing this website, asking them to be consistent and apply the same rules to other situations is not an ad hominem attack.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Customer service #1119842
    WolfishMusings
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    Vosizneias has a phone number and email address in their contact info. Yeshiva world has a stupid submit form that apparently no one is checking or theyre just ignoring it!!!!! What type of customer service is that?????? Why wud I want to do business with them and advertise if I can’t get through to anyone for a simple request I have?????????

    If you’re actually looking to advertise and they won’t return your calls, then I think you found an answer… don’t advertise here. Would you patronize a store where you were saying “here, take my money!” and they refused to acknowledge you?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Obligation to read/listen to advertisements? #1115204
    WolfishMusings
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    That doesn’t address whether hakaras hatov applies in a situation where the intention wasn’t altruistic.

    No… but it just makes sure the OP is consistent. Those cases should be no different than YWN or anywhere else.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Obligation to read/listen to advertisements? #1115202
    WolfishMusings
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    So, tell me, blubluh, do you also make sure to read every advertisement in the paper and in every magazine you read? Do you make sure to read every billboard and “this section of road cleaned by ….” sign on the highway? When you go to a store, do you feel the need to read every sign they have up on the walls advertising their wares?

    In no way do you owe anything to YWN. If you want to read the ads, then go ahead, no one is going to stop you. But obligated? No more than you’d be obligated to do all the other things mentioned.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: ????? ???? ??? ??? ?????? (message from true Torah Jews) #1115985
    WolfishMusings
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    Wolf: http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/the-eruv-rav#post-590022

    You’re entitled to your opinion, even if it’s utterly and completely wrong.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: ????? ???? ??? ??? ?????? (message from true Torah Jews) #1115981
    WolfishMusings
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    Wolf

    this is from “true Torah Jews”

    I beleive “Torah-true” is trademarked by the Agudah

    Ah, thanks for the clarification.

    In any event, I’ve always known that I’m a torah-false Jew (or however else you want to phrase it); just nice to have a confirmation from a true Torah Jew. Thank you, kj chusid.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Obligation to read/listen to advertisements? #1115199
    WolfishMusings
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    Wolf, is hakaras hatov an obligation? Does it apply here? I think it’s a very valid question, and I don’t know why you pretty much dismissed it.

    I don’t believe hakaros hatov to be an issue here, because they did not build the site for you as a favor or as an altrusitic endeavor to aid the community. It’s a business, plain and simple. You owe it no more hakaras hatov than you owe the electric company, the book printer, the supermarket owner or your internet provider.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Obligation to read/listen to advertisements? #1115196
    WolfishMusings
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    Is there an element of hakaras hatov or some other obligation upon a listener/reader to pay attention to ads in return for whatever benefit the person is enjoying?

    Obligation? No.

    Anyone who puts up a website does so with the full knowledge that not everyone will read the ads. Anyone who advertises knows that not everyone will read the ads.

    Do you feel an obligation to read every advertising billboard along the highway?

    Do you want to do it as a measure of hakaras hatov for those who put up the site? Then go ahead, no one’s stopping you.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: ????? ???? ??? ??? ?????? (message from true Torah Jews) #1115977
    WolfishMusings
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    I guess I’m not a Torah-true Jew (whatever that is…) since I didn’t deliver that message.

    The Wolf

    WolfishMusings
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    Is this in reference to something?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Customer service #1119832
    WolfishMusings
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    Mashiach Agent,

    I agree with you that customer service should be paramount. But let me point out again… unless you’re advertising with YWN, you are not the customer – you are the product.

    The Wolf.

    in reply to: Bais yaakov cookbook doesn't have recipe for latkes? #1115017
    WolfishMusings
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    Many cookbook editors feel that it’s beneath them to include traditional food recipes,such as, p’cha, latkes or matzo knaidlech.

    Sounds like you found a market niche for a cookbook.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Customer service #1119829
    WolfishMusings
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    Ummm… I hate to break it to you, but unless you are a paying advertiser, you are not a customer… you are the product being sold.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Tuition crises averted #1115012
    WolfishMusings
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    @wolfishmusings- If all of the Jews and Christians in private schools decided to flood public schools, then it would ruin the whole system. I just don’t understand why part of the public school teacher’s contract can’t be that they have to teach in the private schools in the afternoon.

    This again????

    We’ve been over this before – the idea that you can just “flood” the public school system with kids and that the Board of Ed will just throw up their hands in defeat and say “OK, go to yeshiva, we’ll pay for it.”

    In short, it’s not going to work, for several reasons — none of which have anything to do with a teacher’s contract.

    1. There is an amendment in the New York State Constitution (and in the constitutions of many, but not all, states) that says that the state government cannot fund a school if religion is taught there or if it is controlled by a religious organization.

    2. Even if every frum person in the city were to suddenly take his/her kid to public school, the amendment (commonly referred to as a Blaine Amendment) would *still* prevent the government from paying for it. If everyone did so (and, trust me, you’ll never get that to happen) all that would happen is that the BoE would send you home, tell you that they’re going to have a spot for you in a week or two and then scramble to find space. That’s all they’re legally empowered to do.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Tuition crises averted #1115003
    WolfishMusings
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    @lesschumras- so you’re okay with your tax dollars going to public school education which you get no benefit from?

    A. Having an educated public is a public good from which everyone benefits.

    B. It’s well established that public school is publicly funded. As a result, you pay for it whether you have kids in the schools, your kids have long since graduated or even never had and never plan to have kids.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Parashat Vayeshev #1114961
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    Wolf

    Nope it is a befreish Gimatriya!

    Are you really trying to tell me that Yosef wasn’t present for any part of Mechiras Yosef?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Frum Jews in Politics #1114924
    WolfishMusings
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    In any event, if you look at the JTA article from 1981, the Chief Rabbi said he wasn’t snubbed.

    I’ll drop the point because it’s a side issue and the fact that he went to St. Paul’s for the Queen Mother’s 80th birthday thanksgiving service shows that Rabbi Jakobovitz did not have a problem with going into a church for official functions in his role as Chief Rabbi.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Frum Jews in Politics #1114921
    WolfishMusings
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    he arranged not to be invited

    Do you have some citation for this? A Jpost article describes the non-invitation of Rabbi Jakobovitz as “a snubbing”

    In addition, it seems that Rabbi Jakobovitz was invited to and attended the Queen Mother’s 80th birthday thanksgiving service in St. Paul’s.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Frum Jews in Politics #1114919
    WolfishMusings
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    The Chief Rabbi at the time did not go to the wedding of Prince Charles and Diana.

    He was not invited.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Arguing over whether humans are alone in the universe #1115835
    WolfishMusings
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    The biggest proof that there is intelligent life elsewhere in the galaxy is the fact that none of them have tried to contact us. 😉

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Parashat Vayeshev #1114958
    WolfishMusings
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    9 which is the numbe rof shevatim present at Yosef’s mechira

    You could make a very strong argument that Yosef was present too….

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Toupees #1115156
    WolfishMusings
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    Rabbi Eleazar ben Azaryah… Harei ani keven shivim shana..

    That’s a statement of fact, not a p’sak halacha or even a guideline for physical appearance.

    By the same token, we should only use rocks for pillows since it says “YaYikach MeAvnei HaMakom VaYashem M’Ra’ashosav…”

    The Wolf

    in reply to: The Eruv Rav #1162951
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    Anyways, since you are a tzadik, Wolf,

    I am not a tzaddik and I’ll thank you not to make judgments about me without knowing me.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: The Eruv Rav #1162949
    WolfishMusings
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    You don’t really believe yourself to be an apikorus, so it wouldn’t count.

    Why should my feelings count?

    Let’s put it this way… if I were eating treif, would it make a difference if I believed that pig was kosher? Yes, it might matter with regard to my degree of culpability, but it doesn’t change the fact that, regardless of my belief, I ate non-kosher.

    Whether *I believe* I’m an apikorus or not is not the issue. If I am, then, according to Joseph, there is a mitzvah to bash me. If not, then there isn’t.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: The Geula Is Imminent! #1115906
    WolfishMusings
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    I wrote a few messages from Sefer Zechariah

    Why don’t you just provide the citations (i.e. Zecharia 7:12, 8:9, etc.) and for each one, explain why you feel that current events fit the verse and that previous events that could have fit the verse don’t.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: The Eruv Rav #1162946
    WolfishMusings
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    Did you overlook the Chofetz Chaim saying it is a “mitzvah” to put down apikorsum? Do you not want to get as many mitzvos as possible?

    Since many Jews would regard me as an apikorus, do I get a mitzvah for putting myself down?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Who wears the pants in your house? #1115883
    WolfishMusings
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    Wolf: How is how one dresses in front of guests different from a tznius perspective than how one dresses out in public?

    It’s not.

    How is wearing sweatpants under a skirt in public a problem? They function the same way as really thick tights.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: The Geula Is Imminent! #1115901
    WolfishMusings
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    What does this have to do with anything in this thread?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Who wears the pants in your house? #1115877
    WolfishMusings
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    What will Eeees do if there are guests in the house and it is cold?

    Either turn up the heat or continue to wear the sweatpants under her skirt or robe. Why is that a problem?

    The Wolf

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