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WolfishMusingsParticipant
However nobody wants to make them for the younger crowds
If a girl hasn’t had a date in six years, she is no longer in the “younger crowd.”
I’m not suggesting getting a bunch of 18 and 19 year-olds together in a room and letting them at each other. But when someone starts hitting the mid 20s, I think they’re probably mature enough to actually meet people on their own without having to wait for a shadchun to call. For this singles crowd, I think social events are very necessary.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantI have lots of friends that have been out of seminary from anywhere to 3-6 years and have never had a date they sit there waiting for the phone to ring, and they done plenty hishtadlus.
If this is a common phenomenon (i.e. girls who have been waiting by the phone for three to six years and not getting a single date) then the system is terribly broken. That’s the point where you have to start organizing a few singles functions.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantketchup on Shabbos
That’s a new one to me. What’s the deal with ketchup on Shabbos (or the lack thereof) being a relevant factor in people warped ideas of what makes a good shidduch?
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantYou obviously didn’t read what I wrote. The problem is that neither you, nor I, truly know what the extent of Pollard’s crime was. Neither of us (nor, I suspect does anyone on this board) know what truly passed to other parties, to what other parties that information ended up being passed to, or what the damage was to U.S. interests and the intelligence community. You can’t say that his sentence was too long (or too short, for that matter) because you don’t know what the consequences of his actions were. Neither do I.
It’s easy to say that other people who passed information to allies got shorter sentences. But that could also be because the damage they caused to the intelligence community was far less. It could also be that you’re right and that his sentence is disproportionate to the crime and the damage — but none of know that — and we’re not likely to find out anytime soon either.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantWhat I do know is that at the time Pollard was married to a non-Jew
Do you have something to back this up? My understanding is that Anne Pollard is Jewish. She identified herself as a Jew in the 60 Minutes interview.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantdoing hishtadlus for a neis
Isn’t that a contradiction in terms?
The Wolf
January 22, 2009 9:21 pm at 9:21 pm in reply to: Daven With A Hat BeYichidus or Without it with a Minyan #1081810WolfishMusingsParticipantYour opinion on this issue is worth as much as R’ Chaim’s opinion on how to best create a scrumptious mushroom quiche.
Hey! I thought the gedolim were experts on everything in life. 🙂
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantThere are several problems regarding Pollard’s situation.
The first and perhaps most important is that no one here — not I, not you, nor anyone else, knows exactly what was handed over and how far afield the information went. Just because it went to his Israeli handlers does not mean that the information did not go any further to other possibly unfriendly countries. Of course, no one here also knows that it didn’t. As a result, none of us are qualified to say that he got a sentence that is too harsh, or too lenient. None of us know if he really should be a free man or sitting in jail for the rest of his life. None of us know the true magnitude of his crime. It could be that his sentence was disproportionate, but none of us *really* know.
The second issue that has to be made is that there is a difference between a pardon and a commutation. While I might be able to support a commutation (you *can* make the case that he was railroaded at the sentencing), I don’t think you can plausibly make the case for a pardon. When all is said and done, no one denies the fact that he *did* commit a felony and pleaded guilty to the same. Even if he’s allowed to walk out of prison today, he should still have a criminal record.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantNo, the labeling itself is bad and indeed destructive.
Joseph,
I’m curious why you think that… without the attendant negative attitudes that inevitably crop up surrounding the labels.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantIt’s not the labeling that’s bad… it’s the rejectionist attitude that follows the labeling that is bad.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantA friend of mine would like to know about yeshiva options for boys in college
Well, there are a few questions that should be answered here:
1. What does your friend want to study? Not every program is offered in every school.
2. Where is your friend located? What’s the maximum amount of travel time he’s willing to allow himself?
3. What is his budget?
4. How does he feel about the possibility of co-ed classes or classes outside of a yeshivish environment? Does he feel that he can handle that, or does he solely want to remain in a males-only (assuming your friend is a male) Jewish only (or pretty much Jewish) environment?
5. Does he plan to go for further education after his Bachelor’s?
In short, any additional information you can give us will help us with suggestions.
The Wolf
January 12, 2009 1:24 am at 1:24 am in reply to: Posuk in Tz’fanya (Trei Asar) About Zman Moshiach #630902WolfishMusingsParticipanti understand 1925 was a year when there was a birchas hachama…but did it fall out erev pesach?
Yes
and why would that be apikorsis?
Poor joke on my part.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantI don’t mean to sound snarky, but CYLOR.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantShouldn’t we all just aknowledge that the internet is here to stay and begin to adapt it to our purposes.
It will happen. As the internet becomes more and more necessarily for life, and as things (banking, for example) start becoming only available via the internet, it will eventually pervade the rest of the Jewish community as well. At that point, not having access to the internet becomes a “gezairah she’ain hatzibor yachol la’amod bah.”
The Wolf
January 9, 2009 12:19 am at 12:19 am in reply to: Posuk in Tz’fanya (Trei Asar) About Zman Moshiach #630894WolfishMusingsParticipantrom what i hear, birchas hachama happens every 28 years, and this pesach will be the third time in history that it will end up on erev pesach taf shin samach tes (14 nissan), the other two being yetziyas mitzrayim and the nes of purim.
Ooooh, I am so going to be called an apikorus for this, but here goes… 🙂
What about 1925?
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantWolf: The issue may be due to midnight mass, not the actual day attendance (night = more Tumah?)
Okay, but then so what? Not all Christians who go to church on Christmas go to the midnight mass. Firstly, only Catholics have a midnight mass — Protestants don’t have Mass at all! Secondly, even many Catholics who go to Mass don’t do so at midnight but rather during the day.
In addition, I’d wager that you have more people attending a midnight mass at the Vatican than in all the churches in New York combined. Perhaps we should not learn when it’s midnight in Rome?
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantwomen should never be allowed to drive under its a danger to them and everyone else on the road!
BWA-HA-HA-HA-HA-HA! Oh, that’s a good one! You really crack me up BLAHBLAH.
You did know, of course, that women are *safer* drivers, on average, than men. Or were you just trying to be provocative?
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantR’ Elyashiv says that the reason is that on Dec. 25, all the christians go to pray and there is so much tumah in the world, that al pi kabala if kedushas hatorah comes it can be extremely harmful.
Based on this reasoning, it should be a greater problem to learn on Easter. Church attendance is much greater on Easter. In addition, Easter is far more of a holy day for Christians than Christmas is.
The Wolf
December 31, 2008 9:22 pm at 9:22 pm in reply to: BREAKING: Lipa to do another concert – “The Event”? #630186WolfishMusingsParticipantEvery woman should know how to lain. It may come in handy on Purim!
Heh. My wife could probably lain Megillah if she wanted to. She knows it very well from listening to me prepare (and actually lain) it year after year after year after year after year after year …..
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantNope. I’ve never met Joseph. However, it’s not terribly difficult to find my email address.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantJoseph,
It looks like the mods didn’t like my post. We’ll have to continue this privately via email, I suppose. Feel free to email me for my response.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantWolf,
In a nutshell, are you actually stating that you believe there is a shred of a possibility that human being (you) descended from an ape or some other non-human being?
Joseph,
I responded to you in another thread, titled “Shred of a Possibility.” Let’s leave this thread about zoos.
The Wolf (who is not in a zoo)
WolfishMusingsParticipantThis kind of girl conversation, as seen above, is another good reason girls (of all ages) should be banned from having cell phones.
This kind of sweeping generalization, as seen above, is another good reason that people should think before they speak.
You really think that all females, of all ages, are incapable of using a telephone responsibly?
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantSigh.
I really don’t want to turn this thread into a debate about evolution, since it’s not the main point of the thread. Let’s just say this:
I think we can agree on the fact that not every word of the Torah is to be interpreted absolutely literally. I suspect you would agree that Chava was not the literal mother of all life (including lions, tigers and bears — oh my!). I think you’d probably agree that HKBH does not have a hand in the literal sense.
I’m also pretty sure that we can agree on the fact that there is far, far more to Berashis 1:1 (and the rest of the parsha) than a simple, literal reading would indicate.
What we don’t necessarily agree on (and, in fact, what I’m pretty sure that we vehemently disagree on) is exactly what *must* be read literally and what *can* be interpreted differently. In addition, while we would probably disagree on just what the meaning behind the simple, plain reading of Beraishis is.
Does that mean that I think you’re wrong? No, it doesn’t — in fact, I don’t know the answer. Is it possible that animals evolved for millions of years (including man-like primates) with HKBH creating a brand new “model” of man? I suppose that’s a possibility. Is it possible that Gosse is correct? Yeah, it’s possible (even if I don’t agree with it). IOW, there are plenty of possibilities out there that can conform to the Torah (provided you don’t hold to a completely literal and simple reading of Beraishis — which I don’t think you do.)
So, what does this mean? It probably means that we have to agree to disagree. I’m willing to admit that I don’t have all the answers to the origin of the universe and of life on this planet. I never claimed to. Nor do I claim to know the ultimate truth that the Torah reveals on the subject.
If you want to discuss evolution, perhaps another thread would be best suited for that. This all started because one careless poster chose to make a joke about a user’s name. Let’s put this topic back in it’s place — the zoo. If you want to discuss evolution, abiogenesis or anything else, I’m more than willing to do so in a thread dedicated to that topic.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantand as such evolution by definition is Keneged HaTorah.
I noticed you didn’t complain when I said that I was descended from prehistoric wolves. 🙂
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantWolf, no record player there?
No. The needle would jump if the car hit a bump.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantSo by your own statement you admit that a believer in evolution by definition thinks man descended from a non-human animal (ape or whatever name you want to give it),
I never said otherwise.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantthere are many aspects to the theory. sof kol sof, yes they do believe humans have evolved from a species that was similar to an ape. ever looked at those pictures?
Ah, but that’s not the same thing as saying that he’s going to visit his ancestors in the zoo. Not one scientist will tell you that man descended from present day monkeys.
Now, personally, I descended from wolfish ancestors, so you *could* ask me if I was visiting my ancestors in the zoo. But the same does not apply to the poster to whom BLAHBLAH was poking fun at.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantI would love to hear you expound on the irony of my statement.
Perhaps I misinterpreted what you said. I will retract and ask your forgiveness.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantJoseph,
Yes you did. My error and apologies.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantHeh. *My* first car had a tape deck too… an eight-track! 🙂
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantand you just have to know your kids.
I could have *sworn* that I heard that said somewhere… 🙂
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantThe solution to this so-called ”crisis” is more Torah learning, more Kollel yungerleit, more Yeshivas, and more Yiddishe kinder.
Care to elaborate on how that solves the “crisis?”
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantIf relativity were controversial, would we give any weight to the opinion of a 16 year old supporting one side or another?
Why not? The factuality of what he says does not stand or fall based on his age. He is either wrong or right, regardless of his age.
There’s too much to analyze for someone to have a true opinion just after reading a single slim book.
Oh, the irony! 🙂
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantdarwin im confused your going to visit your granparents in the zoo?
You know, if you want to state that you don’t believe in evolution, that’s fine. But at least know what you’re talking about. The theory does not state that people descended from monkeys. It never did.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantThe points you raise (including mixing with females) are very serious, and worthy of great consideration.
Why should mixing with females be more of an issue than in any other workplace?
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantAside from the Pekuach Nefesh problems, once you are in the service (and even while you are training), are you able to maintain Shabbos Kodesh 100%?
I think a frum military chaplain would be best equipped to answer that question.
The Wolf
December 29, 2008 11:56 pm at 11:56 pm in reply to: BREAKING: Lipa to do another concert – “The Event”? #630136WolfishMusingsParticipantBrooklyn,
You’re not telling me how to use my common sense… I’m trying to find out the extent of your rule. I *already* know how I would act in each of the cases I mentioned.
When you use vague terms like “any event,” I want to know the extent of that “any” according to you. While you (and I) may think it’s obvious that a five-year’s old party (sans the exotic dancers) can proceed without a gadol’s haskama, others may not feel so. Since you were vague in your rule, I simply wanted to find out how far you were willing to go with “any.”
The Wolf
December 29, 2008 9:50 pm at 9:50 pm in reply to: BREAKING: Lipa to do another concert – “The Event”? #630134WolfishMusingsParticipantBrooklyn,
So then I ask you: what is the definition of a “public or private event” that requires the haskama of a gadol?
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantAnd I know of plenty of kids who played with matches and didn’t get burned.
Are you giving your 13 year old a box of matches to play with?
And there are plenty of adults who crash cars. Are you giving adults cars?
The point is that there is no “one size fits all” rule. You have to know your kids. If they are capable of using the technology responsibly, then they can use it. If they can’t use it responsibly, then they shouldn’t be allowed to use one.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantDov,
That’s a fair argument. Present it to the school heads. If they don’t like it, you’re always free to start a school with no Channukah vacation.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantAshreinu,
My apologies for upsetting you. I’ll attempt to stick to the topic at hand.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantwolf – yes the combination makes it a much more dangerous object.
I’m not so certain that I agree with you, but that’s neither here nor there, I suppose. Ce la vie.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantChaim,
Well, let’s look at the points you provided:
1. Every activity has a certain amount of risk involved. Even just getting up and walking across the street. I’m certain that there are civilian jobs that are more dangerous than those of a non-combat solider in the Air Force. Of course, you still have to do your hishtadlus to determine if you are, in fact, putting yourself at *unnecessary* risk.
2. I know next to zilch about military culture, so I can’t really address this point. All I can tell you is that there are frum chaplains in the military. Perhaps you should reach out to one of them and have a serious discussion on the matter.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantJoseph,
I don’t think that you’ll find that I ever called anyone an idiot. I have expressed that certain *ideas* are foolish. I have said that certain *attitudes* are even beyond comprehension. But I don’t attack people. And, in the event that you find that I have, then I ask mechila – because that wasn’t my intention. I attack ideas and words, not people.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantJoseph,
I have never made fun of the “uncultured idiots of the Coffee Room,” as you so derogatorily put it. Sometimes, however, I do find statements that are so outlandish (such as the ones about statistics not affecting yidden) that I do call attention to them (and, as originally presented, that post wasn’t even doing that — it was simply presenting my POV on the value of education). But attack people? Sorry, I don’t do that. Most of my posts that involve the YWN coffeeroom are to discuss (and offer my views) on subjects that come up here.
I don’t know why you have such venom towards me. You offered an opinion that it might be assur to serve in the military because of pikuach nefesh. I simply asked you to define that and to find out if you held that other occupations that have a higher mortality rate are also assur. That’s no reason to get upset with me.
The Wolf
December 29, 2008 8:32 pm at 8:32 pm in reply to: BREAKING: Lipa to do another concert – “The Event”? #630133WolfishMusingsParticipantOK, then I ask you — what’s the definition of a “private or public event” that requires a rav’s haskama? And which ones can I just do on my own based on my own knowledge?
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipanttalking, texting, picture messages
The same could apply to any telephone, typewriter or camera. Why not ban them? Because they’re not combined into one device? So what?
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantWolf, you asked a different shaila than the OP.
That’s right… but you didn’t answer the OP’s question at all. You castigated him for possibly putting his life at risk. So, I asked you what the acceptable level of risk is. If you don’t know the answer, then don’t castigate the OP for it.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantIndeed. The zionist army is probably the MOST morally corrupt military in the Universe.
Oh, please. Cut the hyperbole and do some reading on military coups in the last fifty years. If you object to the Israeli Army, fine — but stick to reality.
The Wolf
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