Happiest- I got better. there are people looking(spying) as to what is being written in the coffee room(mainly by me) and someone went back to someone and said everything ive wrote and go me into trouble. yet they think because i was talking about somehting they automatically assumed i was talking about them and now i am no longer going to have this username anymore. I will be using another one, just now I can no longer be myself 🙁

why do people have to ruin it for others??!???!!!???

ok here we go for some stories:

1. a guy calls me to tell me hes outside that i should come out. so the people who’s house i went out from runs out there and yells at him at how dare you not come to get her. he shows up in jeans and shirt.(he was supposedly aq chassidish guy from WB) and im all fancy for the date he turns around and says to “i just wanted to meet you to see if i wanted to go out with you.” the shadchan who was his cousin was so mad at him and apologized profusely to my mom.

2.usually a guy holds door me unless i tell him other wise. but this one guy walks into store and doesnt hold door and not only that doesnt let me go first!

3.another guy calls me to tell me he needs to go to the mikvah before we go out. so i went to meet him because i didnt want him to pick me and we go. we get outside the restaurant and i go to get out. he says where are you going? and i said into the store!(duh! where else?) then he says “no stay a while lets relax whats the rush?” OK fine. weird thing number one. Now we go into restaurant(this guy is chassidish too) and i start being curteous to waiter. like hi thank you how are you. he says not appropriate to talk to waiter. i said “EXCUSE ME?!?!?! of course you talk to them its called being respectful!” and we go on and on. then i tell him how iw ant an open house and if my friends want to come for shabbos thats ok. to which he says its not appropriate and that really bothers me because i wont talk to them. and i said well then we wouldnt be able to have your friends because I would find it inappropriate(which i totally dont care. just had to say it) so i then i said …”see ya!”

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in the five towns:

Five Towns Judaica

Gourmet Glatt

Supersol

Shula’s pizza

Elzee

Judaica Plus(some of the workers)

Carlos and Gabby’s

CVS

TD Bank

real brisker-i was going to say the same thing. after reading it I wanted to bring it up here. Me as a teacher I see how the kids need a break. As soon as my kids start being looney and dont know what to do with themselves we know they need a vacation. Besides because of the snow days kids went even crazier bec they didnt have a schedule to adhear to or fun things to do. Think about how coo coo your kids were going bec they were cooped up for two-three days with nothing to do. Taking away a winter break from kids and adults too is just terrible. Dont say that teachers dont need it. You as an adult need it too. Teachers cant make ends meet during the year so they have to get jobs during the summer. dont say that they get a summer vacation because they really dont. Not only that, you probablyhave a 9-5 job or if youre lucky u cood be a stay at home mom, is that why you dotn want your kids home because you want to be without them? If you have a 9-5 job(minus a few hours) are you ever bringing your work home? No? well then youre lucky. because a teacher never gets a break…they run into parents and students at the supermarket(then parents want an update), call parents at home, deal with meetings for different students, lesson plans and more. So before you go thinking of banning winter break think about all those that look forward to it.

If you want to ban it because of money, then my suggestion is to stop spending on unneccessary things and save a little for your children and a few days off!(btw parents get the school calendar before the year beings. if i were you i’d put ur days in to be off for those days!)

1. i can tell ur lubavitch

2. do not call them misnagdim. call them litvish bec misnagdim is a negative and deragatory word(that i hate)

3. the only reason why the chasidim(mainly lubavitch) call them misnagdim is bec when the Alter Rebbe was spreading Chassidus a Liitvisher guy reported to the police how this guy is spreading chassidus around the world thru Poland. so the Alter Rebbe went to jail at the age of 3 that is why Litvishers are called Misnagdim. Bec the Lubavitch were trying to spread Yiddishkeit and the Litvishers didnt like it. (When i see the Alter Rebbe I mean the First Lubavitcher Rebbe.)

Are you Lubavitch? or what are you?

well first and foremost, B’sha Tovah! may you and your wife only have nachas from the little peanut(which is what it is now)!

Second, this is a conversation i’ve had with people. It depends on how close you are with your parents. if you want to wait till month 3 thats acceptable. but if your very close with your parents or the fact that your wife is probably closer with her mom she’s most likely to tell your in laws first. Also if you want to be cute you can say to them…”So I was wondering…Which of these terms would like to be called in ___months? Bubby/Zaidy etc.” that would be cute!

Yeshiva Ketana of LI, Bnos Bais Yaakov, and Yeshiva Darchei Torah are off!

i own a tv! im happy to have it. why? because it comforts me when my husband works crazy hours. iy”H when i have kids it will go but until then its staying put.

I am with TheGoq on this one! Exccept Goq I got a Keurig, ya think in like 20 years from now I’ll have a problem with my kids shidduchim cuz of it?? lol

here’s a story-

acouple comes to rabbi Freifeld and says the wife wants a TV because she doesnt like being home alone whenn husband works late etc. rabbi freifeld says they can get it but dont enjoy it. but u know what i spoke to my rav and he told us its ok to have it. my husband wasnt thrilled but i need it. Enough said!

oh and while im at it…I am a woman…Who DRIVES!!!!(I hear thats an issue among certain ppl)

YES!!! something out of the ordinary today…

Hatzalah had to come to my place of work because a child wasnt feeling good. 🙁

I think he is OK b”H!

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I have goyish views???? Where did you get that idea from?

I have REALISTIC views not goyish ones! Besides are you anti goyim? Sure sounds like it! I’m not anti them. They are the ones that pump ur gas, that cleans your house, checks problems in your home when there is one…so why would I have a problem with them? Furthere more…goyish views??? Ya sure about that? I had a whole talk with my friend last night and she has the same views as me and she grew up in israel so again does she have goyish views???

i actually live in a community with 3 top yeshivas here. one of them i stay away from because of all the people ive seen hurt from there and how they turn away from certain people. the other yeshiva i happen to love! i am close with the rosh yeshiva and the rosh kollel(yes i am) i was mainly discussing what i have seen in the past. im nto saying ive never seen good. i am simply stating how i feel which is allowed supposedly in the CR and at the end of the day i feel its the mans responisibility to take care of the wife and it shouldnt be her or his fathers. because why should he have to suffer the stress and why cant the son learn how to? Isnt that how daddy got his riches???? it just isnt a way to teach children how to fend for themselves…if you read the books(like even the jewish novels) you see how it effects the children. the wife thinks she can spend and spend and that her father will always be there to bail her out but that is not how it works. the husband and wife are a team and they have to do it together!

“I just feel sorry for you that you have closed yourself off completely to new ideas and concepts. “

Sacrlige-

you feel sorry for me???? please dont!

You want to know how a boy will be a mentch? Watch how he treats his mother. Watch how he helps an old lady cross the street. Watch how he takes the shirt off his back to give it to a cold man. THAT IS A MENTCH!

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HIP

i heard a bunch of doctors will be dropping americhoice. you’ll get a better deal with HIP. where i live most ppl are on HIP

you know what the problem is? every other say another school opens or people end up travelling elsewhere. i know of a very famous yeshiva here, where they b”H have expanded tremendously in the last few years. there were 4 classes with 26 kids now they are almost double that(and thats just preschool). whats the trick? amazing rebbes and morahs and of course….FUNDRAISING! if a school is closing they could have a terrible advocate who is trying to fundraise and they dont know what they are doing. it’s all about the PR. you gotta have a good reputation, not kick kids out just cuz they spoke to the opposite gender etc. i would never send my child to a school knowing that they kick kids out for stupid reasons.

at the same time this school that is expanding is i am sure im debt. but the parents give as much as they can and if people stopped having a million kids and paid tuition on time then maybe they wouldnt be have to not pay tuition and be on time with payments. oh and actually pay teachers more money and on time!

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i went on a date and walked around downtown williamsburg. saw some Verrrrrry intresting people.

i went to carlos and gabbys on a date…knew i was gonna marry my husband on that one(was the first date). i got to the point that i was like people know im dating so if they see me they see me big deal. but that was me.

i hated the hotel lobby thing. it was so boring! luckily one them had a tv in the background so i was able to watch when they guy got boring.

you can always have a sit in at my place lol just kidding!